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hey, i've been pregnant for 5 months and near 15 years old.
i don't know what to do, and i think i'm going for the abortion. is this the right choice? pleas help me out. ? |
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If you are 5 months along I think you are too far in pregnancy to get one. Most clinics draw the line at 4 months. It depends on where you are, though. Why not put the baby up for adoption? At this stage in pregnancy the baby can FEEL the abortion being done.
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up to u but no it isnt its selfish trust me i no
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at 5 months i wud never consider an abortion if you wanted want you should of at the start. keep the baby its a real life now.
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HAVE DAT BABY CAUSE IF U DONT UR THE ONLY ONE WHO IS GOIN TO REGRET IT AT THE END
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5 months along is a little too late for abortion so instead you either have to keep it yourself or give it up at delivery time.
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For the sake of everything please don't get an abortion. That baby inside you didn't have the choice to be conceived so at least give him/her the choice to live. There are so many men and women in the world who cannot have children in the world and they would die to have a baby like yours.
Please - instead of making the choice to kill an innocent life, give the gift of life to someone that really really really wants it. = |
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I think 5 months is too late for an abortion
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5 months is very late for an abortion.... at 22 weeks a baby outside the womb (dead) is considered still born - not miscarried. A child of 22 weeks could survive (with intesive care) on it's own. That is killing a baby.
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just give it up for adoption. ther is so many people who cant have kids, and will love and cherish your baby forever. you could even do an open adoption if you would like . then you could see your baby, maybe even have visits.
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It's too late, you're too far in.
You should give it up for adoption or ask someone else to take care of it. = |
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1. no it is NOT the right choice
2. Does your boyfriend know? If my girl was pregnant I would at least want to know. = |
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Hey i understand where your comming from...i was 15 when i had my daughter....i chose to keep her and raise her and love her...i think that 5 moths is too late for an abortion and you should give your child to a family who will love it and cherish it and take care of it...i recomend open adoption that way you can visit or get pictures or talk to the baby on the phone...it can ask all the questions it wants when the baby gets older....that kinda thing.....
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please dont do it. This is a precious life. Give it a chance.
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well, you ask my suggestion I say HELL NO. I dont care if you was 4 weeks pregnant. Y are kids having kids? maybe it was a mistake and i understand that, but u learn from ur misstakes. Yoke, trust me you will regret it. thats ur baby you have to love and take responiblity now. it may be hard cause ur in school still, but if it was me I wouldnt care if i was 14 or 15 i did it and im going to be a women and stand up for my own. YOU FEEL ME? Im not trying to be harsh or any thing like that, and if I was im sorry but please don't kill your baby.
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adoption is the answer. do not get an abortion. face it, you made this mistake and you can't make the baby suffer for it. You have to take responsibility for your actions. would you feel comfortable killing someone? this isnt a something, its a someone. if you need someone to talk to or need help email me at xHxIxTxCxHx@aim.com
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at 5 months thats like taking a newborn baby and killing it because the baby is allready a living person pretty much, I dont even think there is a dr. who would do an abortion at 5 months i think its illegal. Give your child up for adoption so it can have a good life.
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Hello all I am one of the many women out there, that will never know what it is to wake up at 2am and feed a baby, hear a crying baby none of them but to mu surprise I was going to be a Adoptive mom and oh HOW HAPPY we was until today, I found out she was not pregnant and she was not who she said she was she was useing some one else name and all so here was my dream gone to the dogs and a empty room and a cradle with no baby to hold. God Bless
icepoohdar@hotmail.com ? = |
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Hello,
We are Tom and Jenn. Please take a look at our profile. http://www.parents.tk/cgi-bin/classifi eds/classifieds.cgi?db=seekingtoadopt&website=&l anguage=&session_key=&search_and_display_db_butt on=on&results_format=long&db_id=278&query=retrie val = |
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no not at all abortions are very traumatic and at that age of the baby there is every chance of infertility and depression following... you should have thought of this earlier darling! there are other ways of dealing with this but that is not it... goodluck
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My daughter is 14 and will be 15 when her baby gets here. My husband and I are against abortion, but when she ended up pregnant we still told her she had to make the choice and we would back her up either way....however we thought she should keep the baby. Now she's starting her 15th week, she's been extremely sick with MS but SHE decided that abortion was not the answer. Trust me...even at her age she would (and has advised people on here) not to have an abortion. IF you honestly do not have a strong support system out there...parents, grandparents whatever...then please put the baby up for adoption.
