Name: Shelia Title: Need Nanny 911 to help!!!

I am married to a wonderful man who I love and respect. However, some of his kids don't respect me or his parents for that matter. He will pitch a wild-eyed fit to get his way and I can't stand by letting him ruin my home any more what can I do to get the problems he creates under control.

And we have a lot of problems with my step kids lying and making false allegations against my kids their step siblings who are not allowed in my home at all when the step kids are here.  ?

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Name: beatrice • Date: 10/20/2005 13:08:02

help my kids are crazy  =

Name: Shelia • Date: 10/28/2005 08:21:32

Beatrice, Tell you what you can come to my home when his kids are here and see just what kind of hell it is. The 10 yr old is going on 11 yrs old and he has no respect for anyone. He will throw a wild-eye tantrum to get his way all the time.  =

Name: adewale • Date: 11/06/2005 12:36:04

what did u want me to do ?  =

Name: AuntGlenda • Date: 12/11/2005 22:41:54

Need Nanny 911 help for 6 year old!  =

Name: DOnna • Date: 12/17/2005 01:09:58

I have a Question! does the size of you living room cause more fights  =

Name: Andriella • Date: 01/30/2006 16:32:09

Tell the people you love the most, what you think, and what others say.  =

Name: John Smith Jacob • Date: 05/20/2006 07:52:23

Hi
My name is John Smith, i am 32 years old.I have two kids both boys their names are Smith and Jason. My wife is planning to get a divorce because of the kids. Smith is 8 months and Jason is 15 years old. I really need your help Nanny Stella.e-mail me the answer on abby27@hotmail.com okay.
from:Sir John Smith  =

Name: Serina to Sheila • Date: 05/20/2006 10:57:29

Do they get punished at all? What is theire recourse for these actions...Do they get what they want??? Have You seen Nanny 911 or Supper Nanny?
Do not allow the behavior.1st sit down with them tell them what you expect and what the consiquences are write it down for all to see. ..by the way this if for all the kids in the home so get the whole family together for the list making. If.... ( When) bad behavior occures in a firm vioce( not yelling) tell them what you want them to do If by 2nd time they do not comply the go in the nauty chair or room. Make it a room or spot that will do the leat damage alos NOT the bed rooms they will just play. The Nanny say one min. for each year the child is ie. 10yrs old 10 min..I think thatis too long for a 10yrs old.. I think 5 min is ok. You will have to keep checking on them and make sure they stay in the :nauty place.This is MOST IMPORTANT both parents have to be in on this.The rules can not very form kid to kidesp. for Blended families.
I alos think that you should get every one together and tell them how much you all love them and that the rules are made so we all can have a happy life together,
I have 2 step kids14 son Bipolar ( talk about rage...) and 12 yr daughter. We have diffrent rules in this house then they do at the Mothers like hang your coat up when you come in and brush you teeth every night & no swearing...AT all.
Trust me I know what out of controll is.I have been knocked down ..Yelled I hate you !#^^$(& at , bronken my great grand mothers plates, and more.Everything is so much better now that we have set rules.I tell them I love them no matter what but and I want to be their friend and You are not replacing their mother. Your Husband should say that same the he just want s to be part of there lives & is replacing there father.
I do not like the behavior when they act up.Yes things do happen because they keep testing the limits.Like my step Daughter wearing a skirt so shot when she sit you can see her butt. She cannot wear things like that in this house so she actually asked me to fix ( she is a sweety) it. I added 5 inches to the bottom of it and she loves it. So does the ex ( What a surprise!)
I have also read Dr Phils Family .First. This is time consuming because you have use the a work book (Do not get the DVD you will have to print out a ton of stuff Book Nanny (11 is good too But I like Dr Phil Better.
Also we do not have soda (8 spoonfulls of sugar) or sweets in this house except for special events.Believe me this has helpped too.Esp with the Step son.The main thing I have learned is that the kids need limits.
I hope I have helped some.
May God Grant you Patiens and PEACE.  =

Name: S • Date: 05/23/2006 15:07:04

SO How are things Now???  =

Name: n.n. • Date: 05/23/2006 21:12:17

never have both sets of kids together at the same time. If the nonsense keeps up,theres always divorce court!  =

Name: chloe • Date: 06/11/2006 11:03:45

I have a problem. I have 4 girls. kayleigh (15), Jenna (14), Megan (11) and Kaitlin (6). I have spanked them since they were 2 and i have now stopped spanking Kayleigh and Jenna but i still spank megan and Kaitlin. Kayleigh and Jenna have now started swearing at me which they never used to do when they got spanked. They swear at me 24/7 and i have tried taking away privilages but they climb out their bedroom window! HELP PLEASE!!!  =

