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how do i tell my mom im having sex? she'll freak out and stuff. im only 15 but me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. i love him and youll probably tell me i dont but i do. how do you tell them your having sex? i dont want her to never let me see him or disown me or anything. im not stupid although i have had sex without a condom once. but he knows what hes doing and weve never accidentally made a mistake while doing it. i just need to know how to tell my mom so shell let me live my life. ↓
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| Name: TeenageWasteland182 | Date: Feb 12th, 2007 12:56 AM |
Hae
If you love the guy nd he loves you just explain that too your mum, i mean come on she's got to let u have sex at sum point, if u feel that maybe she will have a go at u if u tell her then maybe you shuldn't tell her for a little while.
Or to get her too have the old mother daughter chat and ask u if u are, leave packets of condoms it ur room, handbag and jeans pockets, she'll find them and ask why they are there, or ask if your having sex.
But if ur mums gonna go off at u for that too then dnt lolz :)
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| Name: elliesmummy | Date: Feb 13th, 2007 8:33 AM |
stop having sex at your age that might be a good thing!
if hes older than you he could get done you no! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 13th, 2007 6:07 PM |
| You should be pregnant in no time! Good luck when it happens!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Feb 14th, 2007 9:49 AM |
| I hope that when my girls get to this point in their life, they will come to me. Have you ever thought of just taking to her? You moght be surprised. I was alot older than you when I started having sex, but I did talk to my mom about it when I did. Was she happy? No, she was dissapointed that I didn't wait until I was married, but she was glad I talked to her about it. Does she like your boyfriend? Is he older than you? ↑ |
| Name: sez | Date: Feb 14th, 2007 11:16 AM |
Look honestly you dont have to tell her, i wouldnt personally at that age let my mum know i was sexually active, it would of just caused trouble for myself and arguements. But that is me, not you.
Please just make sure you are using conception..you do NOT want to end up pregnant or with a STD ↑ |
| Name: sez | Date: Feb 14th, 2007 11:17 AM |
You could also sit her down and have a hypothetical question session with her..
ask her what she thinks is a appropriate age etc. Or even gradually let her know that you are thinking about engageing in a sexual relationship.
You might love this guy..but why does sex have to be involved? ↑ |
| Name: Sunshine1 | Date: Feb 14th, 2007 12:15 PM |
| I'm not a fan of keeping big secrets from your parents especially since it will be a lot worse if your mom finds out on her own. The easiest solution to this is to stop, but the reality of it is you are already having sex and no amount of talking about it will make you stop. I'm sure you and your boyfriend are very much in love and I would never think to minimize the depth of your feelings, BUT, I do think 15 is a little young to be taking on this kind of adult responsibility. I'm sure I will get some flack for this, but if you really think your mom is going to freak out and disown you, and you absolutely won't stop having sex until you are at least a couple of years older, I would suggest that you keep it yourself for now. Whether or not you tell your mom...USE PROTECTION AT ALL TIMES!!! I have two sons and both got an assortment of condoms for their 16th birthdays. I told them that I would definitely prefer that they wait until marriage but I also realize that us parents don't always get what we want. BE SMART!!! If you think telling your mom that you are sexually active will start WWIII, can you imagine the meltdown she will have when you have to tell her that you are 15 and pregnant?? Good luck sweetheart! ↑ |
| Name: messedupteen | Date: Feb 14th, 2007 1:32 PM |
katie dee,
i've been having sex since i was 11 years old . im 14 now and my ex girl friend in ontarios pregnante with a good chaqnce of it being mine and my family ( excluding my half sister ) dont know . if you feel like you kneed to tell ur mom then do it but if ur not ready yet then wait till your like 16 or 17 and ask her about sex and kind of slip it in . Hope it goes well .\
Messeduptenn A.K.A Jacob ↑ |
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