Hi to all of the beautiful women in this forum,
My husband and I are wanting to fall pregnant. The last day of my prev period was on the 2 Oct, and we tried on 12th, 15th and 16th and my cycle is 29 days. I am heartbroken when getting negative after urine tests, but then again it is probably too early. I feel that I may be pregnant, but I have thought that before and been disappointed. I have headaches (trust me on that), Over the last week I have been very tired and it is obvious, I have felt naucius (not all the time, but every day or two, some days worse than others), an unsettled stomach (bowel a bit funny), occassion pain on the right and left side (just inside the hip), slight pain in my lower back, and some pain in my breast. Now, although I have these 'symptoms' I am hoping that I am not feeling them because I want to be pregnant (I hope I am not imagining them or making something out of nothing other than being sick). I might be able to say that the back pain is from my chair, the headache is not from wearing glasses at the moment... It is so painful waiting. When should a Home Preg Test work reliably? And is there anyone else out there who wants to fall pregnant and has gone through the disappointment of not falling pregnant when they want to... what can I do to get my mind of it? It is starting to consume my thoughts. How have you gotten over the disappointment?
Oh yeah... my stomach has felt tights and my breast get sore on and off, not all the time.
I appreciate any comments or help.
- lilflower. xoxoxox ↑ |
| Love to get your advise ladies. As you may have guessed this is taking up all of my thoughts at the moment, every second of the day my brain is reserved with thoughts of falling pregnant. :-( ↑ |
| Hello there ladies! Same thing is going on with me. I'm late with my period. My cycle being 30 days and the last one was Sept. 15. I've taken 5 pregnancy test all negative. I miss carried in January and have been trying to get pregnant every since with all the dot periods. Any suggestions words of wisdom or encouragement? ↑ |
| i meant my periods are on the dot regular i wake every morning on the 15th with it there. Also been moody emotional sick at my stomach a little alot of dizziness and headaches ↑ |
| I miscarried at 10 weeks back in August. I got my period about 5 weeks later and it was totally normal (not heavy-normal length). I have always been extremely regular. My husband and I "tried" from days 10-15 everyday. Being impatient, I took a test the day before I was supposed to start and got a REALLY REALLY faint line--so I took another and got another faint line. Not feeling that was conclusive, I took another the next day and saw nothing. I'm now 4 days late. Any thoughts? Could I be prego and it's not showing? I don't have any symptoms--but I didn't last time either. Could I have miscarried again? ↑ |
| Okay so my last peiod was August 21, my boyfriend and I had sex frequently every weekend this month and twice the condom broke and once we just didnt use one. I got a light period on the 21st of this month (I dont usually have a normal period) and today is the 24th and it went off last night. It began as very light bleeding and then became heavy and just all of a sudden went off. I took a test the other day and it was negative. I took one just a minute ago (even though its not morning I was anxious) and there was a faint line. I'm going to take another test but...I dunno how likely it is that I could pregnant when I didnt miss my period. ↑ |
| I have also been feeling kinda strange lately, moody, cramping (could be from my period but I dont usually get cramps), back aches, increased body temperatures, decreased appetite and tender breasts. ↑ |
| Spanky before I say anything or anyone else, do you want to be pregnant? How old are you? ↑ |
| Hello Ladies I am also in the same boat =/ My husband and I have been TTC for a while now and my period is a week late today. I have used the ClearBlue Easy and First Response which both tests were negative. My LMP was 09/17/06. I have been through one miscarriage unfortunately in April this year. Sept. 29 I had some spotting so I don't know if I should consider it as implantation bleeding. I do wake up feeling dizzy and wanting to throw up, my breasts are not tender, but I did notice that my areola is bigger and a bit darker than usual. If any of you can give me any advice I would greatly appreciate it. ↑ |
| i would go take a blood test, those will confirm it better than a urine test. ↑ |
| 18 and wont turn 19 until May. And I dont really know what i want which in essence means I should leave babies alone until I know for sure I want one. My boyfriend wants one a lotttttt more than I do. ↑ |
