Name: emily Title: I HATE MY DAD

I hate my dad but i am forced to see him.
he put my mum through hell.i have to see him.
any tips to help me?  ?

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Name: emj • Date: 12/11/2005 11:47:52

i dnt no what 2 say
sorry  =

Name: tb • Date: 12/12/2005 07:16:54

Sometimes relationships don't work out. I'm not sure what your dad did but I see you have alot of anger where he is involved. Try to hang in there. Things will work out for you.  =

Name: to emily • Date: 12/12/2005 11:06:16

you have every right to have the feelings you have towards your dad. I am sure you have good reason for feeling that way. You should have the choice whether or not you wish to visit with him or not. Maybe you just need time to take everything in and look at the big picture. Maybe you could just try to tell your dad you need some time away from him to think things over and come to terms with whatever it is he did. good luck to you!!!  =

Name: Mrmom_Kenny • Date: 12/12/2005 13:41:39

It really hurts me to see that you hate your father, but I can say that you everyone should be able to talk to their parents when they have been hurt from someones action. Try talking to him and let him know that you are really hurt by the situation, and if he's not willing to listen then he has a problem, and you need to ask for some time away from him to get your thoughts together, depending on your age(which shouldn't matter) you should be able to decide if you want to see him. Parents should be open minded and discuss when theirs a problem, Yes we always want what's best for our children and sometimes we make mistakes( were only human ) So talk to your parents and it maybe the best conversation the family has had in awhile. Good Luck  =

Name: jen • Date: 12/22/2005 08:54:42

You have rights too. If seeing your father is not in your best interest and things are going on there that are harmful, you do not have to see him. If it is more than just normal teenage or petty things make this clear to your mom. If this does not work than call someone who will listen to you.  =

Name: Chelsie • Date: 12/22/2005 23:17:55

I was sort of in the same position and I know that is miserable. My father treated my mom absolutely horrible and divorced when I was tiny. I chose to see my father up until a few years ago, when I was old enough to realize the things that he had done, etc. I have tried my hardest to get my father out of my life. When I was younger, I never really realized that everything my father did was a show. He didn't *really* want to see me, and honestly he could have cared less. Both you and I share a hatred for our fathers, and alas I don't really know how to help you any better than I do myself. Talk with your mother or a close relative and see if there is not a way that you can stop having to visit your father. If worse comes to worse, take him to court. If you have a step-father, he could legally adopt you which means that you would never have to see your father again, unless you choose.  =

Name: ashley • Date: 12/24/2005 23:25:08

i hate my dad as well. i feel so guilty tho if i go to court and refuse to see him because i feel like he does love me regardless of all the mean things he has said or done to me.  =

Name: scoter • Date: 12/28/2005 11:32:35

I have the exacte same problem and its eating me up inside.I took my anger out on myself.Bad idea.I think the best idea is to write everything down and if you think it would help show it to your mum.Never forget that your number one in your life  =

Name: bianca • Date: 01/04/2006 21:25:00

you have the right to be mad, however he is your father. a lot of kids get mixed up in their parents problems but dont really now what happened on both sides. only you know what you have witnessed but the most important question is, has your mother forgiven him? if she has then you should to. you will never know how to move on with your life if you cant forgive your own blood.forgiving doesnt mean being someones friend, it means forgiving the situation. think about it ,while youre out hating your father hes moving on not letting hate hold him back. thats why you also need to move on. good luck  =

Name: Kerry • Date: 01/14/2006 09:49:50

january 14. my birthday. everything was going well until my dad got mad again. i have a bit of a drug problem and he has a bit of a CRAZY problem. so this year, for my birthday, i got another black eye
i know what your feeling  =

Name: suzy • Date: 01/15/2006 16:07:46

i have no idea what could possibly help.
you're in a very difficult situation,so it's diffucult to know what to
do.no body in this world should be forced to see
someone that they don't want to see.maybe talking to your mom about it can help?although,i'm not in that position so i don't know.  =

