| Name: Rianna | Date: Nov 19th, 2007 2:17 AM |
My mum has a boyfriend to and I HATE HIM
YOU HAVE TO DECIDE OVER YOUR BOYFRIEND
OR
YOUR KIDS ↑ |
| Name: brianna | Date: Nov 22nd, 2007 8:28 PM |
| i would just dump the guy and tell him to move out because when i was younger i had the same problem as them i hated my moms boyfriend and he was so mean , i decisided to move out till she dumped him and it worked! ↑ |
| Name: april | Date: Nov 28th, 2007 5:48 PM |
| Name: taneal | Date: Dec 10th, 2007 6:41 PM |
| i hate my mums boy friend not ↑ |
| Name: Gwen | Date: Dec 10th, 2007 11:16 PM |
| Hello. I am a teenager going through this situation, so I can give you some advice. My mother's boyfriend can be very immature and I really don't like him. This would be OK if my mom talked to me and understood was I was going through. The fact that she doesn't seem to care about this is what is hurting our relationship. I think you should talk to your kids and ask what they don't like, look at it through their eyes, and if it is still jeopardizing your relationship with your own children, end it. Guys come and go, children are the ones taking care of you and supporting you when you get older. If the guy doesn't earn your kid's respect, he isn't worth the trouble. ↑ |
| Name: roshanda | Date: Dec 15th, 2007 1:50 AM |
| my son hates my boyfriend. ↑ |
| Name: roshanda | Date: Dec 15th, 2007 1:51 AM |
| Name: sydney | Date: Dec 19th, 2007 8:31 PM |
| you should let him go for your kids. ↑ |
| Name: hcvhcv | Date: Dec 19th, 2007 8:31 PM |
| Name: Kelsey | Date: Jan 1st, 2008 1:03 AM |
This is not really a situation for that problem, but I despretly need help:
My name is Kelsey. I'm 10 years old. My mom went on EHarmony and found a guy named Blake. I really didn't want her to go back into dating after my parents got divorced when I was 5, but I pretended to be excited for her so she would be happy. But somehow she found out I wasn't. So now it's New Years Eve and Blake has been dating my mom for 2 monthes. I don't think my mom knows how much it hurts me and my sister. The next thing I did scared me a little. I went into my moms room and found a box of condoms (Birth Control). I turned white and my heart rate went way up. I couldn't beleive it.
And I've also had some thoughts of sucide.
All I'm asking for is help and advice. If you have any, my email address is hilaryfan008@hotmail.com . I beg of you. I need help. ↑ |
| Name: sdney | Date: Jan 6th, 2008 8:11 PM |
| well let your kids come first ↑ |
| Name: pat | Date: Jan 13th, 2008 4:25 PM |
I know how you feel. I married after 15years of being single to a retired first sgt. My son gave him a month and has proceeded to remove me from his life and that of my only granddaughter. I
was told by many that you can only make you happy. You can not keep living for your kids. it was hard but I have not spoken to my son in a year and it has been 1 1/2 years since I saw my granddaughter. Does it tear me up yes, but on the other hand I have to let him grow up and realize he is wrong. By the way his father died when he was five and it was just him and me for fifteen years. They need to grow up and realize if this man treats you with respect and love they have no say and they need to go by your rules in your house. ↑ |
| Name: kaylee | Date: Jan 16th, 2008 6:46 AM |
| leave him your kids come first and ouy should no that x x x ↑ |
| Name: Samantha | Date: Jan 29th, 2008 10:54 PM |
| if you care enough about your kids you will sit them down and tell them what you just told everyone here (I don't want to lose another kid, but I love the guy, even though, I have to agree, he is an unreasonable jerk sometimes.). and if you love them even more, you would dump the guy...like they say there are millions of fish in the sea. ↑ |
| Name: nakoma | Date: Feb 1st, 2008 1:38 AM |
ok seeing as how i have a step father i loath completely i think i can help you out. now im not going to just attack your boyfriend but im going to give you a bit of your childs perspective and some tips. im 17 and learning psychology so i hope these help.
ok so your bf is a marine ? thats no help and your son im guessing is not trying to hard to work things out either i assume.
what you need to do is first sit down with your boy friend and discuss his relationship with your son. make sure he knows he is not your sons father and should try to avoid telling your son to do choires around the house or giving him punishments. you should also let your bf and your son go out to a resturant and discuss how to get along. a big problem is often communication.
about the choires and such you should be the one to tell your son to do these things he wil feel more comfortable with being told what to do by you and in time will be used to your bf. also make sure you listen to your son and spend time with him a big problem is children feeling left out of things. your son might feel as if you pay too much attention to your bf and none to him so make him feel noticed. also make sure your son knows your bf is a part of your life and that you want all three of you to get along. so ya i hope atleast some of these things work out for you i'd hate to bring more frustration. this is all based off personal experience and things i have noted would work better if my own step father where a resonable man, and my own mother where to pay more attention to the current situation. ↑ |
| Name: roxiex | Date: Feb 1st, 2008 10:27 AM |
WHO IS MORE IMPORTANT YOUR KIDS OR A 'HOT' GUY'?
