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well mine did and no one helped us it has been a long year still no arest but what we have learned ,if any one has been threw this and you hit one dead end after another by dss ect...because they dont think your child is creditable i want you to know about the speacial camra that can tell ,but nobody told us. ↓
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| Name: mary | Date: Apr 21st, 2009 11:30 PM |
Hi I am too a Mom of a very special needs child. She is now 12 years old. So many things are going wrong now. Her diagnosis at birth was a rare syndrome, She wasn't supposed to make it through 2 years, but she did. It was good and bad, but stable for a few good years. Now, she can't go to school, has been in the PICU 4 times since December, and presents with weird infections. Needs to be on the vent more often, with oxygen. I am just basically looking for how to save her life. Am I working too hard, should I just let go. She still talks, walks, but can't do many of her normal activities. When we don't have nursing, I do the care, gladly, but keep thinking I am missing a trick, I dont want her to die. She is still so vibrant in word and spirit. I am so looking for a friend, I have many in church and the neighborhood, but I feel I need someone in my posistion. I just pray I am doing the right things for her. Whoever hears this, pray for my daughter and me, I am at my wits end. This is why I finally reached out to the universe.
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| Name: dee | Date: Apr 22nd, 2009 11:01 AM |
| well it sounds like youare doing a fine job,i do want you and others to know that if its not hard enough to take care of our children that have special needs and always advocateing on thier behalf .this one is very upsetting that no one else does.my daughter told me her teacher hurt her,when i told the school they said sorry dss wont help because of her disabilty but the teacher was told and left the school i guess the teacher belived her,however that should not off happened i learned ,the policeshold off been called long story short ,it has been a long road and still a year later no arest even when we ended up going to the hospital in a ambulance for somthing unrealated my daughter told the paramedics who hurt her so after we ruled out the issue that took us to the hospital we met with a social worker who did some testing then told us about a dotor who uses a camra to detect if children were molested she said the doctor uses it on chilren a yong as 1 yr olds so she said since your child has limted speech you should go see her i said were is she at she said dss i was shocked whyschool never told us ,so we went and the doctor put the camra in her vagina and at the end of the exam the doctor said she has sigificant trauma to her hymen,based n that dss ended up doing there so called investagtion and that whole thing was herific in itself and sill no charges and ,due to me calling dss every day to complain i then found out we had a states atoney who we never met i then called them to ask who it was they couldnt even find anyhing on her case but a month later on called me,i said were were you at 7 mths ago.so now i am finding out new info and sending it to that states atorney in hopes they will do the job the way it should of been handeled,so just because no one listen to my child ,she did have a voice the camra but they dont tell us about it because theythink our kids arent creditable so the case was closed we are in concelng now and im not given up i want every one to know about this,aimals get better treatment,and if thereare others who have gone threw this lets join to gether, ↑ |
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