 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I'm looking for an online lesbian mothers support forum/group and/or a local support group. I searched everywhere. Does anyone have a similar interest or information?
?
|
|
|
|
|
|
Hi Ryan i'm a lesbian mommy and i couldn't find a support group anywhere either. So i guess we could start one here right?
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
You can start one here but do you really want to deal with all the rude women getting in your business because you know it will happen with some of the nasty girls on here. My mother in lesbian and I can ask her cause I know she has plenty so I will get back to you girls.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
Thanks!! It's great to see there really is support ...you just gotta search for it! Well, maybe we can chat somewheres else -or you can just email me whenever. So, wheres everyone from ? I'm in NY, but moving back to CT to be closer to family.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
ryansagirl19@aol.com
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
im not lesbian but its super your not ashamed how old is your kid, just please like most parents try to force their child to be strait don't force your child to be gay , bio or lesbian, the kid will learn on its own what he/she won'ts to be, but i support you
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
Just some advice: You cannot force someone to be gay!!! It is natural, if youre gay, your gay! If youre straight, youre straight!!! ...and so on... My Grandmother had 6 children, one is gay. Parents that raise their children with love, dicipline, loyalty, respect come in all different forms: Straight, Single, Lesbian, Gay, etc. Be proud!!
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
hello ryan im bio and have a bestfriend that is lesbian.
I will ask her i know she is on a group and i will get back 2 you = |
|
|
|
|
|
yes, I am interested in a lesbian mother support group or activity group. I am also a single mother who happens to be a lesbian. I located in Northern Bergen Count, New Jersey.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
I would love to be part oh this group. I am a divorced lesbian raising two young boys. I have been out for about 2 years. I feel like an outsider with my gay friends because I have children. I also feel like an outsider with my straight friends because I am gay. This site sounds like the perfect solution.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
just looked for that myself and can't find a duckin thing.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
Hey Ryan. I'm a lesbian in her mid-thirties who's been out for 4 years, and am planning motherhood next year w/ my partner. I'm looking for some people to chat w/ about the experience.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
sarah M I find it odd that these women would get nasty comments since this crown is "alternative family" I know that some people may think tha tit is for blended families, and there are threads about that, but the meaning of alternative is "different: right and a lesban family would fit into that. I say go with it ladies. this fourm is about support and you can report anyone who gives nasty comments.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
hello! i have also been searching high and low for lgbt family support.. so far i havnt found much, but im very glad to see you all starting one up here! id love to be a part of it.
i guess i should introduce myself :) im connie, my partner erin and i have 5 children (yes 5!) we each have 2 from previous relationships as well as a baby together :) . we have been together for almost 5 years. curently we live in arkansas and homeschool our kids : i look forward to chatting with you all = |
|
|
|
|
|
Check out www.technodyke.com, they have a mama dyke forum
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
Hi all... I'm not a lesbsbian but I just wanted to say that I support ya'll being gay and all (hey!!! Whatever turns you on) I've been with a girl before but only in 3some style! With my boyfriend! We actually all got drunk one night and ripped my bf clothes off!! He wasn't objecting! I don't think I'm gay or even bi-sexual But I actually fantasize about being with another girl alot....Any thoughts??
