| Name: Ella | Date: Feb 25th, 2007 6:32 PM |
Heya everyone, I'm 16 and just found out I'm 8 weeks pregnant. I'm not really sure what I want/need to do about it at the moment. It wasn't the result of unprotected sex, I was just unlucky. I feel way too young to be a mum but at the same time I dont want to kill my baby and I can't stand the idea of going through the pregnancy just to give my baby away. has anyone got any advice or personal experience on this? it would be really appreciated. at the moment I'm just feeling scared and alone and I can't feel excited or happy about my pregnancy. Any help/advice would be good, thanks :)
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| Name: confused_scared | Date: Feb 25th, 2007 7:51 PM |
| I am having symptoms of being pregnant I had a missed period and I am so scared I took a pregnancy test which was negative what does that mean and other teens I am about to be 15 how did you tell your parents? I also had these symptoms when my sister was pregnant. ↑ |
| Name: kidalwys | Date: Mar 8th, 2007 9:39 PM |
im a boyfriend of a pregnant girl
no clue what to do? ↑ |
| Name: Erin81 | Date: Mar 13th, 2007 8:05 PM |
| hey guys just going to tell you i am here for you all if you need to talk we are trying to adopt but i am not asking for any of you guys babys. my best friend got preg when we were in high school and i now how hard it was for her but dont worry you will all be good moms ↑ |
| Name: jnel | Date: Mar 13th, 2007 8:24 PM |
| im 18 and i had a miscarriage.... ↑ |
| Name: dmt | Date: Mar 14th, 2007 6:27 PM |
| Hi Carly 61205 my name is Michelle. Yoou said you were scared and it was more complicated. If you need someone to talk to in private my email is michelle.miller@pobox.com send me and email I would be more than happy to chat. ↑ |
| Name: dmt | Date: Mar 15th, 2007 10:29 AM |
| Hi Chica107 or should I say Brittany. I read your post I know it was printed in August so I hope that you still read the posts. I was very impressed when I read your post. You sound very mature to consider all your options. You are right you still are young. It is very important that you go to college. Whether you keep your baby or not ypu need to be able to support yourself because paying house payments and so on can be touch. You have to do what your heart tells you to do. I am going to tell you from someone who has been in your shoes and knows what effect being a young mother can have on your child. I was 20 and in college when I got pregnant with my son. I ended up having to quite college because I needed a job. I ended up going to ultrasound school. I new I needed some kind of education or I wouldn't be able to support us on my own. I knew I couldn't ever get a home for us without a good job aminimum wage job just wouldn't cut it. So I went to ultrasound school at 6:00 In the morning got home at 12:00 crambed a sandwich in my mouth and left for work. Then I would get home at 8:30. While my son would play I had to do home work. Then on the weekends I probaly went out at least one night a weekend. Every thing I was doing I was doing for my son but, what I didn't realize is what I was doing to my son. During the years he should have been bonding with me I was trying to get means to support him and he was bonding with my mother. At age 25 I was finally ready to get married and when we moved from my mothers home my son sent through a really hard time he didn't understand why we couldn't stay there forever and he missed my mother like I had ripped from his mothers arms. It took us many years for him to feel the way about me like he should probaly 7 years. He is 12 now and we are now doing good. I just thought I would let you in on some of my experience with early pregnancy. On the other hand my best friend got pregnant at 16 and she did give her daughter up for sdoption but we still see the little gir all the time and she is doing great. It sounds as if you have a wonderul mother since she will support no matter what you do most moms are not that understanding. My mother wasn't. Anyway about your adoption question there are lots of adoption places you can find over the internet I couldn't tell which ones are good though. There is also private adoption. That is when you meet someone and you and your parents get to know them and decide if you would like them to adopt your child or not. The adopting parents pay the lawyers fees. I have 3 wonderful children 2 boys and a girl. Are children are 12,7, and 2. We have recently decided that we would like one more baby. I could have one of my own but, i feel in my heart that I would rather