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I need some advice. My girlfiend is pregnant and tells me that I am the father. In order to prove this she squeezed some milk out of her brest. The issue for me is that I first had sex with her eight weeks earlier from that date and I have been reading that a women can not lactate until the second trimester. Ladies help me out here.............. can a women lactate within eight weeks of pregnancy? I am desperate for an answer!
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You don't usually lactate until the very end of pregnancy sometimes not even until after you deliever. I don't know what to tell you but I have never heard of that unless she was breast feeding a previous child and never dried up????
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I am nine months pregnant and don't even have milk yet, the dr says that the baby brings the milk in after a couple of days of suckling.
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It is my understanding that you start to produce colostrum about 5 months into your pregnancy and the milk actually doesn't come in until about 1 1/2 to 2 days after delivery. That's how it was with my first one atleast.
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i am five months along, and every now and again when i wake up I will have "leaked" out colostrum....only out of my right nipple...i can't sqeezed any excess out, it's just a freak thing that happens....but keep in mind every woman has a differant body. ask her to go to the Doc. for a pregnancy test, and ask when the beginning of her last menstral cycle was and how long it usual last...you can plug it into a ovulation, or due date caculator on line.
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ASK FOR A PREGNANCY TEST AND GO WITH HER TO CONFIRM THE AGE OF THE FETUS VIA SONOGRAMS, LAST MENSTRAL PERIOD ETC. AND IF ALL ELSE FAILS REQUEST A DNA TEST AFTER THE BIRTH. I AM 7 MONTHS AND ONLY HAVE A SMALL AMOUNT OF LEAKING
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Well.. even I´m not an expert... This is my 2nd child, I´m 9 weeks pregnant and I have no milk yet... actually with the first and I found a LITTLE bit of something like milk during my 14 week... Good Luck....!
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I had clear fluid coming out in my first few weeks but its now a whitish colour its more like sticky fluid so maybe you should wait for the scan which will tell you how far along she is if she doesn't want you to go then you should worry
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I have a white liquid coming out of my nipples. I'm not sure why it's doing this, I'm not pregnant b/c I'm on my period and have never had sex. what is this a sign of? please help, i'm really scared.
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I'm 27 weeks now but when I was in my third month I lactated and still do. I can't put pressure on my breasts or it will come out without warning. Everyone is different so it all depends on your body and what it wants to do. I'm going to breast feed and I'm hoping our baby girl will take to it.
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Yes, I lactated from 4 weeks, especially with her first, if it is.
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My Friend had a bit of milf come through at 11 weeks. However very little. I wouldn't say that she was lactating.
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im not sure if im pregnant but lately ive notices white stuff often dry comming from my nipples. im a bit scarred because i dont know if its normal.
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I didn't produce milk until the 4th day after I delivered
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As a matter of fact it is possible. A friend of mine lactated when she was about 10 weeks.
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Well I am a virgin, and even I have a clear liquid coming out of my nipples... IS THIS NORMAL??? Somebody please let me know!!!!!!
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i actually begin to leak at 3 months, a lot. it was a common thing that i was leaking so much, the doctors said it was normal. it could be possible
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i dont think at 8 weeks pregnant that would happen but i guess after reading other people say it could so best think to do is go to ultrasound with her and find out how far along she is!
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sorry to tell ya hun but no she lactate within eight wks
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im am 8 and half months pregnant and at about 4-5 months my breast started to leak...
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Frank,
Normally she wouldn't be lactating, but if she has any pituatary issues or small tumors that can signal the body to lactate earlier and even without a pregnancy.
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I think she is more pregnant than she says she is and wants to pin this baby on you because with my first pregnancy I didn't have the colostrum (yellow liquid)come out until after his birth and this is my 2nd pregnancy and I am 19 wks pregnant and just started leaking the colostrum at 17 weeks.
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im 14 weeks pregnant... i went 2 the doctors 3 days ago and they listened 2 the heart beat, and said everything was fine and my baby has a strong heart... but i dont feel pregnant... is that noraml???
