I am having a hard time with my boyf, daughter disrespecting me!! I have been with him almost 7yrs.
He was seperated when i first met him, and the girls (aged 12 & 10)were living 50% his place and 50% her place. After about 21/2 years into our relationship, the girls decide they want to be with mother full time! He would still see his girls every other weekend, until that stopped to the girls not even wanting to spend weekends with their father. Eventually i moved in after they did not want to see him no more. He went 3yrs without seeing them or even a phone call to him to say thank-you for the birthday or christmas presents he dropped off for them. About a year ago he starts chatting with his youngest daughther on the computer.It has now been a year that the two of them go out for dinner, every second thursday, and she has been working occasionally for him throughout the summer. One day she was working and we were in the house, she walks in my home to use the washroom and cannot say hello to me! As we are sitting at kitchen table. In July we took her and her boyf out for supper, & movies. He pays for everything, and his daughter's boyf can not even say thank-you or goodbye to us! Then take back to school shopping. He picked them up, so they are in backseat, so i say hi to them and get nothing in return!! (my boyf is not in vechile yet) Again drop them off and no thankyou or goodbye by her boyfried. Little does she know that i was the one who kept encourging him to keep dropping their birthday and christmas gifts off!! To not give up on them, that they would come around someday.(did suggest that they come pick their gifts up, but they just would not do that)
Also her dad was away last weekend, but she needed some money to go to the beach, she calls at 9:30pm and i said he is not home can i take a message, she asks that he calls before 10:00 am on Sat. because she is going away! I call and tell him, he asks me if i would mind giving her $40 and he would pay me back. Because he will not be home before 10:00am. I said i did not mind, so she is supposed to show on Sat morning. But no show, and no call to her dad or me!! Now, i feel that there is no respect their for me at all. And since he lost the 3yrs with her, he really does not know how to be a parent to her! All suggestions welcome. ↓
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