give a loving home to a child that needs one. I would love to adopt a child and love it just like my own and make sure that it has all the material things it needs, such as clothes, food and college money etc. So if you are still interested in adoption youcan email me at michelle.miller@pobox.com I also thought I would tell you a little about us we like to boat and hike as a family. The children enjoys sports. My favorite hobby is shopping. I am a stay at home mom and my husband is a computer programmer for the weather channel. If we did adopt your child I wouldn't mind sending a picture and a letter once a year letting you know how the baby is doing and you could also write it a letter explaining what you did and letting them know that you loved him or her if you would like. Well if your interested email me. Well don't know if Brittany is reading these emails anymore if there is anyone else out there that is also interested your more than welcome to email me. Brittany you are a very smart and brave girl I am very impressed. ↑ |
| Name: julet1968 | Date: Mar 15th, 2007 10:38 AM |
| put some orange into her vagina ↑ |
| Name: teen_mommy15 | Date: Mar 20th, 2007 5:31 PM |
| hi rebecca!! im 15 years old and i just found out today i was pregnant ↑ |
| Name: teen_mommy15 | Date: Mar 20th, 2007 5:35 PM |
| hi i am 15 and today after school my boyfriend took me to the clinic. i didnt want to go because i was afraid of the results. it came out that what i was scared of came true!! i was PREGNANT by my 30 year old boyfriend!! you must think its sick to be pregnant by a 30 year old guy(or should i say man) but we love eachh other! we have been dating for 1 year 3 months but behind my mothers back! i dont know how to tell her that im pregnant!! ↑ |
| Name: teen_mommy15 | Date: Mar 20th, 2007 5:37 PM |
| if anyone has anything to say or talk about you can chat with me or email me at calinena4life@gmail.com ↑ |
| Name: lucy_x | Date: Mar 22nd, 2007 7:52 AM |
| Hii Teen-mommy! I'm 16 and 34weeks pregnant, I think you should ask your mum for a word when u feel the times right and tell her that your pregnant.You will feel so much more better once its out in the open i can assure you,My mum was really disppointed in me at first but now shes Xcited.. Im pregnant with a little Girl and am so happy :) ! X x ↑ |
| Name: sarah_1985 | Date: Mar 22nd, 2007 8:38 AM |
| hi teen mommy - it does seem bad that hes 30 - becareful not to shout that too much its statutory rape if hes more than 5 yrs older than u .... about telling your mom all u can do is tell her the truth and as soon as u can the sooner the better good luck telling her if ur happy she'll get over it just make sure u can cope ↑ |
| Name: dmt | Date: Mar 23rd, 2007 12:13 PM |
| You 15 year olds are very young and have a lot of your young life to live. If either one of you are considering adoption I am 30 and 2 boys and a girl. My youngest is 2 . I can have children still but I would rather give a loving home to a child that needs it. So if either of you are considering adoption please email at michelle.miller@pobox.com If not I wish love and the best. You should tell your parents as soon as you can they probaly will be disappointed but, they will love you anyway. The sooner your your parents know the sooner you can get prenatal vitamins and prenatal care. good luck!!!! ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Mar 23rd, 2007 12:26 PM |
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| Name: dmt | Date: Mar 23rd, 2007 4:59 PM |
| I know that I have sent email that sound like this before. I am sending it to the knew people who are on the site. Maybe what I am proposing is something that you are not interested in and I don't know maybe it offends you. If it does I sorry. I would not try to get anyone to do adoptions if they don't want to. Some of these girls need help and are looking for answers. Just because this solution is not good for you doesn't mean that it isn't exactly the answer to someone elses prayers. I don't only want to adopt and give a baby a good life. I also want to help out a young girl that has gotten herself into a difficult situation. This soulution might make it possible to finish high school and go to college. Also go to prom and hang out with her friends all the things that a 15 year should be able to do. So I am sorry that I repeat myself but, if there is one girl that will have a better life because I do I am sorry but I will continue to send my post. Also to all the girls that decide to keep their babies I also support their decisions and wish them all the best. I support all these girls in whatever decision the make. I know what it is like to 15 I am lucky I didn't end up pregnant then. Well anyway I am just here hoping to make someones life better so please don't get so angry. ↑ |