OH and CONNIE~ I just wanted to say that don't you think it would be wiser to get your kids into a public school?? = |
|
|
|
|
|
Natalie, we decided to homeschool our kids because we dont feel that public school is whats best for them. our children are way ahead of their public school peers and are excelling in every subject. we love the flexibility that homeschooling gives us. we can vacation when we want, not just on school breaks, and we can live our lives at a more relaxed pase...we dont have to try to squeeze everything in on the weekends just to be exusted agian for monday. it works for us, its not for everyone but we love it.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
Hi
I was hoping to get some advice, Im 28 and the mother of 2 daughters my oldest is turning 8 in aprill and my youngest is turning 3 in december. I split up from their father when i was 4 mths pregnant with my youngest, He is still around and see the girls about once a week. Ive recently met and fallen in love with my girlfriend Kate we have been together for 5 mths and at the moment she lives 3hrs away. This is my first female relationship. Kate comes to stay at the weekend and both my girls love and adore her. As far as my eldest ( sasha ) is concerned Kate is my best friend a term she used to describe kate not something i refered to kate as. Both girls see that Kate sleeps in my room with me but as i only have 2 bedrooms this doesnt seem to present a problem for them, when sasha has friends round they usually share so therefore she doesnt see it as any different. My concern is when and how do i tell my daughter about my true relationship with kate she has seen us hug but not anything else. This is causing me a deal of anxioty i want whats best for my daughters and i want to handle this the right way and be there for them be surportive but really have no idea how to go about this. I realise this could cause problems for my daughters and am very worried about that any help on how to minimise this or how to approach it would be a great help should i leave it till sasha is older? should i leave it till she asks me about kate? should i talk to her in general about gays and what that means as at present has no concept that sometime mem love men and women love women. As you can probably tell i am in a muddle as to what to do for the best, so any advice would be greatly recieved! = |
|
|
|
|
|
single lesbian lookin 4 other lesbian moms etc.. to be friends with
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
Hi I'm a lesbian mom living in NJ also. Have any groups for us been started dovegal ?
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
hey my girl i want to lick your scharmlips
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
I would like to find out the rights of a mum with a partner and what rights the partner has when childrens servicesare involved
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
hi
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
This message is for Melissa. You seem to be in the same life situation as I am. I have never been with another woman physically. But I think about it often. I haven't been able to tell my husband because it would end our marriage. There are no openly gay or bi people in my family. I would just like someone to talk to openly.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
My partner and I have 2 children currently (from my previous relationship) and we are getting ready to adopt a baby in March. I am already Mommy to the other 2 kids who call my partner by name. We want a name for my partner that our baby can call her. Any suggestions? We would like for the work to mean Mother, but it doesnt have to.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
sex
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
If you have somewhere to chat. I would love to join, I'm a married mother of one who has previously been in a lesbian relationship. It would just be nice to chat with people who arn't repelled by a social stigma.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
am a lesban
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
I read through these ideas and this is not about sex so much.
Look there are gay parents all over and it takes a man and a woman to have a baby even in a lab. I am a real lesbian mom and I had a straight relationship to have my child for that reason-I tried Bi, long ago. I want to find support for my lifestyle entire being gay and a mom. I am not raising my child gay I am raising him like a mom and a single mom at that, try putting yourself in my shoes. Dad pays some bills and spends time with our child too and since my child is male I have male energy in my life no choice-OUCH. I have crisis need support but I can also give support and advice too. I suggest a gay parent should live in a somewhat gay friendly place if you can or remote. Gay parents do not go out like gay non parents so we now need a new forum. Gayness only became legal in 1975 my birth year. Lets give a voice now like Shane is caring for her little brother on the L word series and it has made her happy and grounded, I relate. We are blessed to be les moms because gay dads have a much harder time. I would not have minded being raised by a gay parent. My son loves and accepts me as does his friends. I am an attractive fem that can get men easy so that makes it a little weird for me they expect me to be straight. I am gay flamboyant and independent educated plus. I hope we can change the patterns of gays and bars only seeming ghetto. I like what Rosie O. said " Her daughter asks her why do I have 2 mommies and neither of you own high heels? Rosie replies maybe if you had 2 daddies you would!" TeHe We are family all my LBGT! = |
|
|
|
|
|
frdfctgfvty ghbiuhuih hiuhjijoij
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