| Started a topic called "could it be" ↑ |
| ello ladies,xx ( RANDI02 ) thank u for your advice, althou it was just under 8 weeks since my last period so it was unlikely to of been implantation bleeding,( if only ) here is some thing that may help you other lovely ladies trying to conceive a gift of life... i went to see my gp on mon 23rd after spotting on thurs 19th not having a period from 28th aug ( see above ) i explained that i had spotting thurs and fri only when i went to the toilet and wiped, it started off brownish discharge not very pretty i know..... but by sat it were blood but nothing like my period up to today weds 25th i have had no pain not even a twinge in my belly wouldnt of known it were there if i didnt check!! as well as the slight bleeding i had a few strange clots but still not heavy...anyways the 2 preg tests i did came out neg but the doc says he thinks 90% that i conceived but had what they call a hit n miss! where the egg is fertilised by the sperm and tries to attach, implant, while thats gong on my body was thinking that wahhaay we gotta a bambino in ere!!! which is why i had the symtoms that i were having but for some reason the bambino was unable to attach and had no where to go as my body was preparing for pregnancy, as weeks went by my body realised that the bambino wasnt growing so went back in reverse, which was when i started spotting reason for me having no pain not a period,however there is still the slightest of slightest chances that i am pregnant and the tests havent picked it up yet as alot of women dont show untill they have a blood test, and women can bleed in pregnancy but give birth to healthy beautiful bambinos, so im waiting for a appointment to go to the hospital a.s.a.p for blood tests and scan. i dont hold out much hope or should i say im not getting my hopes up as the dissappointment and hurt would be double of what t is right now and having a hit n miss seems to make sense, how ever i am still feeling sicky and have still suffer from heartburn at night i am still spotting when i wipe but still no pain or discomfort, if it were my usual cycle beleive me id know about it,it doesnt go easy on the cramps!! and i only bleed for 4days. although still not a definate answer and the emotional roller coaster continues its something to go on and maybe it helps some of you ladies who are in the same situation as me....i will let you know the outcome of my hospital visit when i go,and in the mean time if anyone wants to add or share their story with me id love to hear from you, takecare n good look ladies!!!! hugs to you all !!!! ↑ |
| I had my last period on Oct 1. I know I was ovulating on the 13-16 and I made sure we had plenty of sex during that time, as I am trying to conceive. During the week of the 16-21 I had a slight fever all week and thats it. Now I am about 10 days past ovulation and I am feeling not myself..I had slight cramping the entire weekend(not normal for me) and I feel very sick at about 8 p.m every night and it goes on untill I wake up.Also I have been peeing like a racehorse but nothing comes out till I lean forward, also I feel very bloated! I am late for my period now and I had a blood test on Monday(only 7 dpo) and it showed normal hcg levels. So I have another appointment this Friday(12 dpo)..I hope it's postive this time! Has anyone else had this happen to them? Do you think it's be positive..I'll keep you posted for monday morning ↑ |
| It looks like I'm not just going crazy! My story starts on August 30th when I started spotting, until Sept 18, when my real period arrived. It lasted until October 2nd, and included a lot of clots, which I had never experienced before. Lot's of fun. Anyways, I visited the doctor on the 30th of Sept, and he sent me for bloodwork and ultrasound to rule out anything bad. It came out clear, but the ultrasound wasn't until the 18th of Oct, which ended up being 10 days PO, and the only thing she noted was my uterine lining was a thick (which she said is a good sign of preg). So, I ovulated on October 7th (going by temps and mucous), I had very light ovulation spotting, then on day 11 DPO, I again had very light spotting and a temp dip (Implantaion?). My temperature has been up since I ovulated (now day 18 DPO), I've had lot's of symptoms, and I just got back a negative "BETA" blood test. I should note that my sisted never tested positive, and she didn't know she was preggers until my nephew kicked her in the kidneys! She's also a nurse and knows how to perform these tests well. Anyhow, my husband thinks I'm crazy, but I still think I'm pregnant! At this point, I just want to know either way! Pregnant would be amazing, but if not, let's get on with it! :) ↑ |
