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hello my name is crystal lee i'm 17 wekks and 5 days pg i'm looking for a loving couple who want a new born baby coming march 20,2006 or if you know someone e-mail. ↓
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| Name: Tianna | Date: Oct 17th, 2005 6:15 PM |
| If it is a girl and things do not work out with Debbie post again so I can share contact information please. ↑ |
| Name: Rennie Rayford | Date: Oct 20th, 2005 11:15 AM |
| My husband and I are in Germany, he is in the military, and I am a nurse, we desperate want to adopt a new born regradless of race. we are unable to have a child of our own. buy a calling card and call us at 011496051474601. we aare u.s. citizens and will be willing to travel to the states. email me at lord38603@yahoo.com ↑ |
| Name: christine | Date: Oct 28th, 2005 2:54 PM |
| Hi, my husband and I would love to talk to you about adopting your child. I was adopted as an infant. My email is yourpamperedchefconsultant@yahoo.com We already have a houseful, but the more the merrier around here. We have 2 with March birthdays. We aren't desperate for a baby, and I want your baby to go to the right couple, but we have always wanted to adopt to enlarge our family. We would love to talk with you and give you any support you need in your decision; even if you just want to talk to a grown up adoptee about the long term effects of adoption (I grew up very happy). ↑ |
| Name: Loving 2 Adopt | Date: Nov 1st, 2005 6:27 PM |
Hi, Crystal
We are Tyler, Miranda and Lynden from the Central Valley of California. A little about us we have a great home and loving family and can't wait to share it with another baby. The best was adopting our son Lynden two years ago. I am a STAY-AT-HOME MOM since Lynden was born and love it. Adoption can be an emotional process, but we learned that it can also be an amazing experience that all of us can treasure. We think that you are incredibly brave, and it’s because of women like you that our dream of having another baby can come true. Please check out our website www.luv2adopt.net to learn more about us. And feel free to email us anytime at itsgreat2adopt@yahoo.com or call us any time at
1-866-645-8325
www.luv2adopt.net
Warmest wishes,
Miranda and Tyler ↑ |
| Name: Jackie | Date: Nov 6th, 2005 9:59 PM |
Hi Crystal ... I hope this posting finds you well :)
We are looking to adopt a baby. We have been married for 7yrs and believe that a baby would complete us.
I would invite you to get to know a little about us by visiting our website: www.momdad2bee.com ... if you would like to get to know us better - all of our contact information is on our website.
I wish you the best of luck in your search for your forever family :)
Jackie
toll-free 1.888.759.5188 ↑ |
| Name: Gill | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 6:05 PM |
| I appreciate and respect those couples who cannot have children of their own and wish to adopt. But Crystal, I was adopted when I was a baby. Regardless of how loving a family an adopted child is raised in, a child belongs with his/her mother. Even at 22, the fact that my mother didn't care for me enough to keep me weighs on my mind, and as a result I will never want to know her. If you give your baby away, you will never get him/her back. Advertising your baby on the Internet as if his/she is a dog is also quite disrespectful, especially to those in my situation. Makes me feel cheaper still. Have a little respect for your baby. He/she is not an item to advertise. He/she is a person who want to be with YOU, not anyone else is the world. Gill ↑ |
| Name: Miranda | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 7:04 PM |
Gill,
I am sorry that you feel this way about you birthparents and adoptive parents, but there are alot of families out there and also alot of adoptive children that do not feel the same way as you. Crystal and others do not need to be put down by others that have maybe not had just a great life or think they are missing something. Its sound like your adoption is closed, but most of the adoptions are open adoptions today so the children know where they come from and the reasons why. My Husband and I adopted our son and we stay in touch with his family which now also are family now. If you need to talk to someone there are groups out there for you because it really sounds like it may be a healthly choice for you. Also if you really want to make a point leave your email address so people can email you for anwsers.