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ok i have been haven symptoms of pregancy i have been peeing often certian foods make me nausous i hav been constipated and mostly everything i eat i can't taste it my blood pressure was even a lil high and i have never had high blood pressure before me peroid have been on for like 10 days it's verrrrry light i took a pregancy test too lines came up but one of them was smeared so i need some advice some one please help the doctor keep giving me long appoinments
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mom 2 be that is perfectly normal i felt the same way until i went for my 20week scan am now 38weeks and i feel and look totally pregnant.
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Now Renee,
I would not say no way.
Not by my experience.
Yes Frank, a woman can lactate in the first trimester. It is not necessarily common, but it is possible.
However the question of Frank's girlfriend isn't so much as is she pregnant or not, for in time that will prove to be true or untrue (and looking at the date of his post, I say it's probably evident by this time). The question is, is he the father.
Bottom line Frank, if you have reason to doubt, then request a DNA test.
But chances are real good, based on the date of his posting, Frank isn't coming back to this forum, lol.
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Manda and Others
Concerned about non pregnancy lactation
(if you really do have this problem and are not just silly grasshoppers entertaining yourselves at our expense)
Looking for medical advice about such matters on the internet is very foolish.
Call your doctor!
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I have a 15 month old child and I have been seen whitish creamy stuff comeing from my breats is it possible to lactate and not be pregnant?
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hi frank!!! I first had colostrum at 22 weeks and the doctor told me that it was really early!!! and not very common even at that stage i think she may be further on that she is letting on!!! hope you get it sorted mate all the best!!!!!
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Dont listen to these females on here telling you that the baby isnt yours because she shouldnt be having liquid coming out her nipples. In fact that's how my sister found out she was pregnant , she had a white/ yellowish liquid coming from her nipples at like 3-4 wks and took a pregnancy test that said no , but when she went to the doctor she showed them and they did another test that said yes. So congrats on the baby , and goodluck.
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Hey everyone. I have been trying to breastfeed for the longest time and it has been so frustrating. To top it all off, my nipples are really sore and I am so tired! However, I found lots of great health advice from a fabulous website - check it out: www.womens-health.co.uk
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Ok, I have a question and this is a different topic. I had a tubal ligation just about 2 years ago and about a week ago I squeezed my nipples ( don't ask why, cuz I don't know why ) and white clear stuff came from both. Ne-way I was thinking today that I had my period like normal on the 1'st or second of December and I had one for like 2 days very late at the end of December on the 29th. This isn't normal for me. Today is February 6th and I haven't had my period since then. Is this normal.... I mean I should take a pregnancy test just in case, but am scare. Going thru a divorce and have been with someone for two months, but of course with my luck I probly would be that 1 %. Does anyone have any insight?
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Aniesha - Take a pregnancy test. If it is positive, there is a strong chance of it being an etopic pregnancy (tubal). Most pregnancies after having tubes tied end up being etopic. If you get a positive, make an appointment with your OB right away. If you experience extreme pain, seek medical attention right away. I don't say this to scare you, only for you to be aware. There could be a possibilty that you are just having abnormal periods because you are under a lot of stress. Divorce = TONS of STRESS! Good luck, and let us know how you are doing!
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Hey, not sure if this will help or not, but I have had 2 children before being pregnant with this one. I had my last child 7 yrs ago and have since had breast implants, but as soon as I got pregnant this time, I started leaking clear, yellowish and white fluid, which I believe is lactating, so honestly, I believe it just has to do with the individual. Good luck. I hope you find your answers, but if she says it's yours,atleast give her the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise.
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I never lactated ..or maybe I never noticed this with my other 2 pregnancies but I am now just 27 weeks pregnant and I see SOME colostrum..not milk but this clear whitish leaking AT TIMES..usually after or during sex (nipple stimulation) if I can be so open here. I've had 2 girls, then 2 miscarriages over last 2 years and now this is my 5 th pregnancy, 3rd child. If you're worried about paternity, the ONLY way is through DNA testing- good luck. :)
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Is she further along then she thinks? I am 15 1/2 weeks and I am not lactating. ??
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As far as I know, a woman does not start lactating until just before (in some women) or a few says after chlid birth. I do have a question that I'm hoping someone could answer though. I am a very young girl...17 to be exact and somebody told me that they think I've got a few symptoms of being pregnant...now, I've never been pregnant before so I wouldnt know, but is excessive peeing a sign of pregnancy? What about if your urine has no color to it? I have also been feeling very nausiated lately...can comeone please give me some answers?
