| Hi, At 5 months your baby is fully formed and a growing human being who is dependent on you. I can understand what you are going through at 15 u feel scared but in a few years time if you have the baby u will look back and be glad you kept him/her when your baby will be the best thing that ever happened you. If you have dobts at all you should keep the baby because their is a good chance u will be affected by an abortion emotionally and mentally. 5 months is way too late. if you decide not to keep the baby after it is born then give him/her up for adoption to a couple who can not have children and would love a child. ↑ |
Hello,
I am here to try to help you. Having an abortion is wrong. You are carrying a child, it has life. He/she deserves life and did not choose to become conceived. Don't abort the child. Life is precious and should not be destroyed. You can even give the child out for adoption, that is the way to go. Hope I helped. God Bless You! ↑ |
| Every one that has given you the advice to keep it at 5 months is right keep it don't abort have the abortion I was 1 month along and on the 23rd of July I had an abortion and I'm only 17 and let me tell you it was the most hardest thing I've ever done and I wont do it again they are right it's wrong and I know that as well I'm completely against it and I still did it and I also regret it more then anything in the world. ↑ |
Hello Yoke. : ) I had my first baby when I was 19. And that was not easy. But you know something? I don't ever regret it. And my mom had me when she was 16. Yes she regrets me lol. Because she was very wild. Was not ready to settle with a kid.
I guess this is up to you. Can you live with giving the baby up to a couple? There are worse things in this world than babies. Do not give the baby up until you've held it in your arms. I mean it. Do not sign your rights off .. Ask you family for some support. They might help you raise it. Kids are a gift from god. Abortion is not the right thing to do. But it is your life Yoke. I hope you do what is right for you and this baby.
Search your own heart. And try to stay brave. Don't let anyone tell you what to do with your life! If you want this baby. Then you keep it. And show you can be the best mom in the world. be a good mom if you will make that choice.
Good luck and know that things will get better.
There also are good people out there who are just waiting for a baby of there own. So consider this as well. take care.. Angela :) ↑ |
HEY! HOW'S IT GOING?
JUST WANTED TO GIVE YOU A FEW WORDS OF ADVICE BEFORE YOU MADE YOUR FINAL DECION ON WHETHER OR NOT YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE AN ABORTION.
FIRST IM BEGGING YOU NOT. IF YOU DO IT MIGHT BE THE WROST MISTAKE THAT YOU MAKE YOUR LIFE. IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT YOU WILL KNOW THAT. A MAJORITY OF WOMEN OR GIRLS WHO HAVE ONE REGRET IT BECAUSE THEIR BABY IS GONE. AFTER YOU GET ONE YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO GET THAT BABY BACK AND THAT IS SOMTHING THAT YOU HAVE TO LIVE WITH.
IM NOT GOING TO TRY TELL YOU THAT I KNOW HOW YOU FEEEL BECAUSE I DONT BUT IF YOU COULD JUST HEAR ME OUT THERE ARE PLENTY OF OTHER WAYS TO "GET RID OF THE BABY"(I DONT MEAN THAT IN A BAD WAY) BUT ANY WAY YOU COULD GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION, THERE ARE A BILJILON DIFERENT PEOPLE OUT THERE REALLY WANT A BABY BUT FOR SOME REASON OR OTHER CANT AND OM SURE THERE ARE GOOD PARENTS OUT THERE WOULD BE WILLING TO TAKE CARE OF IT (I ONLY SAY BECAUSE I DONT KNOW WHAT GENDER IT IS)
I WAS ADOPTED BY AN AWSOME FAMILY AND THEY GAVE ME EVERYTHING THAT I COULD HAVE EVER WANTED AND MORE. PLEASE GIVE THE BABY A CHANCE TO LIVE, THERE IS NO TELLING WHAT HE OR SHE MIGHT GROW UP TO BE.
if you want to talk about it my email is
kelliemcqn911@gmail.com ↑ |
| Please do not have that baby killed. You are very young, but there are so many wonderful families out there that can give that baby a loving home. Don't end that life. You never know, it could be the life that one day comes up with the cure for cancer, aids, world peace, etc. I have known so many wonderful people that would love to adopt. You have the opportunity in your hands to give that baby a wonderful life, and make a family's dream come true. Abortion is the wrong choice. You will regret it the rest of your life. What happens when you stop a beating heart? You kill something. Please, I am begging you, there are people that can help you through this. And you will have done something GREAT! ↑ |
