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Name: chelsey
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last weeken i caught my 11 year old sister in bed with 2 boys that were 15 i went over and pulled the covers off of them and told them to get the **** out of my house then on saturday i found her smoking pot and drinking a harvy wall banger i took it away and through it away. i dont know weather to tell my parents or not. shes been sent away twice and even to bootcamp 1 but nuthin ever works should i tell?
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Name: emtf71 | Date: May 9th, 2006 8:45 AM
wow tough call. If your close to your sister enough were you can tell her to stop and that you just care for her. Your in a tough sititation. But tell her she is going to have regreats and something really bad can happen to her. Give her that warning but if it happens again tell your parents as soon as possible you don't want to see the worst thing to happen to her she needs help and guidence. Right now she thinks its a party but it can lead her down the wrong road. She is way to young. I thought this behavior started at 15 or 16 not 11. she is giong beyounder her years and is to immutuer to handle the consequences. 

Name: chelsey | Date: May 15th, 2006 5:00 PM
im not real close with her but yea she looks beyond her years and yea she acts more like 15 idk but anyway my parents found out and now shes in counciling again so i dont know but maybe this time it will work 

Name: toni | Date: Jun 9th, 2006 9:58 AM
hello i think that ur story is terrible.wb 

Name: chloe | Date: Jun 9th, 2006 10:00 AM
i think dat ur sister is sick! and if it was me i wouldnt speak to her again! but it is ur call ur the only one that can make the dicision. 

Name: jody | Date: Jun 19th, 2006 8:09 PM
wow i have 5 kids and and none of them would ever do that my oldest is 15 and if she did that i would want to know.u should tell normal 11 year old children wouldnt do that sounds like she needs some major counciling or some major disipline before its to late.she is still young enough to change her behavior if it is adressed right away.you dont want your sister to end up in juvinal hall or worse.dont take this the wrong way i can see u love your sister,but trust me your doing her a favor by telling.good luck 

Name: kevin anti drugie | Date: Jun 21st, 2006 4:51 PM
11 yr old drugie and acholic ..... ouch im shocked......if i was u i would smack the shit out of her! where do u live ill do it for u. srry wait a min 1...2...3...4...5...okay im cool now.. srry about the languge...boot camp sure that'll help...not!!! okay u should look at it from ur sis point of view she was sent away twice and once to boot camp yeah i would try to make as much trouble as possible... she is a 11 thats going to take about 5 yrs of boot camp 3 yrs in a shrink plus a loving caring family
all i really have to say is tell ur parents give them this site have them come here for more help tell them that ur sis needs to be loved cared about... 


Name: jody | Date: Jun 23rd, 2006 11:24 PM
that was not very nice skimmy what if u had a child and someone said that,if u have a concious at all or know how much trouble u can get in for saying that on the internet i would definatly apoligize and do it NOW.if that was my child and you said that i would want to find you and beat the HELLout of u.get a life asshole. 

Name: Girlyduds | Date: Jun 30th, 2006 11:58 AM
That's a really hard thing to deal with. I have a younger brother who was very defiant towards my parents all the time when we were kids. From age 8-9 he bagan until my paretns got fed up with bailing him out of trouble all the time. When he was 16, my mom found him doing pot (this is after they spent over $5K to send him to a detox/counseling program), she & my dad called the cops on him & had him locked up. He had to do community service, pay fines, find a job to pay those fines & learn the hard way. He's now 26 & is a great husband, father of two & a really appreciative person to those who dealt with him the hardest to knock him back in line. Maybe tough love isn't so bad. 

Name: tattybabe | Date: Aug 2nd, 2006 5:06 PM
i think u need to tell some1 bout this for ur own saftey as well as ur sisters good luck 

Name: MichelleM-W | Date: Aug 2nd, 2006 7:18 PM
How is the counceling going? 

Name: Monarch4 | Date: Aug 4th, 2006 2:39 PM
I would tell your parents, for her sake, she needs help and if you can help in getting her that, it's the best thing. the sooner someone gets help the sooner that maybe they can wakeup and get the help they need. Some don't want it and some won't take it but it's worth trying. She's too young to be doing these things and really needs to get help. 

Name: rebecca | Date: Nov 24th, 2007 3:56 PM
hiya u okiiiiiiiii 

Name: om prakash | Date: Dec 7th, 2007 1:42 AM
hello how are you 

Name: op | Date: Dec 7th, 2007 1:44 AM
where are u............. 

Name: jim | Date: Dec 26th, 2007 8:32 PM
u should tell ur parent because she needs help, i have 2 sister and i would tell my parent if they were doin that, i mean if u love her then tell them for her sake, i love my to sister i love them 2 bits and i would tell them for their own sake 

Name: daniel | Date: Jan 3rd, 2008 1:10 PM
don't tell parents! kill sister. Idknow, jus beat her ass or somethin 

Name: james | Date: Jan 31st, 2008 8:08 PM
jump in with her 

Name: mom2nadhdson | Date: Mar 12th, 2008 12:12 PM
YEA YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR PARENTS WHAT SHE IS DOIN REGARDLESS IF IT PUTS HER BACK INTO BOOTCAMP !..SHE SOME CONTROLLING BEFORE IT IS TO LATE !!!!! 

Name: ashley | Date: May 23rd, 2008 10:39 PM
yes! 11 years old thats awful...if she was 16 or 18 then no but 11 thats terrible 

Name: hannah | Date: Jul 11th, 2008 5:22 AM
im look fa a cute boy 

Name: ciara | Date: Feb 20th, 2009 10:28 AM
i any 11 year boy that has mxit and that is cute 

Name: Mydnyte | Date: Apr 23rd, 2009 2:24 PM
Actually, this is kind of surprising to hear. I know that statistics show that somewhere around 40% of 2nd graders have tried or regularly smoke pot. But I never heard any stories. I'm only 18, and when I was a counselor at 6th grade camp, those kids were pretty bad. But handling this stuff is fairly easy. Warn her than you will tell her parents, and she'll stop. And if she doesn't, then say something. And yes, I'm aware this post is 3 years old now 

Name: cp | Date: Apr 24th, 2009 3:41 PM
you need to log this under troubled teen not ADHD 

Name: BABE | Date: Apr 26th, 2009 12:21 PM
HI 

Name: sandy | Date: Aug 4th, 2009 3:52 AM
well she is your sister but she needs help 

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