| I have been reading so much about this because, like everyone else, I'm late for my period, but have had negative test results. Last period was 9/11. Should have had period approx. 10/9, but still nothing - I'm 2 weeks late. Took 2 First Response tests, both negative, and blood test on 10/23 - negative as well. Have had cramping, bloating, lower back pain and have to pee frequently. Part of me thinks I still could be pregnant (I know, its crazy!) I'm not sure if I should make an appointment to see my OB/GYN now or if I should wait another 2 weeks until I'm past my next expected period. Any advice? ↑ |
| Well, not period yet. I've been convinced by my doctors that I'm not pregnant (by a BETA blood test), BUT my temperature is beginning to rise a lot. It had never been up into the 98's, and it has been for the last two days. Does anybody have any ideas? I'm supposed to go back to the doctors next week for another test. I may request an ultrasound. Thank God for the Canadian health care system. I don't know what I'd do without it! ↑ |
| My girlfriend just had the same thing happen... her period was over a month late... every test negitive, then 3 days later a positive....... good luck! ↑ |
| Hello, I have had two postive pregnacy test at home and about 6 negative pregnance test. My last period was Sept 5 and i spoted on october 7 for three days. I was wondering if anyone has had the same problem. I already have two children and on my first I had a postive then i bleed then we had an ultrasound and they seen two babies. i lost one at 5 weeks but went on to deliever a health baby girl then two years later delievered my son with no problems I had a postive results only 7 days after conception with my son from the doctor( I didn't know that could happen). I have been doing a lot of reading on these hpt and have found all have different level that they will detect. it is crazy not knowing what is going on. I was wondering if any other women have had this happen having postive and negative pregnancy test? ↑ |
| Ok, mys story is sorta the same as some of the others I and just really need answers or some sort of advice. About a week after I had intercourse I spotted real light for about 3 days. I took a pregnancy test but it said invalid (which means I messed it up somehow). Well, I forget about it and then I began spotting again about 1-2 weeks later so I go take another test which comes out negative but I still go to my Dr. She gives me a test which also comes out negative and about a week after that my period comes on (which I had missed the last month) but it's real heavy and very clotted which is unusal for me. During this time I also felt hungry and sleepy all of the time and that's not normal for me either. Well, I got my period last monthg but it hasn't came on this month and the other day I became sort of dizzy and sick to my stomach and when I arrived at home all I did was sleep and I did the same thing to next day when I got home from work. I honestly don't know what to think and I'm very confused ↑ |
| hiya i'm new to this forum and must apologise in advance if this becomes a long post but i need advice asap, we have been trying for baby number 3 for just over 2 yrs now but stopped trying in september, but since my last period i have got a lot of pregnancy symptoms -- sore veiny slightly enlarged boobs with leaking nipples, its only a tiny amount of colostrum but its there and they havent leaked anything since our daughter was 6 mths she is now nearly 5 yrs, constant feeling of being tired, need to pee more often, constipation, ratty one minute then weepy the next, frequent headaches, lower abdominal cramps but the one thing worrying me is for the past 3/4 days i have been bleeding, its only a small amount and only there when i wipe (sorry for to much info) but my period isnt due for another 4 days and doesnt normally start like this, the blood so far has been very pink in colour and not red and has been in a mixture of cervical mucus (again sorry for tmi) my periods normally are very heavy with not much warning of its arrival. could this be spotting and if so how long should it last? i have done an early response test that came back neg but with other 2 we fell pregnant straight away without trying even tho i was 7 weeks at the earliest when we found out. could it just be that i haven't enough hcg in my body yet to show on a test or is it just my body playing tricks on me, any advice would be greatly appreciated as i'm at my wits end at the moment ↑ |
