| if any one is here Please help me, I am 34 yrs old. I have one child 11 yrs old. i have had 2 miscarraiges in the last 10 years. My last period was on the 12th of dec. I am very regular. I have taken 3 urine tests and all negative. technically my calendar said I should start by the 9th of jan but I usually always start on the 12th of the month. it is now the 20th. this morning i took a first morning sample. but i saved it in the fridge to go buy a test and that one also came up negative HELP what should I do. i have sore breasts and very mild cramping. usually my cramps are severe before my period ↑ |
| I TOOK 2 PREGNANCY TESTS @HOME, BUT MY PERIOD IS ALMOST 3 WEEKS LATE NOW. AND I KNO ITS NOT COMING ANYTIME SOON, CUZ I ALWAYS BREAK OUT ON MY FACE THE WEEK BEFORE, AND MY LEGS GET SORE. BUT THERES NO SIGN OF IT. AND I KNOW I HAVEN'T BEEN UNDER ANY STRESS. I SMELL EVERYTHING!!! BUT NO SICKNESS, I LIL NAUSEA HERE AND THERE, BUT NOTHING MAJOR. WUTS UP? ↑ |
Hi Sally! I wouldn't rely on those pregnancy symptoms too much... I had no symptoms during the 1st few weeks of my pregnancy... so the classic symptoms are not always experienced right away or by everyone. Those symptoms (fatigue, nausea, etc) could be PMS, tiredness, or just about anything....
However, if you tested negative, it doesn't mean that you are not pregnant... and the symptoms you are experiencing MIGHT be pregnancy.
I think you should "pretend" you are pregnant... meaning that you should avoid alcohol, take folic acid, eat well, and so on. Better safe than sorry... And I would definitely test every week until your period comes back or you get a positive. I wouldn't test more often because it is a waste of money and I find that those pregnancy tests are highly addictive!!!!
If you feel something is just not quite right and are uneasy with it... then go see your doctor and ignore the above! I really believe we have good instinct for those things!
I'm in the same boat... I'm usually regular and now I'm 1 week late... I did a prego test and it was negative. I feel like taking a pregnancy test everytime I use the washroom but I know that would be crazy...
Anyway, I hope this helped!!! ↑ |
| I ALSO HAVE A LITTLE CRAMPING NOW AND THEN. IT HURTS! SINCE I STARTED... I NEVER GOT CRAMPS BEFORE OR DURING MY PERIOD. ↑ |
| i have been having the same problem's..... i dont have regular periods, so on oct 1,05 i took b.c.p. so i would start.... i started on the 15th after not having my period in a year.... it was actually a regular period, but about a week after i got off, i had spotted just a lil bit, and every since then i have been swellin in my stomach, my stomach is hard and its like i can feel stuff in my stomach....... i have takin 3 different test and they were all negitive, i even went to the E.R.... and still that's a big NEGITIVE* i have been married for over a year and together now for 3.... i have 2 daughters already but not by my husband........ i seriously think that im pregnant..... but in a way the negitive test are making me think that im crazy.................. so is there anyone out there with these types on problems??? if i were to be pregnant i think i would be about 11 weeks, specially with the way that my tummy look's....lol........ ohhh b.t.w. the dr. told me that the reason my stomach is swollen and hard is because i'am bloated.... hahahahahah yeah right............. have you guy's ever been bloated for over two month's??? im going to take some more test, and i will post a reply on here soon........ if any of you seem fimiler in this situation, can you please email me at PULLALOTOFSGIRL@aol.com............... thankx!*** and very good luck... and also remember that it will happen... if you keep expecting it, it is less likely to happen......... everything happen's when you least expect it!!!!********* ↑ |
| Sadly to say. I got my period this morning. I am so depressed. I was so darn hopeful that this time would be my time. I have been trying for over 10 years to have just one more child. 2 miscarraiges and then calculating my ovulations and still nothing but a big fat 0. Go figure obviously someone does not want me to have any more kids. Anyways good luck to all of you. Hope life treats you right and you all get what you want or need. take care and I will come back to check out the forum. Enjoy!! later ↑ |
hey suzie. thanks for the informations and everything and i will take your advice on this. its always better to be safe and regret it later i think. but hea i will test again and i took one of my friends last night that i knoew someone that is trying and hoping to have a baby.
