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Name: mirabeln
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am a 21 year old female who just learned she is pregnant with a baby. The baby`s father is caucasian as well. I am not with the father currently since he abandoned me after he realised i am pregnant and cannot keep the baby because I just had a baby in May of 06 who was also unplanned. I am pro choice but have decided that I myself cannot have an abortion. We live with my parents and they still do not know I am pregnant again, because once they find out they will kick us out. I don`t really have anywhere or anyone to turn and I am not financially able to take care of myself and the child I have now, let alone a new baby. The baby will be due in September and I will require a c-section two weeks before the scheduled due date.
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Name: KimmyW | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 9:00 AM
Hi,
My older sister has good friends who are trying to adopt. They are fantastic (I wish they would adopt me! :) ). They are experienced parents and have adopted before. They are also both attorneys. They are homestudy approved and have retained an attorney who specializes in adoption. If you are interested, e-mail my sister at chempossible08@yahoo.com. She can answer any of your questions and get you guys in contact.

Kimmy 

Name: CathyP | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 9:54 AM
If you are truly interested in adoption you can read about our experiences with adoption at http://chooseadoptionchooselife.blogspot.com/ and can contact us at happyfamilyplus1@yahoo.com. We are willing to do an open adoption where you share in your child's life. If you do a private adoption some of your experiences will be paid by the adoptive parents. Tell your parents now that you are pregnant and you have already made the decision to give your baby up for adoption. They will be proud of you. My daughter's biological grandparents are involved in my daughter's life.

Cathy 

Name: Adoptivemom | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 10:03 AM
Hello If you are really looking for a nice set of parents please come here and we will help you with all the Adoptive parents, who come here.
http://www.lhcw.net/Adoption2 

Name: Adoptivemom | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 10:21 AM
Sorry, I forgot to post here is my email is this will make you more comfortable, you can email me in private. Thanks
adoptivemom99@gmail.com 

Name: bellasmommy | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 10:23 AM
We have 15 month old daughter that we adopted at birth and we would love to make her a big sister. She has brought so much joy into our lives and we belive that having another baby will only enhance all of our lives even more.

If you would like to talk to us or learn more about us - please feel free to email me at momdad2bee@yahoo.com or you can contact me toll free 1.888.759.5188.

Best Wishes to you and I look forward to hearing from you.

Jackie 

Name: Adoptivemom | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 10:38 AM
Dear Expectant Mother,

We know you have a lot of difficult decisions to make but we are glad you choose life for your baby. We are a christian family created through adoption. We are looking forward to hearing the pitter patter of two more tiny little feet and our children is ready to be a big sibling. Please feel free to email me at.
adoptivemom99@gmail.com

With Grateful Hearts 


Name: christophersmommy | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 10:42 AM
Mirabeln

Why not post your email address so folks can contact you privately. 

Name: dmt | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 10:51 AM
Hi,

My name is Michelle. My husband and I are looking to adopt. We do have children 2 boys and a girl. We decided that we would like to have one more child to complete our family. My heart tells me that I would like to give a good, loving and stable home to a child that needs it. If you were to choose us I promise you that I would love your child as my own and make sure that they get everything it needs. I would also make sure your baby gets to go to college. I will suport your child and always be there for him or her. We live in a swim and tennis community with lots of room to play. We also have great schools here for the children. My children can not wait to have one more sibling to make our family complete. Oh yeh I am 34 and my husband is 36. I am a stay at home mother and my husband is a computer programmer. I am really sorry for what you are going though. I know it has to be hard. I hope to have the oppurtunity to get to know you and your little blessing better. Please give me an email at michelle.miller@pobox.com Once you email me I will send you pictures of my family so you can get a feel for who we are. I wish you all the love and luck in the world.


Love,
Michelle 

Name: sweetbeginnings | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 11:31 AM
Hi mirabeln,
I would love to talk to you. Please email me at dlsweet1@msn.com 

Name: Anne | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 11:37 AM
How did you just find out you are pregnant, if you are pregnant due in September you are 6 months already.

You also would be visibly showing at this point as well. This isn't making sense. 

Name: Dreamer | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 12:10 PM
I would Love to talk with you about your adoption plans. Please email me at girl4jk@yahoo.com 

Name: cl1145 | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 3:01 PM
Hi my husband and i are interested in adoption. We have and online profile at shadandchar.blogspot.com...If you like us and want to talk..here is my email charsosweet@yahoo.com. Hope to hear from you soon. Char 

Name: tek | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 3:15 PM
Dear Expectant,
We are proud of you and your decision to keep your baby and make an adoption plan. We know you have a lot of difficult decisions to make during this time. We will be praying that God helps lead you in the right direction.

