Lynmaria
I am not trying to argue with you so please dont take it that way. But I do want you to try to understand why I got upset. I tend to get upset when a friend of mine is upset.
I jumped to Traci's defense - not Chrissy's. I do not know Chrissy but I do know traci. Traci and I both did our part when we called the police on missy/jessica/melanie/bluemonday/bridgette in September.
My point wasn't that Michelle was trying to out a scammer. We are all happy when someone does that. Its that she dragged Traci and Mike into it. She could have simply posted that she was concerned that Chrissy told her she was matched with someone and that there were some red flags around her IP address - and posted her email address for more info.
Michelle specifically asked me not to out her cafemom ID to anyone here because of the scammers - all I was saying was that she could have gotten the same info out there without dragging Mike and Traci into it.
Noreen ↑ |
Public forums are just that.....if Traci did indeed get matched with a BM by networking this forum, then a congratulations from anyone on this forum is not out of line. It is my hopes that this is the case for her and her husband, however it's sounding a little "iffy". If "Chrissy" is so adamant about keeping the news private, why would she make a public announcement that she has found her family on this forum? I'm very concerned for all of those who are being scammed from any side of the adoption triad. Any suspicion needs to be made known whether it be via an outright warning or something subtle as Michelle's post.
Respectfully, Christophersmommy....I don't see Traci and Mike being dragged through anything as a consequence of Michelle's congratulatory post. We can agree to disagree, however and move forward. ↑ |
I know why she did the post to let everyone that she was matched. I told her about a month ago I wasn't interested. She IM me to nights ago I guess she figured it had been long enough that I might talk to her. I did just to figure out what she wanted turned out she was really trying to find out if I had turned her in or not. The next day she did that post about finding AP. Rijght after she posted it she IM and asked me if I had saw the post. I said no which I hadn't right after that she told me she had found bp but, wanted to know if we could still talk and be friends. She did the big announcement because, she wanted me to know she wasn't looking anymore. She knew if she started doing it to me I would know who she was in a heartbeat. It was to late I already knew. I have known since I told Jessica I couldn't talk to her and like 2 minutes later Chrissy IM me she was trying to keep up the conversation but, under another another name. Heck I could be Nancy Drew. Anyway I don't know why this girl does this but, she is truely sick in a very big way. I guess may be I could of handled things differently but, honestly I was concerned with helping them. I didn't know them and I couldn't think of any other way to get in touch with them than to post their names. Anyway what is done is done and I hope that I helped her.
Michelle ↑ |
Thanks Lynmaria,
It is nice to have support
Love,
MIchelle ↑ |
