| Name: charleen | Date: May 8th, 2006 6:31 PM |
| if i were ber i would just try to ignore it or i would chang schools or move somewhere else , kids r really cruel ↑ |
| Name: Kids are crule | Date: May 8th, 2006 7:57 PM |
| Melissa, I am 11 and i have had name calling and teseing at because of over weight I know how it feels.You should talk to these kids parents and then if the dont care have her get watched on by teachers that she might have and if they here things like what they saying to her they can get scolded. ↑ |
| Name: nnbn | Date: May 8th, 2006 8:03 PM |
| Name: stephanie | Date: May 9th, 2006 8:28 PM |
| what a wonderful teacher you are. sometimes us moms of children of special needs can be hard on you teachers. thankyou ↑ |
| Name: Linda | Date: Jun 20th, 2006 5:14 PM |
| Hello Melissa, I too have a daughter who is in a wheel chair. She is now a young adult and no longer in the public school system. When she was, I spoke to the special edd advisor at the town school department. I asked if it would be possible to keep her in the same school so that she would not have to re ajust again. I explained that my daughter was well ajusted in the school. She had her friends she was comfortable with the teachers and staff. If they where to remove her, it would not only disrupt her social structure it would also affect her school performance. I had wonderfull results, they approved my request and my daughter continued at the same school she started in. It is worth a shot go directly to the school department! Good Luck! ↑ |
| Name: jessica | Date: Jun 21st, 2006 4:51 AM |
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| Name: jessica | Date: Jun 21st, 2006 4:53 AM |
| let her moov school and help her fit in more ↑ |
| Name: eli | Date: Jun 21st, 2006 4:56 AM |
| pepol pick on me even swer ↑ |
| Name: Hi | Date: Jun 21st, 2006 1:58 PM |
| im 12. I need a friend. i dont care if she is in a wheelchair. can we be penpals? ↑ |
| Name: go there | Date: Jun 21st, 2006 2:00 PM |
| hi im the 12 year old. go to the kids yourself. tell her to tell you who the kids ,that pick on her and yell at them and tell their parents. i would do that. my mom said she would, but she didnt and i am sad. yell at them !!!!!!!!! revenge. you cant get in trouble ↑ |
| Name: Lali | Date: Jun 29th, 2006 10:53 AM |
These things always happening, everywhere. And I think I really understand you and your daughter. Cause in the pass I also experienced similar things.
I was born with glucoma (eye disease) ever since I was born. When i was only about three weeks my eyes need to be operated. It turn out my right eye can only see clearly about 20% while my left eye about 60%. When i starting school i need to wearing glasses. Which turn out to be about half cm thick. And at that time I also happen to be an overweight child. You probably can imagine, a fat girl with very thick glasses probably look weird to other kids.
I was an outcast, always get teased, yelling and bullied by other children. Both girls and boys. They don't let me play with them, some even hurt me by kick or stamp on my feet. My mum saw some bruise on my leg and ask me what happen. She then talk to the teacher and even with the kid that i point out to be the one who bullied me. Then other kid stop bully or harrass me. At first i thought everything was going to be ok. However it turn out that other kids didn't want to bother with me. So they decided to ignore me, completely.
I was so alone. I have no one to talk to. I always spend my lunch time alone. Sometime i stay with this girl who autistics (sp?). Sometimes we play together but there a lot of time she start act in a way i can't stand her, so i need to stay by myself.
At that time as for my parent well both my parents works. And when they come back they didn't seem want to talk. I wasn't really close to my father on that time, i'm sort of dislike him. I later understand that on that time there a problem in our family.
I have no one to talk to. My brother was in other school so i there no one really witness my problem. He also have similar problem at school
Well I stop ranting now. As you can see even talking to teacher or those kids, somtime it doesn't make things better. However it is still neccessary. Maybe those kids in your duaghter school may not be as mean as the kids in my school. Your duaghter was luck y to have a mother like you who care and want to find ways to help her. I'm saying my mother ignore me, it just she was so busy to notice, and our family really in a bad situation that these problem were ignore.
So not only talking to teachers, you need to talk to your daughter too. I'm sure you did it a lot of time. Giving her fiath and confidence. Find her some other activities she can do like playing music or art. It probably make her feel better. Make her feel that she too can do things other kids can do.
I know that my ilness when comparing to your daughter it seems so little. But I just want to let you know that there lots of other kids who have to face similar things. So don't give up. ↑ |
| Name: Kim Mori | Date: Jun 29th, 2006 8:18 PM |
Hi Melissa!
