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i am 17 years old and i jus found out i m pregnt again. i have kidswho r 6 months 2 3 and 4 and a half. i am not wit the kids dad and the guy im pregnnanr by is married and lives outta state but works near me. i am not getting a aborshon cuz its bad but i now i gunna be busy even more. wats the help i can get from the state? i work full time in a walmart but i have too many expensives wit my kids and our rent. any ideas? i live in iowa fyi. thanks a bunches ↓
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| Name: nina | Date: Jun 6th, 2006 12:22 PM |
| i have used birth control before but then my insurance woulnt cover it no more. i was on my parents but my dad quit his job. u also gotta be 21 to get fixed or i probly would. i wont put my babe up for adoption i will take care of it like i do my orther 4. i jus need som help on state assistence so i get b/c and take my kds to the dr regularry. ↑ |
| Name: Lisa | Date: Jun 6th, 2006 1:09 PM |
| Hey Nina! Ever hear of a little thing called BIRTHCONTROL???? People like you shouldn't recieve any help at all from the state. You knew you couldn't afford all those kids yet you did nothing to prevent pregnancy OBVIOUSLY!!! I say forget state help and get as many more jobs as it takes to support your clan yourself!!! If you can't support them let someone who CAN adopt them.I hope you get your tubes tied this time around too!!!! ↑ |
| Name: nina | Date: Jun 6th, 2006 1:44 PM |
| it is expensive when u have kids. i started bc when i was 11 to stop period cramps and then my dad quit his job and no one would take to a health department to get it. i did not have any mony at 11 to get bc myselff and my pregnacies wernt planned. even after i had my first to kids my ppl wouldnt take me to get it cause it was out of there way. im hoing they wll tie my tubes this time cuz its very hard with moneyy. i cannt take any more jobs cuz i got a free sitter right now and i watch her kids for free hile shes at work. ↑ |
| Name: nina | Date: Jun 6th, 2006 7:57 PM |
| i am not what givs teen moms a bad name. unlik most teens i kept my babys and didnt abort them. i will be 18 when i have the next one too. i take care of my bbies and i have a job unlike most teens and i have my own place where i pay rentt for my kids to live. i take care of my kids and im good at it. i m not pathetic i jus need a boost til i can get better work. none has tried to anser the queston i asked and jus put me down. and yes i have mostt diffent fathers but u can see the same thing in a 30 year old mom. i m at wrking and im a great mom. b4 anyone tries to talk abot my typing, i m doing my best to do english because i speak spanish and m just learning english ↑ |
| Name: nina | Date: Jun 7th, 2006 11:19 AM |
| i never said my baby was not wanted jerk. i said i was gonna be busy and broke but i want and love ALL my kidss. nevver once would i say i dont want ,y kids. that ebay comment was uneccassary if thatt how u feel about babies. reaad wat i say for real and donnt put words in my mouth. ↑ |
| Name: nina | Date: Jun 7th, 2006 7:48 PM |
| i think giving them a shot at living insteaad of abortson is something to be thankdul for. and im not just sitting on my ass doing nuthing i work for my kids and i take care of them alone so i dont think that u should care ↑ |
| Name: to nina | Date: Jun 8th, 2006 3:01 PM |
i think you should get a abortion. you already have 4 kids and why do you want the 5th one. there is nothing wrong in abortion after having 4 kids. first of all you should have thought before.
and you are only 17. i don't know what to say. i think you didn't get enough education from your parents otherwise you should have been in a high school not a mom of 4 kids.
