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Name: Molly-may
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I know something similar has been posted before but I wanted to tell my story. I married my husband Scott 2 years ago this Christmas and he had 2 children, Liberty and Louis. Louis died in May after a car accident but the problem I have is nothing to do with that. Liberty is now a beautiful curvaceous young lady at 17, and she certainly is aware of this. Over the summer I started noticing looks between my husband and Liberty, which I just dismissed as him realising his only daughter was growing up. I started noticing other things like longer touches on the arm and catching eachothers eye, things that Scot and I do, or we've done before while trying to attract someone. Kind of flirty. I ignored it thinking it was Libs testing the boundaries and seeing what she can do. But last week I came home early from my mothers house and found them in my bed having sex! I could not believe it, I had been so gullible to believe that things were not what they seemed. I came to blows with Scot who said that it was okay because she was above age and therefore legal, but surely this is incest and illegal? The whole situation disgusts me and Scott promised me that it was a one off, but since then I haven't been able to have sex with him, I keep feeling sick and disgusted that he has been inside his daughter! I have fallen completly out of love with him and looking at him fills me with disgust! Liberty is still living here with us sadly and she seems to enjoy winding me up. I don't believe Scott. I've been watching him and he just stares at Libs all the time, I've caught him masturbating to porn magazines, but ones of girls as school girls that apparently are of age. Has my husband started a worrying spiral into adultery with the younger people. I am 24 and have kept my body in quite a nice shape, I am quite big chested which he used to go mad for, but Liberty is only a C ( i know that is perfectly adequate but compared to my GGs she's quite flat!) I am just curious as to whether I should try and work through our problems as a couple and I'll try to reignite some love for him, should I throw Liberty out? Or should I just leave him? Am I right in thinking that this is completely disgusting and sickening? I found out on Monday that I am 6 weeks pregnant and well, part of me thinks that I should stay with him for the kids' sake but what if I can't improve things and we split when the child has been born? Would it be better to finish it now? My mind is just racing. I do not believe for one second that that encounter I walked in on was thier first, there are many chances and times that they could have been at it that would make sense of things, but I don't think they have since. But I don't trust him or feel anything for him anymore. I desperatley want this child as I have polycystic ovaries and have had alot of fertility problems and they believed I was infertile and Scott and I were in the process of saving for IVF treatment. Anyway, please I could really do with an outsiders opinion on this...thanks
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Name: marija | Date: Oct 26th, 2006 9:24 PM
i think you should leave him...NOW. it is disgusting and sickening, Your unborn child is not safe, without putting it in words.
Have your baby and tell the police what has been going on. i dont know if incest is illegal where you live but i would certainly tell the police and get direction on what to do
i would not want him in the life of my child.
good luck on becoming a mother 

Name: T-rabbit | Date: Oct 26th, 2006 10:42 PM
my girl friend went through something similar. only it was her neice. who was 11 she never caught them having sex but that little girl did every thing she could to tear them apart. Angel went through this for three years.
It is jeliousey( sorry i cant spell to save my life)she cant get daddys attention. So she will do what makes him happy.how long ago did it start? I would leave him and tell the members of his family he is a danger to young children it is not normal for a dad to do this. Make him tell you how long it was giong on or ask her. 

Name: Nicola | Date: Oct 27th, 2006 7:30 AM
Hung like a horse, what a twat!
Molly-May, I made a promise to myself after my ex cheated on me, although we weren't sexual, it was just kissing, that if a man ever chesated on me, regardless of how much love I felt for them, I would leave them and start again somewhere else because I believe there is someone trustworthy for everybody who they can love and be loved by. You deserve better, I think that Liberty is testing you, did she usually get along well with you? Because if not, she might be sour over having a new step mother. I'm sorry to hear about Louis aswell, how old was he? You should do whatever is right for you, I won't say leave him, but it sounds like that is what you would like to do, I would advise to leave now before the child is born, than face a tiring search for places to live in a few months into the baby's life. Post back and let us know how you're getting along. Ignore hung like a horse, it's just immature and stupid! 

