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i miscarried yesterday. i can not stop crying help! ↓
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| Name: S.M.B. | Date: Jul 14th, 2006 7:04 AM |
| I'm sorry :-( I know what it's like to go throgh this, but we all go through things differently. Maybe snuggle up this weekend and try to watch a movie. It can happen to even the healthiest person, sometimes theres just no explanation. Talking about it may help, it is a reality, even though it hurts so much. Take care. :-) ↑ |
| Name: chicksy | Date: Jul 14th, 2006 12:18 PM |
| Im sooo sorry for your lost. How far along were u? ↑ |
| Name: Mom2B | Date: Jul 14th, 2006 5:32 PM |
My name is Mom2B too... two different Moms though...
I'm very sorry... good luck, how far along were you? ↑ |
| Name: MOM2B | Date: Jul 15th, 2006 12:33 AM |
| Nothing comforts me. I am sad one minute. Then... so angry. I am so overwhelmed. I am afraid to face anyone. Thank you for responding. ↑ |
| Name: Marianne | Date: Jul 15th, 2006 5:01 AM |
Dear Mom2B
I'm so sorry for you. It's unfair... that's just how it is. Totally utterly unfair.
I tried it last summer, I was 7-8 weeks pregnant and had already seen the little one, seen the heart beating. But I guess It was not supposed to be. The only comfort to me back then was that we'd been trying for 6 months to become pregnant and then at least I know that we'd be able to get pregnant again. And in fact, we succeeded, I'm not 29 weeks pregnant and so far all is well. The fear of loosing has stayed in me, I believe nothing till the baby is in my arms.
So... it is unfair, you'll be able to get another but I know it doesn't matter 'cos you wanted this one... I feel with you and hope for better times. ↑ |
| Name: MOM2B | Date: Jul 15th, 2006 6:43 PM |
| I look at other children and just cry. It is day 2. I am finding it harder now then the first day. I want to try again. But afraid. What helps stop the pain? What can I do to get this out of my head/heart? ↑ |
| Name: vane20 | Date: Jul 15th, 2006 11:55 PM |
MOM2B-
i miscarried the nigth of the 14th and im feeling exactly what ur feeling at exactly the same time. im sobbing like a baby then i stop then i blame the dr's and i dont know what to do. my best friend was as far along as me (9wks) and now i dont wanna hang out with her cause shes pregnant and im not. i know that sounds mean but thats how im feeling right now. i wanna try again too but now im scared cause i dont wanna go through this pain again. ↑ |
| Name: scared1906 | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 10:09 AM |
| i am sorry i cant even begin to imagine what you are feeling . dont blame your self !!!!!!!!!! take care xxxxxx ↑ |
| Name: scared1906 | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 10:10 AM |
| vane 20 have you got msn ↑ |
| Name: MOM2B | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 11:34 AM |
| I MISCARRIED ON THE 13TH. IT IS HORRIBLE. I WENT IN FOR A CHECKUP AND CAME HOME WITH NO BABY. I TRY TO ACT NORMAL, BUT AM A MESS. ↑ |
| Name: vane20 | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 6:47 PM |
| ive been a mess lately too. im not even sure if parts of my baby are still in me or not. i cannot stop crying either. i know exactly how you feel, and we're all here for you ↑ |
| Name: MOM2B | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 7:55 PM |
| I had a d & c. My baby was taken away from me within two hours. How could the heart stop beating? Please go to the doctor and talk to him. Are you still bleeding? ↑ |
| Name: vane20 | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 8:21 PM |
| im still bleeding, more like a period, and there are still some clots but small ones. im doing to the dr. first thing tomorrow. i never even found out if thi/her heart had started beating or not, the PA said it was too early, even though i insisted over and over again, she said it was too early. but at 9 weeks you should be able to hear it ↑ |
| Name: MOM2B | Date: Jul 16th, 2006 11:37 PM |
| I will keep you in my thoughts tonight. Please tell the doctor to do the sonogram. If you need anything...please ask. ↑ |
| Name: Livy | Date: Jul 17th, 2006 12:21 AM |
| I am so sorry, i miscarried with my first at 10 weeks and it was awful cause I had just gotten up the courage to tell everyone and then everyone was askign how I was feeling without knowing I had miscarried and for some reason I just felt humiliated. Don't beat yourself up though, I know it is easy to do. Talking about it and maybe writing down your feelings might help you to get past the pain. I am so sorry for your loss. We are here for you! ↑ |
| Name: vane20 | Date: Jul 17th, 2006 8:39 PM |
| i went to the dr.'s this morning and they analyzed the sonogram from the hospital and it looks like the baby passed naturally, so i didnt need a D&C, thank God, i was so scared. how have you been feeling MOM2B? ur miscarriage was just a day before mine. maybe in the near future me and you will come out pregnant at around the same time. 3 months it is? ↑ |
| Name: MOM2B | Date: Jul 18th, 2006 12:06 AM |
| I am so glad the doctor went well. I was hoping so. I had an okay day. I went out. I went to a small town (30 minutes away) with a small downtown and walked around. I still dont want to talk to anyone or return calls. I think I am feeling a little better. ↑ |
| Name: Loritolay | Date: Jul 18th, 2006 5:47 PM |
| I am very sorry for your loss mom2b...my best friend had a miscarriage a few years ago and what she did was plant a tree in her backyard in memory of the baby. We all went and helped her plant it and said some prayers and it was sort of a closure for her to help her deal with the loss. I hope things get better for you soon. ↑ |
| Name: MOM2B | Date: Jul 18th, 2006 8:16 PM |
| I MAY DO WHAT YOUR RECOMMENDED. i NEED CLOSURE. THANK YOU ↑ |
| Name: Rebecca | Date: Jul 18th, 2006 8:21 PM |
| my mother and step mother have both miscarried and it took them awhile to get used to the fact but then they both tried agian and now both have three healthy children i also to worry about miscarrieing because i am so young but i will keep you all in my prayers but do me one thing and pray to God he is the only one who can give you the ansewers ↑ |
| Name: mommyx2 | Date: Jul 19th, 2006 12:10 AM |
| I'm really sorry about your loss. ♥ kristy ↑ |
| Name: ms.chigger | Date: Jul 19th, 2006 3:03 AM |
I got "no fetal heartbeat" at _ just under_ _six_ weeks -- then, three ultrasounds later, medication to induce the actual miscarriage, which didn't quite do the trick, and an eventual D&C.