Miranda ↑ |
| Name: Gill | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 5:12 PM |
| With respect Miranda, I don't need counselling from anyone about my being adopted. It takes an adopted person to understand another. You may have adopted a child, but only the child can know the other site to adoption which is not all love and affection. It involves neglect and a great deal of heartache that no amount of talking can mend. The very idea of my own mother and father not wanting to know me causes me intense grief. But the damage is done now. I wasn't putting down Crystal. I was merely giving her unborn child a voice. You support adoption because you have adopted and would be interested in adopting Crystal's child. Of course you're going to support her decision to give up her baby as it's to your advantage. Whereas you and Crystal are thinking of yourselves, I'm thinking of the unborn baby and what he/she wants and needs, and that's to be with Crystal, and not anyone else. If Crystal goes ahead with giving away her own baby, good luck to her, but I have little respect for people like that. It's a blessing to be given a child of your own. I'm sure you of all people appreciate that. You should accept and cherish that blessing, not leave it in the hands of strangers. Gill ↑ |
| Name: Miranda | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 8:34 PM |
Gill,
1st of all I still do think you need some help, even more after reading all the reponses to jackie and to the other women that gave her child out of love to a family. And secondly you should not speak for any baby and any other Adoptee, because I am adopted too and feel NOTHING LIKE YOU AND NEVER WILL OR MY SON because again we have an open adoption and always will. You are a very angery person with your birthfamily and I think your problem is your talking yourself out of finding them, becuause you might not like what you find what you find out about them, but if you took that chance you might also find out that your birthmother had a good reason, but that would most likely make you even more made because you may have been wrong about her. I do not think you should be at this forum all you are trying to do is stirr up these poor girls when all they are searching for to help not to be put down or how someone they don't even know tell them how their baby will feel becuase "you don't know". Again you speak about how you think a baby feels when its you that only feels that way.
Miranda ↑ |
| Name: Miranda | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 9:07 PM |
Gill,
One quick question,
What’s your Degree in?
I see you are posting a lot of advice in other forums. ↑ |
| Name: Gill | Date: Nov 11th, 2005 5:27 PM |
Miranda,
My degree is in Anglo-Irish Literature, European Studies and Human Development Studies. Why do you ask? ↑ |
| Name: Gill | Date: Nov 11th, 2005 5:39 PM |
Miranda,
Talking myself out of finding my birth parents? Er . . . I don't remember telling you I intended to find them. I don't! Ever! I don't want to give her the satisfaction of knowing what happened to me, or learning how well I've done in my life. I'm not hers to be proud of. Of course I'm angry at my mother for not wanting to know me. If yours was an open adoption, your mother didn't completely disown you. So your adoption is VERY different from mine. So as far as closed adoptions go, Miranda, you don't know. I can post my advice as I see fit. If the truth upsets the girls, then maybe it's a good hard hitting wake up call. It'll upset them even more when their baby is calling someone else mom. Personally that would kill me, and I don't think a person can be normal and see that as being okay. I see it's merely you who is giving negative feedback. I'm on this site because I'm planning a baby of my own and wanted advice from others. When I saw girls advertising their unborn children on this site, I couldn't help but feel for their unwanted baby. I want to give unwanted babies a voice before it's too late. I wish someone could have given me a voice. I care for unwanted babies. I believe they belong with their mother, who can learn to love and want her baby. You care about extending your family is all. Not about the baby's need for his/her mother. I find that repulsive and selfish. Rule number one: put the baby first. ↑ |
| Name: Miranda | Date: Nov 11th, 2005 5:52 PM |
Gill,
I think that we have nothing else to talk about. All it comes down to is we have different views on certain topics. Good Luck with you and your future husband and trying to have a baby, I hope you the best.
Miranda ↑ |
| Name: Gill | Date: Nov 11th, 2005 6:02 PM |
| Thank you Miranda. I appreciate that. x ↑ |
| Name: Gill | Date: Nov 11th, 2005 6:04 PM |
Look, My apologies if my messages caused any upset. That wasn't my intention. Perhaps I could have used more tact. But these are my opinions. We're all entitled I'm sure.