Name: jack • Date: 01/16/2006 13:08:57

My dad is a raging lunitic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111111111
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Name: Anonymus • Date: 01/19/2006 00:15:50

It's ok my dad puts me through hell to and i just ignore it. act like he doesn't exist or else he'll push u over the edge 'n' you'll end up killin urself. I've tried it. when he yells, zone it all out.  =

Name: Noelle • Date: 01/20/2006 21:43:07

I hate my dad but I am forced to live with him. So, it could be worse for you. Nineteen years of emotional abuse from him, and watching him rip apart my family because of his ego has made me completely hate him. I would suggest that you see him if you must, and try to find something good about him. Your mom did marry him for a reason, and all people are flawed. And take comfort in knowing that you won't make the mistakes he did, and that you wil treat your family better. Good luck!  =

Name: olivia • Date: 01/21/2006 20:48:21

how old are you if your 12,13,14 you don't have to as long as you talk to the people who operrates it  =

Name: meg • Date: 01/22/2006 14:36:16

don't see him,, i gave up seeing mine. Nobody can force you to see him, you are a person of your own you can make your own decisions. You should not have have to put up with it...so just don't see him.  =

Name: JARRIT • Date: 01/26/2006 14:10:02

I HATE MY LIFE  =

Name: Jonelle • Date: 01/27/2006 00:44:15

I'm in trouble with my dad too...i try not to use the word hate but it's nothing but hate and anger i feel about him. HE is the worst dad ever...pisses me off all the time. I live with him...i feel like i live in hell...he doesn't let me have fun, go out, shop, have friends over....he's awful...my mom should have divorced him and sent him back to his crazy family ....
i just pray for god to make him better which is almost impossible  =

Name: Anita • Date: 01/29/2006 05:40:51

...  =

Name: saz • Date: 01/29/2006 12:40:29

I hate my dad too. He was always mean to my mum too, so when she finally got the courage to move out he blamed it all on me and my brother. He turned us against her, so we didnt see her for nealy a year. Now my dad has met a girlfriend and doesnt want to know us. He keeps yelling at us saying that we are being nasty to his girlfriend and she's not helping. She wants us out and dad isnt doing anything to stop her. He leaves us alone all the time while he goes up his girlfriends, he's there now. My mum only lets us round hers on Fridays because her boyfriend doesnt like us, so its just me and my brother.  =

Name: Taylor • Date: 01/30/2006 16:34:03

I hate my dad to  =

Name: haley • Date: 02/01/2006 17:56:29

i HATE MY DAD mainly y i came to this chatroom  =

Name: haley • Date: 02/01/2006 17:57:21

my dad beats me  =

Name: nikki • Date: 02/04/2006 15:07:48

hey emily you are not alone my dad is the same way... but i dont see him. he put my mom through hell to and all my life my mom raised me  =

Name: gemma • Date: 02/04/2006 17:00:30

why do i hate my dad  =

Name: blutzlebob • Date: 02/04/2006 20:51:51

i have no idea what to say  =

Name: blutzlelebob • Date: 02/04/2006 20:53:50

well hang in there  =

Name: Agnes • Date: 02/04/2006 21:06:24

In most states, if you are 14 or older, you can decline visitation with your dad. You and your mom might look in that.  =

Name: RHMJ • Date: 02/06/2006 11:57:57

Man, I really hate my dad he really pisses me off sometimes cause he will only take my step moms side and then me and him get into it and he always gets pissed off at me. My step mom just tries to get me into trouble... I am getting really tired of my dad and step mom...  =

Name: To Emily • Date: 02/09/2006 06:25:01

How Exactly did he put your mum through hell ?

