| Name: charmaine | Date: Feb 8th, 2008 9:14 AM |
| Hi steph, i have exactly the same problem but with a 4 year old girl, she has been thrown out of 1 nursery already and the one she is at now is trying their best to sort her out? yesterday she kicked a door so hard about 6 times she ripped the lock off, and she constantly attacks others around her including myself and teachers, i am fed up with doctors and health visitors they do nothing telling me the same, it is not your fault, i have 3 children, 4, 3 and 10 months, the other 2 are completely fine as normal children are? your family should be trying to support you not putting all the blame on you, my parents don't support me but they don't blame me either, i grew up around ADHD as my brother had it so i know the signs. If you want to chat send me an email to charmainespeed@yahoo.co.uk and we can talk more, it would be nice to talk to someone with the same issues. ↑ |
| Name: oilybabyman | Date: Feb 8th, 2008 10:14 AM |
| she laeraned her lesson now she barely talks. ↑ |
| Name: alaychia | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 8:18 PM |
| You need to start giving him popins ↑ |
| Name: dana | Date: Feb 23rd, 2008 11:39 PM |
| Name: dana | Date: Feb 23rd, 2008 11:40 PM |
| Name: jennifer | Date: Feb 27th, 2008 11:10 PM |
| my daughter is out of control too your not the only one out their i feel the same i happend to enroll my daughter in pre-school her teacher's son has adhd so i told that my daughter's doctor told me she's showing sings of having adhd the teacher told me trust me she's not she told me you wouldn't even know she was their the doctor and the teacher if she had adhd you can't put the kids on meds till the age of 7 besides i wouldn't put my kids on meds and think like i do i don't give a rat's but what the family thinks of children i have 3 kids 4,2,1 ↑ |
| Name: destiny | Date: Mar 24th, 2008 3:20 PM |
| Name: ana | Date: Mar 26th, 2008 2:37 AM |
| Name: Cassie | Date: Apr 8th, 2008 3:04 PM |
| Steph, I was web surfing on out of control kids (my two year old son is totally out of control) First let me say I have heard few answers in my search that do not try to either sugest that I'm not a good parent or my child has a mental issue. Can it not be somthing else? Can someone tell us, if we are such bad parents why we are on the search to help our children? I had my child in daycare, and now I am a stay at home mother, I am pregnant, I have a two and a four year old. I have tried time out, spankings, talks, sometimes there is no quick fix answer, and some times other parents who never had the extreme actions of these children are clueless, I sugest a doctor, family, and prayer. I hope both you and I find the real answer in our search friend. ↑ |
| Name: Jennifer | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 5:25 AM |
I have a 8 year old, a 4 year old, and a 2year old. so I can relate.
My son basically does not respond to anything either. One thing that I learned is that time out works great. they hate to sit. I'm to the point where taking things from him also does not work. He laughs at me, which my 2 year old is now trying also. I did have my son tested for adhd last year at 3 and they said that he is fine in school, it is an at home thing so that was ruled out. I will tell you that if his behavior is not the same everywhere else as it is at home, then it is not adhd. Thats what my sons doctor told me. I completely understand what you are going through. THere are days that (as sad as this might sound), I am so happy to be away from him because I don't have to deal with the chaos. I heard that there is some kind of statistic out there about little boys between the ages 4 and 5 who have behaviour problems. I guess it has something to do with not being able to express feelings so they act out in terriable ways. If it makes you feel any better, at 3 years old, I grounded my son to his room, some how he popped his screan out and jumped out his window and took off. I just couldn't believe it. I tried to get the police to come out and try to scare him a little, but he was too young. Everyone says it is faze, well I sure hope so. So now I'm kind of thinking about maybe family counseling. I am just lost. I can't take much more of his behaviour, before I completely lose it. Have you ever tried focusing on the good things that he does?? and just out of the blue tell him how good he is being whenever he is behaving?? That does work. At least for me it did until we just recently moved, but he did a complete 360. Acted just like a normal kid again. Try it and see how it works. make a point to do it all the time, don't forget the hugs and the I love yous. He may jusy be trying to get your attention. and he knows it works this, but if you focus on the good things he does you might be suprised. Try to make time to spend it with just the two of you. This may be all he wants, is your attention. He has just learned that by being bad he'll get it. kids don't care weather it's good or bad they know one way they will get it. I hope this helps a little. good luck. ↑ |
