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MY son has been on Med sence Feb this year he was on VYvanse for two monthes and lost 11 pounds so doctor changed his meds to Concerta. we have been having a lot of trouble with him when he wakes up with not wanting to listen and defying real bad when the med is out of his system if any one eles has this please help
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I know exactly what you are going through. We took my son to counseling, meds tried everything. He started getting in trouble in Jr High. Started sneaking out at night, stealing, he would look in girls windows. After 8th grade he was locked up in a DYS group facility, it helped straighten him out for a while. Then he got caught selling drugs at high school & got kicked out. He is 26 now, his adhd comes out in rage and anger if you say something he doesn't like.In 2003 he got caught with more marijuana and got another felony. He has been on probation again it will be 2 years in August. He has been married for 2 years and has just had a baby. He now has gotten mad and won't let me see the baby. The baby is 1 month tomorrow. I am heart broken. I can hardly control myself from crying. We had a good family life, went to church, he went to Sunday school, church camp, we have a great marriage but nothing helped him he cannot get along socially with some people. He gets along with his wife because she won't cross him, she lets him be the boss and do what he wants. We bought the baby a beautiful crib and frog blanket and assembly. He put all his hunting stuff in the crib and a huge bow case. Just piled it up. I kept the baby on Wednesday, he came and picked him up. I said could I ask you a favor, would you get your stuff out of the crib. He yelled it isn't hurting anything. I said we paid alot for the crib and that stuff is dirty. He went into a rage and screamed and yelled, the poor baby jumped he was so loud. Then he said I couldn't keep the baby anymore and now he would talk to us. I am so heartbroken I think I will die. Hopefully your son won't be like this. Keep loving him and telling him you love him. It seemed we were always upset with my son because he never would do what we wanted. And we couldn't figure out how to make him.
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concerta is a drug, and so when out of the system hes on a come down, hang on in there, theres other alternatives, chek my squidoo page, adhd "raising connor", it may help you see a way through this, take care hun.
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oh do I know how you feel, my son also has adhd and mornings are dreadful!!!, I try to constantly redirect him, he usually does better if he eats something first, then gets ready, alot of the times i have to sit with him and remind him that he will be late firmly. once the meds kick in it is so much better, good luck
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