If you don't care for your dad say to him, Dad i don't think we should see eachother any more and they can't force you to see him if you dont want to  =

Name: paul • Date: 02/12/2006 23:54:29

i too hate my father.  =

Name: frank gao • Date: 02/13/2006 13:54:33

12 actually  =

Name: sophie • Date: 02/14/2006 12:04:40

i h8 my dad coz he left me mum b4 i was even born da cheeky spaz  =

Name: author • Date: 02/15/2006 17:46:05

i do to  =

Name: lyndsay • Date: 02/19/2006 17:56:34

I know how you feel i have too see my dad all the time too and i hate it because he always makes me upset when i go there and he is very abusive so i understand but i am not sure how to help because i cnt even help myslef in this situation  =

Name: SimonR • Date: 02/19/2006 19:12:33

Why do you hate your Dad. What did he do ? Do you know all the angles on the stories or are you limited to what you are told by other people. ? My kids don't like me much. I didn't do anything bad, just fell out of love with their mothers. But lots of kids are told things which just aren't true, because grieving people will tell anything to try to get their way. Try asking your Dad what he thinks of it all. Try to think of things from everbody's aspect. It may be that you are the last to know what is actually true,  =

Name: Val • Date: 02/23/2006 06:08:44

I hate my dad too. He got pissed at me cause I giggled when his leg got caught in a ditch... He was holding a rugby ball and he said he'd throw it at my head if I laughed again. He then threw it back and called me stupid... I am so angry... I didn't mean to be disrespectful... I was so jolly i thought we'd laugh it off, but nooooo. He won't talk to me now and I want it to stay like that. ^(*%*&% him!

Good luck. Remember there are other people out there whose lives are worse than yours.  =

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Name: hello • Date: 02/23/2006 16:12:12

i hate my mum and dad rite now 2 they dont let me do anything !!!!!!! i hav no tips but i feel the same way !!!  =

Name: sarah • Date: 02/23/2006 23:19:20

How old are you?  =

Name: Megan • Date: 02/23/2006 23:29:53

Me too! It sucks, but you should try and get to be able to see something in the court if you're old enough. Try to talk to him about it, but if he doesn't listen, there's not much you can do. I hope I helped, I doubt I did, but I completely understand what you're going through. I just hope you don't have any steps to deal with too. They make it so much worse, siding with the person you hate...  =

Name: dot • Date: 02/24/2006 10:27:35

go to www.drphil.com and read what you can do to help yourself being a child of divorce.  =

Name: adz • Date: 02/24/2006 15:30:54

um... tell him how u feel  =

Name: Motmonster1 • Date: 02/26/2006 17:56:04

how do i tell my dad i hate him  =

Name: Nameless • Date: 02/27/2006 14:46:22

im really sorry to hear about whats gone on between you and your Dad. I uderstand how you feel completely. My Dad has done something truely unforgivable, and I know I will never forgive him, for what he did, and how it destroyed my family as a result. Some things cant be rebuilt because some times it is just too late to say sorry.

I know you must be feeling really angry and hurt right now, but time heals, I never thought I could get over the initial anger, but you do, memories fade. However bitter and angry I am now, its nothing compared to how I used to feel.

I hope thing get easier for you. Your Mum should be very proud of you, standing by her in everything that has happened.  =

Name: lili • Date: 03/01/2006 18:27:19

Emily just because he was bad in the relationship wiht yur mother does not mean he does not love you. You have a right to feel what you feel, but and your mother are different people. If he is doing things or daying things that are hurtful for you to hear when you visit him, tell him that is it painful for you to hear him saying these things and will he please stop. Whatever happened between your parents no matter how ugly is between them and yes it affects your life but it does not mean you are loved less. Parents should learn to keep their issues to themselves. moms all too often start to act like their daughters are their friends and confide the hurt and drama to them forgetting that this is the child's father and they need to nurture a relationship not hinder it. The bset advice I ever got was that just becasue someone does not love you the way you want them to, does not mean they do not love you.  =

Name: CC • Date: 03/01/2006 20:24:52

Same thing here, but my dad didn't just put my mom though hell, but my sisters and me as well. Since i am only 13 i have to see my dad too, but worse, live with him. Just when you see him, avoid him, and if you want yell at him, but try to stay strong...  =