Poor little babies!!!! My heart goes out to you guys, it must be so dame hard! Look I have a severely disabled 12yr old son and even though he himself doesn't understand when people are being mean but his little brother does! And what we have found is that it is mainly because they don't know, they don't understand because they have never faced it in their life! Awareness, the cruel kids need to know what happened to your daughters legs from start til now! The school should be taking action, an awareness program, getting kids to write their storiers in school news letter of their triumphies, get posters made up that say "It's not COOL to be CRUEL"! Anything really, I just think it's like most things, if people don't know or understand something that usually don't care! Good Luck! God Bless Your Family!
Cheers! ↑ |
| Name: SenseOfPoise_n_rationality | Date: Jul 7th, 2006 1:16 AM |
| I know this sounds wrong but if i was you i would smack those kids! I cannot stand teasing disabled kids! You should talk to the principle. . and have a parent confrence! Really, im sorry kids are so cruel! ↑ |
| Name: Telem | Date: Jul 8th, 2006 10:30 PM |
| For all of the parents whose kids with disabilities are being subjected to a hostile learning environment and the school is not responding, you need to contact a lawyer. If you are not in the position to afford one, go to legal aid and/or the ACLU and/or groups that provide services to persons with disabilities and tell them that you think that your child's rights are being violated. (E.g. Americans With Disabilities Act., Rehabilitation Act of 1973 and comparable state statutes.) ↑ |
| Name: donna28 | Date: Jan 24th, 2007 8:59 AM |
Melissa,
I would go to the school and stress that you will not put up with this. I would stress that you want something done. Your daughter should never have to go to school and be put through this. And if you feel like the teacher's are doing nothing then I would go higher. My son gets picked on alot and that is one thing that I do not put up with. I would inform the school that you want the parents of these childern informed has well and that might change things. Either way if this was your daughter doing this they would be doing something about it. My heart goes out to your daughter. Never be scared to speak up for her. ↑ |
| Name: sunflower | Date: Feb 3rd, 2007 1:06 PM |
| The kids need a good talking too,by the parents and the teacher. ↑ |
| Name: rachtwins | Date: Feb 6th, 2007 12:13 AM |
| awwww thats awful my heart ↑ |
| Name: rachtwins | Date: Feb 6th, 2007 12:14 AM |
| awww that is awful my heart goes out to you both. KARMA ↑ |
| Name: ivonne | Date: Jun 14th, 2007 6:25 PM |
| Name: lou lou | Date: Jun 24th, 2007 3:01 PM |
| i am not that fat but my best friend thinks i am fatwhat should i say to her ↑ |
| Name: lisa | Date: Jun 24th, 2007 9:08 PM |
| you really need to talk to the teacher and principal and stress that you will not put up with this any longer.if no healp there talk to the special ed suporvisor whom is in charge of that school....good luck... ↑ |
| Name: angel | Date: Jul 8th, 2007 4:35 PM |
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| Name: alisha | Date: Jul 18th, 2007 4:49 PM |
| Name: emma | Date: Jul 22nd, 2007 10:03 PM |
| Name: Momz3 | Date: Aug 8th, 2007 8:21 PM |
| Guys Ur just gonna make the other kids hate her more if you tell, inroll her in a catholic school where she would be accepted. Im 18 as a mom and i have seen this happen i think u should not tattle but inroll her in a catholic school ↑ |
| Name: rimsha | Date: Aug 11th, 2007 2:07 PM |
| just say that one day you she will be laughing at you. ↑ |
| Name: ..RoSey.. | Date: Aug 12th, 2007 11:37 AM |
Momz3 Catholic school ?? i WENT to a catholic school from age 5 - 7.. but i left because i got BULLIED so bad i didnt want to go to school !!
EVen the teachers were horrible !!
After that school i went to a NON religious school and it was the best school i had ever been to.... ↑ |
| Name: shelby | Date: Sep 9th, 2007 9:19 AM |
| See I have a rash on my legs and it hasnt gone away yet. I never wanted to wear skirts or shorts, But then I started to break out of my shell. So tell her that shes perfect the way she is and soon she'll find a friend who likes her for who she is!!! ↑ |
| Name: Karen | Date: Sep 27th, 2007 10:16 AM |
I have a son that 's in Special Olympics. I 've heard about the treatment these kids get on the bus and in the halls at school. They tell me about it while we are driving to tourmaments. Some kids will stand up for those that are being mistreated, but very few.
I home school my son so he has never had to deal with that. There are alot of homeschool programs out there. I know of two that actually send you all the classes on DVD. That way your child has a Video class room with real students and real teachers. My son is using ABeka Academy. It's an excellent program. If you need help with something they 're a phone call or E-mail away. I also homeschooled my to older children with this program. They are both in college now and doing well. My youngest is developmentally behind so its harder for him but we tweek the program to fit his needs. I'm amazed at how much he has learned. Go online and check it out. ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: Jan 8th, 2008 8:04 PM |
| Name: kaly | Date: Jan 13th, 2008 4:04 PM |
| why do the all ways say clean your room ↑ |
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