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hey i would get an abortiona and pray and would think every day that if i would have had that child it would have been wrong cause i wouldn't be able to give myself a good life at 15 while taking care of a child whom i would have to to give a great life to
do what ever feels right....good luck!!! my email is apunkielove@yahoo.com Samantha = |
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% months along into your pregnancy is to late for an abortion. There are so many families that can not have children, why not look into adoption.
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sorry 5
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ABORTION IS NEVER THE RIGHT CHOICE
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let a family adopt your baby.So many women cant have childrn and want to adopt. I know I am one of them.Think about adoption.If you need someone to talk to feel free to email me.noterdamelady@yahoo.com
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i gave mine up so idk other ppl do wut they feel like
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NO DONT GO FOR ABORTION.
YOU CAN HELP WOMAN LIKE ME WE CANT HAVE KIDS BUT WE WILL RAIS YOUR CHILD OR ANY GRILS LIKE YOU = |
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Do they perform abortions at five months. Since you are so far along maybe adoption is the best choice. Talk to a school counselor.
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dont do it! i got pregnant when i was 14 and my boyfriend tryed to convince me to have an abortion. i almost did to untill my older brother and his girlfriend talked me out of it. i think the only diference is that i had twins. They are the best things that ever happend to me! They are one and get into everything. You may think of your baby as having a big chore but you are leaving out the hugs and love and joys that you and your baby will share together! may God bless you into making the right decision! ps there is always adoption!
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hi there i do know from experience!!!! i had an abortion five years ago my scum bucket boyfriend wanted the sex but didn't want da bub real nice type stuppid prick!!!!! i'll tell ya what happened his was my senario, and abusive alcoholic mother kicking me out everynight out in da middle od no-where walking the streets till she passed out and it was safe to go home to sleep, falling asleep in the shed to scared to go inside, my lousy b/friend tucked up wif mummy and daddy, didn't give a shit as it was my problem what went on in my house!! and what else? three months is the cut off point for you to hav an abortion. here's what they do. first the get you into your white coat then they take a blood test to make sure you definately still are, oh yeah then whilst ur sitting in the room with the other girls all staring at each other wandering what the hell your doin there they give you a pill to take then they take you into a room where they do your first ultrasound of your baby, your baby has arms feet toes legs eyes, everything! the fucked up father SPERM DONATOR stays outside then while you make up your mind for the last time then yu go to leep wake up 30mins later and your baby's gone. yes gone. now the after senario, oh and don't kid yourself and think that he'll be there for you after, i drove with my partner 6 hours to get there six hours back in the one day so it didn't look obvious then the scum bucket fucked of with his mates as soon as we got home.. yep droped me off at my house then went and sank piss with his fucked up mates!!! there is not a week that goes by when i look into my new daughters eyes that i don't think of that baby, and i even know the due date that MY BABY WAS DUE to be BORN!!!!! and not a year goes by that i don't ask myself WHY?????? SO PLEASE I DO KNOW HOW SCARY IT IS, BUT KNOWING WHAT YOU HAVE TO LIVE WITH FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE IS WORSE!!!! my baby was 9 weeks old and three days and 2.5cm long and yet still 5 years on i still know it every day. your parents will be there for you they might not like it at first but they will come around and if they don't well you know what i think, please don' let a SPERM DONATOR keep you from the best thing you will ever know and have DON"T ABORT YOUR[ YOUR!!!!!!!!!! BABY:( PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Hello I have a beautiful little boy who is 3 that we adopted at birth. The birth mom already had alot of kids and knew that keeping him was not fair to her other kids or to the baby. She also knew that we wanted to be a mommy and daddy more than anything in this world. So she let us adopt him. She truly was our angel. I mean how do you thank someone for a life time of love, birthdays, christmas. Now we would love to give him a little brother or sister so he doesnt have to grow up alone. we would love to talk to you. thanks Kim =khoutz@woh.rr.com ?
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i'm 16 years old and pregnant, and i've been so for 7 weeks. it'ns not long, i know, but i've been doing some reading about abortion and i got to say that what i see scares me to death! in sweden we have 2 options; up until the 9 week you can take some pills that will make you have a misscarriage, but it will cost you pain and alot of bleading, plus that you'll feel depressed and so on. and 2; they will suck the fetus out with a wacuumthing, and i got to admit that i am so scared of doing any of this that i don't know what the hell i'm gonna do with myself. any kind of anwser would help me alot..