| Name: Randi | Date: Mar 23rd, 2007 6:20 PM |
| No one was getting angry at you for saying that. We are getting tired of seeing a post from a year ago brought up. But since you mentioned it, If you really want to adopt then fine, but go do it somewhere else. Find an agency. Anyone who comes on here looking to get or give away a baby is a complete idiot. You can't be a very responsible person to do it through an internet forum. Find somewhere else. ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Mar 23rd, 2007 6:39 PM |
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| Name: dmt | Date: Mar 24th, 2007 12:17 PM |
| I know that this is not an adoption agency. The only reason I am talking to girls here is because it gives the girls an option and also saves about 25,000 dollars which I feel would be better spent on the childs college educaction. I am not bringing up old posts I was talking to Randi and Sarah_1985 which just posted at the end of March. So what is your situation are you a teen mother or are you pregnant. Don't worry I am not asking you about adoption I was just wondering why you are here and so sensitive to the subject. Anyway I am an adult and I won't argue with you. You seem very angry if you need someone to talk to you can also email me. I wish you lots of love and luck in life!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: dmt | Date: Mar 28th, 2007 9:41 AM |
Randi
It is not irresponsible to try to help someone from here. Do you realize how many children end up in foster homes because their parents can't take care of them. I am not judging I understand how young girls end up in these situation. I was a young girl just like them once and I could have just as likely ended up in the same boat. Now I totally support someone if they want to try and keep their baby and I wish them all the best. Some young girls keep their babies and do just fine if they have a strong family support group. But if a young in this situation is considering adoption it does not make her an idiot. The same thing is not right for everyone. As I have said I am only here for girls that feel they do need help. I also feel that if they think that their child might need a better home because they can not provide it for them that does not make them an idiot it makes them selfless and brave. In every situation there is a different right answer. I wish you all the love and luck in the world. ↑ |
| Name: babybelly_15 | Date: Mar 28th, 2007 10:32 AM |
| hey! i'm 15 and 28 wks pregnant, w/ a boy ↑ |
| Name: babybelly_15 | Date: Mar 28th, 2007 10:35 AM |
| hey! i'm 15 and 28 wks pregnant, w/ a boy. if any body wants to chat w/ me over email: dixie_sweetcheeks@yahoo.com, b/c this is a crappy way to chat. then you are welcome to. ↑ |
| Name: johnsonandfrye | Date: Mar 29th, 2007 12:26 PM |
| Is anyone pregnant here in Texas? ↑ |
| Name: needs-help | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 4:47 PM |
Please can someone help me.
Im 13 and i have some signs of pregnancy, never had sex just
dry humping
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i think im just bieng paranoid but please can someone help me! ↑ |
| Name: Baybeeinluv2007 | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 2:32 AM |
| Hi my name is megan and i will be 17 in may...i just found out i am pregnant i dont know what i am having...does anyone wanna chat with me?? ↑ |
| Name: Viikkii | Date: Apr 16th, 2007 1:23 AM |
| Im 17 and 5 months pregnant and my baby has a abnomality ↑ |
| Name: khloe_13_17-weekz-4-dayz | Date: Apr 16th, 2007 12:31 PM |
| please help me im 13 and pregnant and would like to talk to other pregnant teens and teen mothers plezze reply!!! ↑ |
| Name: khloe_13_17-weekz-4-dayz | Date: Apr 16th, 2007 12:36 PM |
| hia im khloe im 13 and pregnant add me on msn and we can tlk more sassykhloe@hotmail.co.uk-my display picz 1 ov da baby so plz add me i wanna spred it around! lol ↑ |
| Name: khloe_13_17-weekz-4-dayz | Date: Apr 16th, 2007 12:39 PM |
| hia x_mint_x im 13 and 17 weeks and 4 days pregnant would love 2 chat wiv u add my msn sassykhloe@hotmail.co.uk thnx frm khloe ↑ |
| Name: reeses119 | Date: Apr 16th, 2007 3:40 PM |
| Name: reeses119 | Date: Apr 16th, 2007 3:41 PM |
| Hi im 19 and pregnant i found out three weeks ago that i was 14 weeks pregnant..dont know what to do scared... ↑ |
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