| Name: jessie | Date: Dec 4th, 2005 7:32 AM |
| as for aportion hun-you're a little too late-i think it would be illeagal by now. literaly-you are not 3 1/2 months your are futher than me-i'm 7. your like 8. girl-if you did have an abortion-i think you pastor father would even be more irrate. You have way too much good stuff ahead to think of that option now. you might be 13 but that doesn't mean you won't l be a rock star of a mother! you need to find a better doc if they told you 3 1/2 months- ↑ |
| Name: stacey | Date: Dec 4th, 2005 9:48 AM |
| hi im 14 and 3 months preg i was hopeing i culd talk 2 sum1 in the situation as me cause i get lonely xxx ↑ |
| Name: Chena | Date: Dec 4th, 2005 9:34 PM |
| It's important to recognize that what you did was wrong in God's eyes, but what will come from it (a beautiful baby) is a true gift from God. What Satan has intended for bad-God has turned around for His glory!! I know that you must be scared, but know that if someone looks down on you-there is no one sin worse or better in God's eyes. He does not rate sin-even though man does. Please trust in Him and know that death is NOT the way out of this. God allowed you to become pregnant for a reason. Perhaps it was to teach you responcibility or to simply learn how to trust in Him. My husband and I just recently became pregnant. Even though we have been married for 2 1/2 years we weren't ready for the expense of a baby. We are struggling through insurance problems and financial difficulties. But we trust that even though we weren't completely ready-God allowed it to happen for a reason. Please trust God-others, including parents and friends will let you down, but He will never leave you-He will never let you down. ↑ |
| Name: Bronny | Date: Dec 5th, 2005 12:24 PM |
Hi jessie,
I'm 17 yrs old and about a yr ago now, i thought i was pregnant with my boyfriend aswell...so i sorta know what your goin through...i know its hard to come to terms with (but if you think your old enough to hav sex then u need to deal with the consequences, and falling pregnant is 1 of them) so u need to find out for sure if you are...so first of all, i think you should get a pregnancy test to make sure...Then if you are, you have 2 choices, either you keep it or you don't (and i know how hard it is to come up with an answer to this question, but reality is, the more longer you take, to come up with the answer, the more the fetis, that could b inside of u, develops and the harder it is to have an abortion, if u choose to do so)...Now i really must say, you really have to think about if u did keep the baby, would you be able to properly bring up this baby, the way it should...with all of your love and affection, and what about skool? do you want to give up skool (which will give you a better financial future) and what about the costs of having a baby, whose goin to pay for all of those nappies and clothes and food)...will the baby have a father? I know all of these questions are hard to come to terms with...but you have to be a very strong girl, and i'm sure you are, to come this far... ↑ |
| Name: KENYA | Date: Dec 5th, 2005 3:21 PM |
| IF YOUR PARENTS ARE TRUE CHRISTIANS THEY WILL STICK BY YOU NO MATTER WHAT. YOU NEED TO BE HONEST AND OPEN. THINK ABOUT YOUR BABY BECAUSE RIGHT NOW THATS ALL THAT MATTERS. YOU NEED PRENATAL CARE. GOOD LUCK ↑ |
| Name: Dont worry | Date: Dec 6th, 2005 2:12 AM |
| It's going 2 be ok whateva you do dont kill yourself ok. ↑ |
| Name: Jen | Date: Dec 6th, 2005 2:54 AM |
Hello Jessie,I know you are feeling very scared right now. To be honest, I would be too if I was in your position. But first of all: are you SURE that you are pregnant? Sometimes you can go for a while without a period because of stress or other factors. If you are SURE you are, I want to tell you that I am very proud of you for choosing to have your baby. Your parents love you and will be proud of you too. It will be very difficult for you to tell them, but they love you and will help you through everything. If you decide that you are not ready to be a mother, you can always give your baby up for adoption to a loving couple that is not able to have a baby. It would make that special couple so happy. And there are websites you can go to and look up profiles on families who would like to adopt. You can email them and then decide if you'd like to schedule a meeting in person to decide if they are a family who would give your child a loving home. I hope this information helps. Keep your chin up...I will pray for you. Email me any time if you need some one to talk to: [email protected]
