| Name: whoknows | Date: Dec 27th, 2007 5:35 PM |
I dont think you can have an abortion when your this far along... to tell you the truth i dont think you really want one...as a mother i have exsp. a pregnacy and i can tell you i know how you feel at 5 months you want out or better yet you want it out of you. But let me tell you this if you do find a dr who will abord this child for you then i would really look into the steps they take as they are in your body and as a mother i can tell you i would KILL someone if they ever touched my child as that dr will do to yours. God has a plan for you and that child. Hang in there. When theres no way to turn just look up!
GOOD LUCK ↑ |
| Name: desperate_eilidh | Date: Feb 5th, 2008 5:51 AM |
| it is entirely upto you! can u cope with abortion now that you are this far on? that is the question! write bk if u want any further advice. ↑ |
| Name: smoothbabytouch | Date: Feb 9th, 2008 1:47 AM |
| I was aborted and I turned out just fine. Go for it man. ↑ |
| Name: Emo_tions | Date: Feb 10th, 2008 5:18 PM |
| Its not a right decision . Remember your already a mother cause u have the baby . . But be fair to it . . Would you reallly want to kill it ↑ |
| Name: depressedrachel | Date: Feb 11th, 2008 3:06 AM |
| umm im really sorry to tell u this but im 14 and im getting an obortian and ive talked to three clinics bout it and they all sayy they only do it for people 4 or less weeks along... im only 2 n a half so i can but im really sorry but ull make it through just be strong kayy?? ↑ |
| Name: renee101 | Date: Feb 18th, 2008 2:14 PM |
| NO dont have an abortion. There are plenty of people who would love to give your child a beautiful home. ↑ |
| Name: caraway | Date: Apr 3rd, 2008 3:19 PM |
| no dont abortion i will adopt your baby call me at 2023880477 or email me at j1626smith@gmail.com ↑ |
| Name: noogles | Date: May 24th, 2008 9:49 PM |
| hi im 18, and i dont beleave in abortion, im just scared and my boyfriend thinks were to young, hes 21, what should i do??? ↑ |
| Name: mjewels | Date: Jul 5th, 2008 2:28 PM |
| hey im new here i just had an abortion . any one going threw that or wanna talk? ↑ |
| Name: mjewels | Date: Jul 5th, 2008 2:28 PM |
| noggles dont do it! ur in my position! i fee horribl n i regret it ↑ |
| Name: want2adopt | Date: Jul 6th, 2008 10:49 AM |
| *******WANT TO ADOPT A BABY *****PLEASE DONT HAVE ABORTION THERE ARE TOO MANY PEOPLE OUT THERE TO GIVE A BABY A LOVING AND CARING HOME. I WAS ADOPTED AND THAT IS THE MOST WONDERFUL THING YOU CAN DO FOR A CHILD IF CANT KEEP YOURSELF. THE LIFE I HAVE LIVED IS TREMENDOUS. MY BROTHER AND SISTER IN LAW JUST TRIED TO ADOPT A BABY GIRL WELL THE BIO MOTHER BACKED OUT. OUR WHOLE FAMILY IS GOING THROUGH HEARTACHE. YOU SHOULD HAVE SEEN THE BABIES ROOM (SHOULD HAVE BEEN IN A MAGAZINE) TONS OF CLOTHES ETC THE BABY GIRL WAS SET FOR AT LEAST A YEAR. PLEASE IF YOU HAVE A CHILD YOU ARE UNABLE TO KEEP GET IN CONTACT W/ME WE BOTH HAVE LOVING HOMES FOR YOUR CHILD. ↑ |
| Name: collegebound coach | Date: Jul 8th, 2008 8:48 PM |
| I am a school counselor and have worked with many teens who were in your position. Think about why you would get an abortion. If the first thought is "because I don't want my parents to find out I got pregnant," then you may not be doing it for the right reason. The teens I work with are very surprised how well their parents take the news. Most of the girls feared that they would disappoint their parents. At 15 you really need to have your parents involved in the process. If you were 18, then you are an adult and can do your own thing. Hiding the situation may come back and bit you later in your life. Have your parents help you with the decision. If you fear for your safety, in regards to your parents, then you need another adult who can help you through this. I can't give you resources because I don't know where you are located. Try typing in "crisis pregnancy" and your state in google. ↑ |
| Name: youlover | Date: Jul 9th, 2008 4:24 AM |
