Hi everyone
I have only been a single mom for about 7 mons now. I guess I am just looking for some other mom's out there who knows what it is like. I don't know anyone with kids so this has all been really new to me. Hope someone has some advise
cheers ↓
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| Name: JENA D. | Date: May 31st, 2006 12:09 AM |
HI
I WENT TROW A DEVORICCE SO MANY THING HAPPENED TO ME INFRONT OF MY DAUGHTER ITS NOT FUNNY
I DONT KNOW WHAT U BEEN THROGH,
IF U PLEASE DO SIDE 2 RIGHT ME SAY U R FROM JOEL OLSTEN IF NOT I WONT READ IT THANK U
I WOULD LOVE 2 TALK TO U GIVE U SOME ADVICE BUT AS OF NOW I NEED TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF ADVICE U R LOOKING 4 ↑ |
| Name: jenna | Date: May 31st, 2006 10:09 PM |
| Thanks jena d I guess that I am just looking to meet some other moms I don't know any other mothers and well i don't have the time to go out and join a momy and baby group between work and taking care of my little girl i don't have much time. thanks ↑ |
| Name: vikki | Date: Jun 23rd, 2006 5:34 PM |
| hey i dont know what its like to be a mom either but i am about 2 months pregnant and this is my first time my bf is really excited but i took care of my bro and cusin of about a hole year of their lifes and i think its really fun i just cant wait to have my own baby ↑ |
| Name: lisa | Date: Jul 5th, 2006 4:41 AM |
| i am 39 weeks pregnant and my relationship ended within this last stretch of pregnancy. it's very hard. traumatizing even. i feel very alone. it's hard to let go of him because of the baby. i thought we were gonna be together forever. i just wanted to be a family. this is our 1st baby. i'm 20 and he's 24. all my friends have husbands. families. my heart is so broken. i just wanted to give my baby girl a family. i had dreams of vacations, holidays, and milestones. ↑ |
| Name: abby | Date: Jul 19th, 2006 5:54 AM |
| Im also a single mom for about 8 months and i know how you feel when non of your friends have a baby ↑ |
| Name: Carol | Date: Jul 23rd, 2006 2:09 AM |
I won't lie, it' not easy but you will find that the "new" sense of independence you feel is not necessariy a bad thing. I have a daughter and have been doing it alone now for the past four years. Her father still sees her and is very good with her and for the sake of our daughter, we work hard at being friends.
What type of advise do you need, I will help if I can. ↑ |
| Name: Raymond | Date: Aug 1st, 2006 9:43 PM |
contact me ==Hi Jenna [email protected]
Thank You ↑ |
| Name: niall | Date: Jun 12th, 2007 5:09 PM |
| Name: karen | Date: Jun 13th, 2007 3:47 AM |
| hi im 26 single with a baby girl that is 2yrs. her father is 25yrs and is a complete idiot. the guy has no clue about taking care of children nor himself. he has so many problems i dont know where to begin. i dont know if theres anyone that has a complete loser for a babys daddy. ↑ |
| Name: lee | Date: Jun 29th, 2007 5:40 AM |
Hi Jenna
Iv'e also become a single mom and am not sure what to do or where to go from here. I do know however, that it would be nice to have someone to talk to please reply ↑ |
| Name: mumu | Date: Jul 4th, 2007 10:09 PM |
| I have been a single mom for 7 years well 8 in 2 days and it can be rotten I won't lie, especially if you have no family and support network near by, but my son is my saviour and I will never regret having him and he makes each day worth to be living. ↑ |
| Name: syeda | Date: Jul 15th, 2007 3:53 AM |
| hi i'm new this is my first time in a chatroom i have a 23 month old and i'm 3 months pregnant with my other one i was just looking for advice by the way i'm 18 years old and i'm soon to be divorced (the marriage was arranged) ↑ |
| Name: Lisa | Date: Jul 16th, 2007 2:49 AM |
| Yeah i am a single mom too and it is very difficult. Good luck and stay strong ↑ |
| Name: Florentina | Date: Aug 2nd, 2007 12:40 PM |
Hello Jenna,,
Sorry but from my side there are no advices, because i am pregnant right now and i have no husband or frieds to help me or get any advices, but i hope that there is some one to answer your questions.
