All you girls are saying you want to be thin and that anorexia or bulima or what ever is the best/easyest way to lose it i look at this a just shake my head if you REALLY NEED to lose whieght then exorsize or for god sake if your bulimic/anorexic at least go on adkins or what the hack ever..
i can totaly understand wemon wanting to be thin and thats because of celebs they set unrealistic standards the WHOLE REASON they are celebs is because they are above average....... and just because they are thin you think that because you get thin youll get popular (maby not to that point but u still think youll feal better about yourself) i might just be a wierd guy..... but for gods sake id rather have a girl that doesnt have 10s of 100s of medical problems and is normal wight and looks than a friggin moddle that is near death cus shes too damn obsessed with her looks
I also see many wemon stateing its about "control" well theres 100s of ways to "control" your life one way being allow no one in be alone if you REALLY want to control something i hear you meaning to say"but that hurts and makes me sad" or something to that effect..... well look at it this way you can
be in control and be sad
be unincontrol and be semi happy semi sad depending on whats going on in your life
or be bulimic/anorexic be semi happy then relize your dieing because you refused to just accept some of lifes challanges after all only in adversity can you grow....
i may be being blunt or simply "mean?" but its the damn truth and if you say one word about it being about guys..... i have this to say if they care about your looks past health problems they dont love you.... they just want to use you and leave you its that simple....... ↓
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| Name: corrine | Date: Jan 13th, 2006 10:51 PM |
you're right. partly. it is about perfection- about being above average. I dont know about everyone else but i have never settled for average in anything and dont want to. its who i am.
and I dont want to become thin for guys, its for myself. its who i want to be. its who I cant help being. No one gets this- theres no other way- at least for me..i just dont want to stop. ↑ |
| Name: Depressed Boi | Date: Jan 15th, 2006 1:18 PM |
Yes there is and if you woulnt accept less of yourself then why the HELL would you even consider this. this IS LESS its possibly the WORST YOU CAN BE dont want to be average then dont be one of the girls that is a vail obbsesively perfectionist dont fit in a crowd just do your own thing.....
your startment is self contridictry if you want to be better then dont do that if you think theres no other way then although this is brutal its true ether your matabolisom is too low OR THE MORE LIKELY your too damn lazy to exersize and still want it so you try to short cut it...
well theres no short cuts in life and eventualy it will all catch up to you youll die early and wish that you had that 20 or 30 or in some cases 40!!! years that you cut off your life and i even mentioned that models set UNREALISTIC you fit exactly what i said above that you think you can be better by looking better and thats not the way to do it. the way to do it especialy if you REALLY want to look better and actualy be better is just run and eat RIGHT not throw it up and not NOT eat nothing.
if your so shur that theres no other way...... prove me wrong and stop that for a whole year, instead run eat subs salids and stuff of that nature, eat around 3 times a day, eat small but not irrationaly small means (as in a sandwich or a salid is small not a few crackers or chips) if that doesnt work then fine go back to it and ruin your life but PLEASE dont think this is the only way there are 100s probably even 1000s of ways for people to lose whieght and even more for people to improve themselves. ↑ |
| Name: Amy | Date: Jan 16th, 2006 2:30 PM |
| hey depressed boi, you make it sound so simple, but we do know all this stuff deep down, we'r not stupid. Its not a case of that, these methods of attmepting weight loss are extreme because its a way of dealing with things quickly. Its a state of mind which is very very difficult ot break, not just physical habits. what are you depressed about? thanks for trying to help anyway, Amy x ↑ |
| Name: Depressed Boi | Date: Jan 25th, 2006 11:24 PM |
the way to break it isnt difficult just tell people that care but dont know if they care then they will do nothing to allow it to allow it to go on the way to stop it is to talk about it and slowly eas off it you say you know the deep stuff well heres the phisical way to stop it TELL PEOPLE ABOUT IT!!!!!!!!! if your married tell your husband and i shur he will help you if you have a boy friend or some close friends tell them(and if you dont feal confortable doing that go into a chat room and talk about it) talking about it is the 1st step the 2nd is to allow the other ppl to help you enforce the rules on it!!!! i may be makeing it easy but its just that simple to stop get a friend or a partner with it will stop you
theres no way i can force any one and i know that this post will NEVER CHANGE ANY ONE the only changes that can occure are people that help other ppl if some one here lists thier email they do mroe then i(a 3rd party) could do in a million posts with all the knowlage about it and all the emotions but a single email will do 100s of times mroe than that! so i encourage you to post your emails and understand that people care more about you then you do because they would hate for you to be anorexi or bulimic...... i know these posts do nothing theres nothing i can do if i cant talk to you or email or chat on a sight its that simple. im sorry but its that simpel ↑ |
| Name: angie | Date: Feb 3rd, 2006 3:45 PM |
| i thik u r just dumb!! Ive been into my looks as long as i remer and i think u being a guy u sould help these girls that have a eatin prob and not tell them that other guys just want to use them that bull and u know it u might be like that but all the guys in the word r not!!!!!! Girls need to look good to fell good and that goes for the men aswell . Am a model and i live a normal happy heathly life and so do others!!!!!!! think befor u speak ↑ |
| Name: danielle | Date: Feb 3rd, 2006 7:51 PM |
ok i understand wat ur saying but no matter how hard i even try to exercize i am always the same wayt. but not just celebs are that skinny. like my friend rachel she is 11 and wen she eats its like feeding time @ the zoo but she is still only 75 lbs! and the only way to be popular in my skl is to b like super thin. and i have a really big crush on this guy that i no lkes me 2 ut all of his exes were super thin. and he actually loves them!