| www.singleparentloving.com ******A single parent on-line dating community geared to single parents needs, information, and discussions combined with the largest single parenting social club . Free join ! meet your soulmatch in your area ! ↑ |
| Name: Jess Btf | Date: Jul 11th, 2008 10:28 AM |
| I have only just come across this forum, and I guess by now you have made your choice and I wish you the best of luck with everything. In the end I guess one needs to take all opinions in mind to make such a choice, but ultimately the choice is yours. Five months is an extremely long time to wait simply to make a decission, though I understand all too well how difficult this decission is to make. I think people who say you will regret it, or you are 'killing' honestly dont have much of an idea at all. At this stage of pregancy if you are having doubts in my personal opinion adobtion would be the most approprate thing to do, you may even havethe change to get to know your daughter/son. But I, nor noone else has ever been in your exact position, and there for as a family member, friend, partner, or stranger I would respect your decision, no matter what it be. Best wishes. ↑ |
| Name: torn20351673 | Date: Jul 13th, 2008 11:58 PM |
| there is to much help out there for you to get rid of a baby that far along have it and keep it if not put it up for adoption but try to keep in contact with the baby ↑ |
| Name: Lola-May | Date: Jul 17th, 2008 7:17 PM |
Unless there's something seriously wrong with the baby or it's life threatening to you, there's no ethical doctor who will perform an abortion when you're 5 months pregnant.
There are lots of people who are looking to adopt so you should definitely look into that.
Maybe next time you should use protection or get yourself on birth control...or just not be having sex when you're only 14!!!
If you're not old enough to be deal with the consequences or to be a parent...or to even drive... then you shouldn't be having sex. ↑ |
| Name: mckenzie | Date: Jul 17th, 2008 9:00 PM |
| hi we will love to adopt my email is jamaica.p3323@yahoo.com my tel is 2027582370 thank you ↑ |
| Name: brokenhearted | Date: Aug 22nd, 2008 11:20 AM |
i have been there with being pregnant i was 161/2 wks though. if you feel that you need to get one do it dont just do it cuz everyone is telling you to its your choice not anyone elses.
remember once to do there is no going back just think about it is that what you really want? ↑ |
| Name: careful2312 | Date: Sep 8th, 2008 1:09 AM |
Hello Yoke,
My reply to your question of having an abortion when your five month's or not, your five months pregnant right? Well my advice to you is not to have an abortion at all. I don't know your circumstances but whatever they are whether you will decide to have an abortion or not, if you choose to have the abortion you will live for the rest of your life wondering and knowing that you had killed your child or what age they are or what you guys might be doing right at the moment. If you decide to keep the baby or give it up for adoption then you will always have the comfort of knowing that your baby will have had a chance to grow learn and prosper whether from you or another family that your child didn't suffer a horrific death before they could speak. You will be able to get through it to live with it bur you will live with the sign of the baby either as a memory or as she or he will grow. Either way you will not ever be able to denie that you had a baby or was ever pregnant. Your child deserves a chance! ↑ |
| Name: BetterDays | Date: Sep 8th, 2008 4:06 AM |
Abortion is never the right choice. If you go through with it, it will follow you the rest of your life.
Before you do anything Check out ABORT73.COM
and you should watch Juno.
I will pray for you.
Love Always,
Better Days/ ↑ |
| Name: Mom2BEE | Date: Oct 4th, 2008 2:28 AM |
At this point you can parent or consider the option of Open Adoption,
Either way you need to get your plans moving along so your prepared parenting is hard at any age. Do you have a support system?
