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If My mother finds out she will want me to have an abortion but I am scared what do I do? My boyfriend is much older than me and she wants to press charges on him.. But its my fault!! I told him I was older but he forgives me because he said he loves me and i just found out I was pregnant and my Mom doesn't know but if she find out she will have a heart attack. What doI do? Please Help.. ↓
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| Name: to Shay | Date: Mar 24th, 2006 1:03 PM |
| I wish you young girls would think of this crap before you go out and have sex. Abortion is a nightmare and it will never leave you, unless you are heartless with no conscience. I really dont know what else to say to you, but maybe think before the next time you decide to hop in bed with someone. ↑ |
| Name: jade | Date: Mar 24th, 2006 1:05 PM |
| Name: Chris | Date: Mar 24th, 2006 5:47 PM |
Shay, call 1-800-366-7773. This is the people that post the billboards of babies telling about how your baby has a beating heart and fingers and toes with his or her own unique set of prints.
They are very nice and will help you find someone close to where you live where you can talk and help you talk with your parents about this.
I wish you well ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Mar 24th, 2006 8:10 PM |
| Shay, that's tough, I agree with the other Chris, you need to talk with someone and figure out what you are going to do and how to tell your mom. She will find out sometime, better if it's from you, plus if you do decide to keep the baby or give the baby up for adoption, you need to seek prenatal care ASAP. Good luck with this. ↑ |
| Name: jane | Date: Mar 24th, 2006 10:40 PM |
| Shay, remmeber its your body and no one can force you to do something you don't want. Alot of people out their who can't have kids, think about them and how lucky you are. Not a good age to have kids but you can make a diffrence in someones life. If the boyfriend wants the baby than it will also be unfair for him. Were here to support you. ↑ |
| Name: sara | Date: Mar 25th, 2006 11:30 AM |
Parents force their kids to have abortions all the time, through manipulation or lying to them that they are going to do something else, or telling them they as the parents can decide and do this. Or they can talk their child into it, and the child later regrets it and suffers from it for the rest of their lives.
Read about the teen who is taking her parents to court about it. You wouldn't think she would need to take them to court to stop an abortion, but she does.
www.atforumz.com/shothread.php?=187045
Here is a resource for teenagers facing their parents about a pregnancy.
www.facelife.org/teens_an
d_abortion.html
1-800-395-HELP
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after you tell your parents, I would definately find someone you trust and tell them that you are pregnant too, and don't want an abortion, and that you're afraid your parents might force you to get an abortion, just in case. ↑ |
| Name: sara | Date: Mar 25th, 2006 11:31 AM |
| www.facelife.org/teens_and_abortion.html ↑ |
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