Good luck, and god bless. ↑ |
| Name: Katalina | Date: Dec 6th, 2005 3:38 AM |
| Don't be scared. Tell your mom if anything. your her daughter!!! she HAS to be there for you. If not then find someone you can trust and I mean TRUST!!! see if you can't stay with them. I don't know if your parents are the type to kick you to the street or not. PLEASE take good care of yourself. I don't know if you smoke but stay away from cigs. You might need to tell the father's parents too. They my let you stay with them. I'm not sure if your boyfriend is supporting you in this pregnancy thing. If not, forget him!!!! I know its hard, but stay a strong woman. Right now you need to do whats right for YOU and the BABY. skrew everyone else. Do what you have to and stay healthy. you should be able to stay in a battered women's shelter or at the YWCA in a program called "women in transition ". There is crisis assistance out there for women in your case. If anything go to your local hospital and ask where do I go? Also look in the phone book, the white pages, or your local county phone book. What ever you do don't kill yourself or anything like that. I hope this helps. ↑ |
| Name: shaynee | Date: Dec 6th, 2005 9:04 PM |
| my friend is pregnet n she is 13 is she allowed to get married? ↑ |
| Name: answer | Date: Dec 6th, 2005 9:34 PM |
| Name: Christan | Date: Dec 7th, 2005 9:01 PM |
| Hey , My names Christan i am only 15 i am 2 months pregnet i found out 2 months ago sux i was afraid to tell my boyfreind i was but when i did he was happy lol i felt relived then he asked me if i had tolded my parents i said no thin last Saturday night i told them 2 come sit with me and there was something i needed 2 say i was crying they asked me what was wrong and i came out and said it they were alittle shocked but they said they was proud of me comeing out and telling them and they understood soo sweetly its ok just slowly breck it to them its better 2 tell them before it is 2 late ↑ |
| Name: to christen | Date: Dec 7th, 2005 9:06 PM |
| do they still let you see your boyfriend? how did his parents react? Are they making you have an abortion or give it up? ↑ |
| Name: kim | Date: Dec 8th, 2005 3:14 AM |
| well sweetie no matter how old you are and how stable you are people will still judge the situation. Thats when you ignore the negative and use the positive as motivation. I am 25 and 4months pregnant and I am scared as hell to tell my granny and my sister cause the will put me down. But I dont care of their negative feelings. Only thing I care about is my baby and how I can make his/her life perfect and prove their judgement WRONG. I will prove what a great mom and provider I can be. The only person feelings you should care about, is resting peacefully in your beautiful belly. God is not going to put more on you then you can bare. YOU CAN DO THIS. Meaning you can make the best choice and if your parents is so into church-the last thing they would want you to do is have a abortion because that is killing a life. Which is a sin. I just last night had to deal with my friend trying to kill herself she took about 40 pills and I thank God I found out and got her help. Don't ever talk of taking your life, thats the devil trying to come out and play. Dont let him. Your worth so much. You dont know whats instored for you. You and that baby can grow to change the world for all anyone know. Just keep faith and dont let pregnancy or mother hood stop your education. Talk to your parents, find a mentor, talk to a positive friend and search for organizations that will assist you. You made a mistake now correct it by accepting your responsibility and if you ever need some one to talk to my email is [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Christan | Date: Dec 8th, 2005 8:56 PM |
| Yea i see my boyfreind all the time he comes over like all the time staying with me babying me all the time his parents were ok i guess they come over and satay with me 2 my mom and dad they are wondering how would i make a liveing with a baby i just told them i would work on weekends when my boyfreinds off and during the week he works thats how but anyway i am gonna love my baby in a few months no matter wut ↑ |
| Name: jj | Date: Dec 8th, 2005 10:45 PM |
| whats best to do is setlle down with ur parent tell the m if u ready to have a baby yet and try to explain ur personal feeling to them ok chicken iam only 12 just pull together and do what u heart tells u what to do ↑ |
| Name: Gina | Date: Dec 10th, 2005 10:24 PM |