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you can still have the baby there are options after you have had it wether you keep it or put it up for adoption but i had an abortion and nothing is the same clinics draw the line at 24 weeks for having an abortion so i think it is too late for you
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Has anyone taken the abortion pill?
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noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo o dont ever do that... i dont care.. put it up for aboption if thats the case..YOUR TAKIN A RISK OF MAKIN A BABY MIGHT AS WELL LET IT LIVE..aare you dumb.. not to b mean but wtf thats sooo rong.. please dont it.. let the baby live.. keep or give it away dont kill it...!!!! = |
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Hi,
My husband and I are looking to adopt. We would love to give a child a good, loving and stable home. If there is anyone out there that is interested in adoption and would like to get to know us better than give me an email at michelle.miller@pobox.com Love, Michelle = |
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i can't believe you even THOUGHT of abortion!!!
it's MURDER. the baby didn't have a choice, so just give it up for adoption, or work your ASS off and support it! but i think you should give it for adoption. because like previously stated, some people would LOVE a baby. but they cant have one. i dont really like the thought of adoption, but it's better than giving your child a bad life growing up. = |
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You're more than half-way done with the pregnancy, and the baby is just like a regular baby, only smaller and can't breath well enough yet (can feel everything, and may even be able to start comprehending noises- like you're heartbeat, voice, and the sounds of your house and school). If you can hold out another four months, my husband and I would be glad to adopt your child and give him/her the same love and acceptance as our own four children. I came on here looking for a young lady considering abortion for the sole purpose of providing her with another option so that her child can live and she can also find joy in knowing that she brought a beautiful life into the world instead of ending that life by aborting. (race is no object) www.courting.org or singingaram@wmconnect.com
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Look honey i am 16 years old and pregnant ! I am keeping my baby do you want to get looked at as a murder because that is what abortions are ! Yeah, I have to grow up fast and so do you ! You opened your legs knowing that you might get pregnant ! I was on birth control and still got pregnant but i am NOT going to murder my babys life it is not fair and i dont think u should do it ! If you want to talk my email adress is jen_cur_4_ever@yahoo.com
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ANY TIME ALONG THE PREGNANCY IS TOO OLD!
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At 5months its not to late but, i do think that if your that far along There is a couple in your community that can't have any kids and maybe you could make that choice to let them be parents, i know Iwe would love to adopt another child but you need to make the right choice for you and your family.
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You know, i just had an abortion 2 weeks ago. I was only 2 months along, so its a little different. But i think you should do whatever you feel would be best for you. I know people will say it will feel it, and everything like that, and in a way it is true, because it has developed quite a bit. But i do know for a fact that it is legal to get one..I know Montana does them. I think overall tought, you need to figure out with will be the best for you in the future. For me i thought about college im only 17, and im a senior, i think if you feel you couldnt give it up for adoption and you dont think you would be a good parent, or you think that it will be better for YOUR future..then you should do it. Im not saying that it wont be hard..cause it is harder than you would think it would be.. but i think if you stay strong you can handle it
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Ladies don't have an abortion please there are som many people that can't have childrena nd want to adopt. Deal with the pregnancy and Help another couple reach thier dream of becoming parents PLEASE!!!!! Lauraronan@yahoo.com
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Did you know that if your baby is a female, she already has her eggs? so if u got an abortion you would not only be killing her, but also any children that she might have had when she grows up? You are 5 months pregnat, u are more then halfway there... your already through the hardest part of the pregnancy. I know that everyone has already said this but there are sooo many people ready to adopt a baby, think of yourself from your unborn childs point of veiw.. what if ur mother aborted you? what if u were adopted, wouldnt u be thankfull just to be alive? I have a six week old daughter, and i got pregnant at 17... you could never imagine what it feels like to hold your own baby for the first time! Everytime that baby moves around in your belly it is just remining you how alive it is.. look at your sonogram pictures if you have them... when i look back at mine of my daughter, it amazed me how she looks the same as the baby that was only as small as a cupie doll. if your worried about ruining your future, you are only being selfish by never letting your child even have a future! just think about it.. if u deside to have this baby i gaurentee you that will be the best desision you have ever made. ive known people that have gotten abortions, and they regret it EVERY DAY of their lives! how come you deserve to live and that baby didnt? if u need to talk please feel free to IM me @ Dontestkarma7, i promise i can give u some good advice
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This girl has made a decision over a year ago I wonder what she did does anyone no? Is anyone else contemplating this. If so email me annie7224@gmail.com
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I'm not pregnant, just curious. How long after a first abortion must one wait before having another abortion?