Name: Ellen • Date: 03/01/2006 21:40:07

hey me too! my dad cheated on my family and was addicted to porn....There was a custody battle where we ended up being forced to see him on the weekend..BUT if your mom has a lawyer, talk to them about these papers that u can get signed saying ull never be forced to see ur dad again..i havnt got mine signed yet we just dont answer the phone at my house for now...good luck  =

Name: Deven • Date: 03/01/2006 23:59:03

I say u dont try to work eny thing out get in a huge fight till mabye he starts mentaly abusing u if he dosent already. Mental abuse is illegel so if ur up for tell him if i have to see u one more time that u'll acuse him of abuse mentally of course.  =

Name: olivia • Date: 03/02/2006 17:55:59

hey
Just because ur dad put ur mom through hell it doesnt mean that u hate ur dad . Think about the positive things that ur dad did for u . If u didnt have ur dad what would u do ?
How would u survive without him ?
Who will maintain u ?
think about that at least u see ur dad / some people wish that they meet their dad when their were younger . How does he treat you when you see him?  =

Name: Eric • Date: 03/05/2006 17:33:27

I am sick and tired of what my dad puts me through he just does some things that really make me angry and my mum does nothing  =

Name: danny • Date: 03/09/2006 09:46:30

hi idont even no my dad but wat he did ill never forgive him  =

Name: jm • Date: 03/09/2006 12:12:16

hi emily! what is between your mum and dad is just between them, it takes two to tango.. but i hope you try and give your best to have a good and memorable relationship with your dad..  =

Name: king • Date: 03/11/2006 15:31:26

i hate my dad to you have every right to hate him my dad is an ass man he never eava care about me he treats me like s**** and he put me and my mums throufh hell  =

Name: jazlyn • Date: 03/16/2006 18:31:56

hey never say u hate your parents becouse u turn back and u might never see them again so think about it and please naver say u hate your dad.  =

Name: jennicee • Date: 03/23/2006 21:48:20

Ok My dad is a teacher  =

Name: AMBER • Date: 03/26/2006 01:41:07

HI  =

Name: Jessica • Date: 03/26/2006 10:14:16

I love my dad but I never get to see him.My parents stopped going out with each other when I was born and now my mum's got a new boyfriend and I hate him,so I don't blame you.But some dad's like mine are lovely.But some mums like mine are evil.  =

Name: Caroline • Date: 03/28/2006 00:54:28

First i would try talking to him and letting him know exactly how you feel. If he doesn't listen them maybe expressing it to a good friend and getting down to the root of the problem. Sometimes hate goes really deep and is related to complex childhood experiences. I think it is ok to feel angry but the bottom line is family is family. Sometimes it is better to realize that he is older and may not be able to change whereas you are more openminded, and openhearted and may even be able to help him by your actions.  =

Name: birdman19286@gmail.com • Date: 03/29/2006 17:47:06

if you are over sixteen than you can just tell them no, and in some states your parents can be fined or go to jail if they force you. I'm just sayin that you could stop it.  =

Name: Kayla • Date: 04/01/2006 00:09:40

Yes i have tips...You should try to deal with it until ur 18...and wen u see him u shuld try to stay away from him as much as possible!!I hate my dad too but underneath all the anger ur dad loves you!!  =

Name: Afw • Date: 04/01/2006 06:38:30

Call somone that will help you sort things out with you and your dad. This may help things. If not then i think Trisha?  =

Name: Amy • Date: 04/01/2006 06:41:25

i hate my stepdad!!!!!!! they are always mocking my real dad, which i think is really mean. they laugh at him and i hate it. i wish they would stop!!!!  =

Name: deon johnson • Date: 04/01/2006 12:17:31

yes waht you sould do is tell him that you dont have any fun with him and if is a proper dad he will change  =

Name: Yael • Date: 04/02/2006 13:09:11

I can relate to you. My dad was terible to my mom. I had to see him. Then he did something very bad to me and i no i cant see him. Please email me so we can chat privatly at elliegirl33@hotmail.com  =

