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I am a mom with two girls 10 and 13 months. My boyfriend left when she was 2 months and came back 8 months lattor. While he was gone he sent no support. Hes back now helping very little...baby wont even go to him she cries. I was going to have tubes tied and week before surgry I found out I was pregnat. My boyfriend saying keep baby but I cannot afford two I have and what if he leaves I cant afford daycare for two...I want to have baby for someone to adopt but can I make 9 months while caring for my other 2 with school work??? Or is it a sign like he said a week before I go in, I get pregnat so I should keep baby or should I go through with not have baby and worry about two I have...or give up for adopt? ↓
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| Name: debbiea12 | Date: Aug 12th, 2008 9:38 AM |
| Hi first off let me say I am very sorry for the situation you are in. But I say that you should do whatever your heart tells you to do. But just know that there are a lot of people out there that can't have children but want one very bad. Just like us , my fiance and I want children so much but cannot have our own due to infertility. We are hoping to adopt or find a surrogate. If you would just like to talk please email me at cherry_angel2223@yahoo.com. By the way my name is Deborah. ↑ |
| Name: heartlandmommy | Date: Aug 12th, 2008 9:52 AM |
Adoption is a difficult choice and only you can know what is best for your family. If you are early in your preganancy, you have plenty of time to think of all the options. If you would like to discuss a potential adoptive situation, please feel free to contact me at mommy_of_one@cox. net. We have one adopted son and would love the opportunity to continue to build our family.
We wish you peace of heart with your decision... ↑ |
| Name: barpufa | Date: Aug 12th, 2008 9:30 PM |
| Only you know the answer to that question. We have adopted before, and would love to again, but only if that's what's in the best interest of both the baby AND the mom. If you choose adoption, we would love to talk with you! I'm sure we could work together to help you, your family, and your little one! barpufa12@yahoo.com ↑ |
| Name: gbrinc | Date: Aug 12th, 2008 10:26 PM |
Here are a few sites that might help
They are more geared towards maybe helping you parent not placing
www.adoptioncrossroads.org/
htt
p://www.bastards.org
http://lifemothers.co
m/singleparents.html
http://coabode.com/ht
tp://hslowe.tripod.com/wishihadknown
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my opinion but I think aoption should always be a last resort. I know it is something my birthmother or myself have never gotten past.
Just be sure to speak to all sides. Read learn & listen. This will be life changeing for all involved.
Father also has rights. If you decided not to parent he will have to sign his rights off. ↑ |
| Name: LatashaOsborne | Date: Aug 13th, 2008 12:27 AM |
| Hi, my name is Tasha! I REALLY do not believe in abortions! I am Really wanting to have another baby of my own and unfortunately my hubby cant give me another! If you wind up giving it up we would Love to have her! We will compensate you for your 9 months and recovery! ↑ |
| Name: LatashaOsborne | Date: Aug 13th, 2008 12:27 AM |
| Oh and btw, email me TashaCam@live.com ↑ |
| Name: nice2008 | Date: Aug 14th, 2008 3:24 AM |
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| Name: want2bmommy | Date: Aug 15th, 2008 9:50 PM |
Hi! It is your decision ultimately. Please do what is right for your situation. Youself, and the children you have right now, above all the one you are expecting. This baby does not ask for anything more than to be loved and taken care of. I'd be happy to be a listening ear for you. You can email me anytime for support or if you'd like we could exchange #'s and talk on the phone. I do not judge, I will encourage you to do what is right, and support you in the decision that you make. I will tell you that we are looking to adopt, but there would NEVER be any pressure (if you chose adoption) to pick us. There will be the right family for your child out there somewhere. If it is us, great, if not, the baby is ultimately getting a life that is waiting for him/her, and I would be here to listen. That's all for now, my email is misslinette2003
@childcare.net. Good luck in everything! ↑ |
| Name: ashlorene | Date: Aug 25th, 2008 1:03 AM |
Ok if u are so serious about this my fiance adn i would love to adopt your baby we have been dating for 4 yrs now and been engaged for 2 we have held of a wedding exspences for adopting a baby cause i can not carry a baby full term we have been through 3 very awful miscarriges! and i understand what u have to do and its better then what most people do! We would love your baby and help pay for your exspenses as needed! such as new clothes as u gain your baby wieght grocries u made need and maybe even a place to stay if u do not have one !
please only if u are serious
Ashley and Daniel
my email
lorenetrammel@msn.com = ↑ |
| Name: mich | Date: Aug 30th, 2008 12:25 AM |
| michelle.miller@pobox.com ↑ |
| Name: dobbie21 | Date: Aug 30th, 2008 7:23 AM |
Dear wayward,
if your boyfriend thinks he can make you pregnant and then leaves aging then you will be the one again to rise the baby we think that you shoule give the baby up fpr adoption to a couple ofr family that wants a baby of their own to love so if i want you i would keep the pregnancy and then email someone like us to adopt you unborn baby. here is our email address for you kalen2@peoplepc.com. thank you very much for taking time in reading this to you and we hope that god helps you with this pregnancy,
Sincerly your adopted family in Lancaster,pa.
Ami & Jerry Carmchael & our 9 year old daughter kalen julin ↑ |
| Name: christa964 | Date: Nov 15th, 2008 9:46 PM |
If you cannot give your baby the life he/she deserves, it is not wrong to place it with a family who can. This is an unselfish and loving act. We would love to be considered as potential adoptive parents for your baby. Please view our website at: www.kevinandchristablog.blogspot.com
or email us at: kevinandchrista@aol.com
I'd be happy to talk and answer any questions you may have.
Best of luck to you.
Christa ↑ |
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