We are Mike and Traci. A family created through adoption. We adopted our son six years ago and are looking forward to adopting again. We can't wait to hear the pitter patter of two more tiny little feet and Daylon is excited about being a big brother. Mike is a sales representative for a wholesale food company. Traci teaches 6th grade Science and Social Studies. Our son is going to 1st grade this year. We would love for you to look at our website and learn more about us. We can't wait to hear from you. We are proud of you for choosing life for your baby. Our email address is mike_tracik@yahoo.com


Sincerely,
Mike and Traci
http://www.geocities.co
m/mike_tracik/adoptionsite.htm
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Name: Carolyn | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 3:46 PM
Hi Mirabeln-

We are Carolyn, Louis and Andrew , a loving Christian family looking to adopt another child. Our son Andrew just turned 10 months old. We adopted him in June when he was born, and we have an open adoption with his birthparents.

My husband is an airline pilot for a major airline, and I am a stay at home mom. We are financially secure. We own a beautiful home in Arizona with swimming pool and backyard that is a great place to raise children.

Please check out our profile and see lots of pictures at :
http://www.parentprofiles.c
om/profiles/db18651.html

If
you would like to contact us, our email is lucakady@yahoo.com or
our phone # is 720-427-1811.

Thank you so much!

Hope to hear from you!

God bless you and your baby in your decision.......
Carolyn, Louis & Andrew :) = 

Name: Darcy | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 4:32 PM
Wow Mirabeln,
you have a lot going on right now. I bet the stress of all this has you with a lot of mixed emotions. But even though I know it might not seem like it.... it will get better. You have already shown some major love for your baby and strength because you didnt have an abortion, you are are choosing adoption because you know someone will love and take care of your baby they way you want them to. That takes a huge amount of strength and courage .Are you having a prince or a princess? Are you doing open or closed adoption? I have 2 brothers who my mom adopted and they are open adoption kids. They know who their mom is they visit with her and their other brothers and sisters and my mom is mom. The call them both mom. My husband Steve and I are trying to adopt and we also chose the open adoption way. I have a sister who is 34 yrs old and she has 7 kids. We call her fertile Myrtle. I always tell her how kool it must be that she and someone else can creat another human being. How when you look at your kids they look like you but then they also look like their dad or gramma or your toher siblings. I think its amazing. I look at my 2 boys. Steven and Austin(16 nad 13 from my husbands previous marriage) I have had them since Austin was 1 and Stevie 4, but I look at them and they look like their mother ,my husband and their grandfather. It's like looking at a living breathing family tree. I come from a huge family and my husband is the only son,only nephew,only grandson and only boy cousin so him and our boys are very spoiled but no where near as spoiled as our little girl will be. We don't know who she is but we sure are eager to meet her. I have bought atleast 7 different kinds of tea sets so we can have tea partys all the time. We have our fingers crossed that sometime this year they will find us a little girl. So I hope you the best and will keep you in my prayers that all goes well for you. Just remember either way you can't go wrong. If you chose to keep the baby you have an extra person that will love you unconditionally and if you go ahead and do the adoption, you will be making another family very very happy and your baby will have a great future because you wanted that for him/her. Good luck and if you ever want to talk/email i am darcycabrera@hotmail.com 

Name: mama2b2007 | Date: Jul 5th, 2007 3:02 AM
Mirabeln --

I know that you're getting lots of responses to your posting -- I hope that you will consider talking with me.

I have a loving, stable home, a nursery that's ready to go, the resources to give your baby a lifetime of opportunity and education, and so much love to offer.

With Open Adoption, everything is out in the open - you can maintain contact with your child forever, and you will know exactly who is raising him/her and be able to know that you have made the right decision.

Please see my Web site to find out more about me and my desire to adopt. (http://www.wanting2adopt.com) My heart goes out to you during this difficult time -- if you want to talk, please feel free to email me at readymama2007@yahoo.com

I'm working with a reputable adoption attorney (all fees paid by me) and he's a very friendly guy who would be willing to answer any/all of your questions. He will help to handle all of this for us (you and me) in a way that best supports you and the child that you're carrying.

I live in Northern California, I'm a family counselor, and I have a wonderful network of extended family and friends who can't wait for the arrival of a baby. Please consider talking with me?

--Linda (readymama2007@yahoo.com) 

Name: spk1008 | Date: Jul 5th, 2007 7:19 AM
HI.. I would love to talk with you more. My husband and I are ready to adopt as soon as possible; we are home study approved.
Please call me anytime at 1-800-401-2155
We are a loving couple and happily married for 5 years. We have a wonderful home and have a lot of love and financial security to offer a ababy.
Also look at our website www.joshuaandstaci.com
Hope to hear from you soon.
Fondly,
Staci 

Name: p2bamom | Date: Jul 5th, 2007 9:44 PM
We are seriously wanting to adopt, are you serious about adoption? 