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Gynecologists always give you time limits to do things, like waiting such-and-such weeks to have sex after giving birth, waiting such-and-such weeks before a controceptive is effective, etc. So I'm wondering how many weeks a girl who had an abortion would have to wait before she has another abortion. Pro-choice or not, doctors give timelines. That's what I'm looking for here, not opinion swaying feedback. And remember, I'm not pregnant, I'm not having an abortion, and I'm not necessarily pro or anti abortion. I'm just looking for facts and can't find an answer to this on Google.
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this girl is 14 years old
dont presurise her as much as some people think its wrong and some dont mind its HER choise and no one elses She might not be able to give a baby a stable life i dont know maybe she can but adoption would be harder because from what i know once you see your baby you can never him/her away i had my youngest at 13 which was an extremly hard thing to bring him up i could never have an abortion myself but its YOUR choice = |
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Please, don't do it! If you get a chance ask someone who has been there and done it - almost every one of them regrets it. I am 28 and have a beautiful little girl who is a year and a half. I would give anything to be able to have another child but I can't. I've been through a failed adoption and despite that I look in chat rooms for a mom somewhere who is looking for a family to love her baby and give that precious little one everything it needs. That tiny person growing inside you depends on you for protection. And there are so many people like me and my husband, just wishing and waiting. Please write back. I hope it's not too late. By the time you know you're pregnant, that little heart is already beating. Jennie
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This is an old post she would have already had the baby November of 06, last year.
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well as far as I heard the cut off line for safe abortion was 4 months
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5 months!!!!! Are you serious? How can you even consider aborting??? that is really unfair and I have aborted myself..... Stop yourself!!!!
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You cannot get an abortion. That would be really awful. I know a friend who had an abortion, she cried forever afterwords and whenever she sees a baby now, she gets sad. Don't do it. Adoption would be a much better choice.
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hey everyone....as long as there is no fold in time that i havent found her baby would be either 1 yr old or already in heaven. the posting was 7/04/2006.
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thanks for letting us know, lucky v.........
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her kid would be like, uh, 3 by now
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cjsims, not sure where you went to school, but obviously math is not your strongest of skills. if the thread started on 07/04/2006 and she was 5 months pregnant and carried in a normal 9 month term that would make her birth somewhere in December of 2006. We are currently in December of 2007 here, but you may have a different calendar on your planet. Recheck your math before you try to correct me next time and you will not sound so arrogantly ignorant.
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Well, EXXXXXXXXXXUUUUUUUUUUSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEE me, Mr. Granny Panties, I am a wife and a mother, and have lots on my mind. If I accidently added wrong, then obviously I must've been thinking about something at the time.
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Well I know it is very hard if you haven't told you parents you need to. If you have a good idea is to ask them. Now if you don't know what to do because they won't tell you heres what you can do. The best idea is to give it to a loving family that will give you rights to see the baby but give it to them (adoption) because you don't want to be a 15 year old with a child, it's hard.
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I dont think you can have an abortion when your this far along... to tell you the truth i dont think you really want one...as a mother i have exsp. a pregnacy and i can tell you i know how you feel at 5 months you want out or better yet you want it out of you. But let me tell you this if you do find a dr who will abord this child for you then i would really look into the steps they take as they are in your body and as a mother i can tell you i would KILL someone if they ever touched my child as that dr will do to yours. God has a plan for you and that child. Hang in there. When theres no way to turn just look up!
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it is entirely upto you! can u cope with abortion now that you are this far on? that is the question! write bk if u want any further advice.
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I was aborted and I turned out just fine. Go for it man.
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Its not a right decision . Remember your already a mother cause u have the baby . . But be fair to it . . Would you reallly want to kill it
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umm im really sorry to tell u this but im 14 and im getting an obortian and ive talked to three clinics bout it and they all sayy they only do it for people 4 or less weeks along... im only 2 n a half so i can but im really sorry but ull make it through just be strong kayy??
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NO dont have an abortion. There are plenty of people who would love to give your child a beautiful home.
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no dont abortion i will adopt your baby call me at 2023880477 or email me at j1626smith@gmail.com
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