| Name: kimmersue | Date: Jun 19th, 2007 9:04 PM |
| I have this very same problem. My 11 year old son is very hateful to me (his mom) and he will yell and scream at me, hit me, kick me all in a fit of rage. He has been to several different doctors and he is on 3 different meds to help..... ITS GETTING WORSE. I have at times lost my cool with him and regret what i've done. I have asked for help from several different people and I too am getting no where with this. The more I do the worse it gets. He seems to blame everyone or everything for his out bursts. At times I don't think he even remembers what he has done. This really gets me very down. This seems to be a very had decision one has to make in how to handle a child like this. I do feel your pain. Right now I'm looking into putting him in BOOT CAMP. They won't take him because of his age. I'm being told he has to be 13 before they will take him. I have read so many of these responses and trust me I've tried them. Taking things away...total 100% restriction... kind love a hug... consuling... meds...spanking.. I've tried it all....... and i've stuck my decisions and don't let him walk over me. But still I have this problem with him. I just think some kids are this way. I just pray that he will grow out of it before he hurts me or someone else. He has threatened to kill his little brother. I put him in a hospital after this happened. I just think he is so full of hate that no matter what I try it just won't work. I really do feel your pain. If I had a good solid answer I would tell you. Maybe going to see Dr. Phil is a good answer as was said prior. I'm not crazy about the man but he does help alot of people. Who knows.... maybe my son and I will be there some day. It's about the only thing I haven't tried. Good luck to you and God Bless. ↑ |
| Name: Camille | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 11:29 PM |
| Rob, I understand that your son is simply out of controll.But this is only a faze, as he is going through this faze you are going to need to be there to ground him or lock him in his room or take away things like his computer or phone. ↑ |
| Name: lollipop333 | Date: Jul 8th, 2007 5:41 PM |
| Name: kng13 | Date: Aug 15th, 2007 10:46 AM |
| Are you and his mother divorced? ↑ |
| Name: spuncko12 | Date: Aug 25th, 2007 12:06 AM |
| I am 11 do you know other websites that you can chat? ↑ |
| Name: CutsBruises | Date: Aug 29th, 2007 7:56 PM |
sit the little brat down and make him watch high school musical over and over and over again till he apologises
thatll scare the socks of him ↑ |
| Name: Liliy | Date: Nov 4th, 2007 7:09 PM |
| i my self am an 11 year old u should take him to therapy. don't insult him. it will make him more mad. don't hurt him. just take him to therapy talk to him he doesn't listen hurts u i would put him in juvenile. i would b in juvenile if i were to hit my mother just take him to therapy. ↑ |
| Name: amy2 | Date: Nov 13th, 2007 1:09 PM |
| god i taught my 11 yr old had an attitude. here a few things 2 look at. has there been any major life adjustments, has he changed friends, has he lost interest in any hobbies? you need 2 sit him down tell him hiw much you love him and whatever has him so angry he can tell you, and if it turns out nothin is wrong he just testin the bounderies you need to be strong he needs a strong male role model. ↑ |
| Name: la_babygurl | Date: Nov 29th, 2007 7:18 PM |
| Name: la_babygurl | Date: Nov 29th, 2007 7:18 PM |
| WELL U STILL HAVE ENOUGH TIME TO CONTROL HIM NEVER GIVE UP.. ↑ |
| Name: lovbug | Date: Aug 3rd, 2008 12:57 PM |
| well dont take thing away that allways makes them mader and you should sit him down in a chair and talk to him ask him if he likes a girl or somethin and he just might be going thro... peberde thats y you should talk to him ↑ |
| Name: AnaBabe | Date: Jan 4th, 2009 7:49 AM |
| Name: catherine1254 | Date: Jan 12th, 2009 9:36 PM |
| Name: ana y ceci | Date: Mar 26th, 2009 6:52 PM |
| hi!! even though im a 11 year old. i think u should talk to him and tell him about god and read the bible with him!!ill pray for u!!but its ur turn to have faith in god and pray to him so ur son can be a good son and ull see that with the help of god he will change!!just believe!!god bless u!! ↑ |
| Name: crazymom399 | Date: Oct 25th, 2009 6:37 PM |
| I hate to say this (You probably already know.) but that's extremely serious, especially for a boy of his age. I also have an 11 year old boy and if he did any of those things he would be in serious trouble. Let me just tell you that for the next few years hormones are going to be KILLERS. So my general rule of thumb is expect the unexpected, because preteens and teens are often testing the boundaries of life during this time. That being said, it's especially important to let tweens/teens know when they've stepped outta line. it sounds like you've already gotten that point across to him, and now I would suggest seeking out more serious help. Talk to your doctor and see if he/she has any suggested counselors who are well trained in this kind of area, as well as info on his behavior. good luck! ↑ |
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