Hi i am 17 yrs old and i live with my dad stepmom and two step sisters...i moved in with them almost 2 yrs ago and i feel like i dont belong..especially when we have parties at my house and we have my step moms family come over that she hasnt seen in a while. they dont know who i am . and treat me like one of my sisters friends. i dont know if i just feel jealousy or if i am just crazy...i love my family i have nithing against my stepmom i love her like i love my mom. although i do not talk to her. i also love her close family and i know that they all like me...butr i just feel that i did wrong moving in with themm...
help me...
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| I am with a really nice guy. It's been 2 years. He has a 11 year old biological daughter and has been caring for his ex-wifes (they were married/together for 6 years) 17 year old daughter. She has a father that was a dead beat in the beginning but has been trying to be apart of her life for a few years now. The ex wife hates her X so she wont allow her 17 year old daughter to see her biological father and brainwashed her to not want to see him. In the meantime my significant other is fathering her, paying for her and he is over his head in debt and can't even take care of himself or me- I'm taking care of him! I feel he has been such a nice guy he is enabling his ex wife to not have to deal with the biological father and therefore causing major problems in our relationship. I am angry that I am giving him money to live and paying for everything and he is handing her money. We have talked about getting married and having a child but because of this mess with this 17 year old child we are at a stand still and near splitting. Another issue I have is that I am 35, never married and no children, good career. It will mean a lot to me if we do take the next step together. I am afraid to though with all these loose ends with the X. The 17 year old wants to legal change her name to my significant others last name too! I am very against that!! Its a mess!!! Any advise? ↑ |
