| Name: Amanda | Date: Mar 8th, 2011 1:00 PM |
| I run all the administration of our business, help him out when there are urgent errants to run and raise 4 children of which the oldest one cmpleted her degree last year and second oldest started her studies this year at Varsity, according to him I am lazy and useless and have not done a days propper work in my life ↑ |
| Name: . | Date: Mar 16th, 2011 12:51 PM |
| The more you give, the less they appreciate. Just like a dog. ↑ |
| Name: . | Date: Mar 16th, 2011 1:02 PM |
| It's hard for most women to be as selfish as men are. We are naturally giving and nurturing. We have to be thinking of ourselves more. Men appreciate selfish women way more. ↑ |
| Name: Maria | Date: Mar 17th, 2011 2:26 PM |
| I just got married 1yr and half ago, and i'm only 21 years old. Of course we dated since i was 16 and know him since i was 13, so i guess "it was men't to be" Either way my husband its such an ass, most of the time. He just tries to put me down any time he can, even in front of his friends and family. I always tried to be the best wife, when we 1st got married i use to cook, clean, go to school, and always send him lunch for his work (with a love note) later to found out, he cheated on me. well, all that we put it on the past, as he cried, begged, and sound sincere, but now that i became a little tough, and don't do the same around the house, i feel like he just uses sarcasms instead of telling me to my face. today i was searching to buy rugs, and a couch for our living room, so it can be seem as more home, but instead we switch the conversation, and ended up telling me, i'm like Jesus, always trying to control, i'm a bitch!, and soo many other hurtful things. I told him that i wanted to fix up the house and decorated, but after what he just told me, i don't feel like it anymore. And he just laugh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! am I WRONG?? SOMEHOW?? ↑ |
| Name: Jenny | Date: Mar 18th, 2011 3:31 PM |
| My husband treats me horribly. He refuses to take out the garbage. ↑ |
| Name: i hate men | Date: Mar 24th, 2011 1:37 AM |
| my husband is an asshole and he made me hate men. ↑ |
| Name: Amanda | Date: Mar 26th, 2011 12:23 AM |
| My husband keeps complaining that I don't give him blow jobs or have passionate sex with him enough. He doesn't understand that the way he talks to me is a major turn-off. He tells me I'm fat and need to lose weight. I just had our 3rd child less than 2 months ago. He calls me lazy and says that because I'm a stay-at-home mom that I do nothing. He just text me from work saying that he is going to find some other girls to sexually pleasure him how he wants but he will always come home to me. Sick, disgusting freak. ↑ |
| Name: Jane | Date: Mar 27th, 2011 2:54 AM |
| I placed husband's golf club in our stinking garage. He got mad and started ranting about what a terrible person I am and wanted divorce. He wanted divorce over stupid dirty golf clubs. ↑ |
| Name: Beej | Date: Mar 31st, 2011 8:59 AM |
All the time. My husband says I sit on my arse and drink coffee all day. I don't know who goes to work to support the family because he doesn't have a job, or who picks up all his clothes from every room in the house, or cleans the toothpaste from all over the basin, wipes up the pee from the bathroom floor, cooks the meals, does the laundry, does all the book keeping, runs the farm, canteen at the school, cares for the 16 year old, tends to all the pets, grocery shops and ensures there is always money for him to pursue his leisure activities of fishing, shooting and general relaxation which appears to be a huge part of his life!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Somehow winging and talking about it doesn't make me feel any better... ↑ |
| Name: GATORCHICK1 | Date: Mar 31st, 2011 5:26 PM |
| UGH he is such an asshole! My husband has no job and sits on his xbox or computer games all day! Now i am the useless one bc I didn't feel like cooking dinner on my day off!? ↑ |
| Name: charlotte123 | Date: Mar 31st, 2011 8:21 PM |
| They all act the same. I clean house and take care of two year old when I'm not working. I get my daughter up and ready for school everyday, not my husband. Wash clothes and so on. All the running and errands are done by me. He goes to work comes home and sits down with a cold one while I continue to run around doing what has to be done. Occasionaly he cooks and he keeps our son on his day off. But does nothing else but make sure they eat for the day. He doesn't clean up anything! I tried a new recipie and it didn't turn out so hot. He chewed and chewed on me about it till I cried. Men are CLUE LESS! They don't listen or try to even come close to meeting us half way. I work part time and have worked twelve hours and come home and be asked what am I Cooking for supper. JERK!!i ↑ |
| Name: charlotte123 | Date: Mar 31st, 2011 8:51 PM |
| To those who posted about there husbands who put them down and don't work at all, I would soo cut there allowance off. You don't need them. They need you! They would be out in the yard! :) ↑ |
