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| Name: Becky | Date: May 26th, 2006 5:02 PM |
| A good spanking always works on the bare ↑ |
| Name: n.n. | Date: May 28th, 2006 2:44 AM |
| As far as the phone thing goes,cancel service and let her keep a phone that won't work. Cancel out her my space also. Is her father involved in her life at all? If he isn't,maybe it's time he was. Ground her from doing anything and if she runs away call the police as soon as you know she is gone.If it comes to that,put her in bootcamp for the summer,that would straighten her up for sure. ↑ |
| Name: lil Ananda | Date: Jun 8th, 2006 2:59 PM |
| whats up ↑ |
| Name: Brant | Date: Jun 8th, 2006 10:54 PM |
| I just want to encourage you. All is not lost. I also have a 15 year old daughter, however she does not have the privilege of telling us NO. We are the parents and we established that long ago by setting parameters and boundaries and holding her accountable. I don’t care if she hates me or whatever my job is to keep her safe. I work in IT and she knows that I am very computer savvy. I warned her about the dangers of myspace and other social web sites. We have also watched a number of programs together concerning the dangerous situations these teens are getting themselves into on-line. To make a long story short I felt in my spirit that she had activated a new account, so I did some research and sure enough…I found her! I created a dummy e-mail (yahoo) and my space page and began communicating with her on-line. She has no idea that I am not a 17 year old boy who loves basketball as much as she does. I haven’t busted her yet because I am finding out some really good information not only about her, but about some of her friends. I am sharing it with some of the girl’s (the ones that I believe will be receptive anyway) parents that I have found in her “friends” list. The danger here is that she has no idea who I am and that I am not some 50 year old perv trying to get into her pants. I even went so far as to use some picture of some guy I found on-line. As soon as bring an end to this sting I will be installing Bsafe on-line (http://www.bsafehome.com) on the computer she uses. It filters out all of those social websites as well as porn and spy ware. It comes highly recommended. I got the idea from Rebecca Hagelin author of “Home Invasion” (http://www.homeinvasion.org) My wife and I had the privilege of hearing her speak and I also bought her book which I highly recommend. I have enjoyed sharing my story with other parents and I plan to help spread the word in bigger ways to whom ever I can. Set the parameters and don't budge from them. Please stay encouraged and cover your children in prayer! ↑ |
| Name: Liddy | Date: Jul 5th, 2006 9:54 AM |
| give her a nice short high and tight punishment haircut...it did wonders for my 15 yar old. Especially with the promise that i would shave all her hair off if her attitude doesn't improve. Let it grow back out as long as as she is repectful and does as she chores. Oh yeah, at 15 she does not need a cell phone. ↑ |
| Name: yerowww | Date: Oct 12th, 2007 8:08 AM |
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| Name: daisy255 | Date: Oct 26th, 2007 5:53 PM |
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| Name: rachelturner0 | Date: Nov 29th, 2007 4:02 PM |
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| Name: whitewolf3001 | Date: Aug 10th, 2009 4:10 PM |
| Tell your daughter how dangerous it is online. You did the right thing to punish her. If she is still being manipulative. Then I think you should keep cracking down on her about it. Seems she lost her respect for you. My 14 yr old daughter had also done things like this. We fight and she is very stubborn. What works is yess grounding her. She really hates it. She has no cell phone anymore ever! And she has a laptop. But the moment she dares talks to me in any wrong tone. She loses it. Even if she says to me Whatever mom. I told her. She is not ever to talk to me in that tone or way again. I mean business. It's been a month now since I stopped being too nice. Now she is very respectable and kind. I feel I got my daughter back. You must put your foot down and stick to your guns. If you let her walk all over you now.. She will think she's in authority. And yes she is counting on you to feel bad about it. She's an intelligent being lol. She will manipulate you any which way. But most importantly.. You must reward her for being good to you. I do reward my kids.. But I am honest and I tell them what I think. That I will no longer tolerate any dis respect! It's upon you. I stopped feeling bad. And now my daughter is nicer. She knows not to do it anymore! Good luck! P.S. I never beat her either. You should not ever have to get physical with a kid. I just take away her pc. Make your daughter sit in her room without tv etc. Tell her.. I want you to think about how you are talking to me. I am your mother. I love you and I only want you to realize what you are doing. She won't like it. But stick to your guns .. she will change her tune. again I wish you luck lol ↑ |
| Name: whitewolf3001 | Date: Aug 10th, 2009 4:21 PM |
| Most importantly talk to your kids. Being open is the best way to keep a good working relationship between your children. Never get physical. I am against any spankings or hitting.. all that does is show them how to act when they are in anger. and that is un except able behavior by adults and kids. It's really not easy being a parent. But it's also not easy being a teen either. Good luck! And parents be careful with your kids online. There are sexual preditors lurking and waiting to snare a victim. Sad but true! Make sure your kids are educated about this. It is a big deal.. Ask any parent who has lost there child to these scum bags. ↑ |