Name: Lizzi | Date: Oct 27th, 2006 11:52 AM
Scott is one sick puppy and so is his daughter! Are you absolutely positive that she is really his biological daughter?! If you stay with him and have a girl how do you know Scott won't be screwing her when she reaches proper age? This is absolutely sickening and I'm sorry but if you stay you are just as sick as they are because you know what's going on and chose to stay with blinders on,(if you stay). My suggestion to you is if Scott doesn't already know you're pregnant and you want this baby,don't tell him and move as far away as fast as possible and don't ever let him know you had his baby. Even if he already knows you're pregnant,make him believe you (lost) it and move the hell out and away fast! They are sick people and you don't want that for you and your baby do you? 

Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Oct 27th, 2006 12:07 PM
That's sick!

Leave him! You deserve better! 

Name: I_love_pitbulls | Date: Oct 27th, 2006 7:06 PM
you need to drop his ass and call the cops on him...what if you have a girl and he decideds to touch her and god forbide rape her...think about your unborn childs sake and leave him... 


Name: AnnieW | Date: Oct 30th, 2006 10:38 AM
Dump him. 

Name: winnmom | Date: Oct 30th, 2006 12:35 PM
Call the cops!!!!!!!! 

Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Oct 30th, 2006 12:52 PM
I think you are telling stories to get everyone worked up on babycrowd. Next time post in red if you want to be taken serious. 

Name: Dianne | Date: Nov 3rd, 2006 6:21 PM
oh please that is so sick tell the police and child protective services for gods sake or you are as bad as they are think of your child to come and how this will rub off on him or her run fast. 

Name: momof3dolls | Date: Nov 29th, 2006 10:51 PM
I really really hope that you've already left your husband. There is no way in this world that I would ever forgive something like this ,,,,,,there is no question as to what you should do. The authorities should have been called, he should be in jail for molesting his daughter and she needs to be somewhere where she can have a safe place and get some help. As for the baby that you are carrying,,,,,,,would you like for the same thing to happen to him or her?? 

Name: benedict_14 | Date: Dec 1st, 2006 3:34 PM
that is just so wrong..you should just leave him, since his doing to his daughter..think of what he might do to your child then!! my goodness....if you feel your don't trust him anymore or does not love him, then it's time for you to leave him... 

Name: lana_81 | Date: Dec 15th, 2006 7:53 AM
LEAVE HIM!!1 what if you have a daughter and he wants to have sex with her, that is discusting.. Does Liberty know thats incest...That is grose.. Dirty old perve.. Dont tell him your pregnant and just leave!! 

Name: tessy21 | Date: Dec 19th, 2006 8:58 PM
Why are you asking this question! That is rediculous to even consider! Anyone with half a brain would tell you that. That man needs to be put in prision and his daughter needs serious counceling and as for you and your unborn baby, get far away from that man! Why would you consider staying with someone like that! For all you know he may have been this way with his daughter since she was a young child, and probably was, and here you are with your child and he'll do the same to her! Call the police and get away! 

Name: Lizzi | Date: Dec 20th, 2006 10:23 AM
Molly-may has yet to retun looks like! I have a strong feeling we will never be updated on this! 

Name: momoffour | Date: Dec 30th, 2006 9:59 PM
I am sorry but I can't really believ you have to even ask if you should stay. Lets forget about his so-called daughter but what about you? Do you have so little self esteem that you would let anyone treat you that way? And what about the baby you are carrying? You are supposed to protect your child and to stay with a man like that would be putting your childs life in danger.
I can't believe you are comparring chest sizes too....COME ON!
I really am not trying to be mean but I almost can't believ you really need to hear anyone tell you that you should leave. 

Name: Lost | Date: Jan 7th, 2007 11:33 PM
That is sick and wrong. You should not tolerate it in the least. There laws against that type of behavior. I would vomit at his very sight let alone the unsightly daughter. Please look within yourself and find the last scrap of dignity you have to leave them to their own abomination. 

