hello everyone..
im 15 years old and i've recently found out that im pregnant..
ive already decided im keeping the baby, abortion is not an option for me.
however im not sure how to tell my dad that im pregnant.
he will disown me for sure. im scared.. how do i break it to him? ↓
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| Name: mg_wings | Date: Oct 22nd, 2007 1:57 AM |
I was in your shoes once...however I lost the pregnancy. I did tell my family, I could have never kept anything from them...especialy from my mom.....however, as soon as my dad got word, he did disown me. His loss..
He was happy, when I lost the baby.
And I can never forgie him, for the hurtfull things he said to me.
I advise you to do what you feel is the best for you.
Congrats on the baby, although you are young...I applaud you for not having an abortion.
good luck ↑ |
| Name: Penguin | Date: Oct 22nd, 2007 2:08 AM |
| thank you, im sorry for your loss ↑ |
| Name: annie7224 | Date: Oct 22nd, 2007 10:20 AM |
| What kind of relationship do you have with him? can you talk to him about other stuff? Start with i love you Dad. then he will sya it back to you, It should go something like Daddy I need your help, He will probably sya what s wrong? you'll tell him and ask him what he thinks? he will be mad and upset but you allready know that. Once he flips out things will get better go slowly and remeber he loves you and only wants the best for you no matter what he says and even if its mean Its not really how he feels . Your his little girl and it is hard to think of you that way, Let me know how it goes and if you need anything or just want to talk email me annie7224@gmail.com ↑ |
| Name: Tazziks2000 | Date: Oct 22nd, 2007 11:12 AM |
Hello Penguin.
We are loving family who live in South of California and would like to adopt one or two children. Please e-mail us if you are interested: our e-mail is: douglasangelika@sbcglobal.net
P.s. I'm originally from Europe and my husband born in USA. I speak 5 languages and also we both have University degrees. Thank you for your time and Good luck to your decision. ↑ |
| Name: Lynne Banks | Date: Oct 22nd, 2007 11:45 AM |
Penguin,,,,,,,,,,you are on the wrong board.
You need a forum that will actually help you.
Try teen pregnancy forum.
Good luck! ↑ |
| Name: Mom2pugs | Date: Oct 25th, 2007 6:40 PM |
| check out www.projectcuddle.org their organization can help you. They have safe houses in the event you are kicked out of your home and help you tell your parents if you need help. They have a contact number on their webpage ↑ |
| Name: kimshreeve | Date: Nov 29th, 2007 11:51 PM |
My name is Kim Shreeve. My husband Steve and I are both 36 years old and we have adopted our 3 children. We adopted all of our beautiful children from birth and have had open adoptions. Our daughter Summer Noel is 6, our son Sailor Reagan is 3 and our son Soldier Brigham is 1 1/2. We have always dreamed of having four children who are close in age. After fertility treatments that all failed, we turned to open adoption to build our family. We have wonderful relationships with our children’s birth mothers and have a deep love and respect for them. Summer’s birthmother is from PA, Sailor’s is from AZ and Soldier's is from TX. We were at the births for all three. The miles have not kept us from developing relationships with these amazing and loving ladies.
We live in Southern CA, about 20 minutes from Disneyland and 10 minutes from Laguna Beach. We are all Caucasian and are a happy, outgoing and loving family. Steve attended medical school at UC Irvine and I was a dance teacher and high school cheer coach.
If you would like to get to know us or are interested in seeing our photos our website is http://s2s.org/adoption/2007/ and you can email us at kim@s2s.org. You are a strong and loving person to even be considering placing your baby for adoption. We wish you peace of mind and happiness.
Warm Regards,
The Shreeve Family ↑ |
| Name: Tazziks2000 | Date: Nov 30th, 2007 2:07 AM |
| Hello again. I think you need talk to you dad and if he not like this situation, best for you give up baby, I now it is very hard to do. You are very young and very nice person, you need go to school and get good education. Please e-mail me if you are interested give up baby for adoption and we will help you. My e-mail is douglasangelika@sbcglobal.net ↑ |
| Name: Lynne Banks | Date: Nov 30th, 2007 11:45 AM |
| Go and find a bmom forum,,,,they can surly help you. ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Dec 5th, 2007 6:15 PM |
Hey there,
I would just come out and tell your father about being pregnant. I know you're scared, but from experience, I doubt he will disown you. When I was 18, and found out I was prego, my mom and I were just hanging out on the couch, and I just said, "By the way, I'm having a baby." You could write it in a letter also. Start out by saying, dad, i love you, I know this will hurt you, but, I am pregnant. I know you are probably upset, but I really need you. Maybe not word for word but something along those lines might work. No matter what , you have to tell him soon, so you can get to the doctor for prenatal care.
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