Name: jenna Title: new single mom

Hi everyone
I have only been a single mom for about 7 mons now. I guess I am just looking for some other mom's out there who knows what it is like. I don't know anyone with kids so this has all been really new to me. Hope someone has some advise

cheers  ?

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Name: Heather • Date: 05/21/2006 09:14:14

There is way to much to say...... SO please IM me anytime. Im a single mom with two boys. babigyrl25252000 That is my IM id  =

Name: JENA D. • Date: 05/30/2006 20:09:06

HI
I WENT TROW A DEVORICCE SO MANY THING HAPPENED TO ME INFRONT OF MY DAUGHTER ITS NOT FUNNY
I DONT KNOW WHAT U BEEN THROGH,
IF U PLEASE DO SIDE 2 RIGHT ME SAY U R FROM JOEL OLSTEN IF NOT I WONT READ IT THANK U
I WOULD LOVE 2 TALK TO U GIVE U SOME ADVICE BUT AS OF NOW I NEED TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF ADVICE U R LOOKING 4  =

Name: jenna • Date: 05/31/2006 18:09:54

Thanks jena d I guess that I am just looking to meet some other moms I don't know any other mothers and well i don't have the time to go out and join a momy and baby group between work and taking care of my little girl i don't have much time. thanks  =

Name: vikki • Date: 06/23/2006 13:34:18

hey i dont know what its like to be a mom either but i am about 2 months pregnant and this is my first time my bf is really excited but i took care of my bro and cusin of about a hole year of their lifes and i think its really fun i just cant wait to have my own baby  =

Name: lisa • Date: 07/05/2006 00:41:06

i am 39 weeks pregnant and my relationship ended within this last stretch of pregnancy. it's very hard. traumatizing even. i feel very alone. it's hard to let go of him because of the baby. i thought we were gonna be together forever. i just wanted to be a family. this is our 1st baby. i'm 20 and he's 24. all my friends have husbands. families. my heart is so broken. i just wanted to give my baby girl a family. i had dreams of vacations, holidays, and milestones.  =

Name: abby • Date: 07/19/2006 01:54:27

Im also a single mom for about 8 months and i know how you feel when non of your friends have a baby  =

Name: Carol • Date: 07/22/2006 22:09:02

I won't lie, it' not easy but you will find that the "new" sense of independence you feel is not necessariy a bad thing. I have a daughter and have been doing it alone now for the past four years. Her father still sees her and is very good with her and for the sake of our daughter, we work hard at being friends.
What type of advise do you need, I will help if I can.  =

Name: Raymond • Date: 08/01/2006 17:43:01

contact me ==Hi Jenna kindman69us@yahoo.com

Thank You  =

Name: niall • Date: 06/12/2007 13:09:24

hey  =

Name: karen • Date: 06/12/2007 23:47:41

hi im 26 single with a baby girl that is 2yrs. her father is 25yrs and is a complete idiot. the guy has no clue about taking care of children nor himself. he has so many problems i dont know where to begin. i dont know if theres anyone that has a complete loser for a babys daddy.  =

Name: lee • Date: 06/29/2007 01:40:29

Hi Jenna
Iv'e also become a single mom and am not sure what to do or where to go from here. I do know however, that it would be nice to have someone to talk to please reply  =

Name: mumu • Date: 07/04/2007 18:09:59

I have been a single mom for 7 years well 8 in 2 days and it can be rotten I won't lie, especially if you have no family and support network near by, but my son is my saviour and I will never regret having him and he makes each day worth to be living.  =

Name: syeda • Date: 07/14/2007 23:53:17

hi i'm new this is my first time in a chatroom i have a 23 month old and i'm 3 months pregnant with my other one i was just looking for advice by the way i'm 18 years old and i'm soon to be divorced (the marriage was arranged)  =

Name: Lisa • Date: 07/15/2007 22:49:36

Yeah i am a single mom too and it is very difficult. Good luck and stay strong  =

Name: Florentina • Date: 08/02/2007 08:40:57

Hello Jenna,,
Sorry but from my side there are no advices, because i am pregnant right now and i have no husband or frieds to help me or get any advices, but i hope that there is some one to answer your questions.