Name: bex27 | Date: Jan 24th, 2007 5:32 AM
Hey there - I really feel for you because I'm sure you do feel like you'r in a really tough situation. But you really do need to do something about this now!! Have you talked to the girls mother? She needs to be in a safe place - wether she is bringing it on herself is not the point - Her father is taking advantage of her in the most sickest way possible - I know you know what you should do so listen to your instincts. But I think sort the daughter first, Get the hell out of there - definately do not stick around for the baby's sake - maybe talk to a doctor about your chances of having other children because if I were you I certainly would not want this man in my life or my childs (he's highly likely to do the same thing to her - and you know it) . My friend had polycystic ovaries and was told she couldn't have kids at all - she's had two since. just for gods sake get out of there, tell the police you never know what can be done. I'm sure I dont have to tell you this butThis is certainly not the way any father , husband or mentally stable man acts. 

Name: missy 26 | Date: Jan 24th, 2007 5:41 AM
leave him.............. 

Name: stepmom19 | Date: Jan 24th, 2007 7:11 PM
Normally I would read that story... shake my head and not say a word... but Im sorry... I have to respond to that. That is absolutely wrong and disgusting on so many levels. I am 22 years old, my husband is 32 and he has a 15 year old daughter... not ONLY would he never consider the thought of even looking at her in a sexual way... if I EVER caught them in the act of anything remotely sexual... I would be out of this house faster than he would ever know. That is not only cheating on you... its taking advantage of his daughter... that is inexcuseable and unforgiveable. If you are pregnant... and truly want your baby, which I fully understand as I have a 3 month old baby girl myself... then you will probably have to come to terms with the fact that you will be a single mother, and I hope you have family and friends around you to help. You cannot put your own child at the risk of also living with such a sick and twisted human being. I am sooo sorry to hear that these things actually happen to people... good luck.... 

Name: winnmom | Date: Jan 25th, 2007 1:06 AM
stepmom19...this post is really old......she has not even come back...... 

Name: bex27 | Date: Jan 25th, 2007 4:45 AM
Still makes you wonder what the outcome was 

Name: stevie | Date: Jan 28th, 2007 4:43 PM
man i thought iwas going thru rough times .your husband for one thing is a pig.you desevre better than that . if you dont trust him how will that ever change. is he going to go to councoling. will he do that for you. because really its you that needs to get back in love w him . he needs to prove his love for you.let him realize he hurt you . because you matter. you are suppose to be his other half.his main squeeze. good luck 

Name: bex27 | Date: Jan 28th, 2007 7:39 PM
stevie

he done it......... y wod you evan consider going back to that............. thats yuck........ she shod leave him..............someone who is sleeping with their own daughter does not have any morals, is well past anything counselling could help. He needs to be locked up....... isn't incest illegal. It is not something forgivable!!! She deserves to feel comfortable in her own home. Shit there are so many woman out there he could be fucking but he's fucking his daughter.... thats unthinkable for even the sickest mind. 

Name: tanya1982 | Date: Feb 2nd, 2007 1:29 PM
I am completely disgusted oh my god you should leave him and never look back Have your baby and raise it well but Id keep the baby as far as possible from that man. not only is what he did illegal and immoral its incest and he should be in jail . I hope if you do decide to stay with him that your child isnt a girl for fear he will just to have sex with her when she gets older your husband is sick and needs help I hope the best for you and will keep you in my prayers 

Name: seatrout | Date: Feb 2nd, 2007 4:23 PM
Stay with a child molestor for your baby's sake? No no no, get out FOR your baby's sake! 

Name: phychic | Date: Feb 3rd, 2007 6:16 AM
you know the answer to this question 

Name: tanya1982 | Date: Feb 9th, 2007 7:39 AM
ok so I came back to this topic to see if molly may responded to it and tell everyone what she decided to do about Scott but everytime time i read this I just about puke 

Name: Layne | Date: Feb 12th, 2007 11:31 PM
OMG get the hell out of there!!!!!! 

Name: tigertracks33 | Date: May 25th, 2007 7:01 PM
Get out NOW, before your baby is born. He is abusing his child, and will surely abuse yours. STOP THE CYCLE!!!!!!!! 

Name: riki | Date: May 26th, 2007 9:31 PM
firstly if ur out of love with him, LEAVE HIM! secondly, HE HAD SEX WITH HIS DAUGHTER LEAVE HIM! oh and u sound jelous of his daughter, i mean he may just have a fetish or somthin u know, just leave him and find someone u love. u should have left him in the first place if u 'fell out of love with him' hes a perv and u prob deserve better 

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