| Just tell your parents. I know that is the hardest thing to do. My friend was 13 and pregnant, and she told her parents and they were absolutely devastated. Then they realized what had been done was done and they couldn't change that. They don't believe in abortion, and my friend couldn't give up her baby. It was just too hard. But its going to be hard for you if your parents dont help you out with the baby. My friend is now 15 and her daughter is 1.5 years. My friend had to drop out of school as soon as the baby was born. Thats why its important to tell your parents so you can talk it through with them. Hope this helps. Good luck! ↑ |
| Name: name | Date: Dec 11th, 2005 3:00 AM |
| dont be scared i am sure that your parents might be upset with you, but its really your decision to keep the child. you cant have an abortion its too late and that would be a horrible thing to do. Dont hurt yourself or the baby, if your parents wont let you keep the child there is always adoption. keep your head up and good luck to you. ↑ |
| Name: staci | Date: Dec 11th, 2005 8:14 PM |
| hey, i'm 15 and i'm pretty sure i'm pregnant. but i don't know yet. i'm not sure what i'm gonna do either. i'm scared to tell my parents. however, my bf i know loves me and said he promises to stay with me anyway. but his parents are HUGE christians... and i'm sure they'll be pissed. but don't die darling. i attempted suicide a while back. its so not worth it. the doctors told me if i'd waited another hour to show up at the ER i would have died by morning. dying HURTS. worst case for you is you put the baby up for adoption. it will all work out. email me if you like at [email protected] or if you have AIM my screen name is pyroticmaniac237. i'm here for ya! ↑ |
| Name: Feather | Date: Dec 12th, 2005 2:50 AM |
| I know where you are coming from, Jessie. I was 15yrs. old when I got pregnant with my son. And it can be scary. I hung in there though. I finished school and proved everyone wrong that thought i couldn't. Just hang in there and be strong. if you believe in your self you can handle it. GOOD LUCK! ↑ |
| Name: ladymidget | Date: Dec 12th, 2005 10:24 AM |
trust me dying aint the way out of it u have 2 choices have an abortion or keep it?
i had an abortion and trust me i felt awfull about it and my mom doesnt know but knowing that this one important thing in my life that i cant tell her it hurts so much wish she knew but i no that if i told her she'll be dissapointed in me but you have a chance to tell your parents they might think it's a sin but they will be greatful that you want help from them and for you, you wont be alone whether your with your boyfreind or not he needs to no and if he was a real man he'd stick bye you. good luck! ↑ |
| Name: Just a thought | Date: Dec 13th, 2005 7:18 AM |
| Have any of you thought of adoption? There are a ton of married couples that can't have babies that would love to adopt. They would love your baby as much as you do. Plus you can finish school go to college and be ready to start a family. Try the adoption forum here there are alot of them there. ↑ |
| Name: corrine | Date: Dec 13th, 2005 6:09 PM |
| you have to tell the soon becaus eyou will start to show signs ↑ |
| Name: Oni | Date: Dec 13th, 2005 9:06 PM |
| I just wanted to share a little bit of southern wisdom....I got pregnant with my duaghter my freshman year of college when I was only 19...I was embarrassed that I didn't tell anyone until I was like 5 almost 6 months. Any when my grandmother founf out, she told me not to be embarrassed because the "SIN" was in the sex, and the baby that came of it was a blessing from GOD.....Just thought I would share that. ↑ |
| Name: michelle c | Date: Dec 13th, 2005 10:20 PM |
hi Oni
I love the way your grandma put that. Hopefully more people will see it that way and not be ashamed of being pregnant. ↑ |
| Name: nicole | Date: Dec 14th, 2005 10:56 PM |
| i know its hard i too just found out that i am pregant and my babys dad dont want any thing to do with me or my baby he wants me to kill it.but life goes on you will be ok just tell your mom and she should help you .God will be there for you all the way remember be strong ↑ |
| Name: CRYSTAL | Date: Dec 17th, 2005 6:29 AM |
DONT DO ANYTHING STUPID DIEING IS NOT THE ONLY WAY OUT. IT WILL OF COURSE WILL BE HARD CAUSE I GOT PREGNANT AT 14 AND NOW IM HAVING MY 3RD BABY AND EVERYTHING IS GOING GOOD.BUT WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS REALLY THINK IF YOU ARE READY FOR THIS KIND OF RESONSIBILITY, CAUSE ITS NOT EASY. BUT ALL I CAN SAY IS TALK TO YOUR PARENTS AND THEN GO FROM THERE.
