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Name: reyjo
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I am getting married at the end of the year and I am having a difficult time dealing with the nastiness of my fiance's ex. My fiance has a 5 year old son with his ex. We currently live together but she does not know that. My fiance is afraid that she will prevent him from seeing his son if she finds out. She is angry because I slept with him while they were married. I did not know that they were married. He did not tell me about his relationship with her until a year after we began seeing each other. He had already begun divorce proceedings. Does she have reason to be angry? Of course! I, however, love my fiance and I want to get married to him. He had a very difficult time with her before I came into the picture. But she maintains that I am the reason for their divorce. I resent the fact that I am carrying the blame for something that I had no knowledge of. I think that my fiance should explain to her that I had nothing to do with their problems and that it was his fault! I don't think that I can deal with this situation in the long term. HELP!!!
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Name: jess_dudley | Date: Aug 3rd, 2007 7:21 AM
just be carefull once a cheater always a cheater 

Name: LoveCristin | Date: Aug 3rd, 2007 2:05 PM
Okay well you are absolutely correct. THEIR PROBLEMS ARE THEIR PROBLEMS!!! He needs to handle the situation and except the outcome however it may be but this should not burden you because this is a situation he created. Tell him to talk to her....possible with a professional mediator so that everything gets said how it needs to be said without room for error. And once a cheater always a cheater is a complete load of bullshit. You teach people how to treat you and some people cheat on one person and then are faithful to the next....its not saying there was something wrong with them but as long as you know he is capable of it within his own heart and let it be known that you won't take it for one second then your fine. Good Luck and God Bless I hope it all works out for you. I know its hard but you will get through this. 

Name: Reyjo | Date: Aug 5th, 2007 2:46 PM
LoveCristin, I really appreciate your advice. Thanks 

Name: Natasha1 | Date: Aug 10th, 2007 9:18 AM
This woman needs to grow up and get over ur bloke honestly ur fiance is a bloke hun they wil do anything to pull there selves out the shit! Stand ur ground and dont take shit 

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