| Name: kimbertz | Date: Mar 8th, 2007 11:03 PM |
| Hello I have a beautiful little boy who is 3 that we adopted at birth. The birth mom already had alot of kids and knew that keeping him was not fair to her other kids or to the baby. She also knew that we wanted to be a mommy and daddy more than anything in this world. So she let us adopt him. She truly was our angel. I mean how do you thank someone for a life time of love, birthdays, christmas. Now we would love to give him a little brother or sister so he doesnt have to grow up alone. we would love to talk to you. thanks Kim =khoutz@woh.rr.com ? ↑ |
| Name: swedish | Date: Apr 2nd, 2007 12:19 PM |
| i'm 16 years old and pregnant, and i've been so for 7 weeks. it'ns not long, i know, but i've been doing some reading about abortion and i got to say that what i see scares me to death! in sweden we have 2 options; up until the 9 week you can take some pills that will make you have a misscarriage, but it will cost you pain and alot of bleading, plus that you'll feel depressed and so on. and 2; they will suck the fetus out with a wacuumthing, and i got to admit that i am so scared of doing any of this that i don't know what the hell i'm gonna do with myself. any kind of anwser would help me alot.. ↑ |
| Name: 16yearoldteentrouble | Date: May 31st, 2007 1:14 PM |
| you can still have the baby there are options after you have had it wether you keep it or put it up for adoption but i had an abortion and nothing is the same clinics draw the line at 24 weeks for having an abortion so i think it is too late for you ↑ |
| Name: krystina | Date: May 31st, 2007 10:29 PM |
NO IT`S NOT THE RIGHT CHOICE. YOU`RE FIVE FUCKING MONTHS ALONG.
that would be fucked up. ↑ |
| Name: girl | Date: Jun 13th, 2007 8:11 AM |
| Has anyone taken the abortion pill? ↑ |
| Name: xxcyndiboo | Date: Jul 2nd, 2007 4:20 PM |
noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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dont ever do that... i dont care.. put it up for aboption if thats the case..YOUR TAKIN A RISK OF MAKIN A BABY MIGHT AS WELL LET IT LIVE..aare you dumb.. not to b mean but wtf thats sooo rong.. please dont it.. let the baby live.. keep or give it away dont kill it...!!!! ↑ |
| Name: dmt | Date: Jul 6th, 2007 11:29 PM |
Hi,
My husband and I are looking to adopt. We would love to give a child a good, loving and stable home. If there is anyone out there that is interested in adoption and would like to get to know us better than give me an email at michelle.miller@pobox.com
Love,
Michelle ↑ |
| Name: kaseyLOVE | Date: Jul 7th, 2007 10:49 AM |
i can't believe you even THOUGHT of abortion!!!
it's MURDER.
the baby didn't have a choice,
so just give it up for adoption,
or work your ASS off and support it!
but i think you should give it for adoption.
because like previously stated,
some people would LOVE a baby.
but they cant have one.