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yes, my sister when she was pregnant. both times she lactated within the first month of being pregnant. so i guess it would just depend on the girl.
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I am not pregnant, but am on prenatal trying to get pregnant, and i am lactating, it started white, and is now white,and still somewhat clearish. So i dont know. I would like help on this subject also. Me and my husband.
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hello again i meant to say it started clear and turned white, sorry...
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Lissa, if i were you i would go get a pregnacy test. Peeing freg. is a sign of preg. and so is nausea.
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I was able to squeeze milk out of my breast when i was about 6 weeks. We are born with milk in our breasts...it usually takes pregnancy to make it into a liquid.
If you want more evidence that shes pregnant, I would go to the doctors with her. The doctor can tell you within minutes if shes pregnant.
Good luck!
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i need some help and i hope someone give me some good advice can anyone give me some good pointers on getting pregnant please because ive been trying for awhile and i need some good advice.i'm really need some answers
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how long after your period to have sex if you wanna get pregnant.
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I'm 14 weeks and have that problem
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This is the thread that will not die, lol
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First of all why should this thread die? Anyways I am 31 weeks pregnant and noticed that colostrum can be expressed from my breast already.
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lol 3 time nursing mom, I agree, lol
Amy, look at the date when this guy posted. It's been 6 months and he hasn't been here since his original posting. The question is moot at this point. Everyone is answering a question no one is asking.
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yes sometimes a women can lactate within there third month im a pregnat and i started my first trimester and this is my first baby im going to haveso yes they can start lactating early that just means they are going to produce a lot of milk now you shouldnt be producing milk first unless she is breast pumping or milking them a lot and i wouldnt do it if dont want to go into labor early she needs to watch that
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I just had a miscarriage after 12 weeks of pregnancy and at first beads of milk (or so it seemed) would come out when i applied pressure to my nipples. After that it turned into a sticky, clear liquid. I'm not sure if I was lactating but it is possible to have something resembling milk come out of there within your first trimester.
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i'm 25 weeks pregnant and have been lactating since week 15... all clear fluid (nothing milky). apparently this is normal and can happen even earlier to women who have already had children (this is my first). it is all based on the individual woman's physiology.
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I watched an episode of CSI once and there was this girl that thought she was pregnant so much that she was lactating. It's a mental disorder, but I forget what it is called. So she could be crazy
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Hey Frank!
How you doing?
According to the date of your post, your girlfriend is 8 months along now, due in one more month. Have you FIGURED OUT IF SHE IS PREGNANT YET??!
Or are you still wondering and NEED US TO TELL YOU.
I am sure there are a ton of women on this board who will still respond to you, heck 3 months from now. She'll have had the baby then, and we will still be giving you our very educated opinion about whether or not she is pregnant.
I know all of us here on this board are really interested in finding out, because we keep posting on this thread even though you HAVE NEVER COME BACK TO READ WHAT WE HAVE RESPONDED.
But that's o.k. cuz we're all JUST IDIOTS!
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Yes, infact a women can lactate before even having childeren. I know this because thats my problem. Its crazy i know and I have no ansewrs for it. the smart thing to do is go get a blood test. some women just like to trap men.
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what if your tubes have been tied for 8 years and now all of a sudden i got milk leaking out of my breast what could be wrong?
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yes, it is possible! i leak at 4 weeks pregnant!
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I am 12weeks pregnant with my third child and with the second one and this one I notice every once in a while that there is dry white stuff on my nipples. I havent breast fed in 5 years.
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yes i'm trying to see how long does it take to see if i'm pregnant
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hey dude,
i don't want to upset your girl or anything but, I am eight weeks pregnant with my third child and i havent started producing milk yet. Women tend to produce something colustrum when they are about 3-4 months pregnant. Even then it is not milk yet it is a sticky yellow substance. I can safely say that if she is literally squirting milk out of her breast then she if far more pregnant then 2 months........she's got to be at least 5-6 at least. Well, i hope this helps. by the way when she tries to argue you can tell her that i am a nurse also if that helps.