GO HAVE A ABORTION!!! ↑ |
| Name: nina | Date: Jun 8th, 2006 3:10 PM |
| there is no way at all im getting an aborshon. none. ↑ |
| Name: Sharla | Date: Jun 8th, 2006 3:18 PM |
| I dont agree with abortion. Have you thought of adoption, There are so many couples out there who desperatly want a child and could take a lot better care of it than you and al would be able to provide a lot more. You're 17 and already have 4 kids, it's just not natural, how are you going to afford 5 children? ↑ |
| Name: nina | Date: Jun 8th, 2006 3:41 PM |
| in almost 18 and i have a job. i seen ppl do with a bunch less and still manige. i lov all my kidss and i would never abort or adopt them out caz i hear to many storys. i know i am never gong to abuse my kids. i kno i am never gong to molest or rape my kids. even foster parents have been arested for these things and same with adoptive parentss. with me my kids mqay not have big famly vacashons but we take trips to the park and they have nice clothes even if they r from the dollar store. my kids r safe fed clean and have a roof over there heads with someone who luvs them. they r just fine with me ↑ |
| Name: KELLY M | Date: Jun 8th, 2006 3:59 PM |
| nina i sorry for all ur having to go through but i am looking to adopt and i do have 2 girls and wanting to adopt a son, not all people are bad and not all people do bad things to there kids, i no i'm blessed to have 2 healthy kids and a loving husband, if u would like to chat email me at peachus_33@yahoo.com ↑ |
| Name: KELLY M | Date: Jun 8th, 2006 4:13 PM |
| ok people i think she has hears enough negitive stuff so please she came hear for help so please help her and try not to run her in the ground. people live differant in this world and just because she has 4 kids dont make she's a bad person or a bad mother. ↑ |
| Name: Sharla | Date: Jun 8th, 2006 7:06 PM |
| Kelly, just so u know I'm a teenage mother too. I'm 17 and have 2 year old twins. Nina is 17, she'll have 5 kids by 5 differnt fathers, do you find that normal in a 17 year old? coz honestly I DONT!!! Biological parents abuse their kids just as much as an adoptive parent does btw. I think she should learn to CLOSE HER LEGS or use protection at least!!! ↑ |
| Name: nina | Date: Jun 10th, 2006 4:55 PM |
| i havent been on cuz i have been havintg problems. i went for a u-s and they didnnt see a hart beat. im supposed to be about 2 mnths but they think the bby stopped growing at 4 weeks. i go agan in 2 weeks to see if they r wrong. if not i need a d and c becase my body wont let the babby go. and my kids r not all by diffent men. 2 have the same dad, the youngest 2 have the same dad and this is only one that dont. 3 guys in 6 years. u wont have to worrie abot aborshon now if they r right the baby is alredy gone. thank u for being so nice to me kelly. i dont think im gona to come back here tho. too mny perfect ppl want to juge me. ↑ |
| Name: KELLY M | Date: Jun 14th, 2006 3:02 PM |
| nina , im sorry for what ur going threw, it must be breaking ur heart to hear that, i hope your heart will heal, and not set u back, god knows what he's doing and will help u along ur way. ..............SHARLA some times u might want to take ur own advise......... ↑ |
| Name: Sharla | Date: Jun 14th, 2006 4:43 PM |
| Kelly, I might be a teenage mother at 17 like nina, but I have 2 children and thats only coz theyre twins not 4. I got pregnant ONCE and she got pregnant 5 times. I was on the pill and using condoms and got pregnant, by the looks of it nina doesnt know what birth control actually is. ↑ |
| Name: Dreams | Date: Jun 14th, 2006 10:11 PM |
| She nina is a FRaud hate to break it to you folks her name is Shauna and she really is from Iowa. She has lets see I think 5 kids not in her custody and umm maybe 2 with her? Oh if your looking for a date hear she is available? Her online dating has caught up with her. She is also playing with the minds of those wishing to adopt. She also has a sob story for almost every situation. ↑ |
| Name: NINA | Date: Jun 14th, 2006 10:53 PM |
| I DO LIVE IN IOWA BUT MY NAME IS NOT SHAUNA. I DONT DO ADOPSHON AND ALL MY KIDS LIVE WIT ME. IM 18 IN ABOUT 3 MONTHS ON SEPT. 19. I DONT LYE HERE I GOT NO RESONS TO LYE. I WAS JUS LOOKING FOR HELP AND IN NOT GETING IT OBVIOSLY. WHOEVR U R TALKIN ABOT IS OBVIOSY NUTS. I JUS MISCARRED AND I WOOD KILL TO GET THIS BBY BACK Y WOOD I LYE TO PPL WHO WANT TO ADOPT? THATS JUS MEAN AND RONG. ITS EVIL TO SAY IM LIKE THAT. ↑ |