| Name: cc | Date: Apr 24th, 2008 10:44 PM |
| what is this chat room for? ↑ |
| Name: SIMPI | Date: May 5th, 2008 12:22 AM |
| I have a 4 almost 5 year old and was told the same thing picked up by Ga public schools evaled for free and in a wonder ful program for kids from all income levals. 123 magic by Dr Thomas Phelan helps us stay in control. Spanking only builds anger and will increase your violence in return. We have avioded meds to this point because we are so unable to justify with all the side effects. Its hard hang in there. ↑ |
| Name: Joma | Date: May 7th, 2008 2:13 PM |
| I have a 8 yr old son and he is getting out of control. Im a single mom and he gets on my nerves sometimes. What should I do? ↑ |
| Name: lindsay | Date: May 8th, 2008 1:42 AM |
| Name: lindsay | Date: May 8th, 2008 1:45 AM |
| HELP!!!! My four year old son Gavin is out of control. He doesn't listen to me.Anyone that keeps him says he is an angel but for me he far from an angel. WHY?????? ↑ |
| Name: kim | Date: May 15th, 2008 10:36 PM |
| yeah i would like to find a chat room for children with autism ↑ |
| Name: DEEDEE | Date: May 19th, 2008 11:33 PM |
| HI UR LITTEL GIRL IS MENTLY JKJKJKJKJKJKJKJK ↑ |
| Name: tyler smith | Date: Jun 12th, 2008 11:20 AM |
| Name: william coles | Date: Jun 28th, 2008 5:43 PM |
| Name: laua | Date: Jul 10th, 2008 12:36 AM |
| i need some adivce my 5 year old is geting bad i dont know what to do ↑ |
| Name: sin | Date: Jul 10th, 2008 10:02 PM |
| you know wat you should do iz take her were ever you go and spoil her and give her her own passifier. ↑ |
| Name: angela | Date: Aug 2nd, 2008 3:38 PM |
| really?i want to help but where do u live? ↑ |
| Name: bitch | Date: Aug 2nd, 2008 3:40 PM |
| Name: Geof f | Date: Aug 25th, 2008 8:14 PM |
| Our son was diagnosed at 3 years old. It took a tremendous amount of pushing and prodding on my wife's part to convince our doctor(s) to have him tested and that ADHD was a possibility. We found that our doctors were no talways good advocates for our son - no one knows him better than we do and our gut instinct was correct. Our doctor only saw him for 30-45 minutes every so often. They can't possibly understand what you're going through if they're not with your son all day. You will not regret having him checked. If your doctor resists, he/she isn't looking our for your son's best interest. Good luck... ↑ |
| Name: bobby | Date: Sep 1st, 2008 10:38 PM |
| Name: kristy j | Date: Sep 3rd, 2008 8:33 PM |
| first of all your pediatrician can not evaluate him he has to go to a psych. doc. and my son has already done that and he is six and all they want to do is put him on meds and i just think there is a way around medicine. my oldest son now 10 was the same way and i changed his diet and i did not take everything away just anything that has red dye in it . but this does not work with everychild its not working with my six year old ↑ |
| Name: amy | Date: Sep 7th, 2008 2:13 AM |
| do you know how to relaze him ↑ |
| Name: amber | Date: Sep 28th, 2008 10:19 PM |
| my pediarician said he would not even diagnose adhd until my sonis six ↑ |
| Name: apple | Date: Oct 19th, 2008 1:58 PM |
| take him or her to a play place for the hole day ↑ |
| Name: jordan | Date: Dec 24th, 2008 4:57 AM |
| well what you sould do is see a theirpist go to a hospital and ask the pro's and see if he is dingnossed ↑ |
| Name: chick 473 | Date: Dec 27th, 2008 10:25 PM |
| I have a niece and she has two kids the girl is 5 and the boy is 4 he is a holly terror at home and every where they go,No matter what the mother does he still goes right back to being mean and in to trouble constantly he loves to push the mothers buttons he is so demanding about he would tare the house upafte she has cleaned it.WHen ever he gets a hold of lighters or knifves he would try to threaten it with different people including his mother no matter how hard she hides those he knows how to find them,Its a waist of time when she punnishing him because he will go right back to his mean evil self.He was in a store picking up toy gus and he would I'm going to shoot every one in this store his mother never did tough him that his dad must of done that the parents are together,So what should niece do her 5 year old daughter is nothing compaired to her brother.She is dreading putting him into school as mean as he is,If you have some addvice I woulld be glad to know this is her Aunt ↑ |
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