i dont really like the thought of adoption,
but it's better than giving your child a bad life growing up. ↑ |
| Name: GurtieMay | Date: Jul 22nd, 2007 5:51 PM |
| You're more than half-way done with the pregnancy, and the baby is just like a regular baby, only smaller and can't breath well enough yet (can feel everything, and may even be able to start comprehending noises- like you're heartbeat, voice, and the sounds of your house and school). If you can hold out another four months, my husband and I would be glad to adopt your child and give him/her the same love and acceptance as our own four children. I came on here looking for a young lady considering abortion for the sole purpose of providing her with another option so that her child can live and she can also find joy in knowing that she brought a beautiful life into the world instead of ending that life by aborting. (race is no object) www.courting.org or singingaram@wmconnect.com ↑ |
| Name: curtsbaby | Date: Sep 19th, 2007 10:20 PM |
| Look honey i am 16 years old and pregnant ! I am keeping my baby do you want to get looked at as a murder because that is what abortions are ! Yeah, I have to grow up fast and so do you ! You opened your legs knowing that you might get pregnant ! I was on birth control and still got pregnant but i am NOT going to murder my babys life it is not fair and i dont think u should do it ! If you want to talk my email adress is jen_cur_4_ever@yahoo.com ↑ |
| Name: PROLIFER4EVER | Date: Sep 24th, 2007 1:28 AM |
| ANY TIME ALONG THE PREGNANCY IS TOO OLD! ↑ |
| Name: 4EVER | Date: Sep 24th, 2007 12:27 PM |
| At 5months its not to late but, i do think that if your that far along There is a couple in your community that can't have any kids and maybe you could make that choice to let them be parents, i know Iwe would love to adopt another child but you need to make the right choice for you and your family. ↑ |
| Name: CMS | Date: Oct 20th, 2007 6:01 PM |
| You know, i just had an abortion 2 weeks ago. I was only 2 months along, so its a little different. But i think you should do whatever you feel would be best for you. I know people will say it will feel it, and everything like that, and in a way it is true, because it has developed quite a bit. But i do know for a fact that it is legal to get one..I know Montana does them. I think overall tought, you need to figure out with will be the best for you in the future. For me i thought about college im only 17, and im a senior, i think if you feel you couldnt give it up for adoption and you dont think you would be a good parent, or you think that it will be better for YOUR future..then you should do it. Im not saying that it wont be hard..cause it is harder than you would think it would be.. but i think if you stay strong you can handle it ↑ |
| Name: Laurar | Date: Oct 20th, 2007 10:24 PM |
| Ladies don't have an abortion please there are som many people that can't have childrena nd want to adopt. Deal with the pregnancy and Help another couple reach thier dream of becoming parents PLEASE!!!!! Lauraronan@yahoo.com ↑ |
| Name: aewmommy89 | Date: Oct 28th, 2007 5:29 PM |
| Did you know that if your baby is a female, she already has her eggs? so if u got an abortion you would not only be killing her, but also any children that she might have had when she grows up? You are 5 months pregnat, u are more then halfway there... your already through the hardest part of the pregnancy. I know that everyone has already said this but there are sooo many people ready to adopt a baby, think of yourself from your unborn childs point of veiw.. what if ur mother aborted you? what if u were adopted, wouldnt u be thankfull just to be alive? I have a six week old daughter, and i got pregnant at 17... you could never imagine what it feels like to hold your own baby for the first time! Everytime that baby moves around in your belly it is just remining you how alive it is.. look at your sonogram pictures if you have them... when i look back at mine of my daughter, it amazed me how she looks the same as the baby that was only as small as a cupie doll. if your worried about ruining your future, you are only being selfish by never letting your child even have a future! just think about it.. if u deside to have this baby i gaurentee you that will be the best desision you have ever made. ive known people that have gotten abortions, and they regret it EVERY DAY of their lives! how come you deserve to live and that baby didnt? if u need to talk please feel free to IM me @ Dontestkarma7, i promise i can give u some good advice ↑ |
| Name: annie7224 | Date: Oct 28th, 2007 11:02 PM |
| This girl has made a decision over a year ago I wonder what she did does anyone no? Is anyone else contemplating this. If so email me annie7224@gmail.com ↑ |
| Name: Beyond | Date: Nov 1st, 2007 1:55 AM |
| I'm not pregnant, just curious. How long after a first abortion must one wait before having another abortion? ↑ |
| Name: Beyond | Date: Nov 1st, 2007 1:56 AM |