Hell, really.
Still, it does get better. Even a gynecologist told me "you're young and healthy and can try again!" -- not at all what one wants to hear in the miscarriage process, but not a bad thing to think about not all that far into the future. You _will_ stop crying eventually -- really.
There are a few good books on coping with pregnancy loss; worth a trip to the library. It may not be exactly what you want to read right now, but if you're going to be crying anyway. The Buddhist concept of "liquid life" can be a very useful one. ↑ |
| Name: MOM2B | Date: Jul 19th, 2006 4:34 PM |
| I called the doctor to see if the results came back on the chromosome count. Everyone told me to drop it. I want to know what went wrong. I still hurt. When will the pain go away? ↑ |
| Name: Angelus | Date: Feb 13th, 2009 5:57 PM |
| Name: Bounty2009 | Date: Feb 23rd, 2009 12:42 PM |
Im so so sorry for you loss - you poor thing! it seems so unfair; a miscarriage can be one of the hardest things a women will have to deal with. My thoughts are with you. I think you are taking the right steps coming here as bottling up your feelings isnt good - you need to talk. Here is another great place you can chat with other women going through the same thing http://my.bounty.com/Forums/Su
bject/267/1/1/Miscarriage.htm.
I really hope you are doing ok, and if you are still feeling down about this, perhaps go and see your doctor and find out if there are any support groups etc. xxx ↑ |
| Name: alana87 | Date: Apr 1st, 2009 1:36 AM |
| Name: alana87 | Date: Apr 1st, 2009 1:39 AM |
| i need some help, i had a misscarriage two nights ago, it was my first pregnacy, i was told i couldnt have kids. my husband and i had been tring for so long for this. he is a wreak and so i am i ↑ |
| Name: lady_ttc | Date: Apr 3rd, 2009 12:31 AM |
| sorry for your lost i have had 7 miscarriage last one was in 2002 i cant carry kids i have a Tshape uterus and pcos .... ↑ |
| Name: cmaltos | Date: May 13th, 2009 10:26 PM |
| Im so sorry to hear about your miscarriage, Im afraid that I may not know the right thing to say, but Im here and sometimes thats all we can be. I misscarried 6 days ago and the pain is still so raw.. ↑ |
| Name: Josie03 | Date: Jun 17th, 2009 7:53 AM |
Ok so i dont really know how to start, Im only 19 and had a threatened miscarriage about a month and a half ago now. Basically i started uni last sept and got seriously ill i ended up with glandularfever, tonsillitis and M.E. all in one go. Since then been ill for the past 9 months. I started getting better after my tonsillectomy and my health started getting better then i found out that i was pregnant, my partner and i had no idea what to do i had just had to drop out of uni because of being ill and i was living with him and his parents up north (my family live on the south coast) a week after finding out and traveling down to tell my family i got rushed into hospital with a threatened miscarriage. They said it was because my body wasn't quite back to 100% and that if i didnt get rid of it i would probably lose it early on. I felt so overwhelmed i had no choice in the matter my body had made that choice for me and it all happened so fast.
I took the route of taking the pills to abort the pregnancy as the doctors said it was the least painful and felt like having a normal period but i was in severe pain throwing up doubled over in pain for 2 days. All that pain just made me feel terrible about what i was doing.
I know its been over a month now but im still finding it so hard. What made it harder was my partner and i only just got a chance to talk about exactly how it made us feel recently because his family don't give us any space (but we are finally moving out soon so thats a plus). I still feel so broken and i dont know what to do i usually loose my self in my art and painting when need to relax or deal with something but i cant everytime i try i just lose all inspiration.
MY partner has been amazing he has stood by me, and stayed in hospital with me the whole time he really is a amazing.
Any advise would be great, i try keeping busy but it doesn't seem to help. Ive spoken to family and friends but i still cant seem to get the pain to go away a lil. ↑ |
| Name: Lisa F | Date: Jun 23rd, 2009 1:10 AM |
| I just had my surgery late this afternoon. This is my second miscarriage in the last four months and I'm so numb that I don't know what to do. I don't understand and I think that's why it's so hard. I can't sleep and I'm angry! ↑ |
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