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Name: finnigan [ Original Post ] hey i'm 21 yrs old and going to college, i have about 2 years left. i've known this guy for 10 yrs and we dated before, tried a lot its all confusing now this august he's going to the army and i have to go back to school but he wants to have a baby, we both would love to be young parents but im not sure.. i mean i really want to but what all comes with it??? ↓

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Name: lindalu | Date: May 29th, 2008 5:08 PM

Finnigan, You are so young.... with plenty of time to have children. Finish your schooling then after you are done if you still feel you want to have a child have one. I have a 22 year old daughter, if she came to me saying she wanted to have a child I would give her the same advice I gave you. Stay in school! Education is very important and if you have that when you have your child you will be able to better care for him/her. ↑

Name: mckenzie | Date: Jun 22nd, 2008 2:00 AM

if you consider adoption we will adopt your baby my email is jamaica.p3323@yahoo.com ↑

Name: Lola-May | Date: Jul 17th, 2008 7:52 PM

At least wait until you're done school...besides he's going into the army next month!?!?!?! He wont even be around for the pregnancy, birth or first who knows how long of the child's life. Finish school and get settled. It's not fair to you and especially not fair to the baby to be born into a family with little to no stability. Babies are wonderful but they're a lot of work. They are all consuming. You will be tired, fat, and probably wont get a chance to shower regularily. You wont have time to go and do what you want when you want to. There will be poop, puke and tons of snot. I waited until I was 25 to get pregnant and I'm really glad I did. I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything that non-parents have because I gave myself a chance to have an independent life and experiences. There's plenty of time to have kids, there's not plenty of time to be one though. ↑

Name: Mom2BEE | Date: Jul 28th, 2008 12:43 AM

Lots of repsonsability it costs lots of money to be a parent loss of sleep loss of private time in the end its worth it but its a sacrafice. Give yourselves time to get to really know each other. ↑

Name: lisasing | Date: Jul 30th, 2008 2:37 AM

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Name: margo | Date: Sep 3rd, 2008 3:47 PM

hi my name is margo if it was me i would wait but sometimes anymore life is so short you never know whats going to happen so i would just say fellow your heart and you head it souds like you are smart wenough to dfigure this one out..wha ever you decide just make reall sure that it is what you want not him..you are the one that will be taking care of it and all while he is gone..my how family is milary so i do know all about this stuff so just make sure its what you want ok... ↑