Of course, it would be natural for him to go through a depression, so I'd suggest some counseling to help him through his feelings. Then, if/when he starts to see things from a different point of view, get him into activities that help him to be "normal" again. Depending on the severity of his arm/hand paralysis, you could have him use a computer, music lessons, art, etc. If he has total paralysis of all four limbs, I'm not sure what to suggest, but I'd definitely seek professional help for yourself as a parent and also your son. There are so many out there who've been in both of your shoes that can help with the emotional side as well as the therapeutic and physical aspects. This might sound mean, but you should remind him that he'll need to stay in school even more so now for the simple fact that he'll be relying on his brain (and hopefully a degree) to earn a living since he can no longer rely on his body for that (i.e. construction work, athlete, etc.). Check your area for support groups, particularly for teens, for those who've suffered spinal cord injury. And (in my opinion) don't forget to pray for guidance, as I'm sure you'll need it in the future as well.
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