| Name: megan | Date: Apr 1st, 2011 9:46 AM |
| yeah i can relate my husband is an asshole too i ask him why he can't be more romantic towards me and she says im not the romantic type and you married an asshole so what do you expect. EXPECT I EXPECT YOU TO BE MORE ROMANTIC AND LESS OF AN ASSHOLE IT WOULD BE NICE FOR JUST ONCE IF COULD FIND A FUCKING ROMANTIC BONE IN HIS BODY AND JUST SHOW IT TO ME INSTEAD OF SAYING THAT'S WHAT YOU GET FOR MARRYING AN ASSHOLE. ↑ |
| Name: OMINOTAGO | Date: Apr 3rd, 2011 10:34 PM |
| My husband is always really cruel to me after sex. Every time we have sex he sleeps (which I'm grateful for). However when he wakes up after about a four hour nap he is SO cruel to me. If i say or ask anything he will repeat it in a little kid voice and is SUCH AN fing ASSHOLE . He's cranky so he feels like I'm not supposed to talk to him look at him breath of exist. i thought guys were supposed to be happy when the fing had sex. I'm thinking about refusing sex for now on and just say no your an asshole every fing time we have sex every fing time and I just can't handle it . ↑ |
| Name: laura | Date: Apr 16th, 2011 4:13 PM |
| fuckin lazy ass husbands, good for nothing sometimes! i ask him to make our oldest son some lunch, while i am breatfeeding and trying to get baby to sleep, well he flips out and says i dont want to, you do it, i just feed baby some food( while leaving the kitchen a disaster mess) its like my everyday is constant constant stuff to do and asking for some help with some grilled cheese and fruit salad woulda helped me out alot! but no we get in an arguement and now things are a bit tense, im guessing i should always shut the hell up never ask forhelp and do my job, or as james once said to me, since he works fulltime , he is now laying down in bed! fack im pissed off at him rightn ow ↑ |
| Name: ladyrahl | Date: Apr 18th, 2011 11:44 PM |
| Well i feel all of you girls. tonight...just like many nights my husband told me "I`m the man and you are my wife so you don`t talk to me unless i talk to you" ...........well heres the kicker. i`m only 25....and he is 24. i have 2 kids i take care of and the house is spotless. but when he wants to have sex we better have it right then or i`m just the bitch whoo cleans the house. ↑ |
| Name: Kariann | Date: Apr 20th, 2011 11:40 PM |
| my husband will stay home all day, we both work seasonaly from home, but he wont do ANYTHING, he will sit on his ass..or go to his friends house, dosent help with the house, unless im clearly about to pop..dosent help with the kids unless I POP.. and insists on leaving his crap everywhere, i have rccar parts lying all over the place..bullets...dirty socks...skidmark underwear..ect ect he is the most selfish person i know and his favorite thing to say when were fighting is " YOUR so selfish, not everything is about you!", which is funny, becuase i sit at home all day and homemake, while he takes mid weeks trips with his friend to the dunes, constantly abandoning me when i need him, we have been together for almost 7 years, and out of it all, i was happy 5 yrs ago, now im just dissapointed, his personal hygene *thumbs down*...he wont stick up for me in the least now, even when its his stupid friends tracking mud all over our house, or stomping on my kids toys, or leaving their crap everywhere, our yard makes us look like rednecks becuase he cant pass up a deal on a piece of crap he MIGHT be able to fix...ONE DAY...men are stupid, what was i thinking.....oh yeah i thought if i got a older man it would be better....its just worse!!!! CANT TEACH A OLD DOG NEW TRICKS!!! ↑ |
| Name: Elean | Date: Apr 26th, 2011 8:33 PM |
| Ya that happen to me all time. sometimes I want to just leave!!!! ↑ |
| Name: rosemarie | Date: Apr 27th, 2011 4:39 AM |
| Talk to him and make him understand the pressures you have to deal with everyday. Tell him it's never easy to work and take care of the baby. If he wants to know how tiring it is, switch your roles. Let him take responsibility in taking care of your baby. He should because he is the father. ↑ |
| Name: Elizabeth | Date: Apr 28th, 2011 8:21 PM |
| My husband is an asshole cause he's been unemployed for 2 years now and I work full time. We only have 1 car cause he couldn't afford his car payments so I got rid of mine that way he can keep his dream car. He's car is stick and won't teach me how to drive... I've been unhappy with my weight so I'm trying hard to lose weight so we signed up for the gym but my asshole husband won't wait for me to get off work so we can go together and only go's when I'm at work!!! And tells me to ask people for rides if I wanna go!! Ughh... He pisses me off ↑ |
| Name: stacyb | Date: May 6th, 2011 4:46 PM |
| my asshole hubby thinks he should not have to do anything around the house, he will not pick up his clothes, put his dishes in the sink nothing!!! He says because he makes the money in the house he should be able to relax. Well if my student loans did not pay the rent every month for the last year maybe he would have a leg to stand on. The month of April he took 10 sick days and got fired due to lack of work on his behalf. Wishing for a cheep divorce ↑ |
