Ok!! so you already have a day for the Baptism??? the 5th of October??? Great! Where you decided to do it???
Yes, this itchy thing is killing me... I am going to try Aloe today (my mom has the plant) my sister in law had this PUPP thing when he was pregnant and she said that the only thing that gave her same kind of relief was Aloe plant.... Hopefully it works for me.... (cross fingers)
Like I said yesterday we are moving to a house in front of the metro Zoo.,.. we rented a 2/2 house really nice (the landloard made it brand new!! from floors to bathroom) and we found it for $1250.00 a month which is a lot better than $1500. which is what we are paying right now.... so I am exited... we already gave the deposit but we are moving in on mid september october cause we still have to deal with my house "issues"
I am glad that you guys are doing good. when you start working at the school again??? or you started already? I can not believe that Tommy ill be a year in 2 months!!! that sounds crazy!!!!! LOL!! it seems like yesterday that he was born!!!! crazy....
Thanks! This Pupps stuff is driving me insane!!!! Now it is spreading all over: the entire legs, inner tights, arms, even fingers and toes!!!!! (Without even telling you the horror I have on my belly!) It does not let me sleep and makes my cry cause I can not find a cure and I know I wont until the baby is born!!!! I had a nice pregnancy until now.... I guess I would have rather had vomiting and nausea the entire pregnancy but not this... It seem like I am exaggerating but I am truly on pain!!!!! I can wait to have this baby now, and as bad as it sounds I would even agreed (I think) to have a early c section just to alleviate my self from this fucking itching.... sorry I am negative., it just that I need to take this out of my chest!!! Thanks for caring.
The only good news is that I just rented a house in front of the metro zoo, really close to your moms… I hope you came soon.
Yes, Thanks God everything came out awesome... I still can not believe the amount of people that showed up. About presents... dont worry anything you can, you want, even if its used!!! I do not care about it!!! I would like to see you guys! thats all.... when is your sister going up there????? I have something for Tommy, well if she does not go in a few weeks I will send it to you by mail.....
Hope I see you soon!!!!
ahh!!! Did your mom told you about the park "club house" I rented for the baby shower? I think it is perfect for Tommy's Bautismo, cause first it is not that expensive, second, they give you all the chairs and tables, 3rd, you do not have to clean afterwards..... It cost me for 7 hours (which we used 2 for setup and 4 for the party) $325.... BUT $75 were deposit that they are going to send it back to me... so actually it only cost me $250.00.... it is not that bad.... or where did you planned to do it???? it can also be al aire libre but it cost the same.... the thing is that you have to cater your food and drinks... but everyone can help...
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I just read your message!!!! I was looking forward to see Tommy, you and Diego on my baby shower.... I wanted to show off my little cousin and future playmate for Vincent... well I guess I will see you in mid August and hopefully for Tommy’s birthday when you will already be able to meet Vincent by then. There is an invitation for you guys, which my sisters in laws, will be sending any time now, so inside there is a registry number with baby's r us... but don’t worry about it!!! Just came visit on August!
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Hey!!! Why are you worried so much???? Who is a Good mother?... you make your own picture of a Good mother!!!!! Don’t ever let anyone tell you that you are NOT a good mother because he simply hates veggies and one time fell of the couch!!! That happens everyday and to everyone!!! I am not mother yet, but I lived with a baby for 4 years, I may help: how you give him veggies? The little cans that you buy at the store or you make your own “papilla”? Are you giving him fruits also? One thing I heard once is that always first introduce LO SALADO Y DESPUES LO DULCE (even though fruits are really important) because babies like sweets (we all do) and they will managed the way to only eat sweets…. If he does not like them… well, maybe if you mix them with sweet potatoes or carrots or pumpkin (they are “sweet” veggies) … I don’t know... it is just an idea… I am sure you tried already….
Listen, about the church and stuff… why don’t you try with another one? Because about 5 years ago Gus was (and is still of course) the God Father of his best friend’s baby and he is not even catholic!!!! Well… there was no way to prove that he was or not baptized, so the church did not care…. ( I think the same way as you: that is fuck up!!) But do not stress out… God will be present in his life regardless of the religion…
About your working issues, I am sure you will be able to find a job soon….You can not go back to your old job?
Just think this way (even if at times is hard to understand) that you are very very lucky to have a degree, not everyone gets to graduate and less to attend college, specially to the university you went to… And if you have to go back to school and if you have to pay again and if you have to put your self in more debt, so be it!!! Do never let obstacles interfere with your future and less because of money issues…. Not to say that I am always happy of the life I have to live… but it is my life and I will always try to find the best of it… I fell at time trapped in something that has not end to it… and I cry and cry.. and then what? Nothing changes, and I have to keep going… so think that way….
And last…. Since you wrote this soo long ago and I did not know you did…. Did you get to go to the doctors with tommy. Well let me know….
Ps: this web site never recognizes my password.... I can never add my journal on it!!!
Love
Ailin
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Hey thanks!! Well, Gus bought me for Valentines on EBay 5 outfits for less than 50 bucks! there were all pants but 2 of them had adjustable waits, so I will be able to use it them my whole pregnancy and one has the little pouch on the stomach... so maybe a will use it a couple if months... (Now is too big still) and I haven’t received the other two.
It is a good idea if a can find a used maternity clothing store... I will look for it in
Miami . I don’t know about skirts too much.... I rarely use skirts but I should try them, I notice that you used lots of skirts and dresses... they actually look nicer than the nasty pants all the way up to my boobs!!
so, thanks again, are you coming down for your birthday?