Name: carla • Date: 06/21/2006 17:41:36

well one thing you can do is talk to your husbad and step kids and work out the problems also if you need to bafore you have anyone come over make sure you know who it is and make sure there parents know who you are take my advice my 11yr old told me me she was inviteing some of her guy friends over she did i said yes and they all ended up being jelous of the other becaus my daughter was talking to another turns out they all liked her



hope my advice willl help
carla  =

Name: Danan • Date: 06/26/2006 17:23:09

put cameras up where they cant seel them and only u and her knows about it and tape what they are doing and when they get to the point that the police are call show them the tape tp back up your point and this why your kids will not try to be an ass We did this wrok out great for us  =

Name: chrystall bal • Date: 07/11/2006 00:55:32

help i need some help with my 6 year old daughter she is so bad i can't even stand outside with her and now my 2 year old is starting to act like her help please i need help  =

Name: to shelia • Date: 07/16/2006 17:52:34

try a trip across your knees, i know that works my parente spank me evan tho im 19 the worse thing i can do is tell a lie for telling a lie dad has a razor strop he use on my bare tookies in case you don't know what a tookies id its my ass OUCH  =

Name: M H • Date: 08/29/2006 16:38:00

hi  =

Name: Susie • Date: 09/04/2006 17:01:01

I am a grandmother raising a 21 month old. What is the best way to get them to listen She doesnt take no for an answer It does not matter how many times we go thru the same thing she doesnt mind  =

Name: Theresa • Date: 09/06/2006 15:55:01

I have a daughter that doesnt listen to what I say. Shes four years old, and doesnt have a father to help out. Regardless the disciplin I use she laughs at me . Someone help I ran out of opptions and dont know what to do or who to ask.  =

Name: Patience • Date: 09/10/2006 15:55:53

I have two kids. One is 2 and half and the other is 9 months old. I am a saty at home mother, and my husnband works 8-12 hours a day. Hw willnot let me leave the apt b/c he is way to tired to saty with the girls when i am out for two or three hours once or twice a week. He tells me that it not his place to be babysitting his own girls. I am stuck with the 24/7 and I need a break. I have no idea how to get creative with them and to beable to have fun with them because of there ages. What can I do? Help. Also my oldest daughter is very rude to her sister. She hits her, pushes her, tries to bit her and hits her with her dolls. Help?  =

Name: Erika Martindale • Date: 09/15/2006 21:09:40

my name is Erika. I have a bit of a problem. This problem however, is not for a child, it is, believe it or not, for a parent. I no longer live with my step mother, but she needs some help with being a parent. All she does is play video games all day after work and does not discipline her children. All she does is scream and yell. Nanny 911 I need you to help this woman out. her kids are going to have horrible lives and even though her kids are soon no longer going to really be my step sister and step brother, they will always be my brother and sister in my heart and I wil never let a bad mother raise them. She should not be a parent she needs serious help. please contact me at alexslilhunny@yahoo.com Please tell me you can help her. Thank you so much, I really would appreciate it.  =

Name: Erika Martindale • Date: 09/15/2006 21:12:12

I just needed to add this........... Nanny Stella I have seen so much improvement for the familieis that you help, please help mine.
Thank you  =

Name: Jan • Date: 09/22/2006 17:40:39

Hi. I have been a Nanny for many years and love it. Have worked with many great families but I have seen alot of what you are talking about! Your husband needs to be in on this big time....you are taking on far too much, yourself. This is a partnership and I see you as really suffering due to lack of support.  =

Name: Julie • Date: 07/09/2007 18:11:22

My friend needs help,her name is Sheralyn and she lives in Colorado Springs,CO. Her kids run her house!! I know my friend and shes about to pull her hair out.....  =

Name: Melissa • Date: 08/07/2007 14:28:56

My kids are out of control. There dad got arrested, so now I'm a full time working mom that has 2 outta control boys. When I get home from work, they won't listen to me. They yell & scream & throw things. Talk terrible to me. I'm at my wits end. I'm about ready to give up!!  =

Name: A dad • Date: 08/08/2007 07:55:00

Have you people a back bone who is the parent and who is the child, I have 3 children 10 13 16 they are great kids but when thry misbehave I punish them, I take away something they like or ground them or even spank them, we get along great because they knoe in the father and they are the children, my 16yr old got spanked saturday night for comming home past her curfew for the third time.  =

Name: Beth • Date: 08/22/2007 22:44:09

Please Help! One of my best friends family is going crazy! I can't even go to her house because my parents think they are all irresponsible. The children don't know how to behave. They have 6 kids and live in a townhouse. There is a total of 3 bedrooms. The first time I walked into my friend's room I couldn't even see the floor, no joke! Please help them trust me they need it!  =

