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Hello. I am a 36 year old christian female who has been unhappily married now for 1 1/2 years. Late last year I found out I was pregnant with my first child. My husband was/is thrilled about this baby, but it has been quite the opposite for me. I feel just as detached about this pregnancy as I have been about the marriage. I've been hoping things would change and that the natural bonding process would kick in, however I appear to be growing more distant and just want the pregnancy over with. I am also severely depressed and concerned that I may make the wrong decision for all of the wrong reasons. Baby is due in July and I don't see things changing any time soon. Any advice would be most welcome. Thanks. ↓
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| Name: georgeandtrudi | Date: Mar 19th, 2009 9:19 AM |
Hi-
I would love to talk with you about potentially placing your baby for adoption. There are so many families that would love your baby and we are one of them. We have been wanting to add to our family for so long. If you'd like to talk more about it, please email me at:
tlwl72@yahoo.com
Hope to hear from you soon,
Trudi & George ↑ |
| Name: tammy_white78 | Date: Mar 19th, 2009 9:33 AM |
| hi, we would love to talk with you as we are lookng to adopt as well you can email me at tammy_white78@yahoo.com ↑ |
| Name: heartlandmommy | Date: Mar 19th, 2009 9:58 AM |
Hi there. I'm sorry you are in such a diffcult situation - both the marriage and the pregnancy. My husband and I have one adopted son and a good understading of the process. I would be happy to share what we know if you are thinking of pursing an adoption plan.
Feel free to email me at heartlandmommy@yahoo.com
Take care,
S. ↑ |
| Name: georgiadogs | Date: Mar 19th, 2009 1:01 PM |
Hi, my name is Rachel. My husband and i are hoping to adopt a baby into our family. Please visit our webpage to find out more about us. i would love to talk to you more. You can email us at georgiadogs8@optonline.net with any questions.
Thanks and best of luck with your difficult decisions.
Rachel ↑ |
| Name: itsmyangel | Date: Mar 19th, 2009 5:41 PM |
| Hi....I'm really sorry you are going through this :( Its awful to feel that way. I hope you can find someone to help you pull through this so you don't feel so alone. Your hormones are out of wack....maybe talkt o your dr about your feelings. Also, I know a baby doesn't help an unhappy marriage as they can bring more stress. I don't want to sound like a wanted ad...but should you and your husband decide you'd like to adopt your baby....my husband and I have lost 2 pregnancies in the last 6 months. We have a huge desire to be parents and are probably 2 of the most loving people you could hope to meet. I really don't want to push you one way or another..its a HUGE decision. But if you'd like to talk some more..please email me itsmyangel@aol.com ↑ |
| Name: gbrinc | Date: Mar 19th, 2009 7:52 PM |
Adoption is not the answer to depression. If anything quite the opposite is true.
As a christian you know that we all go through peaks and valleys, and after 30 years of marriage I've seen a few.The key word here is THROUGH. What ever you do don't stop in the middle. God did not give you and your husband this child for you to give away.
I personally don't believe God is in the infant adoption business.
Adoption is a roll of the dice with a child's life. Some adoptions are good some are not. Adoption is based on loss. Child loses family and family loses child.
Also just so you understand you can not place your child for adoption without your husband signing off or either parenting himself. Also Open adoptions are not enforceable in most states so don't fall for that. As you can see most here could give a rip about you they want your baby.
What ever you do don't sign anything until after you have had this child. You may see things very differently by July. Situations are temporary adoption is forever.
Good Luck
Your family will be in my prayers.
Adoptee given away to save a marriage and adopted for the same reason. ↑ |
| Name: Tammie | Date: Mar 19th, 2009 10:22 PM |
| First off Im very sorry about what you are going through. I would love to talk with you about this. We are looking to adopt a baby but you may have other options that we could talk about. Please feel free to email me stgabriele2000@yahoo.com and God Bless ↑ |
| Name: loveformychildren | Date: Mar 22nd, 2009 8:06 AM |
| Hello, USINUK, I was wondering where you are located at we are wanting to adopt in the USA. My husband Glenn and I Brianna have been looking to adopt a baby for a long while. We also have two children and they are excited to have another baby in the family my children are 19 and 16. I had to have a hstercomy done when I was 29 and I still wanted more children and I long for that need of a new baby to love, care, and be there for him or her. We are a good christian family with alot of love to give to your baby if you pick us. Thanks Glenn and Brianna our e-mail is hot4ujr@comcast.net and our phone number is 540-416-4007 or 540-292-2106. you can call any time. We live in Virginia in the country. Hope to here from you. Brianna ↑ ↑ ↑ |
| Name: KED | Date: Mar 22nd, 2009 6:34 PM |
| Are you located in the United States? If not where are you located? Please e-mail me at tydelco21@yahoo.com. Thanks ↑ |
| Name: USINUK | Date: Mar 30th, 2009 3:47 PM |
Thanks to everyone for the wonderful support and responses. Although I have not yet determined if adoption is the answer, there is a very strong possibility I will be headed in this direction.
To answer the question with regards to where I am located, I am an American citizen temporarily residing in the UK. Please note (extremely important) that should I opt to place the child up for adoption in the US, it would be up to the adoptive parents to pay for all medical costs associated with the delivery as I do not have medical insurance. Feel free to email me at mellissa_us2k@yahoo.com with any questions. ↑ |
| Name: Tammie | Date: Mar 31st, 2009 11:48 AM |
| Hi my name is Tammie and my husband and I are looking to adopt a baby. We are a Christian couple we have been married for 14 years. We have so much love to give. We will provide a safe and happy home for your baby. Please feel free to email me at your earliest convience God Bless stgabriele2000@yahoo.com ↑ |
| Name: savethechild | Date: Apr 1st, 2009 9:40 AM |
are you still in search of a baby which you can call your own then fiel free to contact us through email
savethechild@ymail.com for details and procedure.
thanks. ↑ |
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