TAKE CARE AND MAKE SURE YOU THINK LONG AND HARD ABOUT THIS. ↑ |
| Name: Jasmine M. | Date: Dec 18th, 2005 7:39 PM |
| I know what it's like to be young and pregnant I was so scared to tell my mom when I found out. I told my boyfriend and he was really happy so it made me feel better. He helped me tell my mom. My mom told my dad but he was so pissed he went really crzay because I wouldnt have an abortion. He doesnt like my boyfriend cause my bf is white and he's older than I am he was 19 then and I was 14. He tried to kill me and my baby. I was carrying twins and I didnt know it. I lost one of them. My bf has really helped me through it all. I'm 15 now and he's 20 and I'm pregnant with twins again only it's because my brother raped me. I know it wont be easy taking care of my 6 month old baby and infant twins but I know my bf will be there to help me. Dying may seem like a good idea but it isnt there are other ways. Yes having sex at a young age isnt the smartest thing I started at 11 and i regret that sometimes but you have to think into the future not into the past. Pray and ask you mom and dad to forgive you hopefully they will be more caring then my dad was. If you wanna talk e-mail me my addy is [email protected] or my AOL screen name is FanJsh. Good Luck!!!! Hope to hear from you soon. ↑ |
| Name: kirstie | Date: Dec 21st, 2005 2:21 PM |
im terrified i dont no if im pregnant and i live in ireland so i wouldnt be able to get an abortion.
my boyfriends 21 and im so scared im so confussed what will i do i only found out last week that he came in me help please if im pregnant ill have to kill myself ↑ |
| Name: Tippy | Date: Jan 1st, 2006 4:15 AM |
| i am too i had sex with my boyfriend and he forgot to pull out after and now i havent had my period i feel bad cuzz m,y mom is on crack and i wanna be better than her and now look at me im 13 and having a baby just dont give it up you should love it no matter what your parents say . WRITE BACK ↑ |
| Name: tippy | Date: Jan 1st, 2006 4:45 AM |
if u wanna talk to me cuzz your not alone im pregnet to i got aim and e-mial aim:EmoXluverX and yahoo:[email protected]
good luck x0x0x0x0x0x0x ↑ |
| Name: brandy | Date: Jan 1st, 2006 6:29 PM |
| Jessie, I think you should just relax and calm down. I am 20 yrs old and I have 2 kids. Ive been married once and now I have a new boyfriend and I might be pregnant again. so dont feel so scared you have alot of time to think this through what ever you do , do not get an abortion ok!!! You being pregnant now that makes you a woman and you have to make adult decisions. You need to tell your mother first because you need there support and if that dont work out for you then they have teen pregnancy support groups that will help you without your parents most of the time. Because if your parents tripp out on you then your going to need support. And threres even adoption if your not ready for a kid right now theres plenty of wemon out there who cant have children just think about it ok!!!!!good luck!!! I hope everything goes well for you!!!!! ↑ |
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