Name: Marco • Date: 08/29/2007 08:44:34

I need help! My wife and I have no idea what to do and she is at her wit's end. Im in the military and stationed in Korea for a year. My wife has both our children with her in Texas. Over the passed few months, my oldest boy has developed a distasteful attitude towards his mother. He yells at her when she tells him what to do, he disrespects her, and cries about having to do things. He's never been like this. She called me crying and told me he would not eat in the morning before school (which he must do because he takes a medication that makes him sick if he doesnt). She saw him put a school folder in his back pack that she had asked about the night before. He hid homework from her so she wouldnt make him do it.... She says she feels like he runs her life and has no time for my youngest son. I cant help her. I dont know what to do.... PLEASE HELP....  =

Name: kenny • Date: 09/04/2007 22:51:16

i have a 3.5 year old girl who is very difficult. She poops in her pants for attention, she does not listen, she sleeps with a diaper, she sleeps with a passie still, but most of all she does not listen what should i do?  =

Name: Courtney • Date: 10/11/2007 19:16:22

ok  =

Name: Bindia • Date: 10/29/2007 17:47:11

Students are acting out and need time out. How do I go about doing this?  =

Name: Patricia • Date: 11/06/2007 09:23:45

My child is acting like one f-n bitch,  =

Name: fenna • Date: 11/07/2007 20:19:11

helo mijn name is fenna i blove children
i would like to be a nanny
regards mis fenna  =

Name: a step dad • Date: 11/07/2007 21:42:22

try useing Dr Phil and the Nanny book to spank the kids it will work, I know I only had to spank my 16yr old step son once now he is a pefect gentleman.  =

Name: ashley • Date: 11/25/2007 17:47:41

I have a 4yr old and a 2.5yr old. my 2.5yr old very challenging. I feel like i have tried everything and just don't know what to do. pleas help. He will yell at me, throw things at me, and hit me and who ever else is in his way.  =

Name: Sadie • Date: 11/27/2007 20:09:23

I need help with a 9 year old, who thinks she is the adult (one in charge), not me.  =

Name: carley • Date: 12/04/2007 18:28:59

hi my name is carley and i am 14. i have a 3 year old brother. my mom got remarried 3 years ago then had my brother and we moved to minnesota and i am origionaly from alabama. my mom is depressed and all she dose is yell at me i am always sad and i dont no what to do ant more. my family needs help!!  =

Name: LARA • Date: 01/12/2008 14:02:35

I NEED UR HELP MY CHILDREN TRY TO HAVE S*X WID ME AND CANT GET THEM OFF ME  =

Name: Karly • Date: 02/01/2008 06:34:33

Love the show! Need some help! My Granddaughter fights about everything. She won't do her homework without a fight, she won't brush her teeth without constantly being told, she won't clean her room without a battle. She is 10. When my girls were young, I never had trouble getting them to do the things they needed to do. Why is this time around so difficult?  =

Name: Chastedy • Date: 02/06/2008 16:38:12

I have a 2 year old daughter that can’t seem to play by herself. Every time I ask my 2 year old to go play so that I can do the dishes or go to the bathroom, the tales me no and that she needs a hug. I love my 2 year old and I try to spend as much time with her as I can but I don’t know what to do with her, and I don’t my one year old the think I’m spending all my time with my 2 year old.  =

Name: andrea • Date: 02/18/2008 00:47:57

my kids keep me up they yell at me they won't listen what can i do ??  =

Name: anrdea • Date: 02/18/2008 00:51:43

My daughter hits me she just did what can i do???
she is only four yrs old i need help i have five children I love them to death but they won't listen i buy them every thing they want.  =

Name: Rose • Date: 02/19/2008 15:24:51

i need some help also, I have a 16 yr old and 5 siblings to him, he and my husband just dont see eye to eye, my husband just cant see that he my son is growing, I take care of all the bills, put food on the table,take care of my vehicle, only thing is that i loved this man for 16 yrs, and married for 14  =