they told me the same advice that you told me. but really they don't know that iwas talking about myself.cause i don't want to tell anyone unitl i know for sure if you know what i mean. especially my fiance cause if i'm preg he will be so happy but in another way what if i'm not preg then he will be depressed and so will i too. like i said i'm just going to wait and test again and problay go to the health department for a test to see what they get also better to be safe right. thank you for the advice and keep in touch cause everyone here is someone they can talk to and don't be judge. ↑ |
| OK.... I STILL HAVEN'T GOT MY PERIOD. AND I HAVEN'T SEEN A DOCTOR YET CUZ I KEEP THINKING IT WILL COME. BUT LATELY MY APPETITE DROPPPED. AND IT USUALLY INCREASES BEFORE MY PERIOD. CERTAIN THINGS THAT I EAT, MAKE ME LIL SICK. AND MY SENSE OF SMELL IS DRIVING ME NUTS! I HAVE ORANGES IN A BASKET ON MY TABLE, AND I CAN SMELL THEM THROUGHOUT MY ENTIRE HOUSE AS IF THEY WERE RIGHT THERE IN FRONT OF MY FACE. MY DAD CAME OVER YESTERDAY AND I ASKED HIM IF HE CAN SMELL THEM, AND HE SAID NO. IS IT JUS ME? IT'S JUS DRIVING ME CRAZY! AND I DONT WANT 2 GO 2 THE DR. CUZ IF MY PERIOD COMES AFTERWARD, I'LL FEEL LIKE I WENT FOR NOTHING. AND I HATE GOING 2 THE DR! BUT AT THE SAME TIME THERE ISN'T ANY SIGN OF MY PERIOD. WHAT SHOULD I DO? ↑ |
| AND I WAS THINKING ABOUT TAKING ANOTHER PREGNANCY TEST THIS WEEK. BUT I DONT WANT TO BUY THEM AND IT BE NEGATIVE AGAIN. CUZ THOSE GET EXPENSIVE. PLUS I WANNA WAIT AND SEE IF IT COMES THIS WEEK. THE SUSPENSE IS KILLING ME! IM SO CONFUSED........... ↑ |
| i had my tubal tied and burnd.and i want ababy.how can i get pregant ↑ |
| hi shanna; i am the same i too, took 2 tests and they showed negative results. Now, i have swollen breasts, go to the toilet all the time, always hungrey and feel un well. i wonder if i am pregnate. i want to be so much but just not sure. ↑ |
| donna did u have eggs stored if not u should ask ur doctor if theres any way of getting pregnant ↑ |
| i took another hpt this moring and it also came back neg. so i'm going to wait a couple more of days and then go to the dr or something to get some blood work done to find out for sure. ↑ |
| Donna: i had a friend to have her tubes tied too after her 1st marriage with 2 boys and got remaiired and they decide that wanted a baby together of their own. so they decide to go the dr and talk to them and she had her tubes untied i guess you can say it took her a litlle while but she got preg and had a little girl with her 2 husband. i say just go and see what your dr says about that as long as that is what you both want together. ↑ |
| Yes. It wasn't until I was two weeks late for af that I got a positive result. The first test I did was 3 days AFTER my late af, and it was negative. I tested again a week later and got a real light positive. I waited another 4 or 5 days and tested once again, and got a real dark positive. I am not sure why I didn't get it early, BUT it can happen! Best wishes!!! I hope you get that positive soon! ↑ |
| I KNOW THIS KINDA CRAZY BE I CALLED A PSYCHIC(ACTUALLY 5 OF THEM) LOL.... AND THEY ALL TOLD ME THAT I WAS PREGNANT. ONE OF THEM ACTUALLY TOLD ME IT WAS A BOY. NOW I'M TOTALLY FREAKED OUT. SO IM GOING TO THE DR. 2MORROW AND GETTING A PREGNANCY TEST. ↑ |
| hi just wondered if any one has had any of theses symptoms and been pregnant, cramps boobs tender ,white discharge,and very tired .due on yesterday but sometimes a week late .i have had these symptoms for nearly two weeks ↑ |
| When I was pregnant three or so ago. No joke I took around 5 home urine preg. test. All of them negative. Then I started eating foods that I normally didn't have a taste for. That's when I girlfriend told me to have the doctor do a blood test. Now, all of the home preg. test was within two weeks of each other so maybe 3 in one week two the next. Acutally, I was three months pregnant the third week of my suspicion when I went to the doctor's. So for me it's never the urine test... Unfortunately, I have all the other crazy symptoms when I have my period so, I natually I didn't think anything of it. The only difference was I had this crazy taste in my mouth that I could not get rid of and it was very hard for me to get comfortable at night to sleep. ↑ |