DER YUOR KIDS RIGHT!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: someone | Date: Feb 2nd, 2008 11:35 PM |
| u should always agree with ur kids.they are the ones that love u those are the ones u love.just like lizzi said ↑ |
| Name: kaytay | Date: Feb 15th, 2008 4:43 PM |
| i hate my moms boyfriends she changes boyfriends all the time and the ones that are not mean and hit us, i get close to and then shell break up with them. one i called my dad bcuz my real dad is dumb and he lives on the streets somewhere and he hates me and i hate him. the one i called my dad was a real nice guy and my always has mean boyfriends so it was nice to have a nice guy. but my dumb mom broke up with him and now my mom is dating a guy i dated my bf longer then she new this guy and she wants to get married to him after knowing him for 2 monthes but then she says that i can't love my bf bcuz im only 13 well she cant love her bf bcuz the only have known eachother for like 5 monthes. I HATE THEM BOTH. my mom only talks to me when she wants me to do something for her on the internet or something. when i went to tell her something she ingores me. i have been living with my grandpa but now im in the prosses of moving back and i hate it i rather die, but thats not a chose. my mom and her bf are always in there room. i know what there doing and i mean come on 24/7!!! ↑ |
| Name: shan | Date: Feb 21st, 2008 12:17 PM |
| can i have a small chat with you ↑ |
| Name: savanah | Date: Feb 22nd, 2008 11:43 PM |
ok well im only 13 years old and ive been through this with my mom. i never did like any of her boyfriends because they always left me out of things. so my advice is that you get an idea of what your kids like then get together and do them as a big ''family ''!! but im warning you never pick your boyrind over your kids they will hate you seriously!!
[3 savanah ...p.s :give it some thought ↑ |
| Name: savanah | Date: Feb 22nd, 2008 11:48 PM |
hey kelsey, its all good dont worry about it ! your mom is at least being responsible about it but i do know what your getting at. i think that you dont like this guy and that you know your mom knows better. im only 13 years old and iv seen condoms befoer but im still a virgin. so my advice hide the things from her or talk to her and tell her how you feel.
[3savanah...ps:just dont fret too much ok?
write back ↑ |
| Name: savanah | Date: Feb 22nd, 2008 11:52 PM |
ok look i only read the first two sentences of your input ...this is a problem ... if he is hitting you you need to go somewhere else or somthing becaus thts child abuse ... you know what i mean?... cuz he has no right doin that so you need to take a stand and fight back or do something to get away..!!!!
[3savanah...ps:please take my advice! iv been through it befor ↑ |
| Name: roxiex | Date: Feb 22nd, 2008 11:55 PM |
id love to chat with you because i put my input on that story too... i told her that her kids were more imprtant too!!
[3savanah... WORD ↑ |
| Name: savanah | Date: Feb 22nd, 2008 11:57 PM |
thats right samantha girl speak da truf
[3savanah ↑ |
| Name: savanah | Date: Feb 23rd, 2008 12:01 AM |
ok look i just got with this guy on friday 15th. today is our firat full week together. but today he ignored me and went to hang out with three other girls. i mean what do i do? we have been together two other times and the other girls is what broke us up last times HELP!!!
[3SAVANAH ADVICE WOULD BE GREAT!! ↑ |
| Name: ali | Date: Feb 23rd, 2008 2:07 PM |
| keep dating him, but kick him out of your house and show your kids that you care more for them than your boyfriend. ↑ |
| Name: vicoria | Date: Feb 24th, 2008 8:02 PM |
| i am victoria and i am 9 years old and i hate my moms boyfriend and i think you should tell him every thing and dont break up but do what you think is good for you and you children ↑ |
| Name: og217 | Date: Mar 4th, 2008 3:05 PM |
| Why is this a discussion? Since when are 15-year-olds consulted about adult matter? Boo hoo, teen boy doesn't like your boyfriend. So? That's the norm. Quit wringing your hands and present this as an unchangeable fact. This is your boyfriend, you live together, this is not a democracy, there are no votes on the matter. The only 2 people who matter said so. Fickle children are not a reason to break up. Lots of kids that age dont like mom's new boyfriend. Tough luck. If you quit showing your kids that they are in control, it will all come to an end. ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: Mar 10th, 2008 11:24 PM |
| hi my name is Emma and i am 12 ... you probably dont want advice from a 12 year old but i came on google to find answers and i think i am gonna respond to my question... my mom has a boyfriend who me and my sister DESPISE,,,i mean he's nice but something about him just gives us the chills!! i really dont like this guy and my mom thinks i am trying to run her life by hating her boyfriend...the truth is you should probably listen to you're kids because they now whats going on..have you ever heard the saying"if you're kids dont like you're boyfriend there's a good reason" well i understand that now...you shouldent let you're kids run you're life but you should probably listen to them... ↑ |
| Name: Corinna | Date: Mar 17th, 2008 2:53 PM |
| I am in the same situation.. I have been dating a man who's dad was in the marines so he has been raised very strictly and is very hard on my son 8 year. I am unsure what to do.. I love this guy but there are red flags... ↑ |
| Name: abi | Date: Mar 23rd, 2008 3:02 PM |
| you shoud tack them out more ↑ |
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