Name: n/a • Date: 02/20/2008 11:29:51

can you help my sister she is not doing well with her kids she loves her kids but she says the most awfull things .she is now living at the family house in the village of Erieau Ontario Canada,with 7 dogs 5 are pups and the pups parents,plus a cat, the house is such amess ,that i can,t go any more cause it is in amess. she says that the kids make the mess they are to clean it . i went shortly after christmas with afriend there and the pups were in thefront room and they had a mess all over ,i went once up stairs to were the kids sleep and one of the dogs went on her sons bed, i lived in the house with my mom before i got a job in the town of Blenheim and when i was ther the house was never a mess. it is not how me and my sister were brought up, we have when in the house as kids me and my sister and 6 brothers one had passed away at 19 drowned in the bay.our parents never had a messy house so she gets it from being this way i do not now. the tinhg she says to her son and what she makes the kids do is not right when a family membersgo there they are very shocked at the mess and the kids are saying the mos tawfull things to each other i tell them to not ot say them it is getting so bad i am thing of taking one of the kids to live with me cause she is losing it and if she doesn,t get help she will lose the twins a by and a girl they were born in1994 march 9th. PLEASE HELP AND IF YOU CAN CAUSE I DO NOT NOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO HER PLEASE
SINCERLY A VERY WORRIED AUNT.  =

Name: Chante • Date: 02/22/2008 19:56:55

i'm finding it hard to get my 2 year old soon to be 3 year old to listen. time outs don't work and i just find myself yelling at her i need help  =

Name: alexendra • Date: 03/03/2008 04:04:54

just gather your kids and look for a new home to relocate.  =

Name: Mindy Aguayo • Date: 03/13/2008 13:52:05

Ok so here is my problem... We (victor, my husband, hailie, my doughter, kody, my son and me, Mindy) all live with my husbands parents and two sisters. his sisters are 16 and 11. i am tring to teach my doughter that winning is NOT how she gets what she wants. I will tell her no candy or no chocolete or i will take a toy from her becuse she hit some one with it or was not using it in a way that is safe. hailie is 19 months old and kody is 4 1/2 months. sorry side note. but when i tell hailie no grandpa and the two sisters just giver it to her any way. i have asked them not to give in to her way to many times i do not know what to do any more. they are always saying that i give her what she wants way to much and then they turn around and do what i said hailie couldn't do or have. when it is bed time she gets away with staying up later because of them i put her down and they go down and get her out of bed. PLEASE HELP!!!!  =

Name: mindy aguayo • Date: 03/13/2008 13:53:37

if any one has anything to help please e-mail me at little_dancer86@yahoo.com  =

Name: leona passmore • Date: 03/13/2008 16:18:48

my daughter is 3 years old and she stills poops in her panties. we have tried putting her on the potty when we can tell shes having a bm, but she cries, won`t do it. she pees in potty no problem.  =

Name: ilene • Date: 03/20/2008 20:03:40

hi we need your help  =

Name: ilene • Date: 03/20/2008 20:05:24

hi we need your help my child needs help she has prombels with her and the dad  =

Name: Barbra Boccio • Date: 03/30/2008 18:38:58

There are 3 Kids Jennifer 13 Sarah or Cat women 8 and Vincent 7.Jennifer sees Shut up so much.Jennifer is mody if you leave her ipod computrer and phone away you are her best friend and you must be so so quit Sarah will hurt people.Sarah will make shure someone is not haveing fun so the world is in balance.She is very picky.Shewill only act bad if you or someone other than her mom is around.So you might want to put secret camras in places.Vincent has a problem he will have tantmnuas.They are horibel.He will say Well Idon't want to ask him again he gost sees No in a werd way and when I say no he will do nothing but continue.My husband does not help he thinks that he works I do not have to help her.Some times I must wach Sarah like a Hawk.She is a control freek.She makes every one say sorry first even if they did nothing to her.So I rilly think you should ceep your eye on Sarah.  =

Name: Tiffany • Date: 04/08/2008 18:23:26

my kids are horrible!! I HAVE 6 kids they dig in there dipers and eat there poop. i really need help.carly-5/diana-2/Rory-2 months old/justin-13/jessica-12. The older kids are better it's just those 2. carly and diana!!!!!! HELP ME!!  =

Name: Hanna Montanna • Date: 04/08/2008 18:29:02

your kids suck ass well not mine face it get rid of them thats what i did!!!  =

Name: Tricia • Date: 05/16/2008 12:00:06

I do not know if I am doing this right, but I have 3 children 9, 3, and 2. My oldest son was hospitalized for 3 weeks for disabilities. My 3 year old boy is threatening to kill everyone and saying nasty words. I try to spank (spank) my kids and have CPS calling me a child abuser. I really need help how do I solve these problems?  =

Name: bess • Date: 05/25/2008 16:43:03

they are driving me so crazy please help!  =

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Name: Mary • Date: 06/26/2008 21:23:10

I have an 8 yr old daughter and a 13 yr old son. They fight like you would not believe. They tell us what to do. I am so sick of it. My husband dosen't know how to talk to them. We are out of sorts here  =

Name: HELP • Date: 06/27/2008 22:48:02

My son is two and a half and does not listen to me and is not potty trained. He listens to my boyfriend though. What do I do?  =