so do u have any more avice becuz i think that i am going to be anorexic cuz i am like lozing 5 lbs every 3 wks! witout even exercises!
so if u kno any body tht understandsplz tell me! ↑ |
| Name: gabby | Date: Feb 6th, 2006 4:47 AM |
pigs arse we want to be thin and anorexia is the only way to be thin.
it's not true.
we have so many other reasons to be thin and anorexia and bulimia arent the easy ways out. it is so hard to stop once you start.
on the other hand i agree in what you say but you dont understand the whole truth. ↑ |
| Name: Sarah | Date: Feb 17th, 2006 6:27 PM |
| I am anorexic and Reading this helps me understand the reasons I did it. I did it because I saw my self as fat at 40kg at the age of 16. I am getting help now....... I weigh 44kg and slowly getting there with out my family and friends I would of died ↑ |
| Name: Sarah | Date: Feb 17th, 2006 6:32 PM |
| I am 17 now and so far im 44kg i still see myself as fat but I cant help it, The guys tell me its hott to be that thin and it just makes me feel like that is the way it should be if u can help me please add me to msn- little_luv_bug101@hotmail.com ↑ |
| Name: Sarah | Date: Feb 17th, 2006 6:40 PM |
Me again... i dont understand why you say all supermodels are thin and stupid,,,, Not all are anorexic some are thin but i see it in a different way because i have the eating disorder and i am not a supermodel i am just a teenager who saw myself as fat at 40 kg. Please can you help me anyone??? I need some one to talk to on msn little_luv_bug101@hotmail.com
Thankyou because I am getting really sick again and i only have one chance before it is too late ↑ |
| Name: elle | Date: Feb 17th, 2006 8:51 PM |
I think all the girls saying they'd like to "become" anorexic or bulemic ought to read this. Being thin does not make someone popular, nor does it make someone more appealing to the opposite sex. And you don't have to take my word for it, listen to the hormonal teenage boy!
And Depressed Boi, if you're the same person who's been posting negative comments on everyone else's threads, that's very disrespectful and unappreciated. You have very valid opinions, but there are definitely more respectable ways of conveying your message to the young ladies on the forum than name calling and swearing. ↑ |
| Name: corima | Date: Feb 24th, 2006 9:20 PM |
| Name: lilwestlifefan | Date: Mar 6th, 2006 3:32 PM |
| I so agree! I love my food and would never sick it up! I am curvy, but not fat, a happy size 12 and are happy to stay there! I have a totally sexy BF and my weight is soo not a problem! I weigh 10stone, so what? i am a girl, and yes I look at models and say, god it that a size 2? I mean come on what is the friggin point? ↑ |
| Name: angel | Date: Mar 7th, 2006 3:23 PM |
| Name: anonymous | Date: Mar 8th, 2006 7:03 PM |
| Hi. First off, I want you to know that I do respect your opinions and that a couple years ago I would have said almost the exact same thing. However, things have happened in my life over the past couple years that have drastically changed my view. This leads me to my second point. Please don't talk about this so cynically when you truly have no idea what you are insulting and venting about. Eating disorders are about so many diffferent issues except for eating. EATING HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH IT! And I realize you know that some of it is about control but you are in no position to say how easy it is to find other ways of control. It makes me extremely mad to read your post in which you are talking about eating disordered people as if they are at a lower level than you... that they are stupid... that they are shallow and want 'popularity'... or that it would be so easy and sensible for them to just suddenly stop. I'm sorry if your post did not come across the way you had intended but I wanted to let you know that I found it rude, immature, cynical, condescending, and overall it made me very upset. ↑ |
| Name: viv | Date: Mar 17th, 2006 9:04 PM |
| Name: anon | Date: Mar 18th, 2006 1:07 PM |
| you cant helf if you become anorexic its a diesiese im anorexic i try so hard to stop but it takes over ur mind ↑ |
| Name: helper | Date: Apr 11th, 2006 10:37 PM |
| To beat anorexia you have to beat your control issues. Good luck! ↑ |
| Name: not available | Date: Apr 11th, 2006 11:28 PM |
| i want to be thin! should i become anorexic/ i feel like its my only choice please help! i want to feel comfratarble around guys! please help ↑ |
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