| Can you share more information? Like her email address? I think I might be talkinmg to the same person but it is too hard to tell. Any other signs I should be looking for? Thanks! ↑ |
| Why do you think these pics aren't stolen too? Thats okay this is Jessica and I am sure. I hate the someone has to get hurt to find out. I am positive it is Jessica though. ↑ |
Michelle
I did not say either way whether I thought these pics were stolen. I didnt say they werent but also didnt say they were.
I simply said that missy stole pics from her family members and myspace. I have proof to my claims that Missy was all of the folks up until now as she admitted it to Traci and I in a a chat (which I emailed you a few weeks back). I've also sent all of my documentation to the police and Lynne Banks.
Without proof I just dont want to say absolutely that Chrissy is Missy. I am NOT saying she isnt a scammer or that its not a distinct possibility that its missy - but without the matching IP addresses you no longer have proof.
Erica - I have not been talking to "Chrissy" - sorry I see that it is unclear from the way I phrased it above. I no longer respond to any birthmothers on this site as they have all proven to be scammers - and in fact most of them have been Missy.
A friend of mine who had been talking to her showed me the pics that she shared over IM. Ill see if I can think up a way for us to drop the pictures on a url for the group to see without anyone having to pass their email over this site. I think her email was something like chrissybella2000@yahoo.com. Just remember - its really easy to create a new email address.
One word to the wise is to always get at least one email from a PBM. It will help knowing whether or not they are being truthful in their location. IM is a great too but be wary of a pbm who only wants to talk to you there (where you can't hear there voice etc).
What ultimately tripped Missy up with me was her inability to keep her story straight - she is a bit smarter now. She also took for granted that other Aparents might be comparing notes. Tek and I were comparing notes the whole time and tripped her up a few times. I found it strange that after speaking to be a month as Bridgette - that when she starting talking to me as Jessica Lennox she wouldnt send me an email. It was of course because she didnt want me to see where she was from. Ultimately after receiving several emails from Janet the thought of getting another aparent in trouble was too enticing for her so she forwarded me Janets emails to her and bam I had the email address.
You need to save all your IM chat logs. The second night I spoke to "jessica" she said something that sounded familiar to me. In a subsequent conversation she mentioned when I told her how much I loved twizzlers that she was allergic to Red Dye 40 and bees (something that bridgette had told me in a chat). The final straw was when she mistakingly gave me bridgettes due date one night.
The best advice i can give is to be nice and respectful but always have your guard up. No travel plans or painting of baby rooms until you have proof of pregnancy. Make sure after a few conversations that contact is made with your attorney or agency.
My lawyer told me something that is a guiding principle in this. You should not judge whether a situation is real or not - because you as aparents are not objective enough - there is too much emotion involved. This is where you need your adoption professionals to help steer you away from the wrong situations and towards the right ones. It doesnt mean not to trust your gut - just make sure you have a third party helping you. ↑ |