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To be honest anything is possible being a first time mother to be things have not always went by the book every one is diffrent the question you need to ask yourself is this which is more important finding out if she is telling the truth or being there for the most difficult time she will be facing for the rest of her life?
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I am 7 months along andi have been leaking since about 5 months. i went to the doctor and he said the white stuff leaking from my nipples are normal. but i still haven't let my boyfriend touch or lick my nipples.. do you think i should worry about it still?
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i started leaking at 16weeks with both pregnancys
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OK well anything is possible so please don't say it isn't possible!! All womens bodies are different and what is given as the usual date of lactation is an AVERAGE ie: how most peoples bodies behave. Some may start ealier other may not start at all!! So yes its posible, and its not our place o tell you whether she has cheated etc, once you have the estimated due date of the baby then you should know whether it is yours. (29 weeks pregnant and lactating lol )
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I am 40 weeks pregnant and i havn't lactated at all. Everyone is different but i cant see someone lactating at only 8 weeks. sorry
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I know my sister didn't start leaking until late in her pregnancy. I am almost six months pregnant and I just now starting leaking colostrum but only out of one breast. I seriously don't think it's possible to be lactating when you are only two months pregnant. That is unless she was pregnant before.
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i am 16 and 6 months pregnant but startin in like my 4th or 5th month i have been leakin clear sticky stuff and the more i get into the pregnancy it leaks alot more. every now n then there will be white in it but i mean is that normal to leak that early n this much?
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what do you not believe her that it;s your kid or something? i have been lactating sense like my 4th or 5th month so everyone is diferent
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I am 22 weeks today and i woke up and found that my left tit was lactate please help me and tel me if that is normal?
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Yes I would say by the 3rd week.
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yes a women can you are the father sweety.
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i really dont think so but some women do it even before getting pregnant, she might be more than she says!!
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Im 17 weeks pregnant and my fiancee just noticed me lactating 2 nights ago.
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The baby can't be yours i didnt lactate intill after i had given birth!
You could ask for a DNA test but there is a possiabitly of miscarriage!
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I had the same question because a friend had told me to squeeze my breast to see if anything came out. Anyway, last night I did, and a clear, yellow liquid came out. That's never happened before. I took a pregnancy test today, but it said negative. I haven't gotten my period, and my breasts are really sore. I would only be 3-4 weeks though. If they're not lactating, what else could that be?
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as far as I know, it is really rare for a woman to lactate that early. I would submit a dna test, and if she freaks out that you may be accusing her of cheating, you can just tell her that trust is the key to any relationship, and that key will either keep you together or head you for the door it opens.
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I have a 12 month old who I nursed for only two months.(and by the way, my breasts started leaking at 7weeks with my 1st pregnancy) My husband and I have been trying for another for two months now. I have had all of the symptoms but I had a negative test result but my period isn't due for another 4 days. My breasts were hurting today and I looked down and the were leaking, very slightly but still leaking... could this be from my son or could this mean that I am pregnant????
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Patrick what are you doing this is a breast feeding forum,the young man has posted on here asking for advice.
This is not the place to ask stuff like that,if that is what you want put a ad in the paper you sad little man!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I start to lactate within a few weeks of consseption. This is not very normal but can happen. pregnant with my first child, I had a doctor ask me if I had a child at home I was breast feeding. Every one is different.
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i had a tubal ten years ago, Now my breasts are leaking a milky fluid, My last two period were light pink and didn't last but one day each, and no signs of an eptopic pregnancy, Think i still might be pregnant, does anyone know. I'm 36..
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I am now having my first child and im 15 weeks pregnant today, and from all the dr's advise and books i have read witch are alot, all i ever heard about was in your last trimister you may produce milk but thats only on your second child, also you could have a clear discharge from your brest through out your whole pregency, but not milk.
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Im 5 months with my first child, very excited, but I have not lactated at all.
Hope you figure things out!
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Wow!she couldn't have showed you a pregnancy test? What a way to give you the new's. I am pretty sure that it isn't a sure way to tell you your the father. You need to present at the Dr.'s apt. Also go to the ultrasound that is the best way to tell. Also she might have multiple ultrasound's if she is further along than she say's.
