Hi,
I WANT TO SAY TO BEGIN WITH IF YOU DIDN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THIS THEN I AM SORRY FOR THIS POST. PLEASE JUST IGNORE IT. I IS REALLY FOR THE PEOPLE ON THAT POST THAT CLAIMS THAT JESSICA IS A FRAUD. EXCEPT FOR CAROLYN SHE DOES NOT SEEM TO BE PICKING ON ANYONE. ANYWAY HERE GOES.
I REALLY DON'T CARE TO ARGUE WITH ANYONE. THE POSTS THAT HAVE BEEN PUT UP ABOUT JESSICA ARE REALLY IRRITATING ME THOUGH. JESSICA IS A NICE GIRL. PLEASE LEAVE HER ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A LOT OF PEOPLE COME HERE JUST TO PICK ON PEOPLE AND IT IS VERY ANNOYING. SHE IS JUST A YOUNG WOMAN GOING THROUGH A DIFFICULT TIME RIGHT NOW. SOOOOOOO BACK OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SHE IS RIGHT SHE WILL FIND HER MATCH WHETHER ANY OF YOU BELIEVE IN HER OR NOT. JUST BECAUSE SHE IS NO LONGER TALKING TO YOU DOES NOT MAKE HER A FRAUD IT MAKES HER NOT INTERESTED.
SO EVERYBODY PLEASE BE CONSIDERATE AND GIVE HER SOME SPACE. JUST BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T CHOSE YOU DOES NOT MAKE HER A BAD PERSON. THERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLE ON HER LOOKING FOR A CHILD. IN THE END SHE CAN ONLY PICK ONE FAMILY.
NOW I KNOW THAT AFTER I HAVE SAID THIS EVERYONE IS GONNA JUMP ON ME AND SAY A BUNCH OF THINGS THAT ARE NOT TRUE. YOU ARE PROBABLY GONNA SAY THAT I AM A FRAUD AND EVERYTHING ELSE. WELL YOU KNOW THAT IS OKAY . I AM 34AND I CAN TAKE IT. IT DOESN'T MATTER TO ME IF YOU WRITE LIES OR NOT. I KNOW WHO I M AND THAT IS ALL THAT MATTERS.
OKAY SO IN SUMMURY:
LEAVE JESSICA ALONE
I DON'T KNOW BRIDGETTE BUT, WHILE YOUR AT IT LEAVE HER ALONE TO
UNLESS YOU REALLY HAVE SOLID PROOF THAT SOMEONE IS A FRAUD THEN LEAVE THEM ALONE.
A LOT OF THE ONES YOU ARE PICKING ON ARE JUST INNOCENT GIRLS GOING THROUGH A HARD TIME.
LEAVE THEM ALONE.
SOME GIRLS MIGHT GET ON HERE AND USE A DIFFERENT NAME TO BEGIN WITH HAVE YOU THOUGHT THAT THEY MAY BE SCARED.
I AM NOT SAYING THAT THIS IS WHAT HAS HAPPENED HERE BECAUSE, I DO NOT BELIEVE JESSICA AND BRIDGETTE ARE THE SAME PERSON. THE ADRRESSES ARE NOT THE SAME HELLLLO!!!!!!! I AM NOT SURE THAT IF I WAS IN THEIR SITUATION THAT I WOULD WANT EVERYONE HERE KNOWING MY REAL NAME EITHER.
ANYWAY LEAVE THEM ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BY THE WAY THE DAY THAT BRIGETTE SAID SHE WAS HAVING AN ULTRASOUND DOES NOT CORRESPOND WITH THE DATE ON JESSICA'S SONAGRAM. SO GUESS WHAT YOU ARE WRONG.
LEAAAAAAAAAAVE THEEEEEEEEEM ALOOOOOOOONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MICHELLE ↓
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| Name: bellasmommy | Date: Jul 30th, 2007 10:08 AM |
Michelle:
I AM WITH YOU 100%.
There are people on this forum......SOKMUNKYTOO in particular, who are EXTREMELLY judgemental and are willing to shoot daggers to anyone and everyone! She is very rude. Maybe she tried to contact some of these women that she is accusing of being scams & may have been burned - therefore she is resentful of others speaking with them. For whatever reason that she is so mean - its her problem. Then she takes it one step further and she jumps all over other Prospective Adoptive moms for posts that they have made..... of course me being one of them. I could really care less what she thinks of me or posts about me ---- I know who I am and so do others on this site ... so that's alright!
Can't wait to see the responds to these posts!...LOL
Jackie
If she is on this forum looking to match with a potential Birthmom.... I don't think they will appreciate all of her negativity! ↑ |
| Name: sweetbeginnings | Date: Jul 30th, 2007 10:08 AM |
| DMT, You sound like a very nice person, I don't think most intentions are to be rude just looking out, I did find it interesting that Bridgette's Neverland and Jessica are both hanging out on the same thread, especially if Brigettesneverland has found a family. A person can have 200 email addresses and if they are really good several IP's. Though sokumonkey may have not chosen the best words to get her point across, she does have some legitimate concerns. As an adoption professional I come to this board so that when I get a call I have heard the name. And to be even more honest, most of the people on this board won't follow through with a professional because they know better, it has nothing to do with wanting a private adoption, you can have a private adoption with a professional involved. Anyway, there is a baby out there for everyone, just please be very careful. Jessica if you are truly pregnant and seeking a family to raise your child so you can continue to put yourself in a better position to one day raise a child, you go girl, but if not you will reap what you sow eventually. ↑ |
| Name: Carolyn | Date: Jul 30th, 2007 10:19 AM |
Hi Michelle-
I am not picking on anyone, I just know how rare Kady is for a last name so I would like to talk to Bridgette, but I haven't heard back from her since her post asking me to write her.