Name: allura • Date: 04/02/2006 17:10:16

well i have the same annoying things happen and once i even tryed to kill myself but any way try to talk to him because telling him you hate him and you wish he dies wont work (trust me ive tyed it) hope it works :)  =

Name: laura briffett • Date: 04/03/2006 12:40:56

i fukin hate my dad and hes a noob i hate him i hate him i hate him i feel like killing myself
i even feel like killing him !!!!!!! i dont want him to be part of my family nd my b-d is in 22 days and i dont want him there ( in the house ) all day ... im lucky that i dont need my parents to come to the ciema for mt b-d wiv me cos if i did then i wud hate my b-ds  =

Name: cc • Date: 04/03/2006 16:34:47

My dad has just recently got engajed and because my mum asked for a bit more money as my sister has moved out and left he doesnt want to talk to me and my bday is coooming up soon. Ive tries ringing him but he wont anser and my brother is petrified of her what should i do?  =

Name: afamia • Date: 04/05/2006 18:58:38

I HATE MY DAD:@  =

Name: Amanda • Date: 04/06/2006 16:56:40

i hate my dad. i tell him all the time but he thinks im playing with him, he always says "ay, what ever," or somet hing like that. i dont even consider him my dad b/c he only seems to love me when he is always in jail 4 half of my life, and when he has money and he just buys me things to try to say he loves me. he puts my mother through hell always going out in the middle of the night with my uncles, and he also always comes home with a attitude from work, i really dont like him and i am always having a attitude with him. can u please help me with my problems?  =

Name: cc • Date: 04/08/2006 08:05:45

Amanda why dont you try talking to him and if that dont work then dont talk to him at all and sooner or later he will come round eventually  =

Name: tha king • Date: 04/08/2006 17:20:04

u can say u hate your dad as much as u want, i mean my pops is rich but at my mums house we are poor i want to lives at my mums i dont care bout money, but my pops aint like hitler or nothin so i dont realy hate him but tha last person who said dont say you hate your dad was druged up, its a free country u got every right too. aight 1 peace out  =

Name: ??? • Date: 04/08/2006 22:25:58

dude, ignore him  =

Name: nodad • Date: 04/11/2006 21:43:57

you should be happy your dad it there most kids dont have one my little girl would love to have a dad  =

Name: mona • Date: 04/21/2006 12:34:40

you should tell your mum how u feel bout your dad and stay home with your mum  =

Name: Tesha • Date: 04/26/2006 10:58:38

Make is life a living hell .. and see if he likes it  =

Name: JLG • Date: 05/01/2006 22:41:05

hello  =

Name: aj • Date: 05/02/2006 21:18:50

tell him you hate him but dont do it when hes mad  =

Name: lauren • Date: 05/05/2006 14:18:08

i realy hate my mum and dad they treat me like shit like something they just scraped off of there shoe and i want to move out. what do i do  =

Name: nasn • Date: 05/06/2006 02:07:24

what is ur name  =

Name: Lucky • Date: 05/06/2006 11:31:04

Make kis life a living hell... lets see how he likes it  =

Name: courtney • Date: 05/06/2006 22:00:54

i dont blame anything on u i dont know what he must have done but it must have been pretty bad i also have a very abuseive dad who ocasionly beats me up and my whole life has been full of hatered for him so i think NONE of it is at all your fault  =

Name: hsg • Date: 05/07/2006 18:39:44

wow that rly sux. its kinda like that wit me and my dad. just put up with it because eventually it will be too late to see him anymore.  =

Name: Chris • Date: 05/08/2006 17:38:23

i hate my mo'fucking dad and that bitch he married my bitch of a stepmopm laurie they ruiend my fucking life  =

Name: imogen • Date: 05/09/2006 05:31:12

you shouldn't have to see your dad if you dont want too. I have to live with my dad, and i hate but i have no other alternative, as i hate my mum's husband much more. When my GCSE's are over, my Dad says that i am moving out, and i am gladly going. You shouldn't have to see him, you should tell your Mum how you feel, i'm sure she'll understand.  =