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Hi! I guess you could say every pregnant womans body is different. I am 18 weeks pregnant now but i started lactating when i was only 7 weeks pregnant! But that could be because i already have another child and breastfed with her! And there has recently been proof that if a woman puts the belief in her head that she is pregnant being that she lones for a child so bad she believes she is pregnant she will if fact lactate. But if you are worried that you are not the father of this child you need to have everything confirmed with the doctor. i.e.: The age of the fetus for starters because many first time moms do not lactate until the last trimester and even then until after the birth of the baby. So have everything checked out
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go to www.google.com or www.hotqa.com and there should be some more answers for you there. also usually towards the end of the pregnancy or sometimes around 29 weeks along
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i'm sure he doesn't need an answer to his question anymore this post is over a year old!! !
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Is it lactation or just liquid?
I am 17 weeks pregnant, and I have been having liquid come out of my nipples before I had even missed my period. However it's not really breast milk at this stage. When mine started I didn't even know I was pregnant and so my doctor had me do all these tests to see if I had a tumor in my brain causing my body to produce prolactin. Your best bet to finding out what is going on is for both of you to go to a doctor together and if she is indeed pregnant, sit in the room while she has an ultrasound and see how far along the doctors say she is. Good Luck.
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I started producing colestrum at around 10 weeks
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Hi im 17 and im 15 weeks pregnant wiv my 1st child 2day i noticed 3wet patches on my top n i moved my top and my bra and my breast had like white/yellowish liquid on em i woz really worried n then i told my best m8 n she said thats a sign of a miscarriage does any1 know if this is true as now im terrified somethings gonna happen 2 my baby
thanks
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No, that's not a sign! It's normal to produce this before you deliver - some women produce it earlier than others that's all.
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oh right fanx alot atomicsnowflake
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ur friend is an idiot. and its called colostrum, it has the vitamins and nutrients baby will receive if you breast feed b.c the milk comes in.
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It just depends on the person I started really lactating when i was almost 3 months pregnant and no i wasnt more far along then my doctor told me i think a woman can start lactateing when they are 4 weeks prego because i did just a little bit
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Im not sure if i am preg or not but i have sore breasts and pee alot and i spotted for about three days i am on birth control tho and if i am preg i will be about a month and a half and i started to have clear liquid come out of my nipple and now it turned to white is this normal all the preg test i take so i am not but yet i still am having so many signs... i have a doct appointment to find out but it not for another two weeks and i feel like i need to know now becuse it is driving me crazy i ma only 17
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hi im new at this sort of thing i was wondering if someone could help me. i started birth control and was on it for some months like i believe 4 months and i suddenly got a three month period and i went to my doctor and he told me to get off of birth control which i did. well i had my last period in october and i took a pregnancy test in november and it said no. i took one in december and it said no. i took one in jan and it said no. i took one this month and it said yes. is it just bc my horomones are all messed up due to me going on and off birth control? please email me pineappledrums@yahoo.com thanks
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That I know of (a mother of three) no....it does not happen that soon. Usually the earliest times a woman starts to lactate is about 20 weeks (5months)...I could be wrong, but I asked my OBGYN just to make sure!
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# Leaking colostrum: The early, super-charged, immunity-rich milk your baby will drink right after birth—colostrum— starts forming in your breasts early in pregnancy. Not all women leak, and leaking is no indication of your ability to produce milk. Some women think they have an infection when they see leaking or crusting of the milk on the nipple. Not to worry! Gently wash your nipple with a washcloth. In cases where there is significant leaking, you can wear a nursing pad to absorb moisture.
~WebMD~
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can some one help me? i dont know if im pregnant or not i mean my breast hurt my lower back hurts sometimes im having really odd abonminal (cant spell) pain and the pains im having doesnt feel like normal cramps i dont know if i have spotted or not but the last time i got my period it was weird i mean i had it for a day then it went away then came back for two days and went away it was really odd and it kept coming back and going again and it was very light flow to. i havent thrown up yet but i have felt kind of sick through out the morning and day. i have been so tired latly i mean even if i get a 7 hour sleep i still gotta take like two naps during the day then im ready for bed again by like 9 i dont think my nipples have darken i cant really tell. but this is kinda worrying me. i dont know if i am or not? do you think i am?
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