Name: kessa | Date: Jul 6th, 2007 8:06 PM
Mirabeln, My name is Emily And my husbands name is Kym I have three step Children with him and we are looking to adopt Please email me soon so we can talk @ oscarandsasie@yahoo.com Take Care 

Name: damira_smith77 | Date: Jul 7th, 2007 11:58 AM
To mirabeln I'm looking to adopt a baby and I know that I cam help you in every way that I can. Email me and I can talk to you more about how I can help you in your situation. Thank You
babycakes25205@yahoo.com 

Name: want2adopt2006 | Date: Jul 7th, 2007 6:38 PM
Please send us more details on you - we live in No. Calif...where are you located?

email: want2beparents06@yahoo.com

We're waiting to adopt! Homestudy approved

See more about us at: http://www.myspace.com/want2adoptnow

See more about us at: http://www.lifetimeadoption.com/for_birtmo
thers/families/darin_pegg/index.html

We
are a project cuddle rescue family! For more info see: www.projectcuddle.org 

Name: Anne | Date: Jul 8th, 2007 1:48 AM
I have not heard back from this birthmom, has anyone? Thanks in advance for replying if anyone has. 

Name: dmt | Date: Jul 9th, 2007 5:40 PM
No, I have not 

Name: angeline2007 | Date: Jul 10th, 2007 3:13 AM
Wow, plenty of responses, I am sure. What is different about me and trying to respond to your ad?

Nothing probably, my Name is Angeline. There are alot of wonderful families out there looking to adopt for the same reasons. I am a mother of two older children 19 and 15 (from a previous marriage) and a 5 year old that is my husbands son, (from his previous marriage) but of course I love him like my own. I am unable to have any children of my own because I had a Doctor that didnt believe single mothers should have more children (I was single at the time of my 15 year olds birth) and he talked me into a tubal ligation. Now, 39, I am unable to have anymore children of my own. It is heart breaking, but in the same breath, I feel that there are soooo many children out there that need homes, that there is where my dream of a "big family" will come from. I am just starting the home study program. I do not drink, do drugs or have any wierd criminal or mental issues. I love my children with all my heart. They are my life. The only thing missing in our lives now... is a bigger family. We have stable careers, and a fun-loving household. I am very close to all three of my children. I would love to exchange pictures and or emails if you have not already found someone. If you have, I understand completely and would be willing to still exchange emails for support through your pregancy.

Sincerely,
Angeline 

Name: barbara sieving | Date: Jul 10th, 2007 11:19 AM
Hi,
I want very much to have another baby. I would very much like to speak with you and tell you my story. My family and I would be able to give your baby a very safe and loving christian home. If you would like to contact me you can e-mail me at cfmomof8@juno.com. Please don't let the e-mail address scare you :)
I wish you all the best. 

Name: looking2adoptluv | Date: Jul 13th, 2007 1:51 PM
Hi there! My husband Shuan and I are looking to adopt. i'm 20, he's 26. We are lds (mormon) in faith and have strong family values. We can provide a loving stable home and a great education. We'd be thrilled if you would consider us. Contact Mej106@aol.com. All the best. 

Name: princess35126 | Date: Jul 19th, 2007 9:08 PM
Hi Mirabeln, my husband and I are hoping to adopt a baby through an open adoption and are already homestudy approved. We will celebrate our 9th wedding anniversary in September. We would love the chance to get to know you and what hopes and dreams you have for your child. You can look at our web site to see if we might be the right family for you and your little one, it is http://jordananddustieadopt.com/. We admire and respect you for considering such a selfless, loving, and courageous choice. Best wishes, and we hope you are getting all the support you need while making this difficult decision.
Take care,
Jordan and Dustie 

Name: kimber | Date: Jul 20th, 2007 12:28 PM
Mirabeln, if you just want to talk, my email is kimwaddell@mchsi.com. I know this has to be a difficult decision that you are making. I hope everything works out for you. God bless 

Name: princess35126 | Date: Jul 20th, 2007 4:17 PM
Hi Mirabeln, I misspelled our web site yesterday, it was supposed to be http://www.jordananddustieadopt.com/. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Best wishes. 

Name: wildfire1976 | Date: Jul 24th, 2007 1:37 AM
we have $10,000 ready for adoption I had cancer at 21 so my husband and I can't have kids please contact me I will tell you all you want to know wildfire1976@hotmail.com 

Name: want2adopt2006 | Date: Jul 24th, 2007 1:46 AM
Hello!
We would love to hear from you.
Check out our page at myspace -
www.myspace.com/want2adoptnow
email: want2beparents06@yahoo.com
Bless you for thinking of adoption as your choice!
We are homestudy approved and have an attorney and facilatator to assist with the adoption 

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