| Name: Maddy | Date: Sep 29th, 2008 7:22 AM |
| I hate my mums boyfriend too. It's a terrible feeliing I don't thiink u shouuld put your kids through it. ↑ |
| Name: ac | Date: Oct 24th, 2008 2:19 AM |
| im in the same sort of situation, my moms been dating this guy for about 8 months and 6 months into the relationship he cheated! Obviously i HATE the guy and never want to see or speak to him ever again, but she wants to give him another chance because she says "hes changed" (which is a load of crap, "once a cheater, always a cheater). They want to buy a house but i told my mom if that happens ill move out. Im really confused on what to do, i love my mom and dont want to see her ger hurt again cause i know he'll cheat again. What should I do and what should she do as a mother? ↑ |
| Name: Xull | Date: Nov 15th, 2008 12:57 AM |
My father was in this position with myself and my brother over our stepmother.
When he wasn't around, she was just completely awful to my brother and I, would constantly insult and swear at us and such, very mean woman.
We couldn't handle it, so my brother and I moved out together the day I turned 18, and my father was not wanting to understand the reasoning why, or to admit my stepmother was a problem. He allowed her to harass and insult us for 10 years while pretending everything was okay and not doing anything about it.
Three years went by, where my brother and I didn't talk to him at all. He was supposed to be our father, and protect us from people who do harmful things, and he didn't.
Immediately he asked us to move back home, and when my stepmother found out she left him, and told him it was our fault.
Some people are incapable of raising kids that are not theirs, they think they can put up with the spouse's children and live happily ever after while pretending a previous relationship never existed. It makes them insecure.
This boyfriend can (and probably will) leave you at any time, your kids are a part of you and obviously as a parent some things you do are for their sake and he is incapable of respecting that though he expects you to take in his kids like your own. He has no respect for you.
If you do not hold your children in higher regard, and you will be alone. ↑ |
| Name: Theresa | Date: Nov 17th, 2008 5:53 PM |
| I am so in the same boat! I have been with a man for almost 14 years he has raised my children. My kids hate and I mean hate him. The stress in the house is horriable and my kids are threatening to run away. I dont know what to do! I know what I should be doing but I am scared of so many things. I dont want to lose my kids but idk. Please you only have three years in and no man is worth what I am going through not to mention what my kids are going through. Its horriable and I am a bad mom for allowing this. My thing is that I took a vow for better or worse and I take my promises to God seriously. Just dont be like me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: mt | Date: Nov 21st, 2008 6:13 PM |
for one thing, mentioning how bad your kids father is is not the best of ideas, its hurts.
also if your kids hate your new boyfriend this much, and you've lost a kid to it and possibly another one, surely its time to reconsider?
i know its hard but if anything was to happen to your kids im sure youll never forgive yourself. ↑ |
| Name: Roze | Date: Nov 21st, 2008 10:50 PM |
| I say stick with ur kid cause my mom is my best friend and i think i would kill myself if she picked a guy over her own blood. ↑ |
| Name: ulia | Date: Dec 25th, 2008 7:20 AM |
| do you want to be my boyfriend ↑ |
| Name: Lisa hall | Date: Jan 23rd, 2009 5:37 PM |
| Hi My Name is Lisa and am 20 years old and am so happy to see and and By the way What is your Name ↑ |
| Name: LIttle LaTrail | Date: Jan 26th, 2009 1:54 PM |
| coming from a family where my mother never really listend to me or listend to what i thought I have to tell you maybe there is more to this ex-marine badass of your yes you might love him but no matter what your kids come first... ↑ |
| Name: nikki | Date: Jan 26th, 2009 5:27 PM |