| Gynecologists always give you time limits to do things, like waiting such-and-such weeks to have sex after giving birth, waiting such-and-such weeks before a controceptive is effective, etc. So I'm wondering how many weeks a girl who had an abortion would have to wait before she has another abortion. Pro-choice or not, doctors give timelines. That's what I'm looking for here, not opinion swaying feedback. And remember, I'm not pregnant, I'm not having an abortion, and I'm not necessarily pro or anti abortion. I'm just looking for facts and can't find an answer to this on Google. ↑ |
| Name: MummyOf5 | Date: Nov 2nd, 2007 10:26 PM |
this girl is 14 years old
dont presurise her
as much as some people think its wrong and some dont mind
its HER choise and no one elses
She might not be able to give a baby a stable life
i dont know maybe she can
but adoption would be harder because from what i know once you see your baby you can never him/her away
i had my youngest at 13 which was an extremly hard thing to bring him up
i could never have an abortion myself but its YOUR choice ↑ |
| Name: jennie7439 | Date: Nov 13th, 2007 5:18 PM |
| Please, don't do it! If you get a chance ask someone who has been there and done it - almost every one of them regrets it. I am 28 and have a beautiful little girl who is a year and a half. I would give anything to be able to have another child but I can't. I've been through a failed adoption and despite that I look in chat rooms for a mom somewhere who is looking for a family to love her baby and give that precious little one everything it needs. That tiny person growing inside you depends on you for protection. And there are so many people like me and my husband, just wishing and waiting. Please write back. I hope it's not too late. By the time you know you're pregnant, that little heart is already beating. Jennie ↑ |
| Name: lindalu | Date: Nov 13th, 2007 5:31 PM |
| This is an old post she would have already had the baby November of 06, last year. ↑ |
| Name: Anne xoxo | Date: Nov 15th, 2007 1:39 AM |
| well as far as I heard the cut off line for safe abortion was 4 months ↑ |
| Name: Zibblie | Date: Nov 19th, 2007 8:03 AM |
| 5 months!!!!! Are you serious? How can you even consider aborting??? that is really unfair and I have aborted myself..... Stop yourself!!!! ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Dec 7th, 2007 3:45 PM |
| You cannot get an abortion. That would be really awful. I know a friend who had an abortion, she cried forever afterwords and whenever she sees a baby now, she gets sad. Don't do it. Adoption would be a much better choice. ↑ |
| Name: Lucky V | Date: Dec 8th, 2007 10:09 PM |
| hey everyone....as long as there is no fold in time that i havent found her baby would be either 1 yr old or already in heaven. the posting was 7/04/2006. ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Dec 14th, 2007 12:26 AM |
| thanks for letting us know, lucky v......... ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Dec 14th, 2007 12:27 AM |
| her kid would be like, uh, 3 by now ↑ |
| Name: Lucky V | Date: Dec 14th, 2007 3:00 AM |
| cjsims, not sure where you went to school, but obviously math is not your strongest of skills. if the thread started on 07/04/2006 and she was 5 months pregnant and carried in a normal 9 month term that would make her birth somewhere in December of 2006. We are currently in December of 2007 here, but you may have a different calendar on your planet. Recheck your math before you try to correct me next time and you will not sound so arrogantly ignorant. ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Dec 14th, 2007 10:05 AM |
| Well, EXXXXXXXXXXUUUUUUUUUUSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEE me, Mr. Granny Panties, I am a wife and a mother, and have lots on my mind. If I accidently added wrong, then obviously I must've been thinking about something at the time. ↑ |
| Name: mycountryheart | Date: Dec 15th, 2007 12:00 AM |
| Well I know it is very hard if you haven't told you parents you need to. If you have a good idea is to ask them. Now if you don't know what to do because they won't tell you heres what you can do. The best idea is to give it to a loving family that will give you rights to see the baby but give it to them (adoption) because you don't want to be a 15 year old with a child, it's hard. ↑ |
| Name: whoknows | Date: Dec 27th, 2007 5:35 PM |
I dont think you can have an abortion when your this far along... to tell you the truth i dont think you really want one...as a mother i have exsp. a pregnacy and i can tell you i know how you feel at 5 months you want out or better yet you want it out of you. But let me tell you this if you do find a dr who will abord this child for you then i would really look into the steps they take as they are in your body and as a mother i can tell you i would KILL someone if they ever touched my child as that dr will do to yours. God has a plan for you and that child. Hang in there. When theres no way to turn just look up!
GOOD LUCK ↑ |
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