| Name: abi | Date: Mar 23rd, 2008 3:02 PM |
| you shoud tack them out more ↑ |
| Name: ANGRYKID | Date: Mar 25th, 2008 4:23 AM |
| OH MY GOD HOW CAN YOU EVEN CONSIDER KEEPING THIS IDIOT AROUND YOUR CHILDREN. YOU HAVE ADMITTED THAT HE IS AN 'UNREASONABLE JERK' AND YOU HAVE ALREADY LOST ONE KID BY STAYING WITH THE LOSER AND NOW YOUR CONTEMPLATING LOSING ANOTHER ONE TO HIM. WELL MY MUM DID THIS TO ME AND MY SISTERS FOR A BLOKE THAT HAS 5 KIDS BY 2 DIFFERENT WOMEN RANGING FROM 20 YRS TO 5 MONTHS OLD, NO HOUSE, NO MONEY AND A CRAP JOB, AND NOW WE HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH OUR MUM ALL 3 OF US SO I HOPE YOU ENJOY THE REST OF YOUR LONELY LIFE WITHOUT YOUR CHILDREN ↑ |
| Name: jennifer | Date: Mar 30th, 2008 8:53 PM |
| my kids hate my boyfriend cause they no that he "does" me every time i g out to see him! i love my boyfriend.. and i always want to be with him so he can do me.. but what should i do to help my kids like him?? ↑ |
| Name: Noelle | Date: Apr 7th, 2008 11:45 AM |
1.) Your kids should always be number one. I know what it feels like to feel abandoned by a parent. I know how it feels when a parent chooses their signifigant other over them. It's happened twice now and it is the worst feeling in the world.
2.) If you really love your son you'll talk to him and your boyfriend. Try to work something out. But if there is no way they can live in the house together you're going to have to make a descion. Choose wisely. Boyfriends come and go but your kids will always be in your life. Always. Don't let this expirience ruin their relationship with you. Trust me, they'll have huge issues later in life. ↑ |
| Name: sara | Date: Apr 24th, 2008 3:17 PM |
| Name: Gwen | Date: Apr 25th, 2008 12:53 PM |
| I am in a very similar situation and although I agree with maintaining the relationship with your kids, I ask..where is the line drawn once they become adults? How much of my life is still under a microscope with regard to how they "feel" about my relationshp? I was married to my 3 kid's (NOW ages 23, 22 & 18) father for 20 years. He cheated, hardly worked, hardly parented and ultimatly ran off with some "gal" barely 2 years older than my then 18 year old. It took me 3 years to get myself to where I even felt I was user friendly let alone date. I met a man who 's about 10 yrs my senior. He's a good man, but he too has a military background along with undercover law enforcement and his personality if very rigid & disciplined. Just the opposite of their father, I felt he'd balance me & the kids and we'd balance him. Well, the 1st year was wonderful, he moved us from poverty to a beautiful home, we fly to many places and I began to feel good about me. Then my kids started to feel neglected, although they were always with their friends, never wanted for anything and never demanded to do anything except accept my boyfriend for ME! Things started to deteriorate and ultimately my 19 (almost 20 yr old (girl) got into many arguments and 1 physical confrontation (it was both of their fault), it hurt me terribly, my daughter needed to sort things out as she was angry still with her father and I was the only parent that had struggled to keep them all together. My oldest (son) went off to college and wasn't always around, my youngest (a boy 16) I felt would be better off with his father as he was rude, wild, disruptive and extremely disobedient. That was the worst situation and decision I ever made. So my boyfriend decided to buy a larger place (we were living in a 1 bdrm condo) so that I could regain my son and hopefully help him to get on his feet. My son has been the most unappreciative, inconsiderate, rude disruptive 18 yr old. He too got into a physical conflict and now I'm so torn as to what to do. They ALL(boyfriend & kids) need to look at themselves and stop blaming others for their shortcomings. I love my son and he;s a wonderful kid but he's trouble with a big "T", so much that his own father has issues being around him on a daily basis. My boyfriend has gotten him out of more jams than I care to mention, but because of his rigid personality he comes across harsh and unyielding. So what do you do????? I LOVE my kids and have done for them over the years, but I am well over 50 and I fell that they need to understand and respect MY life and not try an make it a living hell. I'm not "picking" my boyfriend neither am I picking my kids....I love them both in very different ways and who deserves pleasing? My adult kids or my adult boyfriend or better still ME????? ↑ |
| Name: chyenne | Date: Apr 28th, 2008 9:24 PM |
| i hate my mom boyfrind too ↑ |
| Name: jaser | Date: May 5th, 2008 8:05 PM |
| i hate my moms boy friend he tried ti have sex with me ↑ |
| Name: jaser | Date: May 5th, 2008 8:06 PM |
| Name: Leslie | Date: May 6th, 2008 5:58 PM |
| I agree that you all need to sit down and compromise on what ever the issues are.You need to make sure that the role model he is being is what you want for your kids and talk to him about positive reinforcements you can't always just pass out what their doing wrong you have to give praise when they have done something right. Always encourage and ALWAYS let your children know that no matter who your with you LOVE THEM. ↑ |
| Name: Tori | Date: May 13th, 2008 5:20 AM |
| I h8 me bf he has been flirting wid me best m8 and he hugs me about 2 times a week sand most of me m8s are dudes and they hug me more times then he does in a day it isi fknk anouying so i dumpd him and he said yeah i was talkn to me best m8 and he was only talkn to her nd not me it was w=rilli fkn anyouign i dnt no wat i did so i dumped him after 1 moutn he is a player he is a fkn idiot ↑ |
| Name: Sara | Date: May 16th, 2008 11:42 AM |
Gwen, Mom's like you make me sick.