| I HEARD THAT SOMETIMES THE FATHER OF THE BABY TAKES ON SOME OF THE SYMPTONS. MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN GETTING HEADACHES, SLEPINESS, AND WEIRD CRAVINGS. I JUS BEEN FEELING A LITTLE NAUSEA. BUT SO FAR I TOOK 4 PREGNANCY TEST, AND THEY ALL SAID NEGATIVE. I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHATS GOING ON. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| hello, all guess what i just found out 3 days ago that i am in fact pregnant.....went to the doctor to talk about getting on obvulation medicine because i am so irregular and i dont obvulate every month...heck i dont even obvulate every 3 months...but anyway when i went to talk to her she did a pap and she said i was really sensitive.and well anyway they did a pg test but i told them i checked a wk before that and it was negative...but than she said guess what you are pregnant....so i went home and had to do a home test just to finally see one that was positive..and it was!!!!!!!!! Girls u can find out as early as 2 wks! but i am telling you unless you know of any hcg prolbrems of you havinf hcg levels being to low....the cheapest pg test will work and tell you! FIRST RESPONSE DOESNOT WORK IF YOU ARE IRREGULAR! ↑ |
| it could be that in fact you really are pregnant or that you really want a baby so your having a phantom pregnancy this is when you have pregnency symptoms sickness etc and there is actually no baby there and sometimes pregnancy tests can also be positive sorry i cant help more. ↑ |
| Here we go again, the 15 year old know it all. Becci you are pathetic. Shouldnt you be in school? ↑ |
| hey everyone. that 15 year old needs to be in school i agree with you annoyed on that subject. but anyway, i got up this morning and my breast are really sore and tender. i try that first response hpt and come up neg every time. going to try some other name hpt guess this time to see if it comes up neg or positive. what do you think ↑ |
| to johnna: i'm going to take your advice and try some other hpt to see if it vomes up neg or positive cause i have been using first reponse the last couple of times i have tested. i have been reading everyone's comment and decided to write back. i hope that the next time i test that i get a positive result.this can get fursation on wanting to know and testing but i guess i will have to wait a couple more days and then test and maybe go to the doctor to get some blood work done. ↑ |
| Im 10 days late on my period took 2 tests and it shown negative my ovary area hurts like hell cramps and my stomach is bloated and my breast hurt so much they r hard as hell and my back hurts me what do i do im i pregnant ↑ |
| You may be. And it may be to soon to tell. I would make a doctors appt. if I were u ↑ |
| i am hoping to be pregnant.....my period should come on thursday but the mind games are killin me!!!! I took a hpt today Wed but it was negative......I feel pregnant though so I will try to be patient and wait a few more days and then take another......lets all think POSITIVE...lol ↑ |
| ok my test came out with the first circle going straight across but the second one up and down what does that mean? ↑ |
| Hey kate...do you remember me from Epregnancy? ↑ |
| i was wondering if you can still have your period adn be preg at the same time. my last period was the on dec 24 some christmas huh. can someone help me ↑ |
| well, as of right now i'm two days late. every once in awhile i have cramps around my ovariey area and the top parts of my legs hurt most of the time that is how i know when its time for my period is when the top part of my legs hurt really bad. i will give a couple more days or something but donwant to get my hopes up right this sec. but i really do wish i was preg or just get an postive sign or something.me and my fiance would be so happy and on the top of the world. but i can be patient about his and see what comes to the days later huh. talk later ↑ |
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