| In just turned 22 and I'm 20 weeks pregnant. My fiance and I have been together for nearly 5 years. We partied when we first got together, but haven't since we were about 19. I don't think it's right at all that he's going out w/out you. That's just an excuse when he says he's partying while he can. What's going to stop him when the baby actually comes? My fiance stopped smoking cigs and when he drinks, he has a few beers at home. You're carrying his child and if he can't realize that, then you need to make him realize it. I'm not trying to scare you, but so many men, and not just ones in their 20s, can't handle the responsibility of a child, and they end up screwing the mothers over. I don't know you or your situation, but you need to get a handle on him. If he continues to party, then you need to think about what's best for you and your child. It's just going to stress you out and cause problems within your relationship. If he loves you, he'll see it from your point of view, b/c that's the only one that's right in this situation. ↑ |
| my hubby and I used to party before the before I got preggers and now if he wants to drink we'll both go over to a friends house and he'll have a couple, but if your bf is going out and getting smashed and wont let you go with than something is up....partying isnt the most important thing in life and if it means more to him than you or the baby than I would leave him before it bothers you too much. ↑ |