Regards ↑ |
| Name: Jeanne Turner | Date: Nov 18th, 2005 2:41 PM |
Hi Crystal,
That's my sisters name Crystal. My husband and I are very interested in adoption. We are both 26 and we've been married for one year and 2 months. We are just getting ready to start a family of our own. We currently live in Alabama but we will be moving to California for up to a year and then moving back to our hometown in northeast alabama to raise our family around all of our close friends and family. We both love children and can;t wait to have children of our own through adoption and hopefully one day God will bless us with many more. We would be open to an open adoption keeping in touch through email pictures and phone calls if you would like. Thanks so much for taking the time to read this and if you want more info from us pictures, jobs, home, just email us at jeanne_turner@hotmail.com. Again we want to commend you on your decision to offer your child a wonderful life with a loving couple and hope to hear from you soon.
Adam and Jeanne Turner ↑ |
| Name: Jess and Mike | Date: Nov 19th, 2005 6:05 PM |
Hi Crystal,
If you are still looking for a couple to adopt your baby please send us an email at nomadjess and we'll send you tons of info on us including pics. I don't want to put too much here because it seems overwhelming. So just a little info we are 29 and 34, married almost 4 years and live in Colorado. We would love a little boy or girl to share our lives with. ↑ |
| Name: Jess and Mike | Date: Nov 19th, 2005 6:05 PM |
Hi Crystal,
If you are still looking for a couple to adopt your baby please send us an email at nomadjess@msn.com and we'll send you tons of info on us including pics. I don't want to put too much here because it seems overwhelming. So just a little info we are 29 and 34, married almost 4 years and live in Colorado. We would love a little boy or girl to share our lives with. ↑ |
| Name: Melissa & Tim | Date: Nov 20th, 2005 7:56 PM |
Hello, We are Tim & Melissa. We can't imagine what you are going through but what an unselfish decison you have made for your unborn child. We have had two miscarriage, a tubal pregnancy and failed IVF cycles. We have been trying four-years to have a child of our own and have just started looking into adoption. We have a warm, loving, caring and openhearted home that we would love to raise your child in and let them have the future that they would deserve. If you would consider us as adoptive parents for him/her we would be honored. Our prayers are with you through this very big and difficult decison even if you don't consider us. Good luck on your journey and we hope you find the family you are looking for.
With Love,
Tim & Melissa ↑ |
| Name: Chris, Lori and Kennedy | Date: Nov 23rd, 2005 7:16 PM |
Hey Crystal.
I just came across your ad, but I was wondering if you had chosen a couple yet. We're in TN and are anxiously awaiting another baby through open adoption.
Please check out our website at : www.geocities.com/flowergodd
esslori/ouradoptionpage.html
and don't hesitate to contact me if you'd like to chat.
I'll be praying God will give you peace and direction during this time! Hugs to you, Lori ↑ |
| Name: Joi | Date: Nov 25th, 2005 9:55 PM |
Hello My husband and I are looking to adopt our first child. We are home study approved and are ready for anything. We are both 28 years old and have been married for 8 years. We have made our home in sunny Orlando, Florida. I'm a stay at home wife and am looking foward to being a stay at home mom. If you would like to learn more about our family please e-mail me and I will send you more info about us. My e-mail address is:
JoisHealingHands@aol.com
We hope to hear from you soon. With love, Steve and Joi ↑ |
| Name: Lisa Burch | Date: Nov 28th, 2005 9:46 PM |
| Hi Crystal, We are Matt and Lisa from Georgia. We are a young couple( Matt is 25 Lisa is 26) hoping to start our family through open adoption. We can't wait to be parents! please visit our website: www.geocities.com/matt_lisab give us a call anytime toll-free or email us! God bless you....Matt & Lisa ↑ |
| Name: vine | Date: Dec 1st, 2005 4:12 AM |
: Dear crystal lee,
How are you? hope you are fine.iam happy to read your message of which you said that yoy want a new born baby, iam also in the same state with you, let us be together and plan for our baby, it will be fine. iam also a hundsome youngman 19 years old. email me. mukiavi@yahoo.co.uk
i shall be happy to hear from you.