| Name: Kim | Date: May 10th, 2011 5:10 PM |
| Oh! my husband is a liers and a chicken. Actually I think heis a sociopath! He always leaves EVERYTHING for the last minute and worse I can't even say anything because according to him I'm not the one who tells him when to do things, He tells me :" who do you think you are to tell me what to do and when to do?" Today I asked him to look the beans because I needed to go to the toilet. Of course he didn't watch the beans and I could smell it burning from the bathroom! Then I asked him what happened? he lies on my face saying that he was watching the beans and it was full of water, and I'm crazy. I say, but the beans are burnt!! don't you see it? He completly ignors me and keeps playing with his stupid blackberry. Is it too much to ask? I was actually cooking for him. He is so lazy and always in a bad mood, I don't know what to do anymore. ↑ |
| Name: pri | Date: May 10th, 2011 5:14 PM |
| My husband is driving me crazy. In one moment he is the sweetest thing, one second later he is a duchlord. I hate him for beeing so unstable. I don't even know who he is anymore. ↑ |
| Name: Guest123 | Date: May 14th, 2011 12:19 AM |
| Husbands are like small children. Give them some room and they won't waste a minute taking advantage of it. I think men become lazy and let women do all the work, but to make themselves feel better they nag about the small little thing they did (like wash the cup he drank in or take out the trash after being told a thousand times). Even dogs are easier to train. ↑ |
| Name: Guest123 | Date: May 14th, 2011 12:36 AM |
About the blackberry...my husband would probably leave me and marry it if it gave birth and did the laundry (apparently thats all he needs these days now that he sleeps alone).
He's glued to it all the time. It probably makes him feel like a man, because he sure as hell doesn't act like one at home. Everyone thinks he's a dedicated worker, friend, etc. but then how come the person closest to him feels so neglected and lonely?
He picks it up even when he drives. I commented asking if someone had died, (that would be the only thing more important than risking our family driving distracted on a single lane road with heavy oncoming traffic). He doesn't answer the blackberry in the car anymore.
He doesn't realize what he's missing. He is always angry and frusterated. At least the blackberry reduces sperm count so there can be less of these kind of people (all men) for future women to deal with.
I don't want to leave him because I believe all men are the same. They put up good appearances but are the same insecure little freaks inside. ↑ |
| Name: Anonymous | Date: May 17th, 2011 10:52 PM |
| Yes...everything you said sounds so familiar.....I do want to vent.....I have been married for 10 years and have 3 kids....I work all day and then take care of cooking, the kids and then I sit to do my own stuff/work around 9:00-9:30pm!!!! And even this is a problem for him! What the hell.....He says he's helping me with my work....HOW? by letting me do all the chores and then letting me spend time working around 9:30pm!!!! I get them ready in the morning...drop them off at the daycare...sometimes even pick them up.....now a days he complains how I have gone back to work.........I was supposed to be home with kids.......Such an......the list is endless.....he does the laundry but takes forever....and nobody else can touch it......never folds them.....sometimes I keep the laundry next to the washer/dryer..........and boosts about working SO MUCH.......has an issue that he has to pickup the kids....And after all this, THE ONLY THING THAT HE KEEPS REPEATING......YOU DON'T DO ANYTHING.....WHAT AN......I don't even take 2 minutes to sit down and sip my cup of tea the entire day! I cannot leave the kids and go to the gym.....or anywhere......because He cannot manage the kids............how do you live with this? WHY DO I LIVE WITH THIS...WHEN I ALWAYS KNEW HE WAS THIS WAY.........I ALWAYS HOPED THINGS WILL IMPROVE..........WHY WHY............. ↑ |
| Name: madashell | Date: May 21st, 2011 3:01 PM |
| why don't they listen or care? ↑ |
| Name: pissed | Date: May 21st, 2011 3:03 PM |
| Name: Becki | Date: May 25th, 2011 11:13 PM |
| My husband always says how much easier i have it then him, because he says I get more sleep. He says he works a 14 hour day. I however do work part time and have three kids 5, 4, & 1. I take them to all appointments get them ready in the morning and in bed at night. I bathe them and make dinner. I also pay all the bills do the laundry and all the shopping. He does none of that!!! ↑ |
| Name: Mercedes | Date: May 27th, 2011 8:42 AM |
| sounds to me like he has a superiiority complex. ↑ |
| Name: Angel | Date: May 27th, 2011 6:32 PM |
| How do you handle having a husband that is selfish and an asshole? ↑ |
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