Name: Jazzy • Date: 05/09/2006 18:42:14

I live with my father and i am 17 years old and he tells all my friends how stupid i am and dont call his house, and he said that he was going to kill my boyfriend for no reason.What do I do move out with my boyfriend or rrun away?  =

Name: thug • Date: 05/15/2006 22:01:19

no one knows how i feel  =

Name: corinthia • Date: 05/16/2006 08:01:30

do u still kinda love him?  =

Name: S • Date: 05/16/2006 09:19:51

Please know that what every you Mom told you is coming from a hurt person...True but I anm sure this has hurt your Dad. Could you talk to him about how you feel.My gilfriend found out that her mom lied to her about her Dad. Her Mom was so mad at him but she was the one that wanted to break.
Just saying younever really know the whole story..Try talking to him but do not acuse him of anything ..just ask maybe why..... or Did this happen and why.Your Mom should never talk badly about your Dad to you. The problems they have are between them and have nothing to do with you.Think How does he treat you???Please do talk ti him...
Well vest of luck hun!!  =

Name: I was there • Date: 05/16/2006 22:04:44

I cut my Dad out of my life. Then I grew up and I remembered that for my whole life my mother never said one good thing about my Dad. She told me things I had no business knowing - drunk, beat her up etc. My Dad is not the greatest person in the world. He screwed up. But I never got the chance to know him in my own right - I believed my mother.

For my sake I forgave him for screwing up. I forgave my mother for interfering in our relationship.

Hate him if you must. But forgive him for yourself. Much love to you. I hope you find peace.  =

Name: Sue • Date: 05/17/2006 10:24:32

As long as he doesn't harm you in any way, you have to realize that he is your dad and if you weren't around him for years you might end up regreting not having a father daughter relationship. Some children\teens have never even met their fathers, so maybe you can try to think of even a few good things about your dad. You mom and dad is a totally different subject than you and your dad. I hope things get better for all of you. :-)  =

Name: jess • Date: 05/18/2006 12:14:35

i hate my dad coz he never stops shouting at me!!  =

Name: To Emily • Date: 05/18/2006 14:23:10

HOw old are you? Check in your state at a certain age you can talk to the judge yourself.  =

Name: ROSE • Date: 05/20/2006 12:33:24

I HATE MY DAD BECUASE HE HATES ME  =

Name: emily • Date: 05/22/2006 08:49:50

I am sure your Mom has told you many unpleasant things about your Dad - and - sadly -they are probably NOT TRUE ! Keep your mind open and don't let other people - no matter WHO THEY ARE- influnce your opinion of your own father. BOTH of your parents will love you like no one else on earth ever will again - keep BOTH of them with you forever, no matter if one is jealous or threatened by the other.
I'm sure you can stand up for what you know to be true - hang in there !  =

Name: 123456 • Date: 05/25/2006 01:30:45

omgsh! i hate my dad!!! i wish he was never born.  =

Name: n.n. • Date: 05/25/2006 13:30:40

Your dad will forever be your dad and I'm sure he loves YOU very much. I know you aren't to happy with the way he treated your mom but since they are no longer together,he is no longer a threat to her so that should ease your mind.As long as he isn't treating you badly I think you should continue to see him.  =

Name: nun of your business • Date: 05/25/2006 16:24:15

tell your dad fuck you u bastard  =

Name: TERELL • Date: 05/26/2006 14:52:42

I LOVE RED FUCK YOU  =

Name: Ninja Man • Date: 05/26/2006 20:15:29

Napalm is always an option.  =

Name: nissa • Date: 05/26/2006 22:47:07

hey sorry u feel that way but ur luck u don't live with ur dad i have to put up with him everyday.once he comes home from i don't know where he starts yelling at me for things i didn't even do ,well my point is i know ho wu fell an djust keep ur head up  =

Name: kris • Date: 05/27/2006 08:51:05

my dad is well horrble he pretends im not even alive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  =