I am 17 and my mom is just like you. She wouldnt even come to my senior prom and take pictures of me because she wanted to have dinner with her boyfriend. Never put some a guy before your kids, even if he is the "sweetest guy ever". ↑ |
| Name: lauren | Date: May 23rd, 2008 11:35 PM |
| Name: sandy | Date: May 30th, 2008 6:37 PM |
| I am having the same problem. The twins are 11 and they love my boyfriend to death but my 15 year old hates him and its making my life miserable. I love them both so much and now all im doing is getting depressed.. Whats so wrong with a mom being happy too? ↑ |
| Name: Ashley | Date: Jun 12th, 2008 6:47 PM |
| DUMP HIMMM!!!!!! WHY ARE YOU GIVING UP YOUR KIDS FOR YOUR BOYFRIEND??? YOUR KIDS HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR YOU, HAS THIS GUY??? NO!!! YOU'RE STUPID FOR LETTING YOUR KIDS GO. ↑ |
| Name: Sxyme | Date: Jun 24th, 2008 2:25 AM |
| everyone hates my boyfriend because he got long hair why are people so mean to me becasue he has long why why why? PLZ help me to tell then to stop being mean to us plz plz ↑ |
| Name: Kelsey | Date: Jun 29th, 2008 6:35 AM |
| Look after your kids because if they dont trust you now the never will! Dump the friging Jurk if i done that to my kids they would hate me forever i love my kids and i hope you do to. Pick your god dam kids over that friging loser jurk off!!! ↑ |
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| Name: lisasing | Date: Jul 2nd, 2008 12:58 PM |
| www.singleparentloving.com A single parent personals, dating and marriage site that assists single mothers and single dads to find marriage and long-term relationships. Free join to meet single parents in your area ! ↑ |
| Name: kristal | Date: Jul 17th, 2008 3:40 PM |
| Name: lexie | Date: Jul 20th, 2008 12:37 AM |
| my boyfriend has hereing Ads he is kind of ugly but I dont know how to tell him can you find other hot boy friends for me if you can. send picturs of them but tell me when you have found them i need to know or i will be stuck with him for the rest of my Life p.s i dont mind to be stuck with him but i realy want to go on with my life but i still want to say one more thing his name is wade stephens he is nice so i think you will like him thank you'' ↑ |
| Name: india mary louise farquharson | Date: Jul 30th, 2008 6:25 AM |
| Name: alex | Date: Aug 1st, 2008 2:31 PM |
| ilove you so can we sill be frends ↑ |
| Name: brittany | Date: Aug 2nd, 2008 1:18 AM |
| my boyfriend huet me bad so i hate him he haves a new girlfriend that makes me mad at her and him so much they can go to.................. ↑ |
| Name: crumpet man | Date: Aug 3rd, 2008 10:16 PM |
| u should lick a gum tre and eat a pie and the kill a scottsman ↑ |
| Name: taylor | Date: Aug 24th, 2008 2:11 PM |
| i hate my moms boyfriend ↑ |
| Name: kittyona | Date: Aug 25th, 2008 8:59 PM |
| hi love kids but my boyfirend does not like them what do i do i wont to have a family but i also love him to ↑ |
| Name: Adelaide | Date: Aug 29th, 2008 2:18 AM |
To keep you and your kids happy DUMP THE GUY
~Adelaide~ 9 years old ↑ |
| Name: abbie | Date: Sep 13th, 2008 7:33 AM |
| your kidsdont want u to get hurt so i would just dich him ↑ |
| Name: katelyn_rayman08 | Date: Sep 15th, 2008 8:45 PM |
| Name: Maddy | Date: Sep 29th, 2008 7:22 AM |
| I hate my mums boyfriend too. It's a terrible feeliing I don't thiink u shouuld put your kids through it. ↑ |
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