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i just wanted to know if any of you who've had miscarriages have gotten pregnant in less than 3 months. My doctor told me to wait 3 months to try again but im afraid i might turn out preg. sooner. any advice? ↓
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| Name: ashleymama | Date: Aug 16th, 2006 6:50 PM |
Most often a miscarriage is simply a random one time occurrence caused by chromosomal abnormality, they usually tell you to wait 3 months to let your uterine wall build back up and get strong so that way when the egg implants itself it sticks, but I have heard of plenty of women getting pregnant a month or 2 months after one. I got pregnant 3 months after my Miss but we waited because I had to take these pills from the doc to make sure my body passed all the tissue and the pills could cause serious birth defects. I doubt if you get preggers again you will miss, repeat miscarriages may be related to hormonal abnomalities in the mother or to the mothers immune system rejecting a "forgeign" intruder, the embryo.
It's just a precaution and a standard practice for docs to tell you to wait 3 months. In fact did you know you have a higher than normal fertility rate in the first three cycles following a first trimester loss?? So it's actually easier to get pregnant!!
dont stress and if you get pregnant sooner yipeee!!!!!!! God always does whats right. ↑ |
| Name: Livy | Date: Aug 16th, 2006 6:54 PM |
| I had a miscarriage with my first pregnancy (I was 10 weeks pregnant) and I got pregnant 2 months later with my now 15 ahalf month old son. It does take a bit out of you so it is good to let your body recooperate, but I was healthy and fine getting pregnant sooner than 3 months. My doctor just told me to wait til I had one normal period, so I did. If you don't want to get pregnant sooner it might have to be a sucky 3 months of condoms...but don't try to get back on birthcontrol if you plan to try again soon. Good luck! ↑ |
| Name: vane20 | Date: Aug 17th, 2006 12:22 PM |
thanks ashleymama and livy
it's been 5 weeks since my m/c and im waiting for my period. Dr. said it would be from 4-6 weeks, so im expecting it any time. i do have a healthy 20 month old so maybe youre right and God willing this was a one time thing. it's so hard to get over it though ↑ |
| Name: vane20 | Date: Aug 17th, 2006 12:24 PM |
| i just wanto to get pregnant again asap; but i was afraid that it was dangerous. i guess ill talk to my dr and maybe she wont get mad at me if i turn out preg. before the 3 months are up ↑ |
| Name: Kristy84 | Date: Aug 17th, 2006 4:02 PM |
| Are you feeling better vane? You have to let us know the minute that you find out, even if you are scared it will jinx the pg to tell anyone. Have you been trying again? I hope everything's well with you!!! ↑ |
| Name: ashleymama | Date: Aug 17th, 2006 7:01 PM |
| Your doc wont get mad at you vane20 hehehe, all will work out well!! most important thing is dont get discouraged if you dont get pregnant right away, you already know you are capable of having a little one. Keep me informed on whats going on!! ↑ |
| Name: vane20 | Date: Aug 18th, 2006 9:39 PM |
| hey kristy, well i want to try again but im afraid that ill miscarry again cause it's too soon. i heard your chances of having another miscarriage are 1.5 times greater, but i want to be pregnant again SO BAD! we're not using condoms, just pulling out method. i guess im gonna leave it up to God. He will know when it will be the best time to get pregnant ↑ |
| Name: christiansmommy | Date: Aug 18th, 2006 11:51 PM |
| MY FOLLOW-UP APPT. IS ON THE 21ST. (MY BABY PASSED AWAY INSIDE OF ME AND I HAD TO GET IT SURGICALLY REMOVED) SO I AM VERY ANXIOUS TO SEE WHAT SHE HAS TO SAY. BEFORE I HAD THE SURGERY, SHE SAID IT'S BEST TO WAIT 3 MONTHS, BUT SHE RECOMMENDS AT LEAST WAITING TILL I GET MY FIRST NORMAL PERIOD. MY HUSBAND AND I HAVEN'T HAD SEX YET B/C WE WANTED TO WAIT TILL MY APPT., BUT AFTER THAT, I AM JUST GOING TO GO NATURAL SEXUALLY AND WHATEVER HAPPENS-HAPPENS. THE LORD WILL TAKE CARE OF IT. I AM JUST READY FOR MY BABY!!! I HAVE HEARD OF PLENTY OF PEOPLE HAVING PERFECTLY FINE BABIES AND DIDN'T EVEN WAIT OUT THE 3 MONTHS. SO I AM IN THE SAME BOAT YOU ARE. GOD BLESS. ↑ |
| Name: ashleymama | Date: Aug 19th, 2006 12:00 AM |
christiansommy-
I am so happy that you are willing to try again, and realize that it is in gods hands and for that I know he will bless you with a beautiful child. I just look at it that something was wrong with the baby that would make it almost impossible for the baby to survive or that they would have been severly deformed and it was like your body ran a check to make sure everything formed properly and realized something was wrong. So if anything that means that your bodies are actually working properly and perfect. Good luck to both vane20 and christiansmommy. ↑ |
| Name: MIAGIA | Date: Sep 7th, 2007 11:00 PM |
| Name: preggers01 | Date: Sep 18th, 2007 11:05 PM |
Hi
I had 4 miscarriges in the space of one year with all being an unknown cause, I had a four month break and i am now 12 weeks pregnant with my bub. ↑ |
| Name: cherri | Date: Mar 13th, 2008 5:23 PM |
yes did i was pregnant in november and lost it and agine in
jannuary and lost it ↑ |
| Name: christiansmommy | Date: Mar 13th, 2008 5:26 PM |
this is a trip! vane actually just had her baby girl a couple months ago! so, yes, she is living proof now that you can successfully concieve after a miscarriage. i was in the same boat and now i have a 6 month old daughter.
