| i dont know but is there a way that you can find out the dna of a baby before it s born? the i is her first love and she wil allways xcare about him this one she sayes she love but action speak louder then words. so i was wonering if you could find out ↑ |
| I agree with most of the people who posted advice. You need to make the choice that is going to be best for you and your child. Remember, you do not need a man in your life to be a good parent, to be successful, or to stand on your own. You just need confidence in yourself. Also, take a good long look at yourself. Remember that raising a child at any age is difficult and there are so many things against you. You want to be able to provide the best for your child when you have it. You want to be stable mentally, physically, and finacially. You do not want your child going out in the world without having a 100% chance of having a good childhood, decient teenage years, and an opportunity to have a full life. Do not be selfish. Most young girls that keep their babies struggle and later have issues. Do what feels right for you. If you feel that this is not the time to have your child and you can not go through an abortion, then the only other option is adoption. But you have to make sure that you can live with yourself and that decision. Go and educate yourself on your choices. There will be pros and cons to everything, but at least you will get enough information to make your decision. If you choose to keep the child, then remember no matter what, that child is a gift to you and you are obligated to do the best for them. Never, ever make your child feel that you had a choice not to have them or give them up. Do not ever think that what if....????? If I never had this kid where would I be???? Do not pass on any quilt to this wonderful gift that you are about to have. Keep in mind there are thousands and thousands of women who can not have children, and would do anything to be in your place. ↑ |
| it sounds like you are in a mess right now..how old is the ther guy that said he woud hekp you with the baby? was your father i your life? because i kep hearing her baby father is not going to do what her father did to her. i dont be in abotion so i would never make my daugfhte do that she knows this. but it is going to be so hard for you with school and going out with your friends when they are all going put and you cant because you have to stay home with the baby. i am not saying this to scare you but you have alot to think about.some guys just say that will be there just because so they can get what they want and as stupid girls fall for it everytime not just you hney thee is alot of girl who do it then they found out.just think about it there is alot of things to do then having a abortion.there is plaxces you can go and have the baby and to give it to a mom that cant have one and here is open adoptionalso were you are kind of in the child live there is alot of choices these days just think about them all. i know your nmom thinks it will ruin your like nut sometomes things lie this hekp it i dont know how to eaplain t but my daughter was on a real bad path but now she is on a real good one i dont know they allways say god works in missery ways just maybe this is one of them//but girl allways remember i wish the best for you and your baby and family because what ever you abd yourmom say to each other right now she wil allways be there fir you o matter or what happens and were wil the guys be most of them will be off making another child because they just dnt get it yet or dont care...so be safe and just think about some of the thngs i said ok..good luck ↑ |
| i cant even begin to explain how i feel....im 17 and i just found out that me and my boyfriend are expecting a baby as well...from our esitmate im about 2 months along..only problem is how do i tell my parents without putting mine or the baby's life in harms way? my father is not one to deal with things like this very well and my mother told me she would not help me...im lost and i dont know what to do =[! please help! any advice or something would be great! ↑ |
