| tina_kenny12707 () My journal |
Hey, thanks for signing my guestbook! I have been meaning to sign yours back for a few days now but once I get online I start doing other things and forget what I originally came on to do. I read some of your previous journal entries - I can so relate to you on a lot of different levels. I am not having relationship problems, but lots of health related issues and pregnancy difficulties that have made me SO ready to not be pregnant anymore - I think I was fed up and beyond ready to not be pregnant anymore around my 13th week lol. I am soooo sorry you are having trouble with your husband - that definitely is NOT cool, because I know that with everything going on and all the stress, emotional flip flops and just feeling horrible/disgusting, my fiance is the only one I know I can turn to that always makes things better ... I wish I could knock some sense into your hubby!!! But alcoholism runs in my family and I know and have seen first hand how it affects relationships... I give you so much credit for hanging in there and staying strong, for yourself and for your baby and your daughter. Maybe you should try givinging him a straight up ultimatum - you, your children, or BEER... kick him out for a while and let him realize that drinking and choosing to drink over his family, is retarted.
I read how you read other women's entries on here and theyre always so happy and cheery and you feel like you come on here to vent - thats EXACTLY how i feel. I do post happy things - but usually its just me venting about how miserable I am and how I hate being pregnant... for a few weeks I didnt even come on here because I didnt want people to think I am some depressed psycho. I hope the small dosage of wellbutrin works for you .. I have been on Zoloft for YEARS (just helps me cope with my illness & all that comes with it - I have Cystic FIbrosis which is mostly a progressive lung disease but eventually effects pretty much your whole body in many different ways) but was told to stay off it while pregnant .. it's been hard!! And not being able to relax with a glass of wine or a nice little cocktail SUCKS... so yeah, I am soooooooooooooooooo ready to just have this shit be over and have my baby girl here and out of my body!!
Good luck with your c-section also .. I will be thinking of you and checking your blog. STAY STRONG -- we are sooooooooooooo almost done!!!!!!!!!!  
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| suzyz2003 My journal |
Hey there, thanks for signing my guest book. I can relate to you craving for oranges... I have been eating orange marmalade on toast every day for the past 2 weeks! I love it! haha As far as the natural birth thing goes - that is the plan....but i definatly won't feel like a failure if I get the epidural or end up needing a c-section. I'm sure at that point I will just want her OUT! haha
I'm sorry to hear you are going through a lot right now in your family life. Don't feel bad about venting in your journal on here. There are other people going through the same thing. Prego hormones don't help the situation... the other day I had a melt down over my husband playing video games all day. I was like a mad women screaming and crying...it was not good. haha but it can't be helped sometimes.
Congrats on your new baby though. Hang in there!
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| lisambateman My journal |
Hey thanks for checking out my journal I'm in the midst of reading yours. Goodwill, I hadn't thought of that! Great idea!
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| katieandbrad My journal |
Shaina,
Thanks for signing my guestbook! I have loved the name Claire since my husband and I watched Wedding Crashers-LOL! I thought Ava Claire was cute together too!! I'm torn between passing on one of my names (my full name is Kathryn Elizabeth) like my grandmother and mother have though....Best wishes with your baby too
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| expectantholly My journal |
THANK YOU for the birthday wishes!! Made my day. ;D
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| expectantholly My journal |
OMG how funny!!!!! I posted a blog about farting at the same time........ I don't feel so alone now!!! I am sending you an e-hug. xo
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| melissa_07 () My journal |
Hi there.
You're entry sounded very familiar to my eyes and ears my dear. It's exactly how I felt with all of my pregnancies and yes.. I too wanted to end it all just because I was feeling so trapped and so sick. I was stuck inside and didn't want to come out of the house because everywhere I'd go, I would want to throw up. It's a nasty thing. My last pregnancy was THE WORST. I was basically sick non stop throughout the day and through the night with little breaks in between. There was just no relief. I tried to sort some help but, there is only so much that doctors can do for a woman who to them is just experiencing pregnancy sickness but to us.. it can be debilitating.
There's medication, safe ones that you can take with a doctor's prescription only and they are called Zofran. I found them to ease off the pain just that little bit to cope through the day. For me, the worse part was the night time sickness. I'd be awake with pain all night feeling like I was going to throw up every couple of minutes.
I guess, all I'm saying is, I know how you feel. You shouldn't feel alone even though you do. It's something that many women go through and some women are hospitalized with that condition where they can't keep anything down not even water!.
You WILL get through this. Just find ways to make yourself comfortable enough for you to move through the days when you are sick to death of the nausea.
And remember..there's help from doctor's if you need it.
If you need somebody to talk to or to vent to about anything.. even family, (god knows I understand how they can get on your nerves when they don't help you out!) just email me.
Take care
In Love and Light,
Mel.
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