Regards  =

Name: amanda • Date: 09/06/2007 01:54:37

yes i have been a single mom for about 4 months now  =

Name: needamom • Date: 09/07/2007 03:42:37

any mom have sex with a younger boy?  =

Name: Michelle • Date: 09/12/2007 12:46:11

I just recently broke up with my Fiance about 4 months ago, He was physically abusive, wouldnt get a job and used me for everything I had. Not only that, I found kiddie porn on his computer of very young little girls. About a month after I broke up with him.... I found out I was pregnant. With a little baby girl, no less. I have completely cut that man out of my life, he doesnt know I am pregnant and I never plan on telling him. I DO NOT want a sicko like that around my little girl. Some people say it's "wrong of me" to purposely cut the father out of my life... But what would YOU do in a situation like this? WOuld you really want a man who enjoys looking a kiddie porn around your daughter???  =

Name: cherisalorraine • Date: 09/12/2007 13:38:32

you should stay gone and protect your child
gfy geeting out of there  =

Name: damaris • Date: 09/17/2007 12:41:53

well I have been a single mom since my baby was born 7 years and 8 months ago, I now that I see my girl growning I wish she had her father and we could be family, it gets more difficult with time, and with him now dating and cares less and less about my daughter. I wish there was a right answer but unfortunally men don't have any commitment to the children they create  =

Name: megan • Date: 09/27/2007 00:31:13

look girl im 20 weeks pregnant and all alone because my babys daddy decided that being in the dope game was more important so now hes in prison i dont know what im going to do but i aint got no choice to raise this baby by myself and u knw what if i can do it then so can you  =

Name: brooke mama 4 8 yrs w/2 • Date: 09/28/2007 03:07:44

honey nothing is a givin like they say
'they don;t come with handbooks" I've been i'n the pitts of hell and have been given a very sour dose of reality but I can tell you what it is a struggle and it will continue to be a struggle our children to be the next one's to carry on what we believe is right whether you and i agree is to be carried on through us or not don't get me wrong i've been a independent mother since I was 19 Yrs. and I m from c.a. but I don't take sides I just follow my heart bottom ,being a mother is the best and most stressfull job in the world1  =

Name: happysinglemmother • Date: 09/28/2007 03:26:09

i'I've been a single mom for eight years and yes it is a struggle . I have 2 boys who are 100% boys and it is the best gift in the world I had my first when I was 19. But he gave me a very fresh dose of reality which beleive it or not was my life saver my children have opened my eyes to a whole new world of life,spiatuality , and come to believe it even more common scence.The best advice I can give you is to be true to yourself and true to your kids.... the golden rule still stands!!!!!  =

Name: ileon86@yahoo.com babygirl • Date: 09/28/2007 03:42:38

mamma IA feel you theres always too much too much too say i know as sweet as it was it always ends up in a circle of madness, thats just the way the cookie crumbles as they say. But life is long don;t trip there is always the bigger picture ,yours will come to you, just be good to yours like they say patience is a virtue. love single mama whos been there I understand,god bless(go w/ it)  =

Name: tinA • Date: 12/01/2007 16:34:18

SINGLE MOM WITH ONE BOY 2 AND A HALF  =

Name: heyits me • Date: 12/21/2007 01:13:40

yes i love mom  =

Name: lithium_zephyr • Date: 12/27/2007 22:58:57

Hi Jenny! I'm a single mom as well and my kid is 10 1/2 months. I have to be honest -- it can be the most challenging part of your life but certainly the most fulfilling as well. Just focus yourself in raising your kid well. Yes, it is normal to hear a lot of negative stuff but hey -- who gives a damn? You have your kid and that's the most important thing. Be happy and stay happy. Derive your strength from your child's smile.. =)  =

Name: T • Date: 12/30/2007 18:57:53

Hello Ladies. I'm 23 and just found out that I am pregnant with my 2nd child. My son is six (I had him at a very early age of 17). I live alone with my son on Long Island, and though I've been dating the same guy for four years ( we were trying to conceive)-I knew that I would be a single mother, still. I've been very busy between work in this new area and I'm working on my Masters degree. I don't have many friends to talk to about this stuff. Wondering if any ladies would like to chat, or any other women that have gone into a pregnancy knowing that they would be single. You can write back with any advice or find me on aim Tluvn30  =

Name: maggiemama • Date: 12/30/2007 23:11:30

Hey Jenna,
I've been a single mom for four years now. It's a pain in the ass, HA HA! But it's better than dragging their deadbeat dad along. Good luck to you. It's hard to adjust. And it's really lonely. I'd be happy to chat.  =

Name: kerry • Date: 12/31/2007 16:07:28

my daughter is four and a half months old now and her dad left us ten weeks before she was born am only on line tonight whilst at my sisters it is hard sometimes  =

Name: kerry • Date: 12/31/2007 17:27:34

not sure if anyone is on line this is a very lonely night once the babies are in bed  =