Name: amry • Date: 05/27/2006 12:13:16

he always mocks my real dad  =

Name: Luke • Date: 05/27/2006 13:38:42

I hate my dad more than anything!He is lazy, doesn't keep promises, and won't shut up and stop talking to the neighbors.  =

Name: mike • Date: 05/28/2006 19:13:57

yeah my so called dads a motherfucking dirtbag also, the role of a dad is just to piss off moms and kids. welp if theres any child abuse companies out there hope your read this. " get off your ass and help me with the pool you little fucking hindu" he said today. my mom better get a divorce quick because my moms abut to commit suiide because my dads a fucking dumbass. i only lie to him and say i love him when he buys me stuff. thats all hes good for. hes a work ll his life. sitting on his fucking ass doing nothing all day. welp hes ugly he thinks hes a hard worker but he does nothing an blames it on me because hes a motherfucking asshole. yes i said it. and i hope you burn in hell. - is what i think about that lazy fuck. i hope he dies buns in hell and realizes what a dumbass he is. I can eally write a novel about how stupid he is without noticing it.  =

Name: miles • Date: 05/29/2006 15:56:38

i h8 my dad 2 i just wna kill im once day hes gna make me go past the limit n theyll find him nailed the fuckin ceiling dead n ill b sittin ther laughin hopein he has lots of fuckin pain in hell i hope he dies  =

Name: chime • Date: 06/02/2006 10:03:57

kill ur fucking dad i want to kill my own dad too he's a dictator i hate him  =

Name: luna • Date: 06/02/2006 13:53:52

i hate my dad too. I have to go and see him and we always fall out. I hate his stupid girlfreind too. he treats my sister like a princess. He hates me. Now I just use him for birthdays, and as a punchbag.  =

Name: Melissa • Date: 06/02/2006 22:11:48

i hate my dad he is so mean to me and the rest of the family expely my mom.

he abused me in the past and did so many bad stuff too me and the rest of my siblings.

i dont love my dad at all. i hate him, i just dont show it. it is all inside.  =

Name: shimmy • Date: 06/03/2006 09:52:09

i hate my dad because i get the blame for everything my sisters do and he shouts at me  =

Name: eddie • Date: 06/04/2006 22:01:41

kick his ass  =

Name: Janie • Date: 06/05/2006 22:02:21

ignore him  =

Name: Aaron • Date: 06/07/2006 14:31:38

I hate my dad... every time i see him I want to stab him in the face... always riding my ass about somthing... school, chores, or cleaning up his fucking messes... or taking the blame for his shit... I want him to die... every day I pray to go he dies... but so far nothing...  =

Name: sam • Date: 06/11/2006 13:37:42

i hate my dad to.. for as long as i can remember since i was 5 i guess.. no wim 20.. i ignore him.. treat as if he's dead.. when he starts his nonsence i'd take it he's retarded or so.. or i just destroy his things.. throw his shoes, hide his car keys, change his photo in the frame.. n acknowledge everbody else except him during family gathering.. wad i have done when i was 16 was , i hit, caned n kicked him.. i wasnt thinking.. i hate him so much.. we dont talk but it felt good..  =

Name: johanna • Date: 06/14/2006 14:19:06

I am from germany and i am not very good at englisch and that `s the reason while I always get in trobles with my dad because he wanted that I do this class again and I don`t want to do this and the other reason while I don`t like him is because he always give me a feeling that I am a loser and that feeling is horrible.
Please write me a masage  =

Name: johanna 16 • Date: 06/14/2006 14:21:36

I am from germany and i am not very good at english and that `s the reason while I always get in troubles with my dad because he wanted that I do this class again and I don`t want to do this.
The other reason, while I don`t like him ,is because he always give me a feeling that I am a loser and that feeling is horrible.
Please write me a message  =

Name: terence • Date: 06/14/2006 17:56:01

i hate my dad  =

Name: Mary • Date: 06/16/2006 21:59:57

Whenever hes around try leaving the area. If you cant leave the area try not making eye contact and talking to him.  =