Regards ↑ |
| Name: amanda | Date: Sep 6th, 2007 5:54 AM |
| yes i have been a single mom for about 4 months now ↑ |
| Name: Michelle | Date: Sep 12th, 2007 4:46 PM |
| I just recently broke up with my Fiance about 4 months ago, He was physically abusive, wouldnt get a job and used me for everything I had. Not only that, I found kiddie porn on his computer of very young little girls. About a month after I broke up with him.... I found out I was pregnant. With a little baby girl, no less. I have completely cut that man out of my life, he doesnt know I am pregnant and I never plan on telling him. I DO NOT want a sicko like that around my little girl. Some people say it's "wrong of me" to purposely cut the father out of my life... But what would YOU do in a situation like this? WOuld you really want a man who enjoys looking a kiddie porn around your daughter??? ↑ |
| Name: cherisalorraine | Date: Sep 12th, 2007 5:38 PM |
you should stay gone and protect your child
gfy geeting out of there ↑ |
| Name: damaris | Date: Sep 17th, 2007 4:41 PM |
| well I have been a single mom since my baby was born 7 years and 8 months ago, I now that I see my girl growning I wish she had her father and we could be family, it gets more difficult with time, and with him now dating and cares less and less about my daughter. I wish there was a right answer but unfortunally men don't have any commitment to the children they create ↑ |
| Name: megan | Date: Sep 27th, 2007 4:31 AM |
| look girl im 20 weeks pregnant and all alone because my babys daddy decided that being in the dope game was more important so now hes in prison i dont know what im going to do but i aint got no choice to raise this baby by myself and u knw what if i can do it then so can you ↑ |
| Name: brooke mama 4 8 yrs w/2 | Date: Sep 28th, 2007 7:07 AM |
honey nothing is a givin like they say
'they don;t come with handbooks" I've been i'n the pitts of hell and have been given a very sour dose of reality but I can tell you what it is a struggle and it will continue to be a struggle our children to be the next one's to carry on what we believe is right whether you and i agree is to be carried on through us or not don't get me wrong i've been a independent mother since I was 19 Yrs. and I m from c.a. but I don't take sides I just follow my heart bottom ,being a mother is the best and most stressfull job in the world1 ↑ |
| Name: happysinglemmother | Date: Sep 28th, 2007 7:26 AM |
| i'I've been a single mom for eight years and yes it is a struggle . I have 2 boys who are 100% boys and it is the best gift in the world I had my first when I was 19. But he gave me a very fresh dose of reality which beleive it or not was my life saver my children have opened my eyes to a whole new world of life,spiatuality , and come to believe it even more common scence.The best advice I can give you is to be true to yourself and true to your kids.... the golden rule still stands!!!!! ↑ |
| mamma IA feel you theres always too much too much too say i know as sweet as it was it always ends up in a circle of madness, thats just the way the cookie crumbles as they say. But life is long don;t trip there is always the bigger picture ,yours will come to you, just be good to yours like they say patience is a virtue. love single mama whos been there I understand,god bless(go w/ it) ↑ |
| Name: tinA | Date: Dec 1st, 2007 9:34 PM |
| SINGLE MOM WITH ONE BOY 2 AND A HALF ↑ |
| Name: heyits me | Date: Dec 21st, 2007 6:13 AM |
| Name: lithium_zephyr | Date: Dec 28th, 2007 3:58 AM |
| Hi Jenny! I'm a single mom as well and my kid is 10 1/2 months. I have to be honest -- it can be the most challenging part of your life but certainly the most fulfilling as well. Just focus yourself in raising your kid well. Yes, it is normal to hear a lot of negative stuff but hey -- who gives a damn? You have your kid and that's the most important thing. Be happy and stay happy. Derive your strength from your child's smile.. =) ↑ |
| Name: T | Date: Dec 30th, 2007 11:57 PM |
| Hello Ladies. I'm 23 and just found out that I am pregnant with my 2nd child. My son is six (I had him at a very early age of 17). I live alone with my son on Long Island, and though I've been dating the same guy for four years ( we were trying to conceive)-I knew that I would be a single mother, still. I've been very busy between work in this new area and I'm working on my Masters degree. I don't have many friends to talk to about this stuff. Wondering if any ladies would like to chat, or any other women that have gone into a pregnancy knowing that they would be single. You can write back with any advice or find me on aim Tluvn30 ↑ |
| Name: maggiemama | Date: Dec 31st, 2007 4:11 AM |
Hey Jenna,
I've been a single mom for four years now. It's a pain in the ass, HA HA! But it's better than dragging their deadbeat dad along. Good luck to you. It's hard to adjust. And it's really lonely. I'd be happy to chat. ↑ |
| Name: kerry | Date: Dec 31st, 2007 9:07 PM |
| my daughter is four and a half months old now and her dad left us ten weeks before she was born am only on line tonight whilst at my sisters it is hard sometimes ↑ |
| Name: kerry | Date: Dec 31st, 2007 10:27 PM |
| not sure if anyone is on line this is a very lonely night once the babies are in bed ↑ |
| Name: sky | Date: Jan 4th, 2008 12:54 AM |
| Name: Joseph | Date: Jan 22nd, 2008 12:40 AM |
| Hey there..I am joseph wilson. Yes i'm a guy. I'd be lying if I said I could understand what you ladies are going through but I can imagine its pretty rough. The reason for this msg is that if there are any mom's out there struggling financially and are looking for a way that they can balance out their lives and make money from home while looking after their children email me at [email protected]. Thank you. God bless :-) ↑ |
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