dionne-
just to let you know i am struggling with the same situation except my daugther is nine and I don't know how to tell her in the right way. I have discussed gay and lesbian with her when different topics have come up so she is getting more familiar with the terms and actually media has helped with different movie stars believe it or not she loves the Ellen show and we have disscussed her lesbian relationship a bit. So if you get any easy ways to let your children know please share Thanks = |
|
|
|
|
|
I LOOKING FOR ANICE GAERL FOR DAETING
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
0599557945 (I M LOOKING FOR ANICE GAERL FOR MAREG
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
I WONT TO MEET YOU IF YOU WONT CALL ME 0599557945 I WONT YOU
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
FROM ESRAEL I M LOOKING FOOR DATING WETH AGAERL FOR MAREG AND MAKE FAMELY
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
0599557945 MY
MOBIL FOR DAETING = |
|
|
|
|
|
i am a single,new found gay mom & i really need some one to talk to about how to let your children(4 girls) know that u are in a relationship such as this one. i am very happy,& very much in love.please if u have been down this road please respond
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
hiiiiiiii
i want friend with some girl = |
|
|
|
|
|
Hello everyone I came looking for support for lesbian mothers.I am new to being a lesbian and I am also a mother. I was looking for some answers and some friends as well. Its hard to explain to my straight friends.Well I hope to get to know some of you ladies.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
i have been trying for a baby with my partner for the last 2 months, we have been doing self insemination. We havent told our families yet and dont know how to tell the either, will they see our baby as mine even though i am not the one who is pregnant.?? i need some advise has anyone been in a sililar situation. i live in the uk and could not fine any groups about gay parenting or have met any gay parents either.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
i'm looking for gay support group for my wife in the tidewater area of Virginia. My wife having a difficlult time dealing with our daughter gay life and its breaking our family apart.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
Yes I have an interest as well! I've been searching on the internet but nothing I have found is active, all the posts are old :(
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
I was wondering if it was normal for your partner to kind of freak out when you are pregnant. I mean we dont have the most stable relationship mostly because of me but now that we are having a baby it seems to me that I am not doing anything right. She will not share her feelings with me, she hates my mother and she thinks I always put her in the back seat. WHat should I do?
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
Where are you from??
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
i am a 43yr old lesbian mother of two beautiful hetro sexual girl and boy. they are the reason i live. my son is 15yrs old & my daughter is 24. my son with hormones raging is dating a, shall we say easy 14yr old . My fear is her control she seems to have over him and her want to have sex & get married by 16!!!!
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
sam your daughter is not any different. she needs the support of you both. help her be a strong proud woman. pls give her the love im sure you both have for her.she didnt have a choice as to weather or not she wanted to be gay. the world needs strong loving people. there is too much judement and not enough love for our lgbt family.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
hb i feel you girl ! I to am looking for someone that can relate .i have a 24yr girl & 15yr boy (both hetro) remember your their mom they do love you. communication is key. the understanding will follow. the road is bumpy hang in there!!!
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
Dionne,
I am very familiar with your feelings, as I have two boys that know my partner as my best friend as well, and they love her very much. I am dealing with their father being very opinionated about this not being "right" but I have not "told" my boys anything specific, and plan on talking to them when they begin to question. Right now at ages 7 and 5 they are very happy and see nothing "wrong" with our life together, and they have never witnessed any form of affection besides a hug, they know they are loved fully by both of us. Don't be anxious, your kids will sense it, and then they may think if mommy is nervous about this, then maybe it is bad?? Be happy, and trust in your family bond. = |
|
|
|
|
|
Question me and my girlfriend are planing to have a baby she is the one who is gonna get preg... can i put my last name on the baby birth certificate.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
Hi Ryan, I've just started up a lesbian voice chat server and I am also a lesbian mom who had a local lesbian support group prior to having my child so I know how great it is to have community support. You can create your own chat rooms on my server and it's voice or text. http://www.lesbianvbox.com Email me from the website if you're interested.
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
i dont think that one exists!..i wish it did i could do with one myself...
=
|
|
|
|
|
|
Absolutely. I am interested in local support for pregnant lesbian couples in Connecticut and can't find anything. I not only want lesbian friends, but it is also important for us to have lesbian families for our children to kmow. How far are along are you and where do you live?
=
|
|
Contact Us | About Us | Browse Journals | Forums | Add Your Link | Our Links