this post is REALLY old though. ↑ |
| Name: christiansmommy | Date: Mar 13th, 2008 5:27 PM |
| cherri, i'm sorry about your losses. ↑ |
| Name: cherri | Date: Mar 13th, 2008 5:37 PM |
i am new to this my name is cherri and i have 15 miscarriage
i was 16 and i had my son 6 months later i had a miscarriage and 11 months i had my daughter and form then i have had 14
miscarriage i have all the test that can be done all my friend are have baby now i get pregnant and miscarriage can some one help us ↑ |
| Name: cherri | Date: Mar 13th, 2008 5:46 PM |
| i do not like be up set my friend got pregnant at the some time as me she is still pregnant and i lost my baby i do not no wat to do i see her every day at work it is hard i need help am i going mad can some one help me i love steven whit all my hart wot can i give him now not a lot not a baby he can do better then me ↑ |
| Name: Grace.B | Date: Jan 6th, 2009 8:56 AM |
| Hi, I miscarried on March 19th 2008, my EDD was 26/08/08 (first pregnancy), due to turners syndrome (a chromosomal abnormality). After which me and my partner starting trying for a second pregnancy, I have not been able to fall pregnant since and has been almost 10 months I am still young so am hesitant seeing my doctor about it, but I'm frustrated, my first time I got pregnant not even a month after discontinuing contraceptive pills, why is the second time taking so long? Please help me, I feel so hopeless, my body failed my once, now it seems its failing me again. I know this is unrelated to the original post but I need help. ↑ |
| Name: krasnauk | Date: Jan 8th, 2009 6:55 AM |
| I just misscarried at 14 weeks and wondered whether it makes a difference how late you areiin your pregnancy to how long you should wait? ↑ |
| Name: smashlee | Date: Jan 11th, 2009 7:21 PM |
| i did, and i fell pregnant about 2months after my miscarriage.. ia m now 35weeks preg and have no problems at all.. doctors just have to say that as a healthy thing to do etc. but realy it is if you are mentaly and physicaly ready afta a miscariage. do wat you feel is right. ↑ |
| Name: paranoid | Date: Jan 12th, 2009 9:04 AM |
| I miscarried a week before '08' Thanksgiving I had my last appt to test my hcg level the 10th of December and it was 0 which is normal. My doctor said I could start trying again since I was only 7 weeks when I miscarried and I didn't have to have a d&c. Well I hadn't had a period by New Years Eve so I thought I would just take a test to be sure, well it turned out I was pregnant. I went to the doctor this past friday for another hcg test to find out how far along I am. But to be honest I'm still just a lil scared that since it happend so soon that it may be bad and turn out like before, this kills me, bcuz my husband n I have been wanting a lil one for so long now! ↑ |
| Name: kmc0725 | Date: Jan 20th, 2009 12:52 AM |
Hi everyone,
I am going to miscarry soon due to a blighted ovum and I am 6 weeks pregnant (fetal age), 8 weeks gestational age. I guess it could be weeks before I miscarry. My question is should I ask my doc for prescription pain meds or does tylenol work. My doc didn't send me home with any and I'm wondering how bad the pain will be. Is the reallybad?
Don't know what to expect.
Kimi ↑ |
| Name: AidynsMom | Date: Mar 31st, 2009 10:23 AM |
| I had my m/c about 6 wks ago. I had a blighted ovum and had a d&c at 9weeks! It was one of the hardest things I have ever had to go through! I really feel ready to try again...but my spouse is very hesitant! We have a healthy beautiful 3yr old boy and maybe I should be happy with just him,but I have this nagging feeling that my family just isnt complete! I had a ton of complications with my son..so I understand why my spouse feels this way. Has anyone elses husband reacted this way???? ↑ |
| Name: Bounty2009 | Date: Apr 1st, 2009 12:18 PM |
You may wish to look here hun http://my.bounty.com/forums/Subject/18
7/1/1/Pregnancy-after-losing-a-baby.ht
m
- there is a lot of discussion about this matter. Hope you are ok hun xxx ↑ |
| Name: bambinobex | Date: Apr 12th, 2009 5:18 PM |
| Hi all, I had a miscarriage at 16 weeks pregnant 5 months ago and can't seem to get over it, I think about it constantly and don't want to think about it anymore, should it really take this long to overcome my grief? The other problem I'm having is people around me are getting pregnant and I can't be happy for them, I pretend to be but deep down I'm really jealous and wonder why its not me, I'm also worrying about my capability of becoming or carrying a child again as I gaven't been on any contraceptive and still haven't being caught, does anyone else feel like this or tell me how I can overcome this? ↑ |
| Name: Nicky13 | Date: May 2nd, 2009 5:37 AM |
Hi, ive had 3 m/c, the last one 2 weeks ago. I stopped bleeding 2 weeks ago and have now had a positive preg test, but a very weak one. I went to the Drs and he said it could be that i still have the HCG hormone in my system, but i thought that the hormone was only present if you have any retained products, and as ive stopped bleeding i have no retained products. He agreed with this but said i also couldnt be pregnant after 2 weeks. So im now very confused as to whether im pregnant or not, and i cant get a blood test until next wednesday.