Make plans go over what You wish to do then talk to a trained counselor someone at crisis pregnancy center online or by phone in your area if they are close by you can even visit in person they can give you information on these two options and if you parent they can help with baby things and clothes etc if you consider adoption they can give you information on someone to talk to and to counsel you on your choices. My friend had her first baby at 17 she is a good student and it was hard but she even went on to college and is raising her daughter. Best wishes
Mom2BEE ↑ |
| Name: cbs | Date: Oct 28th, 2008 7:36 PM |
| No matter what you decide, please tell your family, i didnt and now i have to keep this a secret for the rest of my life. i dont regret having my abortion but i still get very upset. its only been a year and i have to deal with this all by myself. my friends know but its not enough. ↑ |
| Name: kat100 | Date: Dec 8th, 2008 10:55 AM |
| follow wat ur heart tells u if its not the right time ull knw ↑ |
| Name: ANGEL07 | Date: Dec 28th, 2008 8:53 PM |
| i have had an abortion when i was 5 months and 2 weeks pregnant and now that i've done it u deeply regret my decision. if i could go back in time i would of have had my baby. i was 17 at the time of the procedure and i was afraid of what my mom would say being that she is very strict. i knew i would get into so much trouble if she found out, but now that i think about it i should of never put my baby through that pain just because i was afraid of the later outcome. so in my opinion i just think abortion is wrong because it may come back later on to haunt you. ↑ |
| Name: Tammie | Date: Jan 20th, 2009 11:33 PM |
| Have you thought about adoption? ↑ |
| Name: annie7224 | Date: Jan 23rd, 2009 11:52 AM |
| Well, I can't tell you what to do, but if you are willing to go thru the pregnancy. I will adopt the baby. If that helps. I can pay for any legal sruff, I really want to have a baby and i can't, Don't get me wrong I think you should do whats right for you. let me know annie7224@ gmail.com ↑ |
| Name: raychelrampagex | Date: Jan 30th, 2009 12:48 AM |
If you honestly don't think that a baby will be a benefit and that you cannot be the mother you should be at 15, then you should seriously think about adoption before abortion.
I don't know of any doctor that will do an abortion at 5 months along.
Seriously look into adoption. My aunt just adopted a beautiful baby boy and she takes care of him as if he was her own. There would be no worries if you found a good family for the child. ↑ |
| Name: darkmichael | Date: Feb 16th, 2009 4:14 PM |
Well it seems like based on your statements that you do not have a lot of money or your family does not have a lot of money. Otherwise, you would be able to hire someone to look after your child and you wouldn't be in panic.
An abortion would be easier than adoption but costs money unless you have insurance that pays for it. Just remember several things if you have an abortion. You made the right choice in the end because otherwise your child would have had a miserable life and no one should be born into a miserable life.
An adoption would be tedious and a lot of paperwork involved, but is cheaper.
Next time just make sure you use birth control. ↑ |
| Name: martee | Date: Mar 6th, 2009 7:16 PM |
Consider what happens in an abortion. Do you really know?
http://www.illbehonest.com/blog/?p=168 ↑ |
| Name: Here2Help | Date: Mar 7th, 2009 11:36 PM |
| I think you are a bit young to mother a child, but I believe abortion is not an appropriate choice in your case. I believe abortion shouldn't even be considered unless a mother's life is in danger or the child is a product of rape or unconsentual intercourse. You should tell your parents, and have them help you find a great couple to raise your child. Either an open or closed adoption is your choice. A child is a blesssing and I think you should still be a part of your child's life but stilll give them the best life possible, even if that means they must be raised by another couple... And please remember: no matter what people say. the choice is yours to make about the welfare of YOUR child, YOUR son or daughter... And also remember, I'm only Here2Help ↑ |
| Name: Dani87 | Date: Apr 9th, 2009 4:46 PM |
| Hi, At 5 months your baby is fully formed and a growing human being who is dependent on you. I can understand what you are going through at 15 u feel scared but in a few years time if you have the baby u will look back and be glad you kept him/her when your baby will be the best thing that ever happened you. If you have dobts at all you should keep the baby because their is a good chance u will be affected by an abortion emotionally and mentally. 5 months is way too late. if you decide not to keep the baby after it is born then give him/her up for adoption to a couple who can not have children and would love a child. ↑ |
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