Name: Georgia • Date: 06/17/2006 10:38:36

I am the same it is like there is a cliche to love ur parents
i find my father repulsive
he digusts me
i cannot stand in the same room as him without hate washing over me
yeaah
he is a dickhead  =

Name: Mary • Date: 06/18/2006 05:08:35

Always talk positive about your mother, a child should be able to speak about there life with parent. Hold on to the respect you have for yourself and your mother . But also why it your dad so miserable, not for you to figure out , you my dear are a child who needs to live these years w/out worry. Learn from this and strive for your goals . God Bless You--You are not alone.  =

Name: annie • Date: 06/20/2006 20:35:09

you should try and think of the good times you had with him. If there aren't any, screw him  =

Name: IM • Date: 06/21/2006 14:17:40

All I can tell you is try to hang in there. Think that someday you'll be on your own. Study hard so you don't have to depend on anyone in the future, including your parents. My dad was good a few times and treated me like @#$$% others, he was very good at insulting and humiliating my mother, my brothers and I. I grew up scared of him and with a lot of hate. When I was a teenager I ignored him, literally, he came to the house and I went to my room just so I wouldn't be around him. I knew every conversation that we could have would end up in a fight. He never punched me (I'm a girl) but sometimes when he got mad he grabbed me by the arm around so hard I would get bruises from his fingers, and would yell and tell me that I should look at the floor because I wasn't worth look at him directly in the eyes. If anybody had any different oppinion on any subject (politics, religion, etc) he would get pissed off and yell. I hated him so much!!!. Then when I was in college I worked, but the money I earned wasn't enough so when I asked him for a stupid amount like $150 to complete for my books he would question me and get kind of upset, even though he would spend $600 on golf clubs. I decided to do it on my own as long as I could. I paid for my education, right now I'm still young a lawyer and I have a loooot more money than him. I don't visit him, I visit my mom and if he is there fine. I'm traveling the freaking world, and just a couple of months ago they had to ask me for some money (go figure....). Of course now he thinks I'm the best daughter in the world, so sad I don't think he is the best dad in the world. Tooo late...... Hang in there kids, you will be free someday, just be very smart when doing things.
As for my brothers, unfortunately they can't afford living on their own so they are still ther.... it sucks for them.  =

Name: i hate my dad • Date: 06/22/2006 16:30:21

i hate my dad i dont no want i should do its like he doesnt care about me
please help me  =

Name: yuk nasty • Date: 06/22/2006 23:57:16

I hate my dad because he hates me. nothing else to say. How can you hate your child that is 25 to 30 years younger than you...I hate my fucking life! Thanks dad.  =

Name: pj754 to i hate my dad • Date: 06/23/2006 09:42:55

There are a lot of people out there, who feel the same way you do. Depending on your age, you have to try to get through it. Find some things that you enjoy when your dad is not around you. When he is, read a book, draw, listen to music, etc.... Always, remember, he can't take your spirit away from you. If he doesn't allow you to do the things you want to, find something you can do while he is around. Keep yourself busy. It helps to side track your thoughts because one day, you won't have to be around him. You will be a free person. Doing things that you know you shouldn't do will only create more problems. It's hard but this time will pass. One day, you will be the person you really want to be even though the parent may never see it. Keep your chin up.  =

Name: janey • Date: 06/23/2006 13:54:37

i think the only way to deal him is t tollerate him and then make your mum feel like the best woman in the world. you will then be keeping the peace, yet letting your mum know that she is the more important one  =

Name: unknown • Date: 06/23/2006 20:51:52

i hate my dad too hes sucj a butt and i want to stand up tp him but i cant.he yells at my mom every night including my sis and me i want him to go to the devils palace down you know where.  =

Name: unknown • Date: 06/23/2006 20:53:05

when im 18 im gonna curse him and leave for good  =

Name: smart girl • Date: 06/24/2006 10:18:55

just hire a hit ma