| Name: Tamekia KIlkenny | Date: Jun 15th, 2006 5:54 AM |
| hey girl dont worry about what other people say if they just bag you out tell them to get fucked i understand what you are going through... i am not going through it but i can understand if you need to talk add me neds_girl@hotmail.com ↑ |
| Name: ELAINE | Date: Jun 15th, 2006 4:40 PM |
| Girl did you not learn from the first one im 29 my son is 11 and im just 3mths pregnant and your 17 with 4 and one on the way that is crazy so you where like 13 when you had your first kid where are your parents. ↑ |
| Name: ELAINE | Date: Jun 15th, 2006 6:04 PM |
| Are you willing to give your fifth baby for an adoption? ↑ |
| Name: Tiffany | Date: Jun 19th, 2006 1:18 AM |
| im 18 and have 2 kids so if u want to talk hit me up at lotoflife@hotmail.com ↑ |
| Name: NICOLE | Date: Jun 23rd, 2006 3:51 PM |
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| Name: to nina | Date: Jun 23rd, 2006 9:43 PM |
| you dont need kids when you cant even spell "aborshun" "babys" "abortson" "adopshun" "miscarred" etc....................... but please dont get an abortion. ↑ |
| Name: nina | Date: Jun 24th, 2006 12:50 AM |
| i had a miscarrage. I got a D & c 3 days ago. i wont poste here anymore. than u to the ppl wo were nice to me. and the reson i cant spell good is cuz i m mexican and do not speek english good or spe;; it ↑ |
| Name: elizabth garcia | Date: Aug 16th, 2006 5:21 PM |
| do u have any birth control out there in iowa? 5 kids and your 17 thats crazy. where are your parents? you should get your tubes tied or burned. how old were you when you had your first child? ↑ |
| Name: ELAINE | Date: Aug 21st, 2006 12:41 PM |
Nina you need to get your self together and make sure those men pay childsupport for there kids because you didn't do this alone so make them help you. And by the way i to am mexican so don't worry about your spelling no one perfect. But i can say 5 kids at 18 is just way to much girl i don't no what the hell you where thinking but it's to late because those kids are here already. Now yo must do your best to take of them. You must be strong.
Eliane Mendez Gonzalez ↑ |
| Name: amy | Date: Oct 23rd, 2006 12:34 PM |
| nina how the hell can you blame other people for you getting pregnant if you cant afford birth control dont have sex and dont insult other teens cause you have a job those who dont have jobs are more mature than you by the sounds of it theres names for girls like you im 17 i had my daughter at 16 the baby was planned i have the guts to own up to that i dont care who insults me i stay at home lookin after my 4 month old daughter while my bf goes to work hes on £6,89 an hour we have our OWN HOUSE and not councle or paid for us we surport our own backs u are the teen what is worse than any other so dont come on this website insulting us teen mums bcos it is you what gives us bad names! and btw i chose to work but because were not stuck i chose to stay home and clean cook wash and take `care of my baby GROW UP! ↑ |
| Name: christyintn | Date: Dec 4th, 2006 4:35 PM |
| nina i was looking at some of the things they was saying and i must say im sorry that people say the things they do. i understand your young and you dont have alot. but its not money that they need its the love you can give . so for what they said about u should get a abortion i would say no to that . i think your lucky that u can have kids alot of people can't and i'm one of them so i think you should just think about the day u see his or her face . god will make a way for you and your kids. ↑ |
| Name: mother2five | Date: Dec 4th, 2006 5:06 PM |
| NINA i SUGGEST YOU GO TO THE DUE DATE CROWD MAYBE THEY WILL GIVE YOU SOME MORE SUPPORT HUN. ↑ |
| Name: chantel1 | Date: Mar 8th, 2007 10:43 AM |
| look this is your life and decission, congrats!!! i think babies are the most wonderful thing that could ever happen to anyone. what about your parents? could they maybe help you out with daycare ect? oh yeah and why isn't the fathers paying child support? lousy mungrowls. good luck i think it's nice, and i hope she fills your hear with much pleasure(i think that you'll have a girl) dunno? how cute, good luck:) ↑ |
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