Anyone any advice please??? Thanks ↑ |
| Name: Wendyjij | Date: May 5th, 2009 11:51 PM |
| I have had a miscarriage at 20 wks. I had to go through the whole labor and it was very difficult. It happened 3 weeks ago and i can't seem to forget about it. I feel like i want to die because this is my second miscarriage. I feel like i can't talk to anyone even though they say that they are there for me. I don't know what else to do ↑ |
| Name: Confused2009 | Date: May 14th, 2009 10:41 AM |
| Hi, Vane20, I just had a miscarriage on Feb. 26, and just found out May 11, that I'm 6 weeks pregnant. I'm scared because I have 2 daughters the ages are 8 and 6 and never had any problems. When I found out I lost my baby the first time around I cried and cried. it seems as if there wasn't anything anyone could do for me. Now with this pregnancy, I'm sick and I mean can hardly move or do anything. WIth my girls I didn;t go throw anything like this, no morning sickness, no nausea, no nothing, you couldn't even tell I was pregnant. Now I see how it feels for the ones that has been sick. I constantly have to spit and all, this is not a good feeling. But The doctor did give me something for nausea, and its knock me slap out, but I hope its not harming my little one. ↑ |
| Name: btflcrzy | Date: Jun 6th, 2009 4:58 PM |
| i just had a miscarriage but everything i was reading in stupid books was making me scared that my body was just not meant to carry a child.. then i saw this chat and wow.. i dont feel like crap that much ↑ |
| Name: lisanahum17 | Date: Jun 30th, 2009 11:01 AM |
| hi I just had a miscarriage. This was my first baby, I can not say how happy my husband and I were to be expecting our little one and I cant say how sad we are to loose our child. I was 6 weeks along, not knowing if we had a girl or a boy really hurts. we picked a unisex name he chose Hayden I chose Arron so Hayden Arron H. it is. It has been a week and I am still cramping and in pain. I am fearful I can never give my husband another child. I am 30 and he is 35 today. I have allways trusted God I know it is wrong but I am having trouble trusting Him now He could not help take care of my first Baby I am not sure if He can help me if their is a second. I feel guilty for loosing my faith I feel gulty for loosing my husband's Baby. I am suposed to be a place of safty and protection for his babies but I am just a place of death for his babies. he tries to love me and is nice but all I can think is how can you love and kiss the body that killed your little baby. I am so sad, I miss my Baby, I would have loved and cared for the child I did every thing the doc said I have never smoked, drank, or done drugs, my little sister smoked during her pregnancy I told her not to she might have a miscarriage and she said I did not know what I was talking about and she was right she has 2 healthy babies after party's drugs, skipping church, drinking, and smoking. I guess to have a healthy baby that is what you got to do it works for her. I am so sad I just want my baby back. ↑ |
| Name: CC17 | Date: Jul 27th, 2009 6:14 PM |
| I was about 7 weeks pregnant and had a miscarriage on the 4th of July, which has obviously been a terrible experience. I'm only 17, but after getting past being shocked, my boyfriend and I started to get excited about being parents. It's been a month and my body still feels the same as it did when i was pregnant. I'm still moody and emotional, I have massive heart burn that I never used to get, my boobs still hurt...so I think that I might be pregnant again. And I'm scared to death. I love kids, so having a baby wouldn't bother me at all. But I'm afraid that I won't be able to carry it again sense I didn't wait at least 3 months and my body is so young. How could I decrease my chances on having a miscarriage if I am pregnant?? ↑ |
| Name: sweetheavens26 | Date: Jul 27th, 2009 10:11 PM |
Hi ive had 3 miscarriages already, the first one i was 10 weeks pregnant, then i lost the twin at 12 weeks, that was in october last year. In Jan i fell pregnant again and for the third time i lost the baby at only 5 weeks that time.
I am terrified as i am currently pregnant again, 3 weeks yesterday.
Ive had all the tests etc and everything came back ok. So i have no reason wy i had those 3 miscarriages.
I am absolutely scared that i will lose this baby.
I dont know how to be positive anymore. My partner and i have wanted a baby more than anything, why cant it just go smooth for us?
I suppose i am looking for some hopeout there, either from someone who has experienced mutliple miscarriages and then gone on to have a healthy baby. ↑ |
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