vine ↑ |
| Name: Audra | Date: Dec 2nd, 2005 10:48 PM |
| I would be interested in a newborn I am multi racial is that okay? I can't have anymore kids and I so desperately want another one to love and spoil. you can feel free to call me at 870-247-7649 or 870-329-1364 or email me at demarbree@yahoo.com If you need a portfolio to see if I am a match please contact me I come highly with references. ↑ |
| Name: Sabrina | Date: Dec 4th, 2005 3:35 PM |
Crystal,
I am looking to adopt a child. I am a single, widowed, 36 year old mom. My husband was hit by a pipe in a latch while trying to fix a machine, 10 minutes before he was suppose to be getting off from work. It was sudden. I was 31. We have a lovely 11 year old daughter that is really wanting a sister or brother . I am willing to travel where needed. My home phone is 936-294-0122. My email is wsabri933@cs.com. ↑ |
| Name: bridget and Joshua | Date: Dec 7th, 2005 4:20 PM |
| We are a loving, fun, happily married couple looking to adopt a baby. We would love to find out more information about your situation and communicate further. We can be reached through friends in adoption 1-866-204-8299 pin#1524 or 1-800-982-3678. Our profile can be viewed at friendsinadoption.com. We wish you the best, Bridget and Joshua ↑ |
| Name: Janice | Date: Dec 7th, 2005 10:08 PM |
| Please contact me. I would love to talk to you more about adopting your baby. My husband and I have been PRAYING for a baby for 9 years. The drs don't know why we can't have a baby. This would be a gift from GOD!!! Our email is ejgrabowski@msn.com Phone is 970-577-1787 and you can call collect. God Bless You ↑ |
| Name: Steve and Joi | Date: Dec 12th, 2005 9:58 PM |
Dear Crystal,
How are you doing? You haven't posted in a while and we were wondering how you were doing. if you need anything please e-mail us at: Joishealinghands@aol.com.
With lots of love,
Steve and Joi ↑ |
| Name: ..... | Date: Dec 15th, 2005 2:17 AM |
| Name: Friend | Date: Dec 18th, 2005 4:43 PM |
Hi All,
I normally wouldn't do this and blast another supposed hopeful adoptive couple, but in this situation I feel I have no choice since I feel we may all be targeted at some point.
Yesterday I submitted a post to a woman on the Making Families Classified boards who was looking for letters from families interested in adopting. Her name was angel sky in Walnut, MS. I had my original letter, but modified it especially for this situation. Now today I find this letter I sent on this board word for word, with only number of animals and relatives being changed. And this time it is from a woman trying to adopt under another name (notice Janet email also has angel in it). How does someone who is a supposed birthmom turn into a hopeful adoptive parent overnight? Beats me.
Anyway here is part of the note I sent here, I hope all expectant moms and adoptive parents will beware as she appears to be a fraud all the way around!
Dear Janet,
I cannot believe that you had the nerve to post as a potential birth mom needing help and then when I sent you my letter, you turn around and use it on this board to solicit an adoption. Either you are just extremely desperate or just evil. I know you did this since I modified my letter in this manner only to reply to a post I saw yesterday from you under Angel Sky on Making Families Classifieds and never sent it anywhere else!!!! Yes I saw your post on Baby Crowd too as Janet and noticed that everything in your post was taken directly from my response to you, who I thought was a birth mother. You made the appropriate changes for your supposed family, that is wonderful, but you still essentially stole all my original thoughts. Your entire post is a lie and is in someone else's words. I am horribly offended that you decided to use a letter that I spent weeks developing and poured my heart and soul into to serve your own selfish purposes. Prospective Adoptive Parents do not do this to each other and what kind of values does that mean you will teach your children. Who knows you may not even be trying to adopt a baby either and are just screwing with people and that is wrong. You have the nerve to say God Bless in all your posts, but yet you believe it is ok to be immoral! Unbelievable! ↑ |
| Name: Mr & Mrs | Date: Dec 19th, 2005 10:27 PM |
We would love to meet birthmothers that are thinking about giving up thier baby for adoption and we know how hard it is for a birthmother to do that. See I have polycystic ovary syndrome and may never be able to have kids of my own so we would love to give a baby a warm loving home and to call that baby our own and things. If you want to know more feel free to e-mail us at lldrl@yahoo.com and we will try and answer your ?s as best as we can. Hope to hear from you soon..
This goes to crystal lee ↑ |
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