I didn't pass judgement on Jessica at all either.
Good luck to everyone.
Carolyn ↑ |
| Name: dmt | Date: Jul 30th, 2007 12:01 PM |
Carolyn,
you misread what i wrote. the reason why I stated your name is I did not think you were picking on anyone. I just thought you were interested in talking to Bridgette. I forgot to mention and I don't want any hard feelings with people I was not really meaning this post for. Also this post is not meant for TEK she was also not on there to pick on anyone. So I just want to get it straight Carolyn and TEK I did not mean this toward the two of you. I know ya'll are also just looking to adopt.
For all the people that are strong enough to come on here and take up for the innocent I appreciate it. I know that some people on this site are not real. I am not nieve to the fact that some of the people on here on not real. I am just saying make sure before you start jumping on people. Talk to them. Honestly I have talked to Jessica many times and I do not believe she is a fraud. So please again to the people picking on people leave them alone. You don't realize some of these girls are real and they are going through a hard enough time as it is. Believe it or not sometimes what people say does hurt so don't say it unless you know it to be true. Some people are also just saying things to get things started for now reason at all and it is obvious. If you want to fight go to a boxing match do not come to adoption board/ pregnancy board. Oh yeah, bellasmommy thank you very much for your support. I think if more people would be strong enough to the and stand up to the people just attacking people for no reason maybe they would stop. Good luck to everyone in finding a baby. Well of course except the people being cruel. To everyone else I wish you all the love and happiness in the world.
Thanks,
Michelle ↑ |
| Name: dmt | Date: Jul 30th, 2007 9:16 PM |
anyway I new this was coming. I knew that I was gonna be verbally attacked after this post. I honestly don't care all that matters is that I know who I am. They way some people treat these girls on the adoption board is just not right and it has bothered me for a long time. Now you are messing with someone I know an like and I am tired of it. I figure it is better you use me as your punching bag than these innocent girls. I am not trying to smooze anyone but thanks anyway. What are you doing on here anyway everytime you say something it is something rude or accusing. Anyway I am done I have said my peace.
Michelle ↑ |
| Name: dmt | Date: Jul 31st, 2007 9:28 AM |
Sokmunkytoo
You have no idea what my education level is and frankly it is known of your business. In fact I don't believe anything on this site is your business. You only come on her to criticize people and try to make them feel bad. Guess what your little attempt didn't bother me because my education level is just fine. If anything I feel sorry for you that you have nothing better to do with your life than to come on here and try to make people feel bad. You not even strong enough to use your name so people know who is giving them a hard time. I feel sorry for you you can dish it but, can't take it. Are you trying to adopt or are you putting a baby up for adoption. Do you have any connection to adoption at all. Why are you even on this site just to give people a hard time? Just leave everyone alone.
MIchelle ↑ |
| Name: sokmunkytoo | Date: Jul 31st, 2007 6:39 PM |
| Carolyn did you ever get a reply from "Bridgette"? ↑ |
| Name: deanna123 | Date: Jul 31st, 2007 7:45 PM |
Michelle, this isn't a personal site. If you don't like sokmonkytoo, don't read her posts. Don't respond. She has as much right as you or I have, or even Janet. Hell, Janet has been on for weeks now and not a one of you has figured it out. I noticed some of you are getting and sending her emails. This is a site for support and to find out about scammers because information is power. And anyone wanting to adopt should have as much informaton as possible.
I have been on here for years and everyone knows I have no interest in adopting and I sure wouldn't place. But I have the right to be here if I want to be. In other words you have no right to say who can be on here or not. Make your own forum if you want to say who can be on at any given time. ↑ |
| Name: dmt | Date: Jul 31st, 2007 7:58 PM |
| Your right Deanna this is not my personal site. I didn't really mean that. I also do not care who is on here. I think anyone has a right to be here. That is as long as they are not being cruel to people for no reason at all. She is jumping on girls that are putting their baby up for adoption for no reason at all and upseting them. I have seen her picking on people who are interested in adoption for spelling a word wrong. I have not seen a single comment that she has had that has been supportive to people. I have noticed she has been here. She has just finally gone a little to far. Before she was picking on grown ups but, now she is picking on teenagers. I understand calling out scammers but, she is picking on people who aren't scammers. This is the first time I have responded to her and that is because she was picking on someone I know and made them very upset. I am sorry there is no reason for it ↑ |
| Name: deanna123 | Date: Jul 31st, 2007 8:17 PM |
| Michelle, do you personally know the girl? Or is it someone you met over the internet. There is a difference. The person you met may not be the person you know. You are not going to find many "real people" on here giving their child up. For every 1000 posts there may be one true person looking to place. You will have to go through your share of scammers first. Sokmonkytoo has went through more than her share of scammers. ↑ |
| Name: Carolyn | Date: Jul 31st, 2007 8:25 PM |
Hi Soxmunky-
No I never got a email back from Bridgette at all.
Carolyn ↑ |
| Name: christophersmommy | Date: Jul 31st, 2007 9:33 PM |
| Dont you all find it interesting that Bridgette and Jessica had the same due date???????? And so did BlueMonday and Melanie_1986????? Not the same month - the same day!! ↑ |
| Name: deanna123 | Date: Aug 1st, 2007 5:05 AM |
| christophersmommy, I don't have a vested interest in any of these people. But even I, after reading different posts, can tell when something smells. And I see you are recognizing patterns of a scammer yourself. That is all anyone can do is question any posts offering a child. So you can protect your heart. I'm not saying every birth mother is a scam. But in the two years I've been on here I have found three "real, true, birthmoms" There could of been more since I don't read every posts or follow every person. But three is all I know about. ↑ |
| Name: christophersmommy | Date: Dec 10th, 2007 10:37 AM |
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