| Still nothing, but I think I've com eto the conclusion that I may have ovulated on DAY 38 of my cycle. Just great. I was so not trying anywhere around that time. Still no period, but lot's of pregnancy/PMS symptoms...and another negative preg test on Sunday (day 43 of cycle). ↑ |
| i tried a pregnancy test a couple weeks ago and it said negative and then on monday i was feeling really crappy so i actually went to the e.r. to get on some anxiety pills. they did a pregnancy test and it came out positive. i then bought some home pregnancy tests and they came out positive as well. i dont go to the doctor until nov 9th, but i did an online due date calendar thing and it said i was about 5 weeks along. i've heard that you could be having pregnancy symptoms without being pregnant because you can possibly convince your body mentally that you are pregnant, so you will start having physical signs of pregnancy. you might just not be far enough along yet to use a home pregnancy test. wait a few more days and try again ↑ |
| Well still no period for me..I am about 7 days late, I am soo tired and bloated and peeings so much more then normal still! I feel nauseous at certain smells and am never hungary for the foods I normally love! I have taken a pregnancy test every 2nd day and still all negatives! I am concerned..I have a pap test for tomorrow...so heres hoping they will tell me I'm pregnant!! If not I am going to bbok an ultrasound! My mom told me that when she was preggers with my sister, that the doctors thought she was crazy, cause she thought she was pregnant..al negatives blood tests and so on, then she found out she was pregnant at 7 weeks through ultrasound, and still had negative blood tests..so heres hoping that I am finally pregnant! ↑ |
| hey ladies, Well i was wondering if ya'll can help me. I in July for i had my period then afterwards i got my period again in a week and it lasted for 2 week but i was light and sometimes i would just spot. then after that i haven't had my period in for a month and a half.i thought i was pregnant . when i got i was cramping so bad and it only lasted 2 days. I've been feeling sick and tired and for a moment there i was peeing more than usual. I did a pt and it came out negative 2 times. I also have a blood test and also negative. so i said maybe it's in my head cause i do want a baby. so a month goes by and i still feel the same my stomach always makes noise as if i am hungry but i am not. I do another blood test and still negative. Oh ya i also feel something moving in my stomach. My girlfriend said i have all the sympsoms she has and she's pregnant. Could istill be pregnant? ↑ |
| this is alittle of the subject but i have a question to i went to the doctor 11/08/06 because me and my husband have been trying to get pregnet for around 4 months and nothing has happen but i am also two weeks late on my period so they took two pregnancy test and they both came up positive so i went to go it a blood test and it came up negative waht should i do ↑ |
| Can someone help me, I am confused. I stopped taking my birth control the end of July, and my husband and I waited until September to start trying. Well my period came right on time in Sept. but now I am two weeks late and I have taken three or four different hpt that say negative. A couple days ago I thought I might be having some cramps and a mood swing but no period! I have also had a few spouts of being queesy. I dont know what is going on, I have never been pregnant before. Can anyone clear this up for me? I thought Hpt's were suppose to be error proof? ↑ |
| It showed it was pregnant when I took the test.... ↑ |
Hi everyone....I just wanted to get others opinion. I had my last period on Oct. 17 or 18th...So I should be due to start within the next 3 or 4 days if on a 28 day cycle. I havent used birth control as protection...so I didnt have to worry about that interferring....I have 2 year old twins and was wanting another baby now so me and my husband have been trying for the first time this month. I did the whole 14 day after period thing for ovulation and am hoping im pregnant but ive got 2 negative results- one clear blue and the other 1st response. My boobs have been hurting but aside from that I dont feel like im going to start my period- I have that feeling im pregnant-fatigue, etc..Does a few days really make a difference on detecting HCG levels?
Thanks so much,
Brittany ↑ |
| Help! I'm 5 days late & I've had 2 hpt come up neg. Several years ago I was preggers & had about 5 neg hpt's. What are the chances I could be pregnant? ↑ |
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