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I don't really understand kids these days most of them have every thing {and yes thats our fought} when kids are young we buy buy buy and buy even more, they get older and they get cellphones, computers, mp3 players, all kinds of video games. hang with there friends all the time. and the second you tell them NO they get depressed, my daughter told me one day she was depressed and needed to get on some meds to help her, and as a parent i sat her down and had a talk with her, i told her to tell me every thing even if she had to yell and scream to get it out and we would go from there, she told me she didn't like living were we lived,{no friends were around} we live in the country, and i wouldn't let her hang with her friends all the time, and go as she pleased, i let her talk all she was going to say and after she got though i let her no that for one thing we was not going to move because she didn't like it there she would have to learn to live with that, and as far as her friends if she got some friends that wasn't deadbeats, on drugs and drinking i would let her go and as far as letting her run free i would never do that, and as far as being depressed and borded, i told her your only as borded as your mind will let u be, and you let your mind tell you you are depressed because i say NO and then i got upset and let her no some thing like bills, money, food, insurance, light bills, phone bills, there cost for school {schools thinks everyones rich} gas, doctor bills i told her if any body need to be depressed it was me, but i wasn't and theres.s no reason for her to be, after i had to say what i did her depresstion went away and now she seem to be back to her old self, and i told her if she.s borded i can find something to do to unbored her.. what i'm saying is sit down and have a talk with your kids to find out whats going on in there heads and let them no whats going on in yours them some time they will see why you say no and why you say it. ↓
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| Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Jan 25th, 2007 9:09 PM |
I dont think theres anything wrong with a cellphone, games, w/ever for kids, as long as theyve earned it first.
For example: If I ask my mom to go somewhere with my friends or my g/f she will say yeah, I can go......
But the thing is-- my dad does ***ABSOLUTELY NOTHING AT ALL***, and my mom has to work alot of long hours....... so I take care of EVERYTHING in the house, like cookin dinner, dishes, sweeping, washing my clothes and everyone elses', so I EARNED going out of the house for awhile, get it? And were ((poor.)) so I dont even ask for a cell phone... but if I did, I would have to work for it.
But should some preppy little bitch who sits at home all the time while people wait on her be allowed to have whatever she wants? HELL NO!!! she didnt earn it. ↑ |
| Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Jan 25th, 2007 9:12 PM |
| BTW if she is that concerned about her friends not living close, tell her to get a myspace and add them to her friends... when your on myspace you can pass the time away so fast..... it's like crack for your mind, because it is so addicting!! ↑ |
| Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Jan 25th, 2007 9:14 PM |
| Name: KELLYMCLEOD | Date: Jan 25th, 2007 9:47 PM |
| yes both of my girls have myspace, and no cellphones and game are not bad but if u look at this world today how kids just sit infront of the tv and computers and have things just handed to them is whats wrong with them, and i no your mom is proud of you helping her out like that and it will make you a better person when you grow up because you no how to give a helping hand. ↑ |
| Name: PosersNFakes | Date: Jan 26th, 2007 1:35 PM |
| Nothing wrong with mobiles / cellphones. GET INTO 2007 ↑ |
| Name: KELLYMCLEOD | Date: Jan 26th, 2007 2:48 PM |
| yea and theres nothing wrong with a kid getting up off there asses and working for it eather instead of it being just handed to them because there spoiled rotten, ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Jan 26th, 2007 2:53 PM |
| I agree with you on that KellyMcleod! ↑ |
| Name: KELLYMCLEOD | Date: Jan 26th, 2007 3:37 PM |
| Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Jan 26th, 2007 9:07 PM |
yes both of my girls have myspace, and no cellphones and game are not bad but if u look at this world today how kids just sit infront of the tv and computers and have things just handed to them is whats wrong with them, and i no your mom is proud of you helping her out like that and it will make you a better person when you grow up because you no how to give a helping hand. =
---- exactly what i just said----- you gotta do something and earn it. ↑ |
| Name: TeenageWasteland182 | Date: Feb 4th, 2007 11:21 PM |
Hae
See thats wht i hate, parents that think they no everything bout kids and wht they ned and want.
Truth is all parents out there that you dont, and ur idea of wht we need is so far off its not funny.
Kids like us need frends too keep us sane, how do u know if they are on drugs and what not, just coz they are does not say they are a bad person, for all youno one of these so called "Drugies" could just save your daughters frm alot of things.
Ace ↑ |
| Name: Spoon | Date: Apr 4th, 2007 9:08 PM |
| we kids think u mums think to much ↑ |
| Name: jess93 | Date: Jul 6th, 2007 1:26 AM |
| i am a teen and i don't have a cell or any hand held games. if i need some one to talk to i get off my butt and walk to were ever they live no matter how far and i always find a way to keep busy without the games i read and help my mom it's not fun but i'm not bored. and my mom is gonna make me pay for my phone just like my brother pays for his. so us kids don't really need those things you just want them. ↑ |
| Name: Wrathedragon | Date: Jul 29th, 2007 10:54 AM |
thisll be poor taste SO DONT READ IT!stfu u idiotic bitch...you have dealt with that kinda shit for years and it ALOT harder on kids then it is on addults...SO STFU AND LEAVE HER BE...
Emo 4 Life ↑ |
| Name: chatjunkie | Date: Aug 27th, 2007 7:20 PM |
| hi i live in ireland i have a sixteen year old son he plays a lot of soccer hangs out with a big group of friends plays p.s games listens to his i pod and chats on line ans bebo to his friends not all at the same time i hasten to add i consider him to be a very well grounded teenager happy and content i think they all need to think they are treated like apprentice adults rather than kids give them some leeway and be ready to pull the reins in if they overstep the mark he's my youngest of four and it worked for me ↑ |
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