I'm a 41 year old single father of 3 boys, ages 14,12,10.My 12 year old son has been hyper acting for years now, always on the go,gets bored easily,can't sit still for even 5 minutes with the exception of when he is sick and he is acting as if he is in control.I have strict rules in place for all, and all are treated equal and recently he has became impossible for me to control.He lashes out anytime he doesn't get his way which up till just recently I could still control somewhat, but now he is beyond my control, I'm at witts end,he has cursed me out, threatened hitting me with a skateboard while cursing at me,threatens to run away all the time,tells me if I spank him he will call the cops,tells me going to bootcamp or living on the streets would be better than living here, and the list just goes on and on.Even my fiance was told yesterday that he hated her,he called her a curse word,broke a few things during his temper tantrom...where do I go, what do I do? I love all my kids but can't tolerate any more,it isn't only hard on me and unhealthy,it is hard on the whole family.I need help,and/or advice....thanks for all ↓
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