Name: sky • Date: 01/03/2008 19:54:20

hi der  =

Name: Joseph • Date: 01/21/2008 19:40:35

Hey there..I am joseph wilson. Yes i'm a guy. I'd be lying if I said I could understand what you ladies are going through but I can imagine its pretty rough. The reason for this msg is that if there are any mom's out there struggling financially and are looking for a way that they can balance out their lives and make money from home while looking after their children email me at exclusivelife@gmail.com. Thank you. God bless :-)  =

Name: josef • Date: 01/23/2008 11:19:34

if u find some handsome man can help u to make it easy  =

Name: Kristin • Date: 01/23/2008 21:54:13

Will my son Hate me when he finds out one day his father bailed on me when I was pregnant?  =

Name: elvagreen • Date: 01/25/2008 00:50:44

Hello Jeanna, you may go to singleparentloving.com to find other single parent friends in your area. It 's a site dedicate for singleparent friendship and romance.  =

Name: mr pat • Date: 01/28/2008 00:20:58

hi ladies, my heart goes out to you all !! i'm a brother with three sisters. Just recently( week b4 christmas) my elder sisters fiance left her and their 4yr old girl and their 15 mth old girl for another women. they were together for 7 years so this came as a shock to everyone especially my sister,she thought they were planing a life together. I want to be there for my sister as much as possible and also my sweetest little nieces, i hope someone out there can give me some advice as to how i can be supportive and make her feel confident and happy again!! thankyou all for taking the time....xo  =

Name: shoshanna • Date: 03/01/2008 20:37:14

hello, i am going to be a single mom and feel very alone and scared. i am starting to feel like i should let the father back in but dont want to repeat our past i guess i am just kind of looking for some suppport and advice from people in the same positions, cause i cant hear another 'perfect" persons advice  =

Name: vernie • Date: 03/04/2008 21:05:17

its been 3months for me i pray ido the things that make me happy and i stay busy. but most of all i have peace and harmony.  =

Name: soon to be single mom • Date: 03/04/2008 22:25:10

I'm sorry I don't have any advice for you. I'm actually looking for advice from someone else. I'm 9 mths pregnant and might as well be single. I'm married, but he completely freaked when he found out I was pregnant. We found out I was pregnant at 11 weeks and it's back and forth with him ever since. Right now he's 10 hours away and says he's not sure he can make it for the delivery. I've just been so depressed and I can't imagine doing this without him. Is that how you felt around this time in your pregnancy?  =

Name: lorna • Date: 03/13/2008 06:18:52

Are you or have you recently become a single mom or dad? Are you forced to rely on the support of family members or friends to keep your family intact? Do you feel like you suffer discrimination because you're raising a child on your own? Are you determined to do whatever it takes to give your child a good life, even if it means sacrificing your own freedom/happiness?
If you need help ,I think i can do you a favor, in "soloparentdate.com" .the people in there are very kind ,they will do you a favor as possible as they can .  =

Name: shoshanna • Date: 03/16/2008 13:43:39

i am not looking to date while pregnant i am just more looking for support from other single moms, the hardest right now is not wanting him back which i do very much  =

Name: karen • Date: 03/24/2008 17:49:25

I have been single since last April. Trust me its get better and better everyday. God gives you more strength and capability to face all th problems.  =

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Name: dancingfire • Date: 04/09/2008 04:19:55

Hey,You may go to singelparentloving.com ask for help ! There is thousands of sigle parents on that site. They may give you some good suggestion .  =

Name: solo • Date: 04/09/2008 21:59:52

HI
It seems that you need some help.
Here I know a good place for single parent to communicate with each other. singleparentloving.com Hope it can help you !  =

Name: Kristie • Date: 04/27/2008 13:55:09

Hey. I am 37 weeks and 2 days pregnant. I will be a single mom. Me and her father broke up a week before I found out I was pregnant..got back together for few days than broke up for good. I dont have many friends here and definately dont know any mothers in same situation. He wants to be in her life but we'll see how all that goes. I would love to talk to other moms or soon to be moms with same problems.  =

Name: redrose78 • Date: 04/29/2008 01:45:10

Message to Michelle he sounds just like my ex to he was the except for the kiddie shit, but with him anything is possible. Are you coping ok love to chat you can email me on caroline_grgeorio@hotmail.com  =

Name: SingleParent • Date: 04/29/2008 02:47:49

It's hard being a single parent especially when all your friends are married. The net is a great resource to bring single parents together in one community.

Check out SingleParentChat.net.  =

Name: angela ainsworth • Date: 04/29/2008 17:19:39

hi  =

Name: solo • Date: 04/29/2008 23:30:33

Hey ....Wanna meet more single parent in your area ? Just go http://www.singleparentloving.com  =