| U know sometimes when u have a great time with your mom then it just does't work out.Well I'm 9 yrs old I think I'm a baby because,I still sleep with my mom. My mom is always stressed out we have no $money$. The worst thing is I go to Bedford a crapy school I LIVE WITH MY AUNT. My mom will not let me see my friend.My mom goes to school full time its like she hardly has time for me IT SUCKS!!!! And I just got red of my dog Charlie Brown I HATE LIVEING WITH MY AUNT!!!I had a friend her name was Shelbi she was 16 yrs old but my AUNT said she it old for me I HATE HATE HATE MY AUNT SO,SO,SO MUCH. LUv Uguys out there who hate there livs to!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: Jessica | Date: Feb 9th, 2009 8:07 PM |
| I'm 17 years old and my mom's boyfriend is now living with us. he upsets me so much that a month after he moved in (i was 15 at the time) my grades went down to D's and F's. 15 is an important time for teenagers to get their minds straight about college and grades, not to be stressed out about their mom's boyfriend. their is so much stress that comes from other parts of growing up. But if you are not willing to leave him, I would let him move in with his dad. ↑ |
| Name: BABE09 | Date: Feb 16th, 2009 1:03 PM |
| It Would Be Your Chose To Tell Him That Npt The Kids. ↑ |
| Name: jjjjk | Date: Mar 5th, 2009 7:40 PM |
| i like boys and my mom is getting on my nervs all of my friend r going somewere but my mom is the only parent that wont let me ↑ |
| Name: mike | Date: Mar 9th, 2009 2:05 AM |
| Name: lee | Date: Mar 26th, 2009 3:22 PM |
| i need advice, my mother hates my boyfriend. i am 30 years old, and no guy is ever good enough. she has now convinced my seven year old that he is this horrible person. now my seven year old keeps asking me to dump him. please help, i'm torn in between this nightmare. i have dated him for three years now. ↑ |
| Name: sarah | Date: Apr 7th, 2009 5:00 AM |
| Name: shumira112221 | Date: Apr 12th, 2009 12:51 PM |
| well i don't kno about this site well fuck di s site jp ↑ |
| Name: nykemah | Date: Apr 18th, 2009 9:36 PM |
| Right now my mom has a boyfriend i cant stand that gets in everybody bussiness,talks to much, and muches off of her and shes to blind to see i just hope he dosnt hit her for hes a west indian anyway i come from a really well off fmily and i fell hes using her i meen he moved in and dosnt pay rent but at leats his kids can be okay ... chose your soon before its to late i meen i fell like and outsider and so does your son probaly just hope he hasnt star cutting our leavs U SHOULD CHOOSE YOUR FLESH AND BLOOD OVER SOME GUY ↑ |
| Name: katey | Date: Apr 30th, 2009 12:41 AM |
| Name: Sophie | Date: May 10th, 2009 6:40 AM |
| You should do who you think should come first. x ↑ |
| Name: jonathan | Date: May 16th, 2009 11:47 PM |
| Kick him out dont do that to your kids mom has this stupid boyfriend and she'll leave me for him ↑ |
| Name: kelly | Date: Jun 18th, 2009 1:05 PM |
| Name: Azzi | Date: Jul 16th, 2009 6:46 PM |
| There may be something wrong with your boyfriend that happens between only your son and him. You never know ↑ |
| Name: Heaven Crockett | Date: Jul 26th, 2009 4:47 PM |
| I think you should dump him and he can have the kids.Nobody should get you that mad.You will have a better life without him.Tell your kids to get their asses back to your house.It dont matter what they want.Only what you want.Kick his ass out.Go girl. ↑ |
| Name: Asi_qirL... | Date: Aug 3rd, 2009 5:43 PM |
| Name: Asi qirL... | Date: Aug 3rd, 2009 5:45 PM |
| ever something You don 't know... ↑ |
| Name: Akmed | Date: Aug 9th, 2009 5:18 PM |
You should treat them once and a while,just mommy and me time,you know?
Let the boyfriend also treat them,make them feel like he's number 2 and their your number one prioritie ↑ |
| Name: mymomdontspendtimewithme | Date: Aug 20th, 2009 11:29 AM |
| hi my name is shayla and i dont like when my mom goes over her boyfriends i need some advice ↑ |
| Name: momof2 | Date: Sep 18th, 2009 4:35 PM |
| What do you mean by unreasonable jerk. I to married someone who does not like my children. I can tell you that you can never make him love your children. If he can't stand them now he never will and eventually your children will stop visiting you because it is uncomfortable for them to come to your house. Pick your children and leave the unreasonable jerk. ↑ |
| Name: Kc | Date: Oct 4th, 2009 11:26 AM |
| Name: zoe | Date: Nov 14th, 2009 4:01 PM |